Again, mentally fvcked in the head people pretend to be things they are not all the time.
Burying someone in full Napoleonic era military dress because they think they are Napoleon would be just as ridiculous as this.
Wow just wow... Every time i think you've reached the pinnacle of ******** I realize you just don't know how to express yourself any other way.
You're just cranky because you know I'm right and have no cogent arguments to make.
Haha...I'm not cranky and I know better than to argue with you. I just find it funny that you think you're so smart but you can't have a discussion without swearing and ridiculing. Most grownups know that insults and bad language do not make for a good argument.
I've always maintained that when the serious cussing starts, it's because he knows he has lost the argument.
I have to wonder if this family was estranged because of this. That being the case, the parents may not have told everyone - and it was easier for them to do this rather than explain.
And while you are just horrified by the "lack of respect" these parents showed - it should be remembered that they buried their child, who grew up and was raised a boy, and those are likely their fondest memories. I mean, any child that takes the path you don't like or approve of, you still remember them as the cute 5 year old that would lick the beaters and ask endless questions.
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I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you.
Again, mentally fvcked in the head people pretend to be things they are not all the time.
Burying someone in full Napoleonic era military dress because they think they are Napoleon would be just as ridiculous as this.
Wow just wow... Every time i think you've reached the pinnacle of ******** I realize you just don't know how to express yourself any other way.
You're just cranky because you know I'm right and have no cogent arguments to make.
Haha...I'm not cranky and I know better than to argue with you. I just find it funny that you think you're so smart but you can't have a discussion without swearing and ridiculing. Most grownups know that insults and bad language do not make for a good argument.
I've always maintained that when the serious cussing starts, it's because he knows he has lost the argument.
flan
How could he possibly lose an argument, when all he has to do is deliberately misinterpret what people are saying, misquote, and twist things?
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Husker attacks the argument, he calls certain opinions stupid, etc. People take that as license to attack him. And then they bitch when he doesn't get warned. It's like they only expect the rules to go one way simply because he uses words they don't like. Well, fvck that. We're adults and he can say fvck if he wants to.
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LawyerLady
I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you.
Nobody has to LIKE Husker's opinion, or even Husker himself, but it's hypocritical to constantly bitch about his arguing and posting style while attacking him.
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LawyerLady
I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you.
Never said they did. But he isn't a Victim either of other people's bitching about him. He instigates a lot it as well with his comments.
I didn't say he was a victim. BUT, he is almost always talking about the OP, and when people don't like what he says, they take it as license to attack HIM. His only post was about the subject, and people came in insulting HIM. I'm pointing that out now b/c when he retaliates, I'm not going to care.
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LawyerLady
I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you.
No, not true. When discussing an OP, he will often make personal comments. He has made comments about MY parenting or my kids or family or whatever when I was discussing the OP.
But, yes, sometimes he IS talking about the OP and people get pissed. Fine. People get pissed at my posts too.
No, not true. When discussing an OP, he will often make personal comments. He has made comments about MY parenting or my kids or family or whatever when I was discussing the OP. But, yes, sometimes he IS talking about the OP and people get pissed. Fine. People get pissed at my posts too.
We are on THIS thread. And yes, as I said ALREADY - nobody has to like his posts, and feel free to call them stupid just as he does everyone else's. But that is not what was happening, so I wanted to point that out early before it got ridiculously derailed. Like when adult women apparently swooned because he called the subject of an OP a terrible name they didn't like and tried to say he called them that, when he did not.
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I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you.
Well, if I don't like the way someone posts, so what? I don't see the point of going on to whine about how they are posting. I can either tell them to buzz off, argue back or just ignore them. But, I post the way I choose to post. And, I love when people tell me I should 'try to post this way or that way". Um no, I say exactly what I mean and I mean exactly what I say. And, if someone choose to infer something from my "tone" or my way of saying it, that is on them.
Again, mentally fvcked in the head people pretend to be things they are not all the time.
Burying someone in full Napoleonic era military dress because they think they are Napoleon would be just as ridiculous as this.
Wow just wow... Every time i think you've reached the pinnacle of ******** I realize you just don't know how to express yourself any other way.
You're just cranky because you know I'm right and have no cogent arguments to make.
Haha...I'm not cranky and I know better than to argue with you. I just find it funny that you think you're so smart but you can't have a discussion without swearing and ridiculing. Most grownups know that insults and bad language do not make for a good argument.
I've always maintained that when the serious cussing starts, it's because he knows he has lost the argument.
flan
No. When the other side is insisting that men have a vagina and women have a penis--I know I've won.
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I'm not arguing, I'm just explaining why I'm right.
Well, I could agree with you--but then we'd both be wrong.
Again, mentally fvcked in the head people pretend to be things they are not all the time.
Burying someone in full Napoleonic era military dress because they think they are Napoleon would be just as ridiculous as this.
Wow just wow... Every time i think you've reached the pinnacle of ******** I realize you just don't know how to express yourself any other way.
You're just cranky because you know I'm right and have no cogent arguments to make.
Haha...I'm not cranky and I know better than to argue with you. I just find it funny that you think you're so smart but you can't have a discussion without swearing and ridiculing. Most grownups know that insults and bad language do not make for a good argument.
So...you don't have any real points to make on here, then. I thought as much.
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I'm not arguing, I'm just explaining why I'm right.
Well, I could agree with you--but then we'd both be wrong.
Husker attacks the argument, he calls certain opinions stupid, etc. People take that as license to attack him. And then they bitch when he doesn't get warned. It's like they only expect the rules to go one way simply because he uses words they don't like. Well, fvck that. We're adults and he can say fvck if he wants to.
No, not true. When discussing an OP, he will often make personal comments. He has made comments about MY parenting or my kids or family or whatever when I was discussing the OP. But, yes, sometimes he IS talking about the OP and people get pissed. Fine. People get pissed at my posts too.
Again, mentally fvcked in the head people pretend to be things they are not all the time.
Burying someone in full Napoleonic era military dress because they think they are Napoleon would be just as ridiculous as this.
Wow just wow... Every time i think you've reached the pinnacle of ******** I realize you just don't know how to express yourself any other way.
You're just cranky because you know I'm right and have no cogent arguments to make.
Haha...I'm not cranky and I know better than to argue with you. I just find it funny that you think you're so smart but you can't have a discussion without swearing and ridiculing. Most grownups know that insults and bad language do not make for a good argument.
I've always maintained that when the serious cussing starts, it's because he knows he has lost the argument.
flan
No. When the other side is insisting that men have a vagina and women have a penis--I know I've won.
No, some us us are saying that GENDER is more than purely physical.
Again, mentally fvcked in the head people pretend to be things they are not all the time.
Burying someone in full Napoleonic era military dress because they think they are Napoleon would be just as ridiculous as this.
Wow just wow... Every time i think you've reached the pinnacle of ******** I realize you just don't know how to express yourself any other way.
You're just cranky because you know I'm right and have no cogent arguments to make.
Haha...I'm not cranky and I know better than to argue with you. I just find it funny that you think you're so smart but you can't have a discussion without swearing and ridiculing. Most grownups know that insults and bad language do not make for a good argument.
I've always maintained that when the serious cussing starts, it's because he knows he has lost the argument.
flan
No. When the other side is insisting that men have a vagina and women have a penis--I know I've won.
No, some us us are saying that GENDER is more than purely physical.
flan
That's what I said. You can't have it both ways. You ARE arguing that a woman can have a penis--which is absolutely absurd.
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I'm not arguing, I'm just explaining why I'm right.
Well, I could agree with you--but then we'd both be wrong.
No, not true. When discussing an OP, he will often make personal comments. He has made comments about MY parenting or my kids or family or whatever when I was discussing the OP. But, yes, sometimes he IS talking about the OP and people get pissed. Fine. People get pissed at my posts too.
And THAT is where I feel he crosses a line.
flan
Which I do not do unless they bring it up, first.
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I'm not arguing, I'm just explaining why I'm right.
Well, I could agree with you--but then we'd both be wrong.
Gender is how you feel....woman, man
Sex is physical....male, female
I think that there are rare cases when this doesn't all match up, those people can be identified with chromosome testing. When those medical issues arise, I get sex surgery.
But, I think that most people who have gender identity issues need a therapist, not a sex change.
Gender is how you feel....woman, man Sex is physical....male, female
I think that there are rare cases when this doesn't all match up, those people can be identified with chromosome testing. When those medical issues arise, I get sex surgery.
But, I think that most people who have gender identity issues need a therapist, not a sex change.
Yeah, fvcked in the head. That's what I said.
I agree about the therapist, though.
However, if they want to have the surgery, then fine, as long as they can pay for it they can whack their peter off if they want to. At THAT point, they can use the women's restroom.
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I'm not arguing, I'm just explaining why I'm right.
Well, I could agree with you--but then we'd both be wrong.
Gender is how you feel....woman, man Sex is physical....male, female
I think that there are rare cases when this doesn't all match up, those people can be identified with chromosome testing. When those medical issues arise, I get sex surgery.
But, I think that most people who have gender identity issues need a therapist, not a sex change.
Yeah, fvcked in the head. That's what I said.
I agree about the therapist, though.
However, if they want to have the surgery, then fine, as long as they can pay for it they can whack their peter off if they want to. At THAT point, they can use the women's restroom.
Can you at least admit sometimes it really is a medical issue that does requires surgery? I feel so bad for those people.
Gender is how you feel....woman, man Sex is physical....male, female
I think that there are rare cases when this doesn't all match up, those people can be identified with chromosome testing. When those medical issues arise, I get sex surgery.
But, I think that most people who have gender identity issues need a therapist, not a sex change.
Yeah, fvcked in the head. That's what I said.
I agree about the therapist, though.
However, if they want to have the surgery, then fine, as long as they can pay for it they can whack their peter off if they want to. At THAT point, they can use the women's restroom.
Can you at least admit sometimes it really is a medical issue that does requires surgery? I feel so bad for those people.
I didn't say "require". I said if they WANT to and can afford it, it's not my business. Until that point, however, they need to use whichever restroom jives with their "equipment".
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I'm not arguing, I'm just explaining why I'm right.
Well, I could agree with you--but then we'd both be wrong.
No, not true. When discussing an OP, he will often make personal comments. He has made comments about MY parenting or my kids or family or whatever when I was discussing the OP. But, yes, sometimes he IS talking about the OP and people get pissed. Fine. People get pissed at my posts too.
And THAT is where I feel he crosses a line.
flan
There are a LOT of posters that occasionally cross that line. He's not special in that regard.
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I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you.
If you are female, I don't get the "feel like" a female thing. If you are female, your feelings are your feelings and they are still "female". I have never been enamored with girly girl stuff at all. But, I am no less "female" if I like sports or power tools or whatever. So, I don't think you need to define yourself as not female just because you don't 'feel' the way you presume other females to feel. I really couldn't care less about buying an expensive purse. So, take my Girl Card! lol
If you are female, I don't get the "feel like" a female thing. If you are female, your feelings are your feelings and they are still "female". I have never been enamored with girly girl stuff at all. But, I am no less "female" if I like sports or power tools or whatever. So, I don't think you need to define yourself as not female just because you don't 'feel' the way you presume other females to feel. I really couldn't care less about buying an expensive purse. So, take my Girl Card! lol
People still talk about Vlad the impaler too. Doesn't mean it is a good thing.
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A flock of flirting flamingos is pure, passionate, pink pandemonium-a frenetic flamingle-mangle-a discordant discotheque of delirious dancing, flamboyant feathers, and flamingo lingo.
For the record I was definitely commenting on Huskers posting style. I think Husker often has wonderful points but when he starts with the swearing and insults it's like arguing with a child. I don't argue with children so my point was to let him know he sounds like a pouty child. He obviously doesn't see it and LL can defend it until the end of days but just once I'd like to see him argue like an adult.
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For the record I was definitely commenting on Huskers posting style. I think Husker often has wonderful points but when he starts with the swearing and insults it's like arguing with a child. I don't argue with children so my point was to let him know he sounds like a pouty child. He obviously doesn't see it and LL can defend it until the end of days but just once I'd like to see him argue like an adult.
husker is a wonderful husband & a loving father, BUT you bring up valid points. His OPINION = REALITY for the entire world...
His opinion IS his reality as is yours. I just hate to see him ruin every good argument he has by being rude and intimidating rather than giving a valid point of view in a thoughtful manner. If he can tell others their arguments are stupid then I am allowed to tell him his posts are juvenile.
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His opinion IS his reality as is yours. I just hate to see him ruin every good argument he has by being rude and intimidating rather than giving a valid point of view in a thoughtful manner. If he can tell others their arguments are stupid then I am allowed to tell him his posts are juvenile.
Yes, indeed you are.
I don't claim to know everything, and I like posters who make me think instead of beating me over the head with a 2 x 4.
For the record I was definitely commenting on Huskers posting style. I think Husker often has wonderful points but when he starts with the swearing and insults it's like arguing with a child. I don't argue with children so my point was to let him know he sounds like a pouty child. He obviously doesn't see it and LL can defend it until the end of days but just once I'd like to see him argue like an adult.
If LL were to start banning people over posting style we would lose more than just Husker.
For the record I was definitely commenting on Huskers posting style. I think Husker often has wonderful points but when he starts with the swearing and insults it's like arguing with a child. I don't argue with children so my point was to let him know he sounds like a pouty child. He obviously doesn't see it and LL can defend it until the end of days but just once I'd like to see him argue like an adult.
Or, here's a thought--you could actually contribute something to the thread rather than just attack other posters.
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I'm not arguing, I'm just explaining why I'm right.
Well, I could agree with you--but then we'd both be wrong.
His opinion IS his reality as is yours. I just hate to see him ruin every good argument he has by being rude and intimidating rather than giving a valid point of view in a thoughtful manner. If he can tell others their arguments are stupid then I am allowed to tell him his posts are juvenile.
Which is NOT what I did in the post you responded to. You can't even keep track of the nonsense you post.
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I'm not arguing, I'm just explaining why I'm right.
Well, I could agree with you--but then we'd both be wrong.