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 Only TWO PER CENT Of Men Aged 18-24 Feel Masculine

 
 
 

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Young men in Britain are reluctant to identify as “masculine” and think the term has “negative connotations”, a YouGov poll has revealed.

According to the survey, only two per cent of male respondents aged between 18 to 24 described themselves as “completely masculine”, compared to 56 per cent of over 65s.

The results come at a time when, despite the fact women vastly outnumber men at universities, feminists are demanding male students sign pledges to tackle “laddish” behaviour.

Wales Online last year reported on a campaign by police, councils and universities to “crack down” on behaviour deemed “laddish.”  Feminist Vicky Chandler called for “lad culture” to be tackled in children as young as those in primary school.

Describing the results as following a “generational decline,” YouGov found that younger respondents are increasingly reluctant to identify themselves as masculine.

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Most shocking was the drastic generation gap in how the concept of masculinity is perceived.

Both men and women over 25 have a positive impression of masculinity, with very few people expressing negative views.

Among 18 to 25 year olds, however, the percentage of women with unfavourable impressions of the concept of masculinity jumps from 15 per cent to 27 per cent. Strikingly, more men in this age range felt the word had bad connotations (42 per cent) rather than good (39 per cent).

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Responses also varied by political party.  Out of those who voted in the 2015 UK General Election, 72 per cent of respondents who voted Conservative expressed a positive opinion of masculinity, compared to 60 per cent of United Kingdom Independence Party (UKIP) voters, and only 53 per cent of Labour voters.

Surprisingly, 65 per cent of people who voted for the Liberal Democrats said they felt positively about masculinity.

Unlike with masculinity, there has not been a concerted campaign over the years to stigmatise femininity; it is unsurprising that responses to the concept were more positive.

Seventy-four per cent of Conservative voters said they felt positively about the concept of femininity compared to 76 per cent of Liberal Democrat voters, 64 per cent of Labour voters and 68 per cent of UKIP voters.

Overall, respondents had a net positive opinion of +56 for femininity compared to +44 for masculinity.

There was a notable gap between the proportion of men in the UK and the United States who describe themselves as masculine, with 42 per cent of American men identifying with the term compared with just 28 per cent of British men.

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Finally, the polling organisation’s survey asked people about their lifestyles.  They were questioned on a number of issues relating to their masculinity including: whether they have been in a physical fight; how easy they say it is for them to discuss personal problems with friends; and whether or not they have worn clothes intended for the opposite sex.

Reporting on perceptions of the meaning of the word, YouGov reports that, “contrary to expectations,” their research found little correlation between identifying as more masculine and finding it harder to talk to friends or family about personal problems.

YouGov said that men (at 44 per cent), particularly young men (36 per cent), are less likely to say they find it easy to talk to friends about issues than women are (53 per cent).

At the top two levels of masculinity, meanwhile, they concluded men are more likely (at 64 per cent) to have had a physical fight than men who rated themselves less masculine.

 

http://www.breitbart.com/london/2016/05/20/yougov-masculine-poll/



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Well, of course.

They've been taught that being manly is bad.



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No, it's "laddish."

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Here's a shocker:

At the top two levels of masculinity, meanwhile, they concluded men are more likely (at 64 per cent) to have had a physical fight than men who rated themselves less masculine.

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Oh, well, let's have sissy boys so they don't fight.

That's just stupid.

A man doesn't go looking for a fight.



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We are all girls now.

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Oh, well, let's have sissy boys so they don't fight.

That's just stupid.

A man doesn't go looking for a fight.


 I didn't say that.

But, if a male needs to fight to prove his "masculinity," THAT is a problem.

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 Not me, Sweetie!

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flan327 wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:

Oh, well, let's have sissy boys so they don't fight.

That's just stupid.

A man doesn't go looking for a fight.


 I didn't say that.

But, if a male needs to fight to prove his "masculinity," THAT is a problem.

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 But fighting doesn't prove masculinity. It proves a lack of control.



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Or, maybe there are times to actually fight for what is right? I know that is now anathema.

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Well, of course there are times when fighting is necessary.

But it should not be the first course of action.

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Sometimes it is the first course of action Lilly. Like Flight 93. Stand up and fight. That was the only choice.

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We have gone from a nation of Give me Liberty or give me to death. To Pee free or whine in your feminine underpants.

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Let's just have all the adults were Pullup diapers. Then, no more bathroom issues. Think how convenient it would be for all the lumps in society.

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Perhaps these men don't have brothers. My boys do enough fighting.

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Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:

Sometimes it is the first course of action Lilly. Like Flight 93. Stand up and fight. That was the only choice.


 I agree, BUT how many times does a situation like THAT present itself?

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Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:

Sometimes it is the first course of action Lilly. Like Flight 93. Stand up and fight. That was the only choice.


 Well that's extremme.

I thought we were talking about everyday, average, daily lives.

 

 



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Men who won't stand up in their daily lives aren't going to be the ones trying to take on terrorists in a plane.

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I think a lot of the negativity assigned to being masculine started with push years back for men to get in touch with their feminine side. I don't like that masculinity is viewed negatively but I do appreciate the role men now play in home life & child rearing unlike previous generations that believed diaper changing & feeding were strictly women's roles.

I'm not really articulating it well but I think it is ok that men don't feel like they need to be macho to be men. I just wish it wasn't viewed as a negative.

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Standing up for what is right is not the same as physically fighting.

One is in control of themselves and one is not.

Physically fighting should not, on a daily basis, be the first thing you do.



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I didn't say those were one in the same. However, I there are times in life when you need to physically fight.

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Women's libbers have been trying their hardest to emasculate men since the 1960's, and they have finally succeeded.

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Women's libbers have been trying their hardest to emasculate men since the 1960's, and they have finally succeeded.


 Another idiotic statement...

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How is that idiotic? It's absolutely true.

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How is that idiotic? It's absolutely true.


 How is it "true?"

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Seriously? Do you live here?


Denial of that is the dumbest thing I've seen all week, and that's saying something.

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Because every single feminist is the same...

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Boys are not allowed to be boys anymore. Boys can't pick up a stick and pretend to play Cops n robbers or Cowboys and Indians. We have tried to mold boys into being obedient little girls. We have told men that they don't matter. That we can do it all. We don't need them. They aren't important. As a result, men who think they have a responsibility to take care of their wives and children are now looked at as neanderthals. So, now we have a new crop of men that are perfectly content to let their wives work while they sit at home playing their video games. It is really sad. We used to have men that aspired to be great or heroic. Men who believed in God and family and country. But, we have told them they are racist, sexist, xenophobes, blah, blah. But, as LL said, just do what liberals do and say "oh I don't see that'. That never happened, etc.

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Boys are not allowed to be boys anymore. Boys can't pick up a stick and pretend to play Cops n robbers or Cowboys and Indians. We have tried to mold boys into being obedient little girls. We have told men that they don't matter. That we can do it all. We don't need them. They aren't important. As a result, men who think they have a responsibility to take care of their wives and children are now looked at as neanderthals. So, now we have a new crop of men that are perfectly content to let their wives work while they sit at home playing their video games. It is really sad. We used to have men that aspired to be great or heroic. Men who believed in God and family and country. But, we have told them they are racist, sexist, xenophobes, blah, blah. But, as LL said, just do what liberals do and say "oh I don't see that'. That never happened, etc.


 That's not the way I raised my two boys.

DS2 is going a remarkable job as a single parent. He cooks (better than me), cleans, nurtures & disciplines.

I remember years ago, boys were made fun of for playing with dolls. It was acceptable to call them "sissies."

There should be a balance, not only in men, but in women as well.

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Boys are not allowed to be boys anymore. Boys can't pick up a stick and pretend to play Cops n robbers or Cowboys and Indians. We have tried to mold boys into being obedient little girls. We have told men that they don't matter. That we can do it all. We don't need them. They aren't important. As a result, men who think they have a responsibility to take care of their wives and children are now looked at as neanderthals. So, now we have a new crop of men that are perfectly content to let their wives work while they sit at home playing their video games. It is really sad. We used to have men that aspired to be great or heroic. Men who believed in God and family and country. But, we have told them they are racist, sexist, xenophobes, blah, blah. But, as LL said, just do what liberals do and say "oh I don't see that'. That never happened, etc.


 Pretty sure there have always been men who sat around and let their wives do all the work. I remember my grandmother talking about a few with her friends. What a shame it was that Mary worked while her husband "went to the track" all day or what have you. There have always been men like that - women didn't create them. Women just enabled them. 



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I lived independently for about 10 years before marrying DH. I was used to doing everything myself. I didn't marry him because I needed him. I married him because I love him. But there are still times when I can see in his face the need to take care of me. Many times I know I must back off and let him take the lead. It makes him happy, and his happiness makes me happy. It allows him to be a man, and allows me to be cared for. He is the kind of man who knows it's his job to take care of me and protect me. I love that about him.

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I lived independently for about 10 years before marrying DH. I was used to doing everything myself. I didn't marry him because I needed him. I married him because I love him. But there are still times when I can see in his face the need to take care of me. Many times I know I must back off and let him take the lead. It makes him happy, and his happiness makes me happy. It allows him to be a man, and allows me to be cared for. He is the kind of man who knows it's his job to take care of me and protect me. I love that about him.


 I am glad this works for you and I don't see anything wrong with it. I just don't understand it. I have never felt like I wanted someone else to take care of me. I have wanted DH to step up and do more around the house when I was clearly too busy to do it all - but that's as close as I get. It's just how I am wired I guess. 



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well, has been a while since my twenties--lived through the '60s and the beginnings of the " women's movement "--lots of water under the bridge since then

much of what is wrong with males now is not so much a product of the " women's movement " but moreso from efforts of those in public and private " education " to emasculate men in general and alpha males in particular--know and have lived through quite a bit of it--overall, has weakened not just young men but all of us



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Burns is right.

It isn't about washing dishes and holding doors.



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And it's not about helping out around the house.

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This is sad. We need men to be men.

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