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I have two friends from the gym on my FB page. They are both very nice young ladies, I'm guessing their ages are late 20's early 30's. Both of them have relationship issues. I know this due to their FB posts. This has been going on for months. Lots of posts how he should stop playing games, he needs to step up and be a man, it goes on and on. One of them just had a baby and of course the daddy is long gone.  The other one posts more, probably at least 10 things a day about this guy who jerks her around. Seriously. If a guy gives you that much grief just walk away! They are letting these guys play the games and they are playing right along. Once a guy cheats it's time to walk away. Why on earth do they beg these guys to come back and then cry when they cheat again??!! Just venting.......



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They like drama.

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I get tired just listening to some of these people. The only person you control is yourself.

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I just wish they had a little more self worth. Any guy you have to chase down and make them love you is not ever going to stick around.

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Most women like this don't really want to change either and seem to thrive on the drama.

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The one who had a baby, made by a guy who took off?

She might have deliberately gotten pregnant "so he would marry her". 

(Lesson to guys: Use birth control, no matter what she tells you.)

 



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Could be. But, he isn't some innocent victim either. If he didn't use birth control, then stand up and support your kid instead of being a loser and useless turd.

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Lots and lots of women who aren't with the "baby daddy" around here. It's fairly common to see. Young local men don't have to work. They just find someone that has a place and just "crash" there and drive their cars until the girls start expecting more and then they are gone on to the next girl. It worries me that 25 years down the line no one is going to be sure who exactly is the father and there will be related people having babies.

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Oh, don't worry. There are plenty of lazy loser men around to father babies that you won't have to worry about that.

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The drama types seem to find drama literally everywhere. My SIL is like that. She has to go around looking for reasons to find drama so she can find things to be indignant and offended about. The rest of the family has tried to engage her but she simply decides to find every reason under the sun to piss and moan and blame everyone else around her for her. We now see her once a year at an Easter dinner and that is enough. We all would like to have a better relationship with her but she seems to enjoy building walls.

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The drama types seem to find drama literally everywhere. My SIL is like that. She has to go around looking for reasons to find drama so she can find things to be indignant and offended about. The rest of the family has tried to engage her but she simply decides to find every reason under the sun to piss and moan and blame everyone else around her for her. We now see her once a year at an Easter dinner and that is enough. We all would like to have a better relationship with her but she seems to enjoy building walls.


 My sister's SIL is a drama queen. She is so jealous of BIL. One time she threw a major fit and caused a huge scene because BIL drove their Aunt to the hospital to visit their dad and Aunt gave him $! for parking. One. Dollar.



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I loooove drama! Anyone who says they don't is a liar! Otherwise no one would watch the news!

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I loooove drama! Anyone who says they don't is a liar! Otherwise no one would watch the news!


 I don't watch the news.



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I loooove drama! Anyone who says they don't is a liar! Otherwise no one would watch the news!


Oh, I didn't say I enjoy it from a distance.  But, I don't need to muck up my own life with it.  That is what Celeb News and reality shows are for!  biggrin 



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I loooove drama! Anyone who says they don't is a liar! Otherwise no one would watch the news!


 I don't watch the news.


Must be why you are so misinformed most of the time.  wink 



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Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:
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I loooove drama! Anyone who says they don't is a liar! Otherwise no one would watch the news!


 I don't watch the news.


Must be why you are so misinformed most of the time.  wink 


 But I have you and all your informative posts to keep me in the loop.  evileye



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ROTF!!

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I loooove drama! Anyone who says they don't is a liar! Otherwise no one would watch the news!


 I don't watch the news.


Must be why you are so misinformed most of the time.  wink 


 But I have you and all your informative posts to keep me in the loop.  evileye


Oh, that's right.  How silly of me!  lolsmile 



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This is what one of them put on FB a bit ago
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I did nothing to you. Guess what life truly does go on. Life is full of trials and tribulations it's how you get through them. Oh well let's see what today brings. So ready.
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There are differences between the news and someone creating and living in drama.

And women like this are everywhere. Like the ones who just cant be on their own and have to have a man in their lives. Yuck.

I don't know why some are like this. It isn't appealing at all.



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If you (general you) really hated the drama you would block their posts. But people love reading this crap!



-- Edited by VetteGirl on Saturday 1st of November 2014 01:25:44 PM



-- Edited by VetteGirl on Saturday 1st of November 2014 01:26:10 PM

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I just usually scroll past it. I did tell her never chase a bus or a man because another will come along.

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I get tired of seeing this kind of thing and I unfriend them.



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I hate unfriending. I usually just unfollow. Same as the ones who put a ton of political posts.

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I hate unfriending. I usually just unfollow. Same as the ones who put a ton of political posts.


That's what I meant. Unfollow.

 



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Lots and lots of women who aren't with the "baby daddy" around here. It's fairly common to see. Young local men don't have to work. They just find someone that has a place and just "crash" there and drive their cars until the girls start expecting more and then they are gone on to the next girl. It worries me that 25 years down the line no one is going to be sure who exactly is the father and there will be related people having babies.


Humans survived for thousands of years while people made babies with close (or not so close) relatives. 

It may be an old joke, but here it is anyway:

In Appalachia, how do you describe a virgin?

"A girl who can run faster than her brothers." 



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The drama types seem to find drama literally everywhere. My SIL is like that. She has to go around looking for reasons to find drama so she can find things to be indignant and offended about. The rest of the family has tried to engage her but she simply decides to find every reason under the sun to piss and moan and blame everyone else around her for her. We now see her once a year at an Easter dinner and that is enough. We all would like to have a better relationship with her but she seems to enjoy building walls.


What do you think would happen if several people said that to her? 

 



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She would talk about how mean everyone is and nobody understands her.

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She would talk about how mean everyone is and nobody understands her.


 I am sure she would say you were all ganging up on her.



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Lots and lots of women who aren't with the "baby daddy" around here. It's fairly common to see. Young local men don't have to work. They just find someone that has a place and just "crash" there and drive their cars until the girls start expecting more and then they are gone on to the next girl. It worries me that 25 years down the line no one is going to be sure who exactly is the father and there will be related people having babies.


Sure--men don't have to be men.  They can get p*ssy without actually having to do anything.   



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Lots and lots of women who aren't with the "baby daddy" around here. It's fairly common to see. Young local men don't have to work. They just find someone that has a place and just "crash" there and drive their cars until the girls start expecting more and then they are gone on to the next girl. It worries me that 25 years down the line no one is going to be sure who exactly is the father and there will be related people having babies.


Sure--men don't have to be men.  They can get p*ssy without actually having to do anything.   


 Hey - Husker and I actually agree on something!  Men can be p*ssies!



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Yeah but I blame the women for it as well. They are so desperate to have a man that they will take any loser.

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Do I really know you people? Come on, we were just having a nice Saturday night get together. Let's tone it back. Listen to the blues.

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She would talk about how mean everyone is and nobody understands her.


 This should not actually be stated by anyone over 16.



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She would talk about how mean everyone is and nobody understands her.


 This should not actually be stated by anyone over 16.


 I had a 17 year old client pull this on me yesterday....



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She would talk about how mean everyone is and nobody understands her.


 This should not actually be stated by anyone over 16.


 LOL!!!!  So true!  smile



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So glad I don't do Facebook.

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I do it much less than I used to.

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I do it much less than I used to.


 I get that it's a way for people to keep in touch with family members, etc. It just seems to bring out the worst in some people.

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My friend constantly unfriends and refriends people in her husbands family. I get it, they are all nuts. But so is she.

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I unfriend DH when he pisses me off lol.

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LOL!

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She would talk about how mean everyone is and nobody understands her.


 This should not actually be stated by anyone over 16.


 LOL!!!!  So true!  smile


 You know, as an adult, if everyone is mean to you and nobody understands you, it's probably YOU.  (that's a general YOU about generally stupid, immature drama queens).



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I unfriend DH when he pisses me off lol.


 How often does this happen? LOL

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wink  Oh well, ya know.....



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