Just for the record, this is a trained service dog. Probably a lot different than a "normal" dog.
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“You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still, like air, I'll rise!” ― Maya Angelou
I've seen service dogs in training on the bus. They put up with a lot. With their colors on saying they are getting trained. It says don't touch me but everytime someone goes up to the dog. Those dogs are calm.
I think they say don't touch me because they're not "pets". Not for the public like my dogs or your dogs. They are supposed to only take commands from their owners. That's how they are trained. Not to be "friendly" per se, for lack of a better word, but to be almost like another person or as much of a say robot (?) as they can be. I don't really know how to describe it. With their owners they are loving and kind and very much a "pet". But when they go out they are trained to be "on the look out" for issues and problems. I think they feel like if they are trained to be petted constantly they won't be "looking out" for things. This probably makes no sense!
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“You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still, like air, I'll rise!” ― Maya Angelou
It makes perfect sense. Just like us when we are on the job. We can't be goofing around & playful. We do our job to the exclusion of outside stimulai. The same with them. They can't get pets & treats whatever like they get at home off duty.
I think they say don't touch me because they're not "pets". Not for the public like my dogs or your dogs. They are supposed to only take commands from their owners. That's how they are trained. Not to be "friendly" per se, for lack of a better word, but to be almost like another person or as much of a say robot (?) as they can be. I don't really know how to describe it. With their owners they are loving and kind and very much a "pet". But when they go out they are trained to be "on the look out" for issues and problems. I think they feel like if they are trained to be petted constantly they won't be "looking out" for things. This probably makes no sense!
I think it makes a lot of sense, NJN.
When they are at home, they are still working. But, the family still gives them plenty of love.
When they are out in public, they have a job to do. That is their job. And having a bunch of people trying to pet them, is a distraction.
I would never try to pet a service dog, out in public. They are working. I wouldn't want to distract them from their duties.
(That said, I have a little story, from a few years ago.
I was in our Super Walmart. In line to check-out.
Behind me, was a lady in a riding cart, with a little service dog on her lap.
Once I put my items up on the belt, I asked her if she would like some help putting her items on the belt.
She was so happy that I offered. And, as I was putting her stuff up, I told her what a nice dog she had.
She told me, that he could tell when her anxiety was getting bad. And he helped to keep her calm.
This was the one and only time I ever asked to pet a service dog. She said, "Go right ahead and give him a pet."
So, I did give him a quick pet. I had her permission. And I made it short and sweet.)