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Q. My Parents Hate My Husband: My husband and I have been married nearly a year (we’re planning on having kids in a year or two). Before we got married, my mom and dad adored him and treated him like their son. They were delightful at our wedding and in the weeks after. However, after Christmas last year, which we spent with them, they became really weird around him. They avoid him and don’t want to touch him, and at one point my mom started to tell me something serious (I think about my husband) and then said, “You know what? Never mind. It won’t help anything.” I’m really worried something terrible happened, but my husband says nothing happened on Christmas and he’s as confused as any of us. My parents are generally tolerant people, I can’t imagine it’s a religious issue or something. What do I do?

A: You sit down with your parents alone and tell them enough is enough. You say there has been a 180-degree change in how they treat your husband and either they explain to you the origin of this or they start behaving like normal, loving people again. If they won’t do either, then you tell them because you continue to love and adore your husband, you will not subject him to their further behavior and you all will have to make separate Christmas plans this year.



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OK - these kind of letters should not be allowed. What did he DO????

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Lawyerlady wrote:

OK - these kind of letters should not be allowed. What did he DO????

THIS!!!!!  



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Obviously he did something to put her parents off. Or maybe they misinterpreted something he said or did. She really does need to have a talk with her parents. If it was me I never would have written a letter I would have had a face to face with my parents.

I really wish there were follow ups to letters like this.

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Lawyerlady wrote:

OK - these kind of letters should not be allowed. What did he DO????

 I know! I need to know what happened. How has their daughter gone this long without demanding an answer. If someone started to tell me something and backed out the way her mom did, I would not be able to let that go. I would have pressed until she told me.



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Maybe the mother saw him fondling her underwear.

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Maybe he hit on her mom? Or her dad?

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Maybe they saw him looking at kiddie porn on the computer.

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Ooh, ooh, I know! He ate dinner and cut it with his fork, refusing to use his knife.

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I think he took pictures of them getting out of the shower.

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And her mother seems to be teasing her...she starts to tell her and then stops.

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That is weird for them to go from being crazy about the husband to disliking him. I wonder if something happened to change their mind. She needs to have a talk to her parents. It could be just a miscommunication on their part.

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I think her mother wanted to tell her & then thought better of it. Maybe thought her daughter would shoot the messenger & didn't want to cause more trouble.

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Well, if telling her won't do any good, it's not something bad enough to divorce him over, just bad enough that the parents don't like him, anymore.

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I wonder if the parents keep sheep? 



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Honeys_Mom wrote:

I wonder if the parents keep sheep? 

LOL!

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Maybe he was picking his nose.

Or left something in the bathroom. Didn't flush or something.



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I wonder if the parents keep sheep? 

LOL!

That was baaaaaaad!biggrin 

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lilyofcourse wrote:

Maybe he was picking his nose.

Or left something in the bathroom. Didn't flush or something.

 Nah, that does not warrant such a hateful response.  That's something to go "ewwww" about and maybe tease, but not hate.



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I don't know.

Some of these letters have more hate for lesser problems.

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Could they have overheard him talking on the phone?

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I need closure.

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Actually, this might be one where ed's perspective comes in handy. If the parents know something, they need to speak up. Or have one of those 'if you don't tell her by Friday, we're telling her' conversations with the husband . . .

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Actually, this might be one where ed's perspective comes in handy. If the parents know something, they need to speak up. Or have one of those 'if you don't tell her by Friday, we're telling her' conversations with the husband . . .

He was filming porn! 



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or was "acting" in porn...nosy must KNOW~

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Okay: Do they live in the same town? Could they have run into an old friend of the husband's?

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It's something that won't change anything. Mom's words.

So what ever it is, it's the parents hang up and they need to get over it.

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He kicked a puppy!

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He told the mom next year they're hosting Christmas dinner.

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He's a member of the Tea Party!

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He voted for Obama!

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He voted for Obama!

Well, that's a damn good reason.  I would have to rethink my relationship with him too! 



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He voted for Obama!

Well, that's a damn good reason.  I would have to rethink my relationship with him too! 

 I know, right?  Makes the most sense.



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They saw him smoking while posing for nude selfish while Porn played on the lap top after he left wet towels on the floor and a duce in the bowl.

And while checking out his FB they found pictures of his ex girlfriends and sheep he had a brief summer fling with.

And they still get upset about the empty envelop with the out of season stamp that was supposed to have the hand written thank you card thanking them for the cheap dollar store soap on a rope he is allergic to.

And he is a liberal conservative who voted for both Bush and Obama.


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Not to mention he refused to pay the hug toll.

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I bet he was videoing EVERYTHING!

Bwahahaha

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This was right after Christmas. Maybe he had the dildo he bought his wife delivered to their house by mistake.

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I know! I know!

He blew his nose at the table!

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lilyofcourse wrote:

They saw him smoking while posing for nude selfish while Porn played on the lap top after he left wet towels on the floor and a duce in the bowl.


And while checking out his FB they found pictures of his ex girlfriends and sheep he had a brief summer fling with.


And they still get upset about the empty envelop with the out of season stamp that was supposed to have the hand written thank you card thanking them for the cheap dollar store soap on a rope he is allergic to.


And he is a liberal conservative who voted for both Bush and Obama.


Bwaaahhh! A Liberal Conservative. Don'tcha mean Conservative Liberal!

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lilyofcourse wrote:

It's something that won't change anything. Mom's words.

So what ever it is, it's the parents hang up and they need to get over it.

 I highly doubt that 2 people, who had loved their SIL previously, would do a complete 180 without good reason.

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His screen saver is a Confederate flag...

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lilyofcourse wrote:

It's something that won't change anything. Mom's words.

So what ever it is, it's the parents hang up and they need to get over it.

 I highly doubt that 2 people, who had loved their SIL previously, would do a complete 180 without good reason.

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Yeah, they need to fess up to what ever changed their minds.

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Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:
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lilyofcourse wrote:

It's something that won't change anything. Mom's words.

So what ever it is, it's the parents hang up and they need to get over it.

 I highly doubt that 2 people, who had loved their SIL previously, would do a complete 180 without good reason.

flan


They are probably torn between minding their own business & protecting their daughter.

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Yeah, they need to fess up to what ever changed their minds.

 



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How did I do that?!

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I dunno! I was wondering the same thing! lol

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He picked his nose and wiped boogers on the furniture? Belched and didn't say "excuse me"? Farted at the dinner table? Laughed so hard he snorted?

I suspect it wasn't really anything that serious. They need to tell her or straighten up and act right.

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FNW wrote:

I need closure.

   Make your own closure!  Oh wait!  That is it, he didn't close the bathroom door when taking a dump!



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Not to mention he refused to pay the hug toll.

 



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he cut his meat holding the knife in the right hand, put it down and switched the fork from the left to the right hand. OR he has an ex HS GF living with his parents.

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He is voting for Hillary for president.

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