Last week, disturbing footage of a California gym teacher attempting to force one of his female students into the pool during class was shared widely online. The 14-year-old had just gotten her hair done and refused to participate in the swim session. Teacher Danny Paterson wouldn’t have it: In the video, he drags the two-piece-clad girl on the floor as she screams in protest. Paterson is now being charged with misdemeanor child abuse, and has been put on paid leave (for a second time—the incident occurred in August).
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This kind of “discipline” has no place, of course. But while I was fortunate to have kind and capable gym teachers, this video still stirred bad memories. The truth is, swimming in gym class is a fraught situation for many students, even with the nicest of teachers. It’s particularly unnerving for young girls, as I can personally attest—and it really should be banished from school curriculums.
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Let’s start with hair, which is not the most serious part of this, but was apparently an issue for the poor young woman in California. I can sympathize. I’ll spare you the think piece on the complexities of swimming with a black hairstyle, and whittle it down to this: When my hair, which was chemically straightened at the time, got wet, and especially when it came in contact with chlorine, it was not a pretty sight. I couldn’t just throw it up in a fashionably “messy” bun and wait for it to dry. My freshman year, I had gym first period, which meant going the entire day smelling like chlorine with my hair looking rather less than fabulous.
Speaking of periods: For a teenage girl who’s fairly new to the whole “becoming a woman” thing, being forced to wear a bathing suit and swim amongst your peers is terrifying. The pain and discomfort of puberty is only exacerbated by the freezing pool and the unfazed boys who can’t relate. Though it may be possible to turn male confusion to your advantage: My teacher for that first-period freshman-year gym class was an affable man who was seemingly freaked out by the whole idea of menstruation; I avoided swimming for most of the two-week unit due to my conveniently timed daily “cramps.” (This bogus excuse did not work as well the following year, when my gym teacher was a woman.)
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Every year, hundreds of people die at the beach, pool, lakes and rivers because they can't swim and you want to be excused because... expensive hair do? Give me a break. More...
Even putting aside the insecurities and difficulties of adolescence, swimming in P.E. tends not to be particularly instructional or much of a workout—supposedly the main purposes of gym class. Having one teacher stand by a pool full of 20+ kids with varying degrees of aquatic skill for roughly 20 minutes does not produce accomplished swimmers. Our gym teacher wasn’t allowed to get in the water with us save for emergencies, so he or she could keep an eye on everyone at once. (Try instructing a flailing beginner while sitting on the edge of the pool.) And all the time required to get in your swimsuit and later to dry and get out of it—scary, naked moments that are themselves potentially traumatizing—means that these pool sessions are invariably brief. Learning to swim is a good idea, but gym class is simply not the place to make it happen.
A wise gym teacher will allow a student who can’t handle all of this to sit out the swimming sessions and reduce his or her grade accordingly. But they shouldn’t have to do that: Let kids get proper swimming instruction on their own time, and give them something more productive and less anxiety-ridden to do during school hours. And I’m open to suggestions for other ways to make gym class an emotionally safer space for kids. Just don’t say “dodgeball.”
Swimming is important. I hated swim class but not because of swimming but because of having to shower and such afterwards and not having enough time to dry my hair before my next class. Having swimming in the winter was brutal. Swimming should be taught during the last block of the day.
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My school didn't have a pool so I never had to worry about this. I would have hated it lol.
My school didn't have a pool, either. I would not have wanted to take swimming lessons in high school.
(That said, I do think it's important to know how to swim. Our parents taught us. We could swim by the time we were 3 or 4. And they did send us for swimming lessons taught be the Red Cross, each summer. But, that's when we were in grade school.)
I think it's fine for schools to offer the class, for those who never learned. Or want to improve.
I wouldn't make it mandatory. But, that's just my opinion.
We didn't have a pool. I think I probably would have liked swimming better than some sports such as running track. I absolutely hated track. Worst part of gym class ever.
So because SOME (way to throw all girls into the same group of angst) girls might be "uncomfortable" doing something, then we should get rid of it? The school should forget about the hundreds of THOUSANDS of dollars they have invested in the pool? ALL kids have to forego that type of exercise because a few might not like it?
It's the dodgeball argument all over again. We don't give a crap about kids being able to do something fun for exercise--we just don't want to hurt their widdo sef esteems.
Yeah, I get that this or that isn't fun for EVERYONE--but NOTHING is. Some kids don't like soccer, some don't like field hockey, some don't like running, some don't like swimming--if we take out all activities just because a few kids don't like them, then we won't have ANY activities to do in PE.
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Well, I could agree with you--but then we'd both be wrong.
Lily played dodgeball with rocks...Those were the good ol' days!
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This is the first I have seen of this thread and I am already in it!
How lovely!
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I would have LOVED a pool in our school and would have LOVED it in gym class.
I do think it could probably do better as an option instead of a mandatory thing though.
In high school once we satisfied the basic needs of gym we no longer had to take it. We had options like shuffle board and golf, or racquet ball and ping pong. My senior year after lunch I was always in the gym or in the arts department. Had to have something to do. Swimming would have been awesome!
Dodge ball is a game. There are those who don't like it. Fine. There are those who don't like other things as well. Sometimes you have to do what you don't like.
As for the swimming thing, I can see how making it a gender specific class could help too.
I'm still wondering why a two piece bathing suit is ok in swimming class. Looks like a one piece would be more appropriate in that situation.
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I'm not aware of any school around here that has a pool, but many schools work with the local public/municipal pools to have swimming lessons once a year at minimum. They use actual swimming instructors though, not the PE teacher, and the kids are grouped by skill level. We do a similar system for skating as well.
I would have LOVED a pool in our school and would have LOVED it in gym class.
I do think it could probably do better as an option instead of a mandatory thing though.
In high school once we satisfied the basic needs of gym we no longer had to take it. We had options like shuffle board and golf, or racquet ball and ping pong. My senior year after lunch I was always in the gym or in the arts department. Had to have something to do. Swimming would have been awesome!
Dodge ball is a game. There are those who don't like it. Fine. There are those who don't like other things as well. Sometimes you have to do what you don't like.
As for the swimming thing, I can see how making it a gender specific class could help too.
I'm still wondering why a two piece bathing suit is ok in swimming class. Looks like a one piece would be more appropriate in that situation.
Absolutely--but I doubt it was mandatory equipment, she chose to wear it.
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I just don't like the writer's rationale for excluding swimming.
Ok, so six girls don't like it.
10 slow kids don't like running.
Half the class doesn't like "climbing the rope".
8 kids don't like soccer.
5 don't like football.
7 don't like dodgeball
5 don't like softball, whiffleball, kickball, or any sort of game with bases.
9 don't like volleyball.
A good half dozen don't like ANY form of physical activity.
Even considering a lot of overlap in those subsets, pretty soon, if the standard for picking activities is that everyone must "like" them--you don't have any activities you can do.
Plus, in what other classes do we base what assignments are given on whether kids "like" them or not? Do we throw out book reports because six kids don't like them? Math worksheets? Assigned reading?
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I loved swim class and hated running. I wish they would have stopped making us run!
Yeah. I liked flag football, gym hockey, and volleyball--hated anything to do with track.
We don't base school activities on what any individual kid may like or dislike for whatever reason.
This author seems to assume that the reasons these girls don't like swimming somehow "justify" skipping the swimming. They don't. They aren't any more valid than any other reason any other kid comes up with for not wanting to do this or that in school.
-- Edited by huskerbb on Saturday 29th of November 2014 02:25:00 PM
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We didn't have a pool either in any of my schools. I took swimming in preschool (late 60's). It would be cool if the students could choose which physical activity they wanted to do to fulfill the p.e. requirement. I chose body building in my h.s. I was one of two girls in the class . There were other classes like jazzercise.
We didn't have a pool either in any of my schools. I took swimming in preschool (late 60's). It would be cool if the students could choose which physical activity they wanted to do to fulfill the p.e. requirement. I chose body building in my h.s. I was one of two girls in the class . There were other classes like jazzercise.
One PE teacher can't supervise ten different, simultaneous activities, nor can they be expected to be able to teach all those activities.
I would be in favor of having sports count for PE credits, though. I don't know why states don't do that.
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I went to a bigger school so I guess I am still thinking big. I agree sports could be used as credit. Those kids probably get a lot more exercise than others get in 50 minutes in class.
You know, problem with the article is that the girl they are talking about didn't want to swim because she didn't want to mess up her hair. She wasn't uncomfortable in her suit, she wasn't scared of water, she didn't want to mess up her hair. That is unacceptable to me. I'm quite certain the swimming classes were not sprung on them, she should have planned better
Should the teacher have drug her? No. He should have sent her to the principal's office to be disciplined for insubordination.
In high school, I would not have liked a swimming class. I was one of the few girls in my class that had developed breasts and I (along with them) got teased mercilessly for it. I absolutely hated PE because of that. Having to change into a swim suit would've made a miserable class worse.
Now, when I got to college, I loved taking the aqua aerobics classes. It was fun for me. But, by then, I had gotten over being insecure about my body. Showering and changing in the locker room did not bother me one bit.
The teacher should not have dragged the student. That was unacceptable.
In high school, I would not have liked a swimming class. I was one of the few girls in my class that had developed breasts and I (along with them) got teased mercilessly for it. I absolutely hated PE because of that. Having to change into a swim suit would've made a miserable class worse.
Now, when I got to college, I loved taking the aqua aerobics classes. It was fun for me. But, by then, I had gotten over being insecure about my body. Showering and changing in the locker room did not bother me one bit.
The teacher should not have dragged the student. That was unacceptable.
I had boobs early too. But I wasn't teased. Quite the opposite. I was asked all kinds of questions and never went without an escort anywhere.
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Since parents often don't teach some things that are vital to know, schools should teach ...
basic swimming, water survival skills
balancing a checking account
creating and staying within a budget
basic, bachelor cooking skills
proper use of an alarm clock
How to get and keep a job, including interview skills
birth control (by age 10 please, and again at age 13)
staying safe using the Internet and camera phones; the dangers of sexting
The only 3 things on that list I can agree with.
The rest is up to the parents. They don't teach it? Well that's life.
Schools need to get back to education and leave the "character building" and "life skills" to the parents.
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I learned how to do a tax return in 8th grade. Just the 1040a form. I know many adults who can't even do a basic return. It isn't rocket science, just read the instructions!
We learned how to write checks, balance a check book, apply for a loan, fill out a tax form, and some other basic things like that.
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Since parents often don't teach some things that are vital to know, schools should teach ...
basic swimming, water survival skills
balancing a checking account
creating and staying within a budget
basic, bachelor cooking skills
proper use of an alarm clock
How to get and keep a job, including interview skills
birth control (by age 10 please, and again at age 13)
staying safe using the Internet and camera phones; the dangers of sexting
The only 3 things on that list I can agree with.
The rest is up to the parents. They don't teach it? Well that's life.
Schools need to get back to education and leave the "character building" and "life skills" to the parents.
Too many parents are unable or unwilling ... or just can't be bothered.
You know, that isn't my problem. Yeah I know. Not nice.
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A flock of flirting flamingos is pure, passionate, pink pandemonium-a frenetic flamingle-mangle-a discordant discotheque of delirious dancing, flamboyant feathers, and flamingo lingo.