My buddy's daughter is like that. She breast fed her oldest until he was like 5. She only feeds him what she considers "natural". Plus, the kid has no discipline and is mouthy. He'll take more than a few beatings in his life.
Doesn't matter how you feel about another parents dieting choices for their kid. It'd piss you off to if you said your kid couldn't have something and they were given it behind your back. Don't even act like it wouldn't.
But I wouldn't be that dumb. I NEVER had to ask my baby-sitters not to feed my kids this or that.
When someone is watching your kid, you shouldn't dictate what they had to cook or prepare unless there is an allergy. The ONLY thing I have ever told people not to give my kid is soda. But, my kids are aware they are not allowed soda and they know how to politely decline and ask for water or juice.
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LawyerLady
I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you.
Generally speaking, when going to a theme park, zoo or other special event I think kids should get to eat some junk food. It's part of the fun.
And it is your right to feed your kids that. No one is disputing that.
But I don't see the big deal if you don't want to feed your kids sugar or meat. Geez, talk about mommy wars.
She can feed him whatever she wants. I just don't want to shop for her choices. Hence, the packed lunch. It's only a mommy war if I tell her she's being ridiculous. I'm actually backing her choices by letting her know what's in my kitchen and asking her to send stuff.
Generally speaking, when going to a theme park, zoo or other special event I think kids should get to eat some junk food. It's part of the fun.
I agree. And being with other people is a great time for special treats.
I had a friend get so mad at me once - she was a food Nazi mama, and as a joke, I sent lollipops in a box. Mom opened it and dropped the lollipop and her kid had the wrapper off and lollipop in her mouth so quick! This is also the same child who would never eat because the food she was given was always tasteless and bland. I finally had to "discuss" with my friend healthy ways to make food taste better - like sauteing chicken in olive oil rather than boiling it - and that some fat is good b/c babies need fat.
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LawyerLady
I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you.
Generally speaking, when going to a theme park, zoo or other special event I think kids should get to eat some junk food. It's part of the fun.
And it is your right to feed your kids that. No one is disputing that.
But I don't see the big deal if you don't want to feed your kids sugar or meat. Geez, talk about mommy wars.
She can feed him whatever she wants. I just don't want to shop for her choices. Hence, the packed lunch. It's only a mommy war if I tell her she's being ridiculous. I'm actually backing her choices by letting her know what's in my kitchen and asking her to send stuff.
calm down.
She is being ridiculous. Let me tell her.
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The zoo will be fun. Instead of movies, I would have some 30 minute cartoons on hand. I know at that age, my boys would not sit for an entire movie. Mickey Mouse Club House and Jake and the Neverland Pirates were favorites for them. Do you have blocks? They are good for a quieter activity. My boys used to build with megabloks during a cartoon. It helped give them a way to be active while watching the cartoon.
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At 2 my kids were not big nappers. I did the quiet time.
I would put in something calm like Winnie the Pooh or Little Bear and we would lay on the couch. Not talking or moving. They could have their sippy cups and a blanket and nothing else.
Some times they would fall asleep and sometimes they wouldn't. But they were quiet and calm and I was able to snooze a little myself. I could feel them moving and such. It was actually rather nice and I miss it.
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2 year olds are special kind of special that is for sure.
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A flock of flirting flamingos is pure, passionate, pink pandemonium-a frenetic flamingle-mangle-a discordant discotheque of delirious dancing, flamboyant feathers, and flamingo lingo.