. Cheating Co-Worker: I became friends with a co-worker, and then I met her boyfriend and we had an instant connection. He left her for me. We’ve been together for six years (married five with a newborn son). The dilemma is that she and I still work together. I know she has moved on but I am still faced with constant guilt over this. What should I do?
A: You’ve moved on to marry the guy and have a kid, and you know she’s moved on. At this point she likely thinks everything turned out for the best. You don’t say she freezes you out, undermines you, or does anything but act professionally. If you can’t get over what you did, then see a counselor for some short-term therapy to come to terms with this, and be able to see your husband’s ex without feeling overwhelmed
What's that old saying about borrowing trouble where there is none? I think that applies here.
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