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lilyofcourse


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The dog thread got me thinking.

What's your instant turn off? 

Off course personality or character flaws like lying.

But I'm talking other things. 

For me, even if the guy is awesome, if he drinks or smokes or uses bad language, I'm done. Instant turn off for me.

What about ya'll? 



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Bad teeth.

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Chewing with his mouth open is the first that comes to mind besides of course not liking pets.

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Bad teeth.

Oh, yeah.

 

Crusty the Clown Hair do. 



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Smoking.

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Any kind of smelliness. Bad breath, stinky feet, anything. And poor hygiene. He doesn't have to be dressed to the nines but his clothes should match, be decently fashionable, and not look like he had them wadded up on his floor for days on end.

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Liberal.

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Lawyerlady wrote:

Smoking.

 I couldn't marry a smoker.



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Bad finger nails. Dirty, long. Blech.

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Liberal.

 HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!  I know, right?  



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Poor.


hehehehe

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Actually -

Smoking

Drunkenness - adults should know how to drink a few without getting drunk.

Being mean to kids - you don't have to love them, but if you are mean to them, something is wrong with you.

Being mean to animals - you don't have to love them, but if you are mean to them, something is wrong with you.

Bad tippers

Nasty teeth

Body Odor not caused by very recent exercise

Shirts with too many buttons undone and gaudy gold chains.



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Comb over.

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Sandals, certain ones bum me out!

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Poor.


hehehehe

 I lurve you.



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FNW wrote:
TrudyML wrote:

Poor.


hehehehe

 I lurve you.

I am laughing away!   



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Poor
Liberal
Bad finger/toe nails
Bad hair
Bad teeth
Bad breath
Bad hygiene
Lazy
Mean/rude

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FNW for the win!

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Oh, and a furry pet-owner.

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Sorry, I know this isn't PC--but I'm not attracted to large women. They don't have to be skin and bones, and it depends a little on how they dress and present themselves, but yeah.

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huskerbb wrote:

Sorry, I know this isn't PC--but I'm not attracted to large women. They don't have to be skin and bones, and it depends a little on how they dress and present themselves, but yeah.

 I'm not attracted to fat men either.    Or men in bad health.  Now, when DH gets sick, I'll take care of him.  But if I were still out dating, hearing about their bad back or gout or whatever...turn-off.



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huskerbb wrote:

Sorry, I know this isn't PC--but I'm not attracted to large women. They don't have to be skin and bones, and it depends a little on how they dress and present themselves, but yeah.

It is valid.  I don't want some fat slob in a Tom Brady jersey. 



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I can handle about 20 pounds overweight. Over that, and I'm not going to be attracted.

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I also am not attracted to women who can't present themselves well.

Put on a pair of blue jeans for gods sakes and leave the sweatpants at home.

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huskerbb wrote:

I also am not attracted to women who can't present themselves well.

Put on a pair of blue jeans for gods sakes and leave the sweatpants at home.

Agreed.  Or PJ's.  WTF! 



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Lawyerlady wrote:

I can handle about 20 pounds overweight. Over that, and I'm not going to be attracted.

 I might go even farther than that--depending on what is considered overweight--but there's definitely a limit and its a fair amount less than what I'd tip the scales at.



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I doubt there are too many men who are attractive to women who can fit in their clothes.

I never understood that whole sweatpants look. Or wearing "active wear" anywhere but the gym or exercising. And sitting on the bleachers watching your kid play doesn't count as exercise.

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Conservative
Deeply religious
Homophobic
Hates animals

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huskerbb wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:

I can handle about 20 pounds overweight. Over that, and I'm not going to be attracted.

 I might go even farther than that--depending on what is considered overweight--but there's definitely a limit and its a fair amount less than what I'd tip the scales at.

 Well, you are right, and it's hard to do by pounds b/c muscle weighs more than fat, so men who are muscular are going to weigh more.  Same with women.  Plus, women with big chests will weigh more so it's hard to tell exactly.  

 



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Ahh yes. Forgot about -

Anti-theist.


Thanks, Weltz.

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Right, add that. Atheists. I'm not sure how Christians and atheists can remain married. My cousin does it. More power to her. It's just a turn off to me.

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Right, add that. Atheists. I'm not sure how Christians and atheists can remain married. My cousin does it. More power to her. It's just a turn off to me.

 I might be able to handle a quiet atheist if he didn't interfere with my religion and would go to church for the kids sake and allow them to be raised in the church.  My FIL did it - even to the point of making the kids go to church to make mom happy.  He's Hindu and raised 5 Catholic children.  My MIL is 75 and still teaches catechism.  A lot of atheists don't hate religion, they just can't bring themselves to believe.  It's the crazy, bitter, religion hating ones I couldn't even be friends with, let alone date. 



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FNW wrote:

I doubt there are too many men who are attractive to women who can fit in their clothes.

I never understood that whole sweatpants look. Or wearing "active wear" anywhere but the gym or exercising. And sitting on the bleachers watching your kid play doesn't count as exercise.

 I understand I live in Podunk Nebraska--but quite a few women around here will wear sweatpants and old ratty tennis shoes to "dine out".  Like my wife says when we travel, it's nice to go somewhere where people dress up for a change.



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huskerbb wrote:
FNW wrote:

I doubt there are too many men who are attractive to women who can fit in their clothes.

I never understood that whole sweatpants look. Or wearing "active wear" anywhere but the gym or exercising. And sitting on the bleachers watching your kid play doesn't count as exercise.

 I understand I live in Podunk Nebraska--but quite a few women around here will wear sweatpants and old ratty tennis shoes to "dine out".  Like my wife says when we travel, it's nice to go somewhere where people dress up for a change.

 Thanks, Husker, now you made me feel guilty.  We were playing tennis Saturday night and I was wearing sweats b/c it was chilly.  We left the courts, and DH decided we needed to go get something to eat.  So there I was, on Saturday night, at 8:30, in a restaurant in sweats.  



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People who are mean to "little people". Waiters, waitresses, cashiers, anyone who is generally deemed "lesser".

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weltschmerz wrote:

Conservative
Deeply religious
Homophobic
Hates animals

 All of the above.

flan



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I'll get flamed, but I won't date someone of another race.

Now understand why.

I tried. But I just don't want the drama that comes with it.

I am NOT knocking anyone who does.

It just isn't for me.



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This is going to sound petty, but I absolutely loathe ball caps. Hate em.
Wear one if you want, but please don't wear it around me.

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lilyofcourse wrote:

I'll get flamed, but I won't date someone of another race.

Now understand why.

I tried. But I just don't want the drama that comes with it.

I am NOT knocking anyone who does.

It just isn't for me.

I don't think I could either Lily.  I never have. 



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Lawyerlady wrote:
huskerbb wrote:
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I doubt there are too many men who are attractive to women who can fit in their clothes.

I never understood that whole sweatpants look. Or wearing "active wear" anywhere but the gym or exercising. And sitting on the bleachers watching your kid play doesn't count as exercise.

 I understand I live in Podunk Nebraska--but quite a few women around here will wear sweatpants and old ratty tennis shoes to "dine out".  Like my wife says when we travel, it's nice to go somewhere where people dress up for a change.

 Thanks, Husker, now you made me feel guilty.  We were playing tennis Saturday night and I was wearing sweats b/c it was chilly.  We left the courts, and DH decided we needed to go get something to eat.  So there I was, on Saturday night, at 8:30, in a restaurant in sweats.  

 wink



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Bad Smells
Bad Hygiene
People that have a bad relationship with their family and still engage. Live your own life!


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Drama Llamas. Lord have mercy.

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Broke. I don't need a guy with a ton of money but he needs to be able to keep the lights on and keep the car gassed up!
Smoker
Baby mama drama
Separated = Still married. Sorry, make it legal.
Skinny. I'm a big girl, guys don't like big girls, I don't like little guys!
More feminine than myself.
Doesn't attend church
Can't go a day without a beer
Spends all his time with his buddies
Poor hygiene
Can't put the cell phone down.
Thinks he's a player.

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Lawyerlady wrote:

Drama Llamas. Lord have mercy.

 Yep, dated one of those.



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Someone who doesn't like dessert...

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Patriots fan! UGH!

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LOL

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A druggie.

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Southern_Belle wrote:

Patriots fan! UGH!

 That used to be one.....

unemployed 

smokes



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Yep. Drugs is a big no-no.

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