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Rick Warrick was fatally injured when a car hit him while he changed a tire. U.S. Park Police © U.S. Park Police Rick Warrick was fatally injured when a car hit him while he changed a tire. U.S. Park Police

WASHINGTON (AP) — A 911 dispatcher twice told an emotional 13-year-old girl to "stop whining" as her father lay dying after a hit-and-run on a Maryland highway, according to a recording of the call obtained Thursday.

The dispatcher has been reassigned to a position away from the public pending an investigation, said Capt. Russ Davies, a spokesman for the Anne Arundel County Fire Department.

The dispatcher, whose name Davies declined to release, could return to answering 911 calls but could also face termination, depending on the investigation, which will including looking at any past problems, he said.

The 911 call came in Sunday after a car hit Rick Warrick, 38, of Washington, D.C., and his fiancee as they changed a tire on a highway about halfway between Washington and Baltimore. The driver of the car that hit the couple fled. No arrests have been made, and police say they have no description of the car.

Warrick was killed. His fiancee, Julia Pearce, 28, was seriously injured but was in fair condition at Baltimore's Shock Trauma Center on Thursday.

Warrick's 13-year-old daughter was in the back seat with her younger brother, and called 911.

During the five-minute call, the dispatcher asks the teen for more details about her location and about what happened. The teen answers many of his questions but struggles at times to remain calm.

At one point, the dispatcher interrupts her.

"OK, let's stop whining. Let's stop whining, it's hard to understand you," he says.

The dispatcher sounds frustrated when the girl asks him to send help quickly. At one point he asks if there's someone else he can talk to.

The dispatcher also questions the girl repeatedly about why her father is lying on top of his fiancee, to which she tearfully responds that it's just how he landed. She tells him that her father was breathing but not conscious.

The dispatcher doesn't ask the girl how old she is and calls her "ma'am."

Davies told The Associated Press that the dispatcher should have handled the call differently. Instead of telling her to "stop whining," he said the dispatcher could have asked the girl to try to calm down and reassured her that help was on the way.

"911 dispatchers are trained to take control when they have a hysterical caller to focus them, but how (the dispatcher) proceeded to do that doesn't meet our expectations of how that would occur, and we're going to presume the public feels the same way," Davies said. "That's not how they expect to be treated when calling 911 in an emergency like that."

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Seriously? I don't think anyone should need training to know to be compassionate to a child who is watching her father die. He should find a different job.

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I vote for a beat down.

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Obviously he doesn't have children.

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Southern_Belle wrote:

Obviously he doesn't have children.


 nope, he is condescending.  Jerk



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He is not well suited to be a 911 operator.

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I'm going to give him the benefit of the doubt. It can be hard to understand what someone is saying if they're crying. Did he choose the best words? No. But I'd like to think he wasn't being purposely malicious.

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I bet saying "calm down sweetie" would have been a lot more effective.

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would have to hear the call--my lady was a 911 operator for a while--sometimes it's necessary to verbally " shake " a victim to bring them around so that you CAN get specifics in order to help them

seriously doubt the call went down as described in the story


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Have you guys heard the call? She really wasn't that hard to understand, that's the weird thing. I think he's just an ass. He can't empathize with any amount of emotion, he wanted her to be monotone because he wasn't willing to hear anything else. She was emotional, but not so much that you couldn't understand her.

This story freaks me out. Her dad, the guy that died looks just like my neighbor from my first apartment. He also died while changing a flat tire on a roadway. That was here in utah about 15 years ago. So incredibly strange!

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Empyreal wrote:

Have you guys heard the call? She really wasn't that hard to understand, that's the weird thing. I think he's just an ass. He can't empathize with any amount of emotion, he wanted her to be monotone because he wasn't willing to hear anything else. She was emotional, but not so much that you couldn't understand her.

This story freaks me out. Her dad, the guy that died looks just like my neighbor from my first apartment. He also died while changing a flat tire on a roadway. That was here in utah about 15 years ago. So incredibly strange!


 Yeah I heard the call and I agree, she wasn't hard to understand



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I see Burns just addressed that same subject. It really was as ridiculous as the story you are reading.

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I think telling someone to "calm down" never works. Much better to say,

"Please try to talk more slowly, so I can understand you."



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I heard the call. She was upset and scared and did have a little bit of an accent. But she was easily understood. The 911 operator was really really really pissed at her because she couldn't give him a definite location. I didn't realize she was only 13. She sounded way more mature and knowing that she did even better than a normal 13 year old would. She kept saying "I'm on hwy 295 but I don't know where." He kept telling her, "I can't help you if you don't give me more details. You're going to have to stop whining." He was inappropriate.

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Who would be the closest to this guy? He needs a punch in the nose.

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She's 13. She was scared and disoriented. Her father and his fiancee were lying half dead in the road. There was no one around to help. I think I would be upset. He keeps getting mad at her because she can't give him an exact location on the highway. It's HIS job as a dispatcher to ask the right question. Do you see any landmarks? What was the last road you passed? What are you driving toward? He did a piss poor job.

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Who would be the closest to this guy? He needs a punch in the nose.


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No empy, he needs a good old fashioned sock in the nose. A spork would not do the proper amount of damage.

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She's 13. She was scared and disoriented. Her father and his fiancee were lying half dead in the road. There was no one around to help. I think I would be upset. He keeps getting mad at her because she can't give him an exact location on the highway. It's HIS job as a dispatcher to ask the right question. Do you see any landmarks? What was the last road you passed? What are you driving toward? He did a piss poor job.


Yes.  It was her Dad dying right in front of her.  Even if she was 30, that is an emotionally charged situation and 911 operators should be adept at dealing with emotionally charged situations.  And, yes, they have to try to calm the caller down to get the needed information but I would think they would be taught various techniques to do that.



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Instead of telling her anything, he should have been asking her questions. What do you see? Where were you going? What was the last landmark you remember? That would have given the police and emergency workers enough info to go on. What he did wasn't giving him any info at all.

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