When it comes to human emotions, explosive and out-of-control anger is one of the toughest. It’s not only hard on relationships at home, work and/or school, it’s also hard on the health of the angry person. Heart rate, blood pressure and the digestive system can all be affected. To curb anger, conventional doctors use both psychotherapy and prescription medications (such as antidepressants and tranquilizers). These approaches can help. But among the many patients I’ve treated for anger problems, lifestyle changes and natural medicine offer longer-lasting results. It’s important to recognize that it’s normal and healthy to feel and appropriately express anger, but when it becomes excessive, problems can develop.
If you or someone you love is struggling with anger, here’s my advice…*
• Watch your diet. A good first step is to reduce known dietary nuisances such as caffeine, alcohol and high-sugar foods—all of which affect the brain and can interfere with your ability to cope with anger.
• Review your hormone health. Women can experience significantly worse anger when they are premenstrual or going through menopause. In men, anger often kicks up during middle age when their testosterone levels are waning. For both males and females, anger is common during puberty—another time when hormone levels are changing. If you suspect that your anger may be tied to your hormone health, ask your doctor about testing your testosterone, estrogen and progesterone levels. Both men and women have all three of these hormones, and for optimal emotional health, all three should be correctly balanced.
• Check for allergens. All kinds of allergies can wreak havoc with one’s emotional stability. Whether you’re allergic to inhalants (such as pollen, pet dander or dust) or to foods (such as dairy, wheat or eggs), these allergens can cause big problems. Sometimes, the only symptom of an allergy is emotional distress, irritability and/or volatile anger. If you have frequent anger: Keep a diary of explosive events and the foods you ate and possible allergens in your environment during the 12-hour period prior to your angry feelings. Look for patterns. If you suspect a link, speak to your doctor about allergy testing. For food allergy testing, I recommend IgG blood testing…for inhaled allergens, IgE scratch testing.
• Get more B vitamins. Anger is often linked to fatigue and low blood sugar. Vitamins B-5 (pantothenic acid) and B-6 (pyridoxine), in particular, can help with both conditions. To ensure that your B vitamin levels are balanced, look for a B-complex supplement that includes B-5 and B-6.
• Try botanical medicines. Gentler than pharmaceuticals, herbal remedies can calm emotions without dulling the brain. My favorite anger-fighting herbs: Passionflower and skullcap. Pick a product (tincture, capsule or tea) containing either one or both of these herbs. Individual sensitivities vary, so start with a low dose. Take it for several days to see whether your anger is improving. If it’s not, slowly increase the dose, but do not exceed the manufacturer’s recommended dose. Use during high-stress periods or any time that anger is a problem.
*If you have a chronic medical condition or take medication, talk to your doctor before trying any supplements.
Source: Jamison Starbuck, ND, is a naturopathic physician in family practice and a guest lecturer at the University of Montana, both in Missoula. She is past president of the American Association of Naturopathic Physicians and a contributing editor to The Alternative Advisor: The Complete Guide to Natural Therapies and Alternative Treatments (Time Life).
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Interesting. It also helps to surround yourself with people who know you well and know how to deal with your anger in a productive way, which helps to de-escalate the emotions.
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Was it a bad day?
Or was it a bad five minutes that you milked all day?
You mean a light saber through the heart isn't the healthiest way to deal with anger?
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I think chronically angry people tend to be entitled people. The world isn't working out according to their specifications and others don't fall in line and march to their beat, so they are chronically angry. When in reality, it is plain old entitlement.
I think chronically angry people tend to be entitled people. The world isn't working out according to their specifications and others don't fall in line and march to their beat, so they are chronically angry. When in reality, it is plain old entitlement.
I disagree, anger is often a symptom of various types of mental illness and results in needing medication and/or therapy to help manage it.
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Was it a bad day?
Or was it a bad five minutes that you milked all day?
Also, a lot of times anger is a protective barrier from sadness. Rather than succumb to depression, some people get angry as a shield.
This is true. A few weeks ago I was in an extra pissy mood. My friend was trying to "snap me out of it". I told him thanks for trying, but it wasnt going to do any good. I said I'm not angry, I'm sad. But I don't know how to process sad, I know how to deal with angry so I'm angry.
I think chronically angry people tend to be entitled people. The world isn't working out according to their specifications and others don't fall in line and march to their beat, so they are chronically angry. When in reality, it is plain old entitlement.
I disagree, anger is often a symptom of various types of mental illness and results in needing medication and/or therapy to help manage it.
Good point. I am thinking of a few people in particular, lol.
But, I think anger is often about expectations and control. Oh, someone cuts you off in traffic, so you feel angry because they should not have cut you off. Or, someone steps in front of you in line and you think How rude and you get angry. Not saying you shouldn't but why let that ruin your day?
But, I think anger is often about expectations and control. Oh, someone cuts you off in traffic, so you feel angry because they should not have cut you off. Or, someone steps in front of you in line and you think How rude and you get angry. Not saying you shouldn't but why let that ruin your day?
But, I think anger is often about expectations and control. Oh, someone cuts you off in traffic, so you feel angry because they should not have cut you off. Or, someone steps in front of you in line and you think How rude and you get angry. Not saying you shouldn't but why let that ruin your day?
But, I think anger is often about expectations and control. Oh, someone cuts you off in traffic, so you feel angry because they should not have cut you off. Or, someone steps in front of you in line and you think How rude and you get angry. Not saying you shouldn't but why let that ruin your day?