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After Stephanie Hughes was sent to the principal’s office because her scoop-neck top violated the school dress code, her outraged mom took the controversy to social media. (Photo: Stacie Dunn/Facebook)

High school dress codes that forbid micro-miniskirts or butt-baring shorts are one thing. But what’s wrong with showing your collarbone?

STORY: Prom Dress Sparks Debate for Being Too Revealing

That’s what students, parents, and faculty at Woodford County High School in Kentucky are currently debating, now that the public school’s super-restrictive clothing policy has been called into question thanks to one mom’s viral Facebook post. 

It all started on August 13, the first day of school. That’s when Stephanie Hughes, a senior at Woodford, was sent to the principal’s office for wearing a scoop-neck top (with a long-sleeve blouse over it) that exposed her collarbone.

Collarbone-baring tops are off-limits at Woodford, along with above-the-knee skirts, midriff-revealing T-shirts, ripped jeans, and sleeveless shirts. The rules apply equally to boys and girls.

Stephanie’s outraged mom, Stacie Dunn, posted a photo of Stephanie on Facebook later that day, dressed in the same outfit she wore to school, and railed against the “ridiculous” dress code.

STORY: Should This High Schooler Have Been Suspended for Her “Inappropriate” Dress?

“I had to come to the school because according to her school principal what she is wearing is out of dress code and inappropriate for school,” wrote Dunn.

“When I got there I found a group of female students standing in the office due to being out of dress code also,” continued Dunn. “Parents are being called away from their important jobs and students are missing important class time because they are showing their collarbones! Something needs to change!”

Dunn’s angry post struck a nerve on social media; it has since racked up more than 43,000 shares and hundreds of comments. 

Though it sounds old-fashioned, Woodford County’s dress code isn’t a holdover from the 1950s. It was actually instituted in 2005. “At the time, there were some fashion trends that were considered distracting, so students, teachers, and parents worked to come up with an acceptable code that wouldn’t squelch student creativity but wasn’t distracting,” principal Rob Akers tells Yahoo Parenting.

As for why a collarbone is singled out, Akers says it was just used as “a point of reference” to help faculty determine if a shirt was inappropriately low. “It’s not because anyone thinks the collarbone is dirty,” he says.

Akers wasn’t at Woodford County High School when the dress code was put in place, and it’s not set in stone. “Each year we’ve gotten complaints, and I’ve always said we’ll consider changing it if someone presents an alternative,” he says.

Change is on the way. Thanks to all the support she has received on social media, Dunn launched an August 14 petition on change.org to persuade the school to alter the dress code. By Tuesday the petition had more than 4,000 online supporters.

But Akers says the school has already agreed to revisit the dress policy in response to the media attention. A team of students, faculty, and parents are working on a proposal now that will be submitted to a school committee in a month.

He disputes Dunn’s account of the incident with her daughter, saying that there were “inaccuracies” in the story posted on Facebook but that he was bound by confidentiality laws. 

“When a student violates the dress code, we want them back in class as soon as possible, so we ask them to change or cover up,” he says. If they violate it again, they get an in-school suspension so they can continue to do their assignments, he says.

All the media attention is bringing change to Woodford County High School, which prides itself on its high ranking in Kentucky. “If a dress code is the worst thing anyone says about our school,” says Akers, “I’ll take that.”



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I don't know about you - but I'd pretty much have to wear turtlenecks everyday to avoid showing my collarbone.

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Yeah. I can't concentrate when I see collarbone.

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Collarbone porn!

My guess is this girl threw on the sweater and pulled the tank down in the back to raise the front, for the photo.

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FNW wrote:

Collarbone porn!

My guess is this girl threw on the sweater and pulled the tank down in the back to raise the front, for the photo.


 That is exactly my thought - I would be interested in hearing from the school.



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I don't know. The article says that is what she went to school in. It also said there was a whole group of girls at the office.

I just can't imagine a rule that your collar bone has to be covered. WTH???? Where is your collar bone? It's up there by your neck.

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The principal has disputed the mother's version of the story according to the article. But unlike the mom, he is bound by confidentiality laws and cannot disclose the school's version of events.

While I agree the collarbone is a bit much, it is the rule and kids and parents need to follow it. This is another example of a lawless society.

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The principal has disputed the mother's version of the story according to the article. But unlike the mom, he is bound by confidentiality laws and cannot disclose the school's version of events.

While I agree the collarbone is a bit much, it is the rule and kids and parents need to follow it. This is another example of a lawless society.


 The right to dispute stupid rules and laws is what makes our society great and keeps us from being a fascist country.  The school is now revisting this rules and planning to change the dress code.  Her protest worked.



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Dispute the rule, sure. But teach your child to mind them.

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Stupid rules are only changed by protest. I see this as a good teaching lesson for all.

And yeah, I don't see anything wrong with the way the girl is dressed.

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BF's daughter (she's 16-1/2) and I were talking recently about the dress code at her high school, which after she described it is pretty lax (in my opinion).  For instance, skirts can be no more than 8 inches above the knee... wow.

She told me, "They used to be more strict but they decided they were spending too much time focusing on things that don't matter in the big picture, such as what students wear, and they wanted to spend more time on things that DO matter, such as whether those same students are actually receiving a quality education."

She is intelligent and well-spoken, which hides the emotional baggage I know she carries.  But I definitely agree with the school's decision.



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FNW wrote:

Dispute the rule, sure. But teach your child to mind them.


 As a parent, I would NEVER, in a million years, think that outfit violated any dress code unless the school required uniforms.



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I think they were trying to encourage polos and tee shirts- which is why the collarbone reference is there- but if you are going to be that strict, just go ahead and implement a uniform and be done with it.

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I think they were trying to encourage polos and tee shirts- which is why the collarbone reference is there- but if you are going to be that strict, just go ahead and implement a uniform and be done with it.


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Uniforms. Schools need uniforms.


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BF's daughter (she's 16-1/2) and I were talking recently about the dress code at her high school, which after she described it is pretty lax (in my opinion).  For instance, skirts can be no more than 8 inches above the knee... wow.

She told me, "They used to be more strict but they decided they were spending too much time focusing on things that don't matter in the big picture, such as what students wear, and they wanted to spend more time on things that DO matter, such as whether those same students are actually receiving a quality education."

She is intelligent and well-spoken, which hides the emotional baggage I know she carries.  But I definitely agree with the school's decision.


 8 inches ABOVE the knee?! So it's ok for girls to show their nether regions?! Sheesh!



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8 inches above would be about where a cheer skirt ot tennis skirt would hit.

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RE: 8 inches... depends on the girl (she is 5' 10") but I agree that 8 inches is WAY too short.  My mouth sort of fell open when she said it, and I had to confirm it with her.  The measurement is started at the middle of the knee.  She said it used to be 6 inches, which is still way too short (but yes, I'm very conservative...)



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School Uniforms. I just wish they would offer very basic ones that you could get a target.

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School Uniforms. I just wish they would offer very basic ones that you could get a target.


 Ours does.  I bought polo shirts for $5 and pants for $10 at Target.



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We did uniforms for a while. It was super simple.

Khaki or black pants, white Polo(nothing on it), black or brown belt, navy sweat shirt or pull over sweater, and any closed toe shoe with rubber sole.



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We did uniforms for a while. It was super simple.

Khaki or black pants, white Polo(nothing on it), black or brown belt, navy sweat shirt or pull over sweater, and any closed toe shoe with rubber sole.


Perfect for the Prom too. smile



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That outfit is fine and I am in the club on the collar bone. Mine is right out there unless wearing a sweater, which isn't going to happen most days. A city near me that has a ton of issues with the kids went to a uniform situation about 10 years ago; Khaki's for everyone and depending on the course of study, its a vocational as well as an academic school, the color of the golf shirt is either green, black, red, etc. The kids look great, no wardrobe worries,cheaper for the parents. It is an all around great idea.

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We did uniforms for a while. It was super simple.

Khaki or black pants, white Polo(nothing on it), black or brown belt, navy sweat shirt or pull over sweater, and any closed toe shoe with rubber sole.


Perfect for the Prom too. smile


 Proms are different and have a formal dress code here. 

 



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My granddaughter wears a school uniform to pre-school where she goes in asia.

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