TOTALLY GEEKED!

ed11563 wrote:

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Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:

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just Czech wrote:

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flan327 wrote:

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just Czech wrote:

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You shouldn't get to decide for someone else, just because you think old sex is gross.

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We are all getting older. I don't think "old sex" is gross & I doubt LGS does either. 

flan

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LOL, our 13 year old DGS thinks his parents having sex is gross and they are in their 30's and early 40's!!!

So, by that rule of thinking, after the age of 30 no one should be having sex, ever. 

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I don't care who has sex.  I just don't want to watch it or hear it.  I think that is true for most people.   

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You might be aware that 3/4 of the traffic on the internet is exactly that, people watching and listening to other people having sex. 

(It's generally called "Porn". You might have heard of it? )

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 Ed, are you serious?  75% of internet traffic is porn related?

haven't you people heard of the black net? So much of the internet is stuff regular people never see nor want too.

huskerbb wrote:

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ed11563 wrote:

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huskerbb wrote:

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Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:

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huskerbb wrote:

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So then we should rely on common sense. They are married and were sexually active even AFTER she supposedly couldn't consent--and no one cared. There is no reason to assume she would not consent now. There were no signs of force or abuse.

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My issue isn't the sex.  I think that is fine.  My issue is doing it in the middle of nursing home without some real privacy. 

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 Like I said--I have no problem making him pony up for a private room.

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Said by someone with plenty of money. 

This guy might be flat broke, on a fixed income paying nursing home expenses.

None of us get to tell someone else how to spend their money.

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He's a state senator.  It's highly unlikely he's broke.   

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Maybe he is; they're not ALL corrupt. 

They don't have to be corrupt to have at least a middle class lifestyle. Poor people don't have the funds to get elected.

Lawyerlady wrote:

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I really think it's funny that grown adults who have had sex have such an issue about it happening near them.

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Yeah, but except in rare cases--sex is a private thing in practicality.  Most people aren't into porn--and even if they are, they usually view that in private, too. 

 

Sex just isn't a spectator sport when talking about MOST participants. 

 

Just look at what everyone said when the subject of "swinging" came up.  Most people thought it was gross and inappropriate.  I doubt that same room sex would have gotten a much better reception.   

huskerbb wrote:

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Lawyerlady wrote:

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I really think it's funny that grown adults who have had sex have such an issue about it happening near them.

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Yeah, but except in rare cases--sex is a private thing in practicality.  Most people aren't into porn--and even if they are, they usually view that in private, too. 

 

Sex just isn't a spectator sport when talking about MOST participants. 

 

Just look at what everyone said when the subject of "swinging" came up.  Most people thought it was gross and inappropriate.  I doubt that same room sex would have gotten a much better reception.   

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 Well, I certainly don't want to watch or have others watch me, but this wasn't a case of being on display.  It was in her room behind a curtain. 

Lawyerlady wrote:

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huskerbb wrote:

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Lawyerlady wrote:

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I really think it's funny that grown adults who have had sex have such an issue about it happening near them.

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Yeah, but except in rare cases--sex is a private thing in practicality.  Most people aren't into porn--and even if they are, they usually view that in private, too. 

 

Sex just isn't a spectator sport when talking about MOST participants. 

 

Just look at what everyone said when the subject of "swinging" came up.  Most people thought it was gross and inappropriate.  I doubt that same room sex would have gotten a much better reception.   

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 Well, I certainly don't want to watch or have others watch me, but this wasn't a case of being on display.  It was in her room behind a curtain. 

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I doubt if you would want them to hear you, either, or that you would really want to hear your parents, or a child, "going at it". 

 

If you are telling me that you would be perfectly comfortable if, when you are sitting and visiting with your elderly aunt in the nursing home, a couple comes in the room, draws the curtain, and start having sex with you still in the room--you are a liar.

huskerbb wrote:

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If you are telling me that you would be perfectly comfortable if, when you are sitting and visiting with your elderly aunt in the nursing home, a couple comes in the room, draws the curtain, and start having sex with you still in the room--you are a liar.

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 I hardly doubt he'd be doing that with visitors in the room.  It was night, and likely thought the roommate was sleeping.  Are you telling me you've never heard other people having sex?  The next hotel room?  The college dorm room?  The next tent? 

And no, it doesn't really make me uncomfortable. It just makes me either laugh or roll my eyes, depending on my mood.

huskerbb wrote:

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Lawyerlady wrote:

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huskerbb wrote:

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If you are telling me that you would be perfectly comfortable if, when you are sitting and visiting with your elderly aunt in the nursing home, a couple comes in the room, draws the curtain, and start having sex with you still in the room--you are a liar.

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 I hardly doubt he'd be doing that with visitors in the room.  It was night, and likely thought the roommate was sleeping.  Are you telling me you've never heard other people having sex?  The next hotel room?  The college dorm room?  The next tent? 

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Sure--and it's awkward.  Depending on who it is, it could also vary from amusing to gross.

 

Either way, it's not something I would go out of my way to hear--but maybe that's just me.  If you are a voyeur in that way, I guess to each their own.  

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 It's a part of life.  Big deal. 

huskerbb wrote:

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Sure. Lots of things are a "part of life". So is pooping--but that doesn't mean I want to watch someone do it.

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 But people do it in the next stall all the time.  This isn't about "watching".  It's about hearing.

huskerbb wrote:

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Lawyerlady wrote:

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huskerbb wrote:

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Sure. Lots of things are a "part of life". So is pooping--but that doesn't mean I want to watch someone do it.

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 But people do it in the next stall all the time.  This isn't about "watching".  It's about hearing.

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Splitting hairs--but your fetishes are your own.   

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 LOL.  It's not a fetish - it's just not a hang up.  Grown married people having sex is normal. 

huskerbb wrote:

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Lawyerlady wrote:

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huskerbb wrote:

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Lawyerlady wrote:

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huskerbb wrote:

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Sure. Lots of things are a "part of life". So is pooping--but that doesn't mean I want to watch someone do it.

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 But people do it in the next stall all the time.  This isn't about "watching".  It's about hearing.

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Splitting hairs--but your fetishes are your own.   

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 LOL.  It's not a fetish - it's just not a hang up.  Grown married people having sex is normal. 

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 Sure--but not in their living room with an audience.

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I'm just going to agree with husker's recent posts.

Sex is indeed normal, but for most people, it's also PRIVATE.

flan 

Lawyerlady wrote:

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Of course, most of the time its private. But hearing people having sex is really not the big deal some of you are making it out to be. It's going to happen sometimes.

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But we are entitled to our opinion on the subject.

And it depends who we're hearing...Strangers? Not as big of a deal as family.

flan 

flan327 wrote:

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Lawyerlady wrote:

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Of course, most of the time its private. But hearing people having sex is really not the big deal some of you are making it out to be. It's going to happen sometimes.

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But we are entitled to our opinion on the subject.

And it depends who we're hearing...Strangers? Not as big of a deal as family.

flan 

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 And I'm entitled to mine.

Lawyerlady wrote:

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flan327 wrote:

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Lawyerlady wrote:

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Of course, most of the time its private. But hearing people having sex is really not the big deal some of you are making it out to be. It's going to happen sometimes.

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But we are entitled to our opinion on the subject.

And it depends who we're hearing...Strangers? Not as big of a deal as family.

flan 

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 And I'm entitled to mine.

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I would MUCH rather hear strangers than family.... 

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Lawyerlady wrote:

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flan327 wrote:

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Lawyerlady wrote:

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Of course, most of the time its private. But hearing people having sex is really not the big deal some of you are making it out to be. It's going to happen sometimes.

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But we are entitled to our opinion on the subject.

And it depends who we're hearing...Strangers? Not as big of a deal as family.

flan 

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 And I'm entitled to mine.

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I would MUCH rather hear strangers than family.... 

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 I heard DS1, several years ago on vacation.

I win!

flan

flan327 wrote:

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just Czech wrote:

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Have any of you people stayed in a motel or hotel lately?

Dang, the wall banging can be really loud sometimes.

So, yeah, the sex is being heard by someone else. Get over it.

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 Nope, can't say I've ever had that happen.

flan

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What? Do you use ear plugs or something?  

flan327 wrote:

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just Czech wrote:

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flan327 wrote:

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just Czech wrote:

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Have any of you people stayed in a motel or hotel lately?

Dang, the wall banging can be really loud sometimes.

So, yeah, the sex is being heard by someone else. Get over it.

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 Nope, can't say I've ever had that happen.

flan

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What? Do you use ear plugs or something?  

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 No...

flan

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Maybe if you put a stethoscope against the wall ?

 

just Czech wrote:

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Gosh, I grew up hearing my parents bedroom noise. I survived without any mental problems.

Some of you were way to sheltered, IMHO.

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huskerbb wrote:

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just Czech wrote:

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Gosh, I grew up hearing my parents bedroom noise. I survived without any mental problems.

Some of you were way to sheltered, IMHO.

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 BAWHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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     .... oh wait.  

I see a whole new movement afoot! Sex in Public Places! Stop the hate! It's natural! lol

Maybe I already did?