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ed11563 wrote:
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  I am saying this isn't like the Love of the Ages.    And, yeah, if he isn't going to "let her go" now, then he certainly isn't going to let her go 1 day plus from now.  She needs to leave, so figure out how to leave.   

YES !!! 

And I'm saying, the way to leave a psycho is to get HIM to decide it's HIS idea.

That is the WORST advice I have ever heard.  You don't play games Ed.  You just leave ASAP.  Wow.   



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  I am saying this isn't like the Love of the Ages.    And, yeah, if he isn't going to "let her go" now, then he certainly isn't going to let her go 1 day plus from now.  She needs to leave, so figure out how to leave.   

YES !!! 

And I'm saying, the way to leave a psycho is to get HIM to decide it's HIS idea.

I'm sorry but are you serious?  

 

This gets weirder and weirder.



-- Edited by Tinydancer on Wednesday 6th of May 2015 08:22:24 PM

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Tinydancer wrote:
ed11563 wrote:
Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:

 

  I am saying this isn't like the Love of the Ages.    And, yeah, if he isn't going to "let her go" now, then he certainly isn't going to let her go 1 day plus from now.  She needs to leave, so figure out how to leave.   

YES !!! 

And I'm saying, the way to leave a psycho is to get HIM to decide it's HIS idea.

I'm sorry but are you serious?  

 

This gets weirder and weirder.



-- Edited by Tinydancer on Wednesday 6th of May 2015 08:22:24 PM

 You don't play games with crazy people.



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Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
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ed11563 wrote:
Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:

 

  I am saying this isn't like the Love of the Ages.    And, yeah, if he isn't going to "let her go" now, then he certainly isn't going to let her go 1 day plus from now.  She needs to leave, so figure out how to leave.   

YES !!! 

And I'm saying, the way to leave a psycho is to get HIM to decide it's HIS idea.

I'm sorry but are you serious?  

 

This gets weirder and weirder.



-- Edited by Tinydancer on Wednesday 6th of May 2015 08:22:24 PM

 You don't play games with crazy people.

Maybe Manslaughter? A couple of large friends with baseball bats? 

(That was in the same article.)

 



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Manslaughter is illegal. But if you feel the need to partake in it then go right ahead. Just because someone is crazy doesn't give you the right to kill them. Unless, of course, your life is in immediate danger.

I don't actually find anything funny about this at all.

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I didn't intend it to be funny. I was discussing ideas I've read, that worked for at least one woman to get her controlling suitor to leave her alone.

The "two guys with baseball bats" was about another woman in a similar situation, whose brothers decided to convince the guy to leave.

 

 



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I don't think it's a good idea to tell someone to find someone else to kill your b/f just because you're too chicken to even try breaking up with him. Maybe you should try the direct route first and see how that goes. There's no reason to jump to murder right off the bat.

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I don't think it's a good idea to tell someone to find someone else to kill your b/f just because you're too chicken to even try breaking up with him. Maybe you should try the direct route first and see how that goes. There's no reason to jump to murder right off the bat.

You seem to be fixating on something that totally misses the point. 

 



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I don't think it's a good idea to tell someone to find someone else to kill your b/f just because you're too chicken to even try breaking up with him. Maybe you should try the direct route first and see how that goes. There's no reason to jump to murder right off the bat.

You seem to be fixating on something that totally misses the point. 

 

 No, I just don't find head games and humor in controlling and abusive relationships.  YOU may think it's funny but I don't.  And if that means I'm "fixating" then so be it.



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I don't think it's a good idea to tell someone to find someone else to kill your b/f just because you're too chicken to even try breaking up with him. Maybe you should try the direct route first and see how that goes. There's no reason to jump to murder right off the bat.

You seem to be fixating on something that totally misses the point. 

 

 No, I just don't find head games and humor in controlling and abusive relationships.  YOU may think it's funny but I don't.  And if that means I'm "fixating" then so be it.

Last time: It's Not Funny. It's DANGEROUS. 



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I have to say that I am really surprised by your thoughts on this Ed.

You have to see that playing games is not a smart thing to do at all.

I have no idea why you or anyone would think that was a good idea.

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ed is not joking. Either you murder someone or try to make them leave you by doing things that would cause your abuser to escalate the abuse are his advice. Thinking these are real life options is what's scary.

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I have to say that I am really surprised by your thoughts on this Ed.

You have to see that playing games is not a smart thing to do at all.

I have no idea why you or anyone would think that was a good idea.

Me neither.  And even if she did, she might get the Hell beat out of her while playing these games.  You dont' play games with people.  And, you don't think "Oh I will make him WANT to break up with me".  Um, that rarely happens.   If he is an abuser, he will simply ramp up the aggression.  



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Yeah. The things Ed suggested sound more like a bad movie script or something a teenager would do. Not an adult.

You just don't play games. Cause, really, it makes you no better than them.

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I think it's awful advise and would only cause more heartache and pain. The psychology of abuse is that even doing everything the abuser wants won't stop the abuse so doing everything the abuser doesn't want will lead to an increase in the abuse.

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Yeah. The things Ed suggested sound more like a bad movie script or something a teenager would do. Not an adult.

You just don't play games. Cause, really, it makes you no better than them.

Well, there  is no guarantee that he is going to dump her.  He might intensify and become more aggressive.  That is bad, bad, advice.  Sorry.   



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