Q. Vaccine Dilemma: My husband and I are expecting our first child at the end of the summer. I am a physician, and staunchly pro-vaccine (I have seen the consequences of failing to vaccinate a child firsthand and can’t imagine putting my own child at risk in such a way). Further, I have also decided that anyone who expects to spend significant amount of time around our child before they reach the age where they have been fully vaccinated, must also be fully vaccinated. The problem is that my husband’s family is on the opposite end of the spectrum. Our nieces and nephews are not vaccinated, and our in-laws have not had any vaccinations in the past 15 to 20 years. I do love these people, and all of their crazy, kooky ways but, neither my husband or I are willing to compromise on this decision. We want to maintain the strong relationships we have with his side of the family but realize that this decision could result in them not meeting our child for several years. Any advice for how we should approach this decision with them?
A: That we in 2015 are dealing with a serious decline in vaccination—one of the single greatest advances in human health and longevity—is deeply distressing. Of course people can blow off vaccinations because we live in a world in which few of us see the consequences of not having mass vaccination. I always wonder if polio were still rampant in this country whether anti-vaxxers would take that risk with their children; I’m betting their kids would get the polio vaccine. I hope, doctor, that you come back and clarify the risks of hanging out with unvaccinated people. Would your child really be in danger by playing with seemingly healthy nieces and nephews? As for the grandparents—most adults aren’t regularly getting boosters, right? Presumably the grandparents were vaccinated, or at least exposed, earlier in life to the diseases we vaccinate for now. You know the degree of risk your child would incur by visiting this unvaccinated side of the family. If it is real, then you explain to them why you are so sad you all can’t get together.
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I know a lot of people blame the vac. on autisim but where my daughter lives they have to do the same vac. there as they do here and their country does not have a high % of kids with autism. Just because you do your "research" on the internet does not mean you are getting the correct information. My dd is a nurse and she does understand there are risk in getting vac. but she went ahead and vaccinated her kids. I had measles when I was 16 and I was miserable.
Why? If you are vaccinated, then what is the problem? Isn't that the POINT?
Vaccinations don't always work. And sometimes they do until they don't. I don't really care to be around people that won't vaccinate. So I won't knowingly do that...
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My friend asked/told me I'd have to get a booster shot if I wanted to watch her baby. You know, I don't mind at all. Vaccinations are important. Babies used to die from simple things. Nope. Not chancing it.
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My boys both had to have their pneumococcal vaccines repeated. They would never have known they didn't take, until they saw the allergist/immunologist who ran tests to see if this particular vaccine was working, given #2's propensity for chest infection. Since results showed his didn't, they tested #1 as well and sure enough. Possibly it was a bad batch? But it makes me wonder about their other vaccines....
I never really think to find out if someone is or isn't vaccinated. I figure my kids are, so it doesn't matter, right?
We just got a notice from our ENT that a 2 yr old with TB was in their office in the last two months.
You can't ever fully protect yourself from everything.
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When my boys were in school, you had to show up-to-date vaccination records in order to register them for that year. Is this no longer done, or does it vary from district to district?
When my boys were in school, you had to show up-to-date vaccination records in order to register them for that year. Is this no longer done, or does it vary from district to district?
flan
This is NOT to start a political discussion, but the more liberal districts are the ones that are relaxing that rule. It's just the truth...
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We had to show up to date shots when starting a new school. After that, who knows who is up to date.
There is also a form that exempts the child.
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We had to show up to date shots when starting a new school. After that, who knows who is up to date.
There is also a form that exempts the child.
My kids had to show shot records every other year. There was one vaccine that had just started when DD started 7th grade. They gave everyone a 2 weeks grace period, after that, you couldn't come to school. Maybe it was the Hep B vaccine? I know there were 3 shots, each about 3 months apart. And trust me, the school kept up with it...
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A flock of flirting flamingos is pure, passionate, pink pandemonium-a frenetic flamingle-mangle-a discordant discotheque of delirious dancing, flamboyant feathers, and flamingo lingo.
When my boys were in school, you had to show up-to-date vaccination records in order to register them for that year. Is this no longer done, or does it vary from district to district?
flan
This is NOT to start a political discussion, but the more liberal districts are the ones that are relaxing that rule. It's just the truth...
There are a lot of new proposals in front of Congress, the House, and Senate. I know CA just passed one saying that you have to vaccinate your child or they can't go to public school. You don't have to vaccinate but if you choose not to you don't get to put them in public school. I have no problem with that.
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We are required to show proof of vaccination before starting school. There is one that must be received before entering 6th grade. They send reminders out in December for the following school year. No vaccine, no entering 6th grade.
My boys both had to have their pneumococcal vaccines repeated. They would never have known they didn't take, until they saw the allergist/immunologist who ran tests to see if this particular vaccine was working, given #2's propensity for chest infection. Since results showed his didn't, they tested #1 as well and sure enough. Possibly it was a bad batch? But it makes me wonder about their other vaccines....
I never really think to find out if someone is or isn't vaccinated. I figure my kids are, so it doesn't matter, right?
You reminded me of something I deal with occasionally at work.
There are companies that sell counterfeit drugs, that look like the real ones, but could contain tap water or almost any clear liquid.
My customers get email and fax offers from "grey market" companies ALL - THE -TIME offering them whatever drugs are in short supply, frequently at 10 or 20 times the regular price, saying they are our products purchased in Europe or somewhere else.
They usually are NOT.
Alternatively, they can be look-alike counterfeit drugs or vaccines that are priced LOWER than the market price, but again, they are fakes.
So it's certainly possible that the doctor's office got a "deal", and only thought they were selling you (or anyone) real vaccines.
(There's a way to find out ... )
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And vaccines don't cause autism. I think it could be artificial sweeteners. I have no scientific basis for that at all, but autism rates have gone up and up at the same time "sugar free" and "diet" have become more and more popular.
A Brief History of Artificial Sweeteners
The first artificial sweetener, saccharin, was synthesized in 1879. It became popular because of its low cost of production at the time of sugar shortages during World Wars I and II. After these wars, when sugar once more became available and inexpensive, the reasons for using saccharin shifted from economics to health (calorie reduction primarily). In the 1950s cyclamate was introduced, and Sweet ’N Low became a popular mixture of a blend of saccharin and cyclamate. The artificial sweetener market was shaken in the 1970s when the FDA (Food and Drug Administration) banned cyclamate from all dietary foods in the USA because of a cancer risk found in experimental animals (other countries still allow cyclamate). In 1981 the next artificial sweetener, aspartame, marketed as Nutra-Sweet, became popular. Since then several new nonnutritive sweeteners have been introduced with a promise to be more like real sugar with few calories.
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The doctor who started the the anti vaxxer movement and had "research" to prove vaccines cause autism was caught faking his research, taking bribes by companies, and basically lying about what he found. All his research was deemed to be false and his license was revoked FOREVER. That should tell you something. All the anti vaxxers use him as a base for their research and why vaccinations are bad for kids.
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But I do wonder if they could help bring symptoms to light.
I have no proof. Just the musings of my own thoughts.
Autism usually becomes visable, for lack of a better word, around 2ish. Now we all know that there can be adverse side effects from vaccines. They are rare but they do happen.
I wonder if maybe, in some, it could make autism symptoms worse. More pronounced.
Of course a child who is autistic is born that way. No vaccine will cause it.
But is it possible, in rare cases, it triggers, or dulls, something that may make it worse.
Again, just a thought.
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When my boys were in school, you had to show up-to-date vaccination records in order to register them for that year. Is this no longer done, or does it vary from district to district?
flan
This is NOT to start a political discussion, but the more liberal districts are the ones that are relaxing that rule. It's just the truth...
No problem, it makes total sense, ohfour.
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p.s. Don't tell anyone that I disagree!!!
Oh I am so telling!
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And vaccines don't cause autism. I think it could be artificial sweeteners. I have no scientific basis for that at all, but autism rates have gone up and up at the same time "sugar free" and "diet" have become more and more popular.
A Brief History of Artificial Sweeteners
The first artificial sweetener, saccharin, was synthesized in 1879. It became popular because of its low cost of production at the time of sugar shortages during World Wars I and II. After these wars, when sugar once more became available and inexpensive, the reasons for using saccharin shifted from economics to health (calorie reduction primarily). In the 1950s cyclamate was introduced, and Sweet ’N Low became a popular mixture of a blend of saccharin and cyclamate. The artificial sweetener market was shaken in the 1970s when the FDA (Food and Drug Administration) banned cyclamate from all dietary foods in the USA because of a cancer risk found in experimental animals (other countries still allow cyclamate). In 1981 the next artificial sweetener, aspartame, marketed as Nutra-Sweet, became popular. Since then several new nonnutritive sweeteners have been introduced with a promise to be more like real sugar with few calories.
good to know. I would like to see a more detailed study conducted.
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Interesting, Ed. Not sure what happened, or if it occurred with other children under the practice.
I have no real opinion regarding the autism connection and vaccines, as autism have been around a lot longer than the vaccines, I think...but I do think preservatives, artificial sweeteners, and convenience foods are the cause of many medical problems, including obesity.
-- Edited by FNW on Friday 29th of May 2015 06:38:53 PM
When my boys were in school, you had to show up-to-date vaccination records in order to register them for that year. Is this no longer done, or does it vary from district to district?
flan
This is NOT to start a political discussion, but the more liberal districts are the ones that are relaxing that rule. It's just the truth...
Not necessarily just a "liberal" state issue. Many traditionally conservative states also allow a waiver instead of vaccinations. All a parent has to do is sign a paper that says they are against vaccines and they are exempt. Indiana is a very conservative state and they allow the waiver in public and private schools.
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When my boys were in school, you had to show up-to-date vaccination records in order to register them for that year. Is this no longer done, or does it vary from district to district?
flan
This is NOT to start a political discussion, but the more liberal districts are the ones that are relaxing that rule. It's just the truth...
Not necessarily just a "liberal" state issue. Many traditionally conservative states also allow a waiver instead of vaccinations. All a parent has to do is sign a paper that says they are against vaccines and they are exempt. Indiana is a very conservative state and they allow the waiver in public and private schools.
MM, as I said earlier CA just passed something that said you cannot put your child in public school if they are not vaccinated. They are NOT requiring you to vaccinate your child. Just if you choose not to do so you have to find alternative education, such as home schooling, for them.
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And that's a liberal state so it isn't necessarily a liberal/conservative issue. Indiana which is a super conservative state doesn't require vaccines, you can just sign a waiver stating you don't believe in them.
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Out of all the lies I have told, "just kidding" is my favorite !
Yep CA is a liberal state. They said they aren't forcing parents to vaccinate but just trying to protect other kids.
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“You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still, like air, I'll rise!” ― Maya Angelou
And vaccines don't cause autism. I think it could be artificial sweeteners. I have no scientific basis for that at all, but autism rates have gone up and up at the same time "sugar free" and "diet" have become more and more popular.
A Brief History of Artificial Sweeteners
The first artificial sweetener, saccharin, was synthesized in 1879. It became popular because of its low cost of production at the time of sugar shortages during World Wars I and II. After these wars, when sugar once more became available and inexpensive, the reasons for using saccharin shifted from economics to health (calorie reduction primarily). In the 1950s cyclamate was introduced, and Sweet ’N Low became a popular mixture of a blend of saccharin and cyclamate. The artificial sweetener market was shaken in the 1970s when the FDA (Food and Drug Administration) banned cyclamate from all dietary foods in the USA because of a cancer risk found in experimental animals (other countries still allow cyclamate). In 1981 the next artificial sweetener, aspartame, marketed as Nutra-Sweet, became popular. Since then several new nonnutritive sweeteners have been introduced with a promise to be more like real sugar with few calories.
good to know. I would like to see a more detailed study conducted.
There are several things that have become much more prevalent. Another is ultrasounds/sonograms. There is research that indicates increased ultrasound use had adverse affects - fetuses are very sensitive to increases in heat.
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I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you.
When my boys were in school, you had to show up-to-date vaccination records in order to register them for that year. Is this no longer done, or does it vary from district to district?
flan
This is NOT to start a political discussion, but the more liberal districts are the ones that are relaxing that rule. It's just the truth...
Not necessarily just a "liberal" state issue. Many traditionally conservative states also allow a waiver instead of vaccinations. All a parent has to do is sign a paper that says they are against vaccines and they are exempt. Indiana is a very conservative state and they allow the waiver in public and private schools.
The exemptions are for religious reasons. What happened to the separation of church and state?
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Sometimes you're the windshield, and sometimes you're the bug.
And vaccines don't cause autism. I think it could be artificial sweeteners. I have no scientific basis for that at all, but autism rates have gone up and up at the same time "sugar free" and "diet" have become more and more popular.
A Brief History of Artificial Sweeteners
The first artificial sweetener, saccharin, was synthesized in 1879. It became popular because of its low cost of production at the time of sugar shortages during World Wars I and II. After these wars, when sugar once more became available and inexpensive, the reasons for using saccharin shifted from economics to health (calorie reduction primarily). In the 1950s cyclamate was introduced, and Sweet ’N Low became a popular mixture of a blend of saccharin and cyclamate. The artificial sweetener market was shaken in the 1970s when the FDA (Food and Drug Administration) banned cyclamate from all dietary foods in the USA because of a cancer risk found in experimental animals (other countries still allow cyclamate). In 1981 the next artificial sweetener, aspartame, marketed as Nutra-Sweet, became popular. Since then several new nonnutritive sweeteners have been introduced with a promise to be more like real sugar with few calories.
good to know. I would like to see a more detailed study conducted.
There are several things that have become much more prevalent. Another is ultrasounds/sonograms. There is research that indicates increased ultrasound use had adverse affects - fetuses are very sensitive to increases in heat.
I went cold turkey from artificial sweeteners 2 months ago. i felt weird. I have much more energy now.
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Sometimes you're the windshield, and sometimes you're the bug.
When my boys were in school, you had to show up-to-date vaccination records in order to register them for that year. Is this no longer done, or does it vary from district to district?
flan
This is NOT to start a political discussion, but the more liberal districts are the ones that are relaxing that rule. It's just the truth...
Not necessarily just a "liberal" state issue. Many traditionally conservative states also allow a waiver instead of vaccinations. All a parent has to do is sign a paper that says they are against vaccines and they are exempt. Indiana is a very conservative state and they allow the waiver in public and private schools.
The exemptions are for religious reasons. What happened to the separation of church and state?
Not really. In Indiana all you had to say was you were against vaccines for moral reasons. A simple signature got you exempted. Religion had nothing to do with it.
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In my state it's for religious or medical reasons. And it's just not that easy as signing paper. You have to have clergy sign off on the paper or a doctor sign off saying that getting the vaccine would be detrimental to your child's health for reason A, B, or C.
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Why? If you are vaccinated, then what is the problem? Isn't that the POINT?
First of all I think that parents who choose not too are *******s.
Second, there is a slight chance a vaccine might not take and my son is still going through the immunization process. I don't need him catching something.
I do give a pass for parents who kids have medical reasons not to vaccinate, but we are not going to play until my son is fully vaccinated.
I can't think of any good reason NOT to vaccinate. God gave us people smart enough to figure out how to fight disease. It would almost be an insult to not avail ourselves of their research.
And vaccines don't cause autism. I think it could be artificial sweeteners. I have no scientific basis for that at all, but autism rates have gone up and up at the same time "sugar free" and "diet" have become more and more popular.
A Brief History of Artificial Sweeteners
The first artificial sweetener, saccharin, was synthesized in 1879. It became popular because of its low cost of production at the time of sugar shortages during World Wars I and II. After these wars, when sugar once more became available and inexpensive, the reasons for using saccharin shifted from economics to health (calorie reduction primarily). In the 1950s cyclamate was introduced, and Sweet ’N Low became a popular mixture of a blend of saccharin and cyclamate. The artificial sweetener market was shaken in the 1970s when the FDA (Food and Drug Administration) banned cyclamate from all dietary foods in the USA because of a cancer risk found in experimental animals (other countries still allow cyclamate). In 1981 the next artificial sweetener, aspartame, marketed as Nutra-Sweet, became popular. Since then several new nonnutritive sweeteners have been introduced with a promise to be more like real sugar with few calories.
good to know. I would like to see a more detailed study conducted.
There are several things that have become much more prevalent. Another is ultrasounds/sonograms. There is research that indicates increased ultrasound use had adverse affects - fetuses are very sensitive to increases in heat.
I went cold turkey from artificial sweeteners 2 months ago. i felt weird. I have much more energy now.
I think they are HORRIBLE. And obesity has gotten worse since they started being used. There is absolutely no redeeming value to them unless you are diabetic.
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LawyerLady
I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you.
When my boys were in school, you had to show up-to-date vaccination records in order to register them for that year. Is this no longer done, or does it vary from district to district?
flan
This is NOT to start a political discussion, but the more liberal districts are the ones that are relaxing that rule. It's just the truth...
Not necessarily just a "liberal" state issue. Many traditionally conservative states also allow a waiver instead of vaccinations. All a parent has to do is sign a paper that says they are against vaccines and they are exempt. Indiana is a very conservative state and they allow the waiver in public and private schools.
The exemptions are for religious reasons. What happened to the separation of church and state?
When you are deliberately putting others in danger--that should not apply. California is attempting to get rid of that exemption. Hopefully they succeed and other states follow suit.
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Well, I could agree with you--but then we'd both be wrong.
Why? If you are vaccinated, then what is the problem? Isn't that the POINT?
You haven't finished all your vaccines until you are ready for school.
Yep - most of them are a SERIES of shots - not just one. And that first one is normally just a building block, it won't stop the disease by itself. And when you are really young and your immune system is not fully developed, the vaccines may not work. Heck - most people assume if you've actually had the chicken pox you can't get them again, but that's not true. If you have them too young - your immune system is not developed enough to make you immune.
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