TOTALLY GEEKED!

jlbear71 · Guru

I have no words for the actions I want to do to these so called humans

Lindley · Guru

They both should be put to death. I think more so the breeder, she was suppose to care,love and protect her child. To allow your "boyfriend" to beat and abuse their own child and also helped them are worse then a animal. Animals protect and care for their young unlike this piece of crap.

I have no nice words to describe that thing that was suppose to be that poor sweet little boys mother.

NAOW · Vette's SS

That was the most awful thing I have ever read. Pure evil to hurt a child. I can't stop thinking about what the little boy went through.

NAOW · Vette's SS

Usually I can handle stories like that. I mean they effect me, but I can handle it. Im having a hard time with this one. So, please take the warning g seriously.

jlbear71 · Guru

NAOW wrote:
Usually I can handle stories like that. I mean they effect me, but I can handle it. Im having a hard time with this one. So, please take the warning g seriously.

(((Hugs))) If it weren't for the brother needing prayers, I never would have posted this. I am still crying myself every time I see this. I am usually the strong one and can handle the gory and nasty. This is just heartbreaking. and infuriating. It's a combination of grief, sorrow and despising anger.

NAOW · Vette's SS

jlbear71 wrote:
NAOW wrote:
Usually I can handle stories like that. I mean they effect me, but I can handle it. Im having a hard time with this one. So, please take the warning g seriously.
(((Hugs))) If it weren't for the brother needing prayers, I never would have posted this. I am still crying myself every time I see this. I am usually the strong one and can handle the gory and nasty. This is just heartbreaking. and infuriating. It's a combination of grief, sorrow and despising anger.

I agree, it's the same for me. He does need our prayers. I hope he is safe now.

Nobody Just Nobody · Rib-it! Rrrib-it!

Well, realistically unless they put them in solitary neither of them will probably live until the trial. There is a very high likelihood that they will get picked off in prison.

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

I'll heed the warning & not read the details.

flan

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Well, realistically unless they put them in solitary neither of them will probably live until the trial. There is a very high likelihood that they will get picked off in prison.

Hopefully, it's painful and tortuous.

Fort Worth Mom · Mod/Penguin lover/Princess!

That poor child. I can't think of a punishment harsh enough for these animals. furious

I hope the older brother recovers, and has a good life.

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

Have any of you read "A Child Called It?"

It was super popular among library patrons and for some stupid reason, I figured I should read it. I so wish I hadn't.

flan

Lexxy · My dog name is Sasha, too!

I read this yesterday & it chilled me to the bone. I can't wrap my head around how cruel they are. So completely & deeply inhuman. I don't have adequate words.

Lindley · Guru

I read all three books. You can't read it without crying.

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

Lindley wrote:
I read all three books. You can't read it without crying.

Some of those images I will never get out of my head.

flan

chef · Guru

Things (I can't call them people) like that will burn in the hottest circle of Hell.

And yes, put them in the general population in prison. Even criminals don't like child abusers.

Blankie · Guru

Thank you, merciful God, that that poor little boy is now finally free from these monsters.

But what about the 11-month-old living there? They had better get that child out of there.

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

Still not going to read it.

flan

Lindley · Guru

flan327 wrote:
Lindley wrote:
I read all three books. You can't read it without crying.
Some of those images I will never get out of my head.
flan

No I can't either. I cry even telling someone about the book. Some people are just evil. That sow and her turd are evil. I'm with chef, can't call them people.

Blankie · Guru

flan327 wrote:
Have any of you read "A Child Called It?"

It was super popular among library patrons and for some stupid reason, I figured I should read it. I so wish I hadn't.

flan

I read that book. So deeply disturbing, and very deeply moving.

Dave Pelzer is truly an inspiration, an amazing example of the endurance of the human spirit.

I'm glad he wrote it, to witness to that. And I hope telling the story helped him. I think it did.

jlbear71 · Guru

Blankie wrote:
Thank you, merciful God, that that poor little boy is now finally free from these monsters.
But what about the 11-month-old living there? They had better get that child out of there.

11 Month old is out. Because he wasn't abused to the extent of the other two, there are not many details on that one.

All three "adults" are arrested.

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

Blankie wrote:
flan327 wrote:
Have any of you read "A Child Called It?"

It was super popular among library patrons and for some stupid reason, I figured I should read it. I so wish I hadn't.

flan
I read that book. So deeply disturbing, and very deeply moving.
Dave Pelzer is truly an inspiration, an amazing example of the endurance of the human spirit.
I'm glad he wrote it, to witness to that. And I hope telling the story helped him. I think it did.

Yes, I hope so.

I can't get over the image of the father knowing what was going on & not wanting to anger his wife.

flan

Blankie · Guru

jlbear71 wrote:
Blankie wrote:
Thank you, merciful God, that that poor little boy is now finally free from these monsters.
But what about the 11-month-old living there? They had better get that child out of there.
11 Month old is out. Because he wasn't abused to the extent of the other two, there are not many details on that one.
All three "adults" are arrested.

Thank you, Jlbear. I feel much better knowing that.

huskerbb · Guru

The following is not meant to put 100% of the blame on the mother AT ALL. Obviously, the boyfriend probably inflicted most of the physical damage.

HOWEVER....

children living in homes with an unrelated adult male are FORTY EIGHT times more likely to suffer from physical or sexual abuse than those who live with two biological parents, a father and an unrelated adult female, or a single parent. Presumably, this statistic includes responsible step-fathers and maybe even adoptive fathers, so that makes it look even more gross for the random males that so many single mothers seem to let into their children's lives.

When you have children--whether you are a father or a mother--you have to make better decisions, but the reality is that it is much more dangerous for children if a custodial mother makes a poor choice here than if dad does. I don't know whether or not this mother was abusive before this boyfriend came into the picture, but I'm betting that left alone, it would never have gotten to this point, the point where they killed this little boy.

I hope they BOTH get the death penalty.

Honeys_Mom · Mod & Permanent Board Sweetheart

huskerbb wrote:
The following is not meant to put 100% of the blame on the mother AT ALL. Obviously, the boyfriend probably inflicted most of the physical damage.

HOWEVER....

children living in homes with an unrelated adult male are FORTY EIGHT times more likely to suffer from physical or sexual abuse than those who live with two biological parents, a father and an unrelated adult female, or a single parent. Presumably, this statistic includes responsible step-fathers and maybe even adoptive fathers, so that makes it look even more gross for the random males that so many single mothers seem to let into their children's lives.

When you have children--whether you are a father or a mother--you have to make better decisions, but the reality is that it is much more dangerous for children if a custodial mother makes a poor choice here than if dad does. I don't know whether or not this mother was abusive before this boyfriend came into the picture, but I'm betting that left alone, it would never have gotten to this point, the point where they killed this little boy.

I hope they BOTH get the death penalty.

The bolded. The dear little one's pain is over and he is now in a bright, beautiful, pain-and-tear-free place, of that I have no doubt.

huskerbb · Guru

He was such a cute little guy, too. Red hair like my oldest son.

I know there are MANY, MANY parents out there who are struggling financially who are excellent parents.

But...

...this stuff doesn't often happen when dad is an accountant and mom a real estate agent. It's sadly not a shock that she works at Wal-Mart and they live in a trailer park.

Mellow Momma · Sniff...sniff, sniff. Yay! A Bum!

huskerbb wrote:
The following is not meant to put 100% of the blame on the mother AT ALL. Obviously, the boyfriend probably inflicted most of the physical damage.

HOWEVER....

children living in homes with an unrelated adult male are FORTY EIGHT times more likely to suffer from physical or sexual abuse than those who live with two biological parents, a father and an unrelated adult female, or a single parent. Presumably, this statistic includes responsible step-fathers and maybe even adoptive fathers, so that makes it look even more gross for the random males that so many single mothers seem to let into their children's lives.

When you have children--whether you are a father or a mother--you have to make better decisions, but the reality is that it is much more dangerous for children if a custodial mother makes a poor choice here than if dad does. I don't know whether or not this mother was abusive before this boyfriend came into the picture, but I'm betting that left alone, it would never have gotten to this point, the point where they killed this little boy.

I hope they BOTH get the death penalty.

I have read these same stats. Women who bring home random men who are not committed to the family through marriage are total idiots.

lilyofcourse · My spirit animal is a pink flamingo.

When I divorced I made a conscious decision NOT to date. I wasn't going to bring anyone into my kids lives who might hurt them. I wasn't willing to take that chance with my kids.

Have I been lonely a time or two in my life? Yes.

Have I missed having a man around for all those things a man can do? Yes.

Would I make the exact same decision again? In a heart beat.