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Tinydancer


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Divine Geek wrote:
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Noooooo! Don't wait 2 days. 5 or 10 minutes. Not every time. But try not to seem needy.

 Thats what I want to avoid. I've made my interest clear, I just don't want to come on too strong, ya know? When it takes him a few minutes to answer me, I don't want to answer right back like I'm sitting here staring at the phone waiting for it to beep.   I'm pretty out of practice at this dating thing.

texting is easier, for many reasons. At the moment, because he's at work and can't talk, but can text

 Just don't feel like you have to play a game to keep his interest. If you do is it really worth it? I think if you do what you feel is right you can't blame yourself later.



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Tinydancer wrote:
Divine Geek wrote:
Southern_Belle wrote:

Noooooo! Don't wait 2 days. 5 or 10 minutes. Not every time. But try not to seem needy.

 Thats what I want to avoid. I've made my interest clear, I just don't want to come on too strong, ya know? When it takes him a few minutes to answer me, I don't want to answer right back like I'm sitting here staring at the phone waiting for it to beep.   I'm pretty out of practice at this dating thing.

texting is easier, for many reasons. At the moment, because he's at work and can't talk, but can text

 Just don't feel like you have to play a game to keep his interest. If you do is it really worth it? I think if you do what you feel is right you can't blame yourself later.

 I really don't want to play games. I'm still relearning how normal people relate. I spent 5 years where if I took more than a minute to respond, there was hell to pay. I am conditioned to respond immediately to avoid getting in trouble. I'm trying to work thru that to be interested and engage, but not needy and weird



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Well I really don't think you're needy and weird but that might be because I'm needy and weird...lol. I am what I am but i'm pretty damn cool so that's ok!


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I'm exhausted. 4 stores later, we are done with Christmas shopping. Now to knock out the party shopping at some point this weekend.

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I've never been one for the playing hard to get game. I also never understood the reason for flirting. I was always the direct one and told the guy straight up if I liked him or not. I probably scared a few off when I was in the dating world but oh well. I'm glad things went the way they did. Couldn't have asked for a better DH and DS.

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Weird is good.

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