Have to go to the bank, gonna try to knock a little off my Christmas list, and go to the grocery store.
Head feels like a cotton ball.
It's going to be 84 today.
I am hungry.
Hope Ya'll have a great day.
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Good morning all! Squeakers, I hope you have a great checkup! Sorry you are tired, but I am glad you went to the comedy show. Yay, flan has the day off! Tinydancer, are you working today? Have a good one. IKWTDS, is your house back to normal? Did you get rid of FEX's stuff? Hope that is all over for you. I hope to head to my parents here in a bit. Mom needs some daughter time and a break. If I don't go today, I may not get there for awhile, to help her. Gosh, and I have 2 five gallon buckets of beets to can..
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I quilt so I don't kill you.
Do you see a theme?
Faith isn't something that keeps bad things from happening. Faith is what helps us get through bad things when they do happen.
Good morning all! Squeakers, I hope you have a great checkup! Sorry you are tired, but I am glad you went to the comedy show. Yay, flan has the day off! Tinydancer, are you working today? Have a good one. IKWTDS, is your house back to normal? Did you get rid of FEX's stuff? Hope that is all over for you. I hope to head to my parents here in a bit. Mom needs some daughter time and a break. If I don't go today, I may not get there for awhile, to help her. Gosh, and I have 2 five gallon buckets of beets to can..
Good morning all! Squeakers, I hope you have a great checkup! Sorry you are tired, but I am glad you went to the comedy show. Yay, flan has the day off! Tinydancer, are you working today? Have a good one. IKWTDS, is your house back to normal? Did you get rid of FEX's stuff? Hope that is all over for you. I hope to head to my parents here in a bit. Mom needs some daughter time and a break. If I don't go today, I may not get there for awhile, to help her. Gosh, and I have 2 five gallon buckets of beets to can..
Just throw them in the trash...
flan
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I drink coffee so I don't kill you.
I quilt so I don't kill you.
Do you see a theme?
Faith isn't something that keeps bad things from happening. Faith is what helps us get through bad things when they do happen.
Good morning everyone. I think I just slept another 10 hours. It's time to get my self in order! But now it's only 545 in the morning, so I feel like I should sleep more ...
I have a massage appointment today so I will have to be up for that, and I have school work and GA work to do. I should get off the board....
My husband carved pumpkins for the boys. We took them to a Halloween party at the club. They had a haunted house...it was a little scarier than expected and #2 was a bit traumatized. #1 loved it.
Took the day off to finally get those tires. They had to be specially ordered, yadda yadda yadda ...
Just got back from the groomer. Aksel was pampered and fawned over and finally got his nails clipped. I am too chicken to do it myself. He smells SO good now - I need to find out what shampoo they use. He hates the car though. Any tips on getting him used to riding I the car? As soon as we get out he has to potty and he shakes the whole time we are driving.
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A friend of mine just had a stillborn baby.
We (parents, sister, myself) are trying t feel out if it would be a good idea to visit or not. She is very quiet, and hates a fuss. She lives three hours away. It was their first baby. We made a trip up abut a month ago with a bunch of baby things. They were so happy and excited.
A friend of mine just had a stillborn baby. We (parents, sister, myself) are trying t feel out if it would be a good idea to visit or not. She is very quiet, and hates a fuss. She lives three hours away. It was their first baby. We made a trip up abut a month ago with a bunch of baby things. They were so happy and excited.
That's so sad, Dona. Thoughts and prayers for you friend and her family.
A friend of mine just had a stillborn baby. We (parents, sister, myself) are trying t feel out if it would be a good idea to visit or not. She is very quiet, and hates a fuss. She lives three hours away. It was their first baby. We made a trip up abut a month ago with a bunch of baby things. They were so happy and excited.
I am sorry to read this. Your poor friend. Can you call her husband & ask him if he thinks she wants company?
A friend of mine just had a stillborn baby. We (parents, sister, myself) are trying t feel out if it would be a good idea to visit or not. She is very quiet, and hates a fuss. She lives three hours away. It was their first baby. We made a trip up abut a month ago with a bunch of baby things. They were so happy and excited.
That's heartbreaking. I hope they are surrounded by kindness and love.
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Maybe she'll learn to keep her c0ck-holster closed. -- Edited by huskerbb on Sunday 9th of November 2014 01:32:19 PM
Dona go visit. Let her lead the conversation. Don't be afraid to ask about the baby. If they took pictures, can you see them.
A lot of people don't know how to act in a situation like this. But recognize the baby. Honor the baby and the precious little time they had with the baby.
If they have a service, go. In a week call and talk to the mother. Let her talk if she wants. Or just sit with her.
When my friend lost her baby, he was born without a brain, I went to hospital and sat with her. Let her talk and asked her questions like you would a new mom. What color was his hair, his eyes? Who did he look like.
Later she said I was the only one who treated her and her baby like they were real. Like the baby existed.
Just let the mom and dad lead and you will know what direction to go.
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So I am almost finished with my Christmas shopping.
I need to get A 1 more thing.
I have a few things to get C but I know exactly what I want, I just have to get them when she isn't with me.
I have to find dad something.
And then I am done other than stocking stuffers.
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Both of my sisters-in-law lost their first ones, one at about 6 months due to the Dalcon Shield, the other at 8 months, stillborn.
In both cases their husbands and parents wanted it to be over and done immediately, they had a funeral and burial within a day, and didn't tell anyone. So no one went.
But to the mothers, these were real children. They need to mourn, and they need their friends to acknowledge the loss and be there for them.
Don't say anything like "It was God's will" or "You're young, you will have more". That may be true, but it's telling them not to mourn. They need to mourn.
Best to just be a good listener.
If anyone suggests that they should return the gifts, the answer is "No" and "don't do anything in a hurry."
Tell her that you can't be there physically every day, but if she's up to talking, there are telephones, and you don't mind at all if a 20 minute call is 19 minutes of silence, if that helps her.
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I just went on a massive SS shopping spree. Now off to answer questions.
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