I can sympathize with his hopelesness, but not his actions. He messed up, big time. I can only hope I am never in the situation where I believe death is the only way out. It must be dark and lonely place to be indeed.
Oh please. You sympathize with his hopelessness even though he killed his whole family, not just the daughter he loved sooooo much. No wonder criminals think they can get away with crap.
It can be seen in the same light as love the sinner but not the sin. Perhaps you've heard of it?
I can sympathize with his hopelesness, but not his actions. He messed up, big time. I can only hope I am never in the situation where I believe death is the only way out. It must be dark and lonely place to be indeed.
Oh please. You sympathize with his hopelessness even though he killed his whole family, not just the daughter he loved sooooo much. No wonder criminals think they can get away with crap.
It can be seen in the same light as love the sinner but not the sin. Perhaps you've heard of it?
Yes I've heard of it but you using it to excuse this guys actions is insulting.
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I can sympathize with his hopelesness, but not his actions. He messed up, big time. I can only hope I am never in the situation where I believe death is the only way out. It must be dark and lonely place to be indeed.
Oh please. You sympathize with his hopelessness even though he killed his whole family, not just the daughter he loved sooooo much. No wonder criminals think they can get away with crap.
It can be seen in the same light as love the sinner but not the sin. Perhaps you've heard of it?
Yes I've heard of it but you using it to excuse this guys actions is insulting.
How did I excuse his actions when I state categorically that his actions are messed up?
I can sympathize with his hopelesness, but not his actions. He messed up, big time. I can only hope I am never in the situation where I believe death is the only way out. It must be dark and lonely place to be indeed.
Oh please. You sympathize with his hopelessness even though he killed his whole family, not just the daughter he loved sooooo much. No wonder criminals think they can get away with crap.
It can be seen in the same light as love the sinner but not the sin. Perhaps you've heard of it?
Yes I've heard of it but you using it to excuse this guys actions is insulting.
How did I excuse his actions when I state categorically that his actions are messed up?
Because he wasn't hopeless he was evil. How did killing his sister help anyone or anything? You and flan can continue to excuse evil but I'm done with this as I find it sick and insulting to listen to anymore.
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“Until I discovered cooking, I was never really interested in anything.” ― Julia Child ―
I can sympathize with his hopelesness, but not his actions. He messed up, big time. I can only hope I am never in the situation where I believe death is the only way out. It must be dark and lonely place to be indeed.
Oh please. You sympathize with his hopelessness even though he killed his whole family, not just the daughter he loved sooooo much. No wonder criminals think they can get away with crap.
It can be seen in the same light as love the sinner but not the sin. Perhaps you've heard of it?
Yes I've heard of it but you using it to excuse this guys actions is insulting.
How did I excuse his actions when I state categorically that his actions are messed up?
Because he wasn't hopeless he was evil. How did killing his sister help anyone or anything? You and flan can continue to excuse evil but I'm done with this as I find it sick and insulting to listen to anymore.
Can you please be sure to point out where I excuse evil in any of my posts?
I'm sure the father felt hopeless but he had no right to take his families life. Who was he to say she didn't want to live anymore? What about his families feelings and desires. They had a right to their life!!! his daughter had a right to her life. She was young and still had time for her hormones to settle down/and to have hope the dr.'s will find something to relieve her pain. He was all about him and his feelings. He did kill himself but not till the police surrounded his home.
My sympathy is for his family whose lives were taken away from them.
I'm sure the father felt hopeless but he had no right to take his families life. Who was he to say she didn't want to live anymore? What about his families feelings and desires. They had a right to their life!!! his daughter had a right to her life. She was young and still had time for her hormones to settle down/and to have hope the dr.'s will find something to relieve her pain. He was all about him and his feelings. He did kill himself but not till the police surrounded his home.
My sympathy is for his family whose lives were taken away from them.
I agree... And then he posts it on Facebook. That says a lot. Ugh.
I'm sure the father felt hopeless but he had no right to take his families life. Who was he to say she didn't want to live anymore? What about his families feelings and desires. They had a right to their life!!! his daughter had a right to her life. She was young and still had time for her hormones to settle down/and to have hope the dr.'s will find something to relieve her pain. He was all about him and his feelings. He did kill himself but not till the police surrounded his home.
My sympathy is for his family whose lives were taken away from them.
I agree... And then he posts it on Facebook. That says a lot. Ugh.
He obviously was not in his right mind, but that doesn't mean he didn't love his wife & daughter.
I'm sure the father felt hopeless but he had no right to take his families life. Who was he to say she didn't want to live anymore? What about his families feelings and desires. They had a right to their life!!! his daughter had a right to her life. She was young and still had time for her hormones to settle down/and to have hope the dr.'s will find something to relieve her pain. He was all about him and his feelings. He did kill himself but not till the police surrounded his home.
My sympathy is for his family whose lives were taken away from them.
I agree... And then he posts it on Facebook. That says a lot. Ugh.
He obviously was not in his right mind, but that doesn't mean he didn't love his wife & daughter.
flan
He sure showed just how much he loved his family. How can you pity someone that evil and still pretend that he LOVED them. I hope no one ever loves me that way.
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“Until I discovered cooking, I was never really interested in anything.” ― Julia Child ―
I'm sure the father felt hopeless but he had no right to take his families life. Who was he to say she didn't want to live anymore? What about his families feelings and desires. They had a right to their life!!! his daughter had a right to her life. She was young and still had time for her hormones to settle down/and to have hope the dr.'s will find something to relieve her pain. He was all about him and his feelings. He did kill himself but not till the police surrounded his home.
My sympathy is for his family whose lives were taken away from them.
I agree... And then he posts it on Facebook. That says a lot. Ugh.
He obviously was not in his right mind, but that doesn't mean he didn't love his wife & daughter.
I can sympathize with his hopelesness, but not his actions. He messed up, big time. I can only hope I am never in the situation where I believe death is the only way out. It must be dark and lonely place to be indeed.
And I'm going to agree with your statement too.
I am capable of feeling compassion for someone in his position. If that makes me "deviant," so be it.
flan
You said it.
Agreed. What is sad is that with all the advances we've supposedly made in the medical arts, that this poor girl had to suffer so.
My worst fear isn't death, it's unrelenting suffering without hope of relief.
I can sympathize with his hopelesness, but not his actions. He messed up, big time. I can only hope I am never in the situation where I believe death is the only way out. It must be dark and lonely place to be indeed.
And I'm going to agree with your statement too.
I am capable of feeling compassion for someone in his position. If that makes me "deviant," so be it.
flan
You said it.
Agreed. What is sad is that with all the advances we've supposedly made in the medical arts, that this poor girl had to suffer so.
My worst fear isn't death, it's unrelenting suffering without hope of relief.
And I immediately thought of FWM's niece & what she has to endure.
I can sympathize with his hopelesness, but not his actions. He messed up, big time. I can only hope I am never in the situation where I believe death is the only way out. It must be dark and lonely place to be indeed.
Oh please. You sympathize with his hopelessness even though he killed his whole family, not just the daughter he loved sooooo much. No wonder criminals think they can get away with crap.
Because he wasn't hopeless he was evil. How did killing his sister help anyone or anything? You and flan can continue to excuse evil but I'm done with this as I find it sick and insulting to listen to anymore.
Read up thread for your quotes on pitying abusers and as far as pedophiles you know exactly what you have said and I answered chillepeppas question before she asked. See the bolded.
Go ahead back to your pity and sympathy for a murderer...lol
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“Until I discovered cooking, I was never really interested in anything.” ― Julia Child ―
Go back to your pity and sympathy for a murderer...and I am actually supposed to LAUGH OUT LOUD?!!!
flan
Kind of like you use the stupid shaking head all the time and sign your name like you're Madonna or Cher or something...lol and it's me laughing out loud at you (there it is again)
-- Edited by Tinydancer on Monday 11th of May 2015 10:47:58 AM
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“Until I discovered cooking, I was never really interested in anything.” ― Julia Child ―
Go back to your pity and sympathy for a murderer...and I am actually supposed to LAUGH OUT LOUD?!!!
flan
Kind of like you use the stupid shaking head all the time and sign your name like you're Madonna or Cher or something...lol and it's me laughing out loud at you (there it is again)
-- Edited by Tinydancer on Monday 11th of May 2015 10:47:58 AM
I have explained countless times WHY I sign my name.
I can sympathize with his hopelesness, but not his actions. He messed up, big time. I can only hope I am never in the situation where I believe death is the only way out. It must be dark and lonely place to be indeed.
And I'm going to agree with your statement too.
I am capable of feeling compassion for someone in his position. If that makes me "deviant," so be it.
flan
You said it.
Agreed. What is sad is that with all the advances we've supposedly made in the medical arts, that this poor girl had to suffer so.
My worst fear isn't death, it's unrelenting suffering without hope of relief.
It was not his suffering, and you have no idea if she had hope or not.
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LawyerLady
I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you.
Go back to your pity and sympathy for a murderer...and I am actually supposed to LAUGH OUT LOUD?!!!
flan
Kind of like you use the stupid shaking head all the time and sign your name like you're Madonna or Cher or something...lol and it's me laughing out loud at you (there it is again)
-- Edited by Tinydancer on Monday 11th of May 2015 10:47:58 AM
I have explained countless times WHY I sign my name.
If you're so jealous, sign your posts.
flan
I'm not jealous. I just find it amusing that you don't like my LOL but your shaking head and signing your name every time is ok. It doesn't matter what I write or how I end a post you won't like it anyway and I really don't give a flying flip...lol (there it is again mostly because now I know it bothers you)
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“Until I discovered cooking, I was never really interested in anything.” ― Julia Child ―
I can sympathize with his hopelesness, but not his actions. He messed up, big time. I can only hope I am never in the situation where I believe death is the only way out. It must be dark and lonely place to be indeed.
Oh please. You sympathize with his hopelessness even though he killed his whole family, not just the daughter he loved sooooo much. No wonder criminals think they can get away with crap.
Because he wasn't hopeless he was evil. How did killing his sister help anyone or anything? You and flan can continue to excuse evil but I'm done with this as I find it sick and insulting to listen to anymore.
Read up thread for your quotes on pitying abusers and as far as pedophiles you know exactly what you have said and I answered chillepeppas question before she asked. See the bolded.
Go ahead back to your pity and sympathy for a murderer...lol
My first comment in this quote mine states that I thought his actions were wrong.
I can sympathize with his hopelesness, but not his actions. He messed up, big time. I can only hope I am never in the situation where I believe death is the only way out. It must be dark and lonely place to be indeed.
And I'm going to agree with your statement too.
I am capable of feeling compassion for someone in his position. If that makes me "deviant," so be it.
flan
You said it.
Agreed. What is sad is that with all the advances we've supposedly made in the medical arts, that this poor girl had to suffer so.
My worst fear isn't death, it's unrelenting suffering without hope of relief.
It was not his suffering, and you have no idea if she had hope or not.
That's a good point, LL, but I think many men are prone to fixing things. He did not want his daughter to suffer.
I can sympathize with his hopelesness, but not his actions. He messed up, big time. I can only hope I am never in the situation where I believe death is the only way out. It must be dark and lonely place to be indeed.
Oh please. You sympathize with his hopelessness even though he killed his whole family, not just the daughter he loved sooooo much. No wonder criminals think they can get away with crap.
Because he wasn't hopeless he was evil. How did killing his sister help anyone or anything? You and flan can continue to excuse evil but I'm done with this as I find it sick and insulting to listen to anymore.
Read up thread for your quotes on pitying abusers and as far as pedophiles you know exactly what you have said and I answered chillepeppas question before she asked. See the bolded.
Go ahead back to your pity and sympathy for a murderer...lol
My first comment in this quote mine states that I thought his actions were wrong.
Yes but you can sympathize with his hopelessness. It wasn't his hopelessness that caused him to kill his wife and sister. Not sure why that's considered part of his "hopelessness.
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“Until I discovered cooking, I was never really interested in anything.” ― Julia Child ―
I can sympathize with his hopelesness, but not his actions. He messed up, big time. I can only hope I am never in the situation where I believe death is the only way out. It must be dark and lonely place to be indeed.
And I'm going to agree with your statement too.
I am capable of feeling compassion for someone in his position. If that makes me "deviant," so be it.
flan
You said it.
Agreed. What is sad is that with all the advances we've supposedly made in the medical arts, that this poor girl had to suffer so.
My worst fear isn't death, it's unrelenting suffering without hope of relief.
It was not his suffering, and you have no idea if she had hope or not.
That's a good point, LL, but I think many men are prone to fixing things. He did not want his daughter to suffer.
flan
Again so why did he kill his wife and sister. That's just ridiculous.
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“Until I discovered cooking, I was never really interested in anything.” ― Julia Child ―
I can sympathize with his hopelesness, but not his actions. He messed up, big time. I can only hope I am never in the situation where I believe death is the only way out. It must be dark and lonely place to be indeed.
And I'm going to agree with your statement too.
I am capable of feeling compassion for someone in his position. If that makes me "deviant," so be it.
flan
You said it.
Agreed. What is sad is that with all the advances we've supposedly made in the medical arts, that this poor girl had to suffer so.
My worst fear isn't death, it's unrelenting suffering without hope of relief.
It was not his suffering, and you have no idea if she had hope or not.
That's a good point, LL, but I think many men are prone to fixing things. He did not want his daughter to suffer.
flan
She was not a dog to be put out of her misery. There is no excuse for this.
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LawyerLady
I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you.
I can sympathize with his hopelesness, but not his actions. He messed up, big time. I can only hope I am never in the situation where I believe death is the only way out. It must be dark and lonely place to be indeed.
And I'm going to agree with your statement too.
I am capable of feeling compassion for someone in his position. If that makes me "deviant," so be it.
flan
You said it.
Agreed. What is sad is that with all the advances we've supposedly made in the medical arts, that this poor girl had to suffer so.
My worst fear isn't death, it's unrelenting suffering without hope of relief.
It was not his suffering, and you have no idea if she had hope or not.
That's a good point, LL, but I think many men are prone to fixing things. He did not want his daughter to suffer.
flan
She was not a dog to be put out of her misery. There is no excuse for this.
I agree, but I still maintain that he loved his daughter.
I can sympathize with his hopelesness, but not his actions. He messed up, big time. I can only hope I am never in the situation where I believe death is the only way out. It must be dark and lonely place to be indeed.
And I'm going to agree with your statement too.
I am capable of feeling compassion for someone in his position. If that makes me "deviant," so be it.
flan
You said it.
Agreed. What is sad is that with all the advances we've supposedly made in the medical arts, that this poor girl had to suffer so.
My worst fear isn't death, it's unrelenting suffering without hope of relief.
It was not his suffering, and you have no idea if she had hope or not.
That's a good point, LL, but I think many men are prone to fixing things. He did not want his daughter to suffer.
flan
She was not a dog to be put out of her misery. There is no excuse for this.
I agree, but I still maintain that he loved his daughter.
flan
And his wife and sister? This guy was pure evil that he could even do that to his family. You don't shoot the people you love in the head but I guess you just can't see that...sheesh
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"Last month, Emily, a talented singer, tweeted in apparent reference to her migraines: 'Whenever I start to feel sorry for myself, I just thank God I’m still alive."
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LawyerLady
I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you.