DEAR ABBY: We live in the Pacific Northwest and lately there has been a lot of news about an impending major earthquake due to hit our region. We understand it may not happen for a very long time, but it could also strike soon. We are planning to move to another part of the U.S. for our safety. My employer has an office there, and I can retain my job status and seniority.
The problem we see is, what do we tell people -- friends and co-workers -- about the reason for this transfer? We don't want to come off as "Chicken Little" for something that may not occur within our lifetimes, but we also don't want to endanger ourselves unnecessarily. Should we just say we are moving for "family reasons" or tell the truth or something else? -- RUNNING AWAY IN VANCOUVER
DEAR RUNNING AWAY: Living in Southern California, this subject comes up in conversation periodically whenever we have a tremor. Years ago, after one of them, I met a woman who informed me that she and her husband were moving out of state for the same reason you are doing it. (I hope she's enjoying the winters!)
If you are not comfortable informing people that your reason for relocating is fear of an untimely death, I don't think you are required to. It wouldn't be dishonest, however, to say that you are looking for a new adventure
I really don't know what someone else "disagreeing or agreeing" with what I choose to do somehow matters. Oh, I guess I won't move because someone else disagrees? How stupid.
Me: "We're moving!"
Them: "Where too?"
Me: "This place."
Them: "Why?"
Me: "Cause we like it there."
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Well, she's terrified she'll sound incredibly stupid. IOW's she's afraid people will find out the truth. She's incredibly stupid.
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I agree that she does have to justify her family's move to anyone.
But, the reason she is moving seems a little extreme to me. Are there no floods, blizzards, tornados, etc. at the place they are moving to? Natural disasters occur everywhere....
Of course I am a bit prejudiced as we live with quite a few earthquakes over here....
-- Edited by karl271 on Tuesday 27th of October 2015 07:07:06 PM
I am blessed to live where there are very few natural disasters.
But I would not want to live where earthquakes are common.
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Nope. It's on the list of questions asked of advice columns that prove civilization is definitely declining. When people can't make such simple decisions in life I think we are devolving.
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Oh hell, every region of the country has its natural disaster issues. If you don't like earthquakes, come here to the NE where we are built on granite, but bring a damn snowblower and brace for your 3 hour commute, oh and the occasional ice storm and hurricane.
How about Kansas and Missouri with tornadoes?
Florida, NC and SC with hurricanes?
Texas floods,
I could go on and on.
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Here, in North Georgia, in the 45 years I have been on the planet, we have had;
1 blizzard
1 major tornado
3 less then 2 magnitude earthquakes
And 0 flooding unless you live on river bank.
I like it here in my valley.
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But not everyone is afraid of the same disasters. Earthquakes are scary - the ground is supposed to be stable. I can handle blizzards and storms, but earthquakes as a disaster are probably the worst. You can usually find safety from the other forms - go underground or go to higher ground -but when it is the ground that is moving, there is no safe place.
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I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you.
But not everyone is afraid of the same disasters. Earthquakes are scary - the ground is supposed to be stable. I can handle blizzards and storms, but earthquakes as a disaster are probably the worst. You can usually find safety from the other forms - go underground or go to higher ground -but when it is the ground that is moving, there is no safe place.
That is my line of thinking as well.
I wouldn't live in certain places because of the threat of earthquakes.
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Most weather disasters scare me. Lived through enough earthquakes but they still scare me, too. We've had a couple in VA and I had flashbacks to the Sylmar quake and Northridge quakes when I lived in Cali. Heck, I can remember running around catching glasses as they fell out of my kitchen cabinets when that quake in San Fran took down the bridge, and we were an 8 hour drive away.
Oh hell, every region of the country has its natural disaster issues. If you don't like earthquakes, come here to the NE where we are built on granite, but bring a damn snowblower and brace for your 3 hour commute, oh and the occasional ice storm and hurricane.
Oh hell, every region of the country has its natural disaster issues. If you don't like earthquakes, come here to the NE where we are built on granite, but bring a damn snowblower and brace for your 3 hour commute, oh and the occasional ice storm and hurricane.
I remember watching a news doc. when I was growing up in Ca. It was about how people were scared that Ca. was going to fall into the ocean and one lady moved to the Midwest to get away from earth quakes and she ended up being killed in a tornado. I now live in the Midwest and I'm more scared of a tornado then a earth quake.
I remember watching a news doc. when I was growing up in Ca. It was about how people were scared that Ca. was going to fall into the ocean and one lady moved to the Midwest to get away from earth quakes and she ended up being killed in a tornado. I now live in the Midwest and I'm more scared of a tornado then a earth quake.
See, I've SEEN tornadoes up close and personal and lived through them. Being prepared for those is not that difficult. Yes, your stuff might get gone, but people can find shelter from them. Earthquakes - a big one? There isn't any shelter that will protect your from that.
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I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you.
I remember watching a news doc. when I was growing up in Ca. It was about how people were scared that Ca. was going to fall into the ocean and one lady moved to the Midwest to get away from earth quakes and she ended up being killed in a tornado. I now live in the Midwest and I'm more scared of a tornado then a earth quake.
Do you have a storm cellar?
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I remember watching a news doc. when I was growing up in Ca. It was about how people were scared that Ca. was going to fall into the ocean and one lady moved to the Midwest to get away from earth quakes and she ended up being killed in a tornado. I now live in the Midwest and I'm more scared of a tornado then a earth quake.
See, I've SEEN tornadoes up close and personal and lived through them. Being prepared for those is not that difficult. Yes, your stuff might get gone, but people can find shelter from them. Earthquakes - a big one? There isn't any shelter that will protect your from that.
I've been through a few earthquakes, the first few years living in the Midwest we lived in a mobile home. Scared to death whenever we had tornado warnings. Live in a house with a basement now.
The worst earthquake I've been in I slept right through it. My family ran for the safest part of the house and forgot about me (thanks mom). At least the family crystal was safe☺
Hawaii and Washington has volcanoes, west coast has earthquakes, Midwest has tornadoes and the east coast has hurricanes.
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My middle school was a designated fall out shelter.
I was so extremely happy I lived right beside it.
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I remember watching a news doc. when I was growing up in Ca. It was about how people were scared that Ca. was going to fall into the ocean and one lady moved to the Midwest to get away from earth quakes and she ended up being killed in a tornado. I now live in the Midwest and I'm more scared of a tornado then a earth quake.
See, I've SEEN tornadoes up close and personal and lived through them. Being prepared for those is not that difficult. Yes, your stuff might get gone, but people can find shelter from them. Earthquakes - a big one? There isn't any shelter that will protect your from that.
I've been through a few earthquakes, the first few years living in the Midwest we lived in a mobile home. Scared to death whenever we had tornado warnings. Live in a house with a basement now.
The worst earthquake I've been in I slept right through it. My family ran for the safest part of the house and forgot about me (thanks mom). At least the family crystal was safe☺
Hawaii and Washington has volcanoes, west coast has earthquakes, Midwest has tornadoes and the east coast has hurricanes.
I'd call that a tremor. A real earthquake you ain't sleeping through.
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I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you.
I remember watching a news doc. when I was growing up in Ca. It was about how people were scared that Ca. was going to fall into the ocean and one lady moved to the Midwest to get away from earth quakes and she ended up being killed in a tornado. I now live in the Midwest and I'm more scared of a tornado then a earth quake.
See, I've SEEN tornadoes up close and personal and lived through them. Being prepared for those is not that difficult. Yes, your stuff might get gone, but people can find shelter from them. Earthquakes - a big one? There isn't any shelter that will protect your from that.
I guess what scares me is that they are so erratic. In a row of 10 houses, 2 might be reduced to rubble & the rest might be fine.
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-- Edited by flan327 on Thursday 29th of October 2015 08:33:49 AM
We had bomb drills, too, Ed. We'd go under our tables and assume the position. It was just a part of life. The kids now have lock down drills. They have had a few instances where lock down was used. Better to be safe than sorry.
I've seen a tornado in Detroit. I was dating a guy whose family still lived up there and we were on the way to his mom's house. I pointed it out, but he poo poo'd me. Said they don't get tornadoes in Detroit. When we got to his mother's house she ran out screaming that the tornado touched down a street or two away, and we could hear the sirens. Those things scare me, too. But so do blizzards. And flash floods. Mother Nature can be very angry.
I lived in SoCal for 24 years and have been in hundreds of earthquakes. Earthquakes don't bother me. I've slept through many of them. An earthquake has to be at least a 5 before I'll notice it. I actually grew to enjoy earthquakes as I got older. I would make a game out of trying to stay standing. Got pretty good too. A couple years or so ago, Phoenix felt the tremors from an earthquake in Baja CA. I was in Walmart at the time. People freaked right out. I continued on with checking out and headed home.
I'm phobic of tornadoes. I have family in TX and tornadoes are to them what earthquakes are to me. They get a laugh out of me going into panic mode when I'm back there and there's a tornado warning. Every last one of them, however, are scared of earthquakes.
Hurricanes don't much bother me. I've never been in one but I really enjoy heavy rain and high winds so I'd probably enjoy it. When I visited Florida back in 2002, a bad storm came through that flooded some areas. And the winds! I was enjoying watching the trees in the hotel's parking lot whip back and forth.
We were in Pigeon Forge when the fire alarm for the city went off. At the time, in the early 80s, they had a siren in the middle of the city.
It sounded JUST LIKE those sirens from the nuclear war movies.
Freaked me the frack out!
I was maybe 12 at the time.
You know, they really oughta tell people about things like that before it happens.
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We were in Pigeon Forge when the fire alarm for the city went off. At the time, in the early 80s, they had a siren in the middle of the city.
It sounded JUST LIKE those sirens from the nuclear war movies.
Freaked me the frack out!
I was maybe 12 at the time.
You know, they really oughta tell people about things like that before it happens.
Yikes!
I visited my Grandma in Texas during December. Heard a siren go off and thought it was a tornado siren. Scared the bejeezus out of me. Grandma said it was the siren for the volunteer fire department.
I lived in SoCal for 24 years and have been in hundreds of earthquakes. Earthquakes don't bother me. I've slept through many of them. An earthquake has to be at least a 5 before I'll notice it. I actually grew to enjoy earthquakes as I got older. I would make a game out of trying to stay standing. Got pretty good too. A couple years or so ago, Phoenix felt the tremors from an earthquake in Baja CA. I was in Walmart at the time. People freaked right out. I continued on with checking out and headed home.
I'm phobic of tornadoes. I have family in TX and tornadoes are to them what earthquakes are to me. They get a laugh out of me going into panic mode when I'm back there and there's a tornado warning. Every last one of them, however, are scared of earthquakes.
Hurricanes don't much bother me. I've never been in one but I really enjoy heavy rain and high winds so I'd probably enjoy it. When I visited Florida back in 2002, a bad storm came through that flooded some areas. And the winds! I was enjoying watching the trees in the hotel's parking lot whip back and forth.
I'm glad you said that! I thought I was weird for wanting to see one.
I lived in SoCal for 24 years and have been in hundreds of earthquakes. Earthquakes don't bother me. I've slept through many of them. An earthquake has to be at least a 5 before I'll notice it. I actually grew to enjoy earthquakes as I got older. I would make a game out of trying to stay standing. Got pretty good too. A couple years or so ago, Phoenix felt the tremors from an earthquake in Baja CA. I was in Walmart at the time. People freaked right out. I continued on with checking out and headed home.
I'm phobic of tornadoes. I have family in TX and tornadoes are to them what earthquakes are to me. They get a laugh out of me going into panic mode when I'm back there and there's a tornado warning. Every last one of them, however, are scared of earthquakes.
Hurricanes don't much bother me. I've never been in one but I really enjoy heavy rain and high winds so I'd probably enjoy it. When I visited Florida back in 2002, a bad storm came through that flooded some areas. And the winds! I was enjoying watching the trees in the hotel's parking lot whip back and forth.
I'm glad you said that! I thought I was weird for wanting to see one.
flan
You are both nuts.
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I lived in SoCal for 24 years and have been in hundreds of earthquakes. Earthquakes don't bother me. I've slept through many of them. An earthquake has to be at least a 5 before I'll notice it. I actually grew to enjoy earthquakes as I got older. I would make a game out of trying to stay standing. Got pretty good too. A couple years or so ago, Phoenix felt the tremors from an earthquake in Baja CA. I was in Walmart at the time. People freaked right out. I continued on with checking out and headed home.
I'm phobic of tornadoes. I have family in TX and tornadoes are to them what earthquakes are to me. They get a laugh out of me going into panic mode when I'm back there and there's a tornado warning. Every last one of them, however, are scared of earthquakes.
Hurricanes don't much bother me. I've never been in one but I really enjoy heavy rain and high winds so I'd probably enjoy it. When I visited Florida back in 2002, a bad storm came through that flooded some areas. And the winds! I was enjoying watching the trees in the hotel's parking lot whip back and forth.
I'm glad you said that! I thought I was weird for wanting to see one.
flan
You are both nuts.
Hurricanes stop being fun to watch when the trees near you are falling over onto houses and smashing cars,
and when the water level rises and starts to flood the building you're in.
And when the toys your neighbor's kids left in their yard come flying through your glass windows.
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