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Would you date your ex or spouse if you just met them? [13 vote(s)]

No way!
15.4%
Sure, they are awesome!
61.5%
I dunno, I'd need to get to know them first.
7.7%
Nope, I'm way cuter now than I was years ago.
0.0%
Probably not, we just evolved in totally different directions.
7.7%
Not sure....
7.7%
Southern_Belle


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Let's say you are a single person actively dating. Would you date your ex or your current spouse (or partner) if you met them for the first time today? You wouldn't know anything about them or anyone who knows them. 

 



-- Edited by Southern_Belle on Tuesday 2nd of September 2014 02:29:42 PM

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I cast the first vote. I probably wouldn't date my ex. We started dating as teens and really grew in different directions. He is still a sullen 17 year old boy who thinks everyone owes him something while I have become a very happy grown woman who loves life.

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My ex...no no no. My dh...yes again and again

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I went with not sure. Because it depends which ex we're talking about. There are a couple that I think if we would have met later in life, the relationship would have gone much smoother. There are a couple that, now I am confident enough in myself I would not put up with their crap as long as I did.

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Of course I would date and marry my current spouse again. He is wonderful. I think that if I met him for the first time now I would like him more than I did the first time I met him at 17.. if that's possible. He was a great guy then and is an even better man now.

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NAOW wrote:

Of course I would date and marry my current spouse again. He is wonderful. I think that if I met him for the first time now I would like him more than I did the first time I met him at 17.. if that's possible. He was a great guy then and is an even better man now.

 All this and more!  I love my DH with all my heart.  Now my ex husband?  Nope.  I'd laugh in his face.



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If I met my exh and just going on his social skills I would probably think he was ok. But then if I got to know him I wouldn't want to be involved. I kinda had my doubts when I was 16 but he was so cute and he liked ME!!

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The truth? I met my DH without having a clue about him. Yup, would do it over in a heart beat. I knew the second I saw him, that he was the one. He says it was the same for him.
39 years and counting. smile



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just Czech wrote:

The truth? I met my DH without having a clue about him. Yup, would do it over in a heart beat. I knew the second I saw him, that he was the one. He says it was the same for him.
39 years and counting. smile

 



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I would date my husband with out a single doubt.

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Southern_Belle wrote:
just Czech wrote:

The truth? I met my DH without having a clue about him. Yup, would do it over in a heart beat. I knew the second I saw him, that he was the one. He says it was the same for him.
39 years and counting. smile

 

That's pretty much the same story here, Czech.smile Except we've been married 33 years. wink 



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I went with sure, but that applies only to my current spouse.

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Well, honestly speaking, if I didn't know anyone that knows him - then probably no to DH. See, my best friend set us up - she basically picked him out for me. I SUCKED at picking men. I had a fatal attraction to players. It was very bad.

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Can your friend please send me someone? I suck at this.

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Southern_Belle wrote:

Let's say you are a single person actively dating. Would you date your ex or your current spouse (or partner) if you met them for the first time today? You wouldn't know anything about them or anyone who knows them. 

 



-- Edited by Southern_Belle on Tuesday 2nd of September 2014 02:29:42 PM

I am a single person but not actively dating.  If I was dating, I would not date my ex.  And I would definitely remember my ex, since I pretty much remember everything in all of time and space (it would be nice to forget, but that is not an option in my world). 

For the record, I have not dated since 1996.  It was not worth the all the drama, personally. 

I am not sure if I would date again. 

 



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I would definitely date my husband again.

I would date one of my exes again if he were single.

I would NOT date either of my other two exes again even if I were paid to do so.

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No. I love my husband so much. But I am happier when I'm single. If we aren't together in the future i will stay single til I die.

Every relationship I've had has been like that. I'm personally more fulfilled when I'm single.

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