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lilyofcourse wrote:

Because Flan is attempting to defend this monstor.

IKWTDS, is not.


I see no difference between fran and ikwtds stance on the matter. 



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Why not jump on IKWTDS as well, TD?

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 I did. Go read it. Remember "Wow, just wow". I said it to her first and then you topped her with your outrageous statement.


 

Thanks, I needed a good laugh this morning.

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 You can understand why he did this yet I gave you a good laugh. Well you gave me the shivers because there is nothing deviant you won't defend.



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Have you ever seen me defend pedophiles? Abusers?

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flan327 wrote:
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Why not jump on IKWTDS as well, TD?

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 I did. Go read it. Remember "Wow, just wow". I said it to her first and then you topped her with your outrageous statement.


 

Thanks, I needed a good laugh this morning.

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 You can understand why he did this yet I gave you a good laugh. Well you gave me the shivers because there is nothing deviant you won't defend.



-- Edited by Tinydancer on Monday 11th of May 2015 07:46:24 AM


Have you ever seen me defend pedophiles? Abusers?

No, you haven't.

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I can sympathize with his hopelesness, but not his actions. He messed up, big time. I can only hope I am never in the situation where I believe death is the only way out. It must be dark and lonely place to be indeed.


 Oh please. You sympathize with his hopelessness even though he killed his whole family, not just the daughter he loved sooooo much. No wonder criminals think they can get away with crap.


It can be seen in the same light as love the sinner but not the sin. Perhaps you've heard of it?



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Prove it.

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Prove what? You defend a pedophile all the time and this guy abused his family by killing them all. What more proof is needed?

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chillepeppa wrote:
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I can sympathize with his hopelesness, but not his actions. He messed up, big time. I can only hope I am never in the situation where I believe death is the only way out. It must be dark and lonely place to be indeed.


 Oh please. You sympathize with his hopelessness even though he killed his whole family, not just the daughter he loved sooooo much. No wonder criminals think they can get away with crap.


It can be seen in the same light as love the sinner but not the sin. Perhaps you've heard of it?


 Yes I've heard of it but you using it to excuse this guys actions is insulting.



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Tinydancer wrote:
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I can sympathize with his hopelesness, but not his actions. He messed up, big time. I can only hope I am never in the situation where I believe death is the only way out. It must be dark and lonely place to be indeed.


 Oh please. You sympathize with his hopelessness even though he killed his whole family, not just the daughter he loved sooooo much. No wonder criminals think they can get away with crap.


It can be seen in the same light as love the sinner but not the sin. Perhaps you've heard of it?


 Yes I've heard of it but you using it to excuse this guys actions is insulting.


How did I excuse his actions when I state categorically that his actions are messed up? 



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Prove what? You defend a pedophile all the time and this guy abused his family by killing them all. What more proof is needed?


Are you insinuating that ed is a pedophile?  Because that's a new low, even for you.

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Prove what? You defend a pedophile all the time and this guy abused his family by killing them all. What more proof is needed?


Are you insinuating that ed is a pedophile?  Because that's a new low, even for you.

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 Why would you think I was talking about ed? Do you know something I don't?



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chillepeppa wrote:
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I can sympathize with his hopelesness, but not his actions. He messed up, big time. I can only hope I am never in the situation where I believe death is the only way out. It must be dark and lonely place to be indeed.


 Oh please. You sympathize with his hopelessness even though he killed his whole family, not just the daughter he loved sooooo much. No wonder criminals think they can get away with crap.


It can be seen in the same light as love the sinner but not the sin. Perhaps you've heard of it?


 Yes I've heard of it but you using it to excuse this guys actions is insulting.


How did I excuse his actions when I state categorically that his actions are messed up? 


 Because he wasn't hopeless he was evil. How did killing his sister help anyone or anything? You and flan can continue to excuse evil but I'm done with this as I find it sick and insulting to listen to anymore.



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Tinydancer wrote:
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chillepeppa wrote:

I can sympathize with his hopelesness, but not his actions. He messed up, big time. I can only hope I am never in the situation where I believe death is the only way out. It must be dark and lonely place to be indeed.


 Oh please. You sympathize with his hopelessness even though he killed his whole family, not just the daughter he loved sooooo much. No wonder criminals think they can get away with crap.


It can be seen in the same light as love the sinner but not the sin. Perhaps you've heard of it?


 Yes I've heard of it but you using it to excuse this guys actions is insulting.


How did I excuse his actions when I state categorically that his actions are messed up? 


 Because he wasn't hopeless he was evil. How did killing his sister help anyone or anything? You and flan can continue to excuse evil but I'm done with this as I find it sick and insulting to listen to anymore.


Can you please be sure to point out where I excuse evil in any of my posts?



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Can ANYONE point out to me where I excused evil in any of my posts?

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Prove what? You defend a pedophile all the time and this guy abused his family by killing them all. What more proof is needed?


Are you insinuating that ed is a pedophile?  Because that's a new low, even for you.

flan


 Why would you think I was talking about ed? Do you know something I don't?


You have called him that yourself.

And I'll need quotes to "prove" I defend ALL deviants.

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Can ANYONE point out to me where I excused evil in any of my posts?


Yeah...don't hold your breath! LOL

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I'm sure the father felt hopeless but he had no right to take his families life. Who was he to say she didn't want to live anymore? What about his families feelings and desires. They had a right to their life!!! his daughter had a right to her life. She was young and still had time for her hormones to settle down/and to have hope the dr.'s will find something to relieve her pain. He was all about him and his feelings. He did kill himself but not till the police surrounded his home.

My sympathy is for his family whose lives were taken away from them.

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I'm sure the father felt hopeless but he had no right to take his families life. Who was he to say she didn't want to live anymore? What about his families feelings and desires. They had a right to their life!!! his daughter had a right to her life. She was young and still had time for her hormones to settle down/and to have hope the dr.'s will find something to relieve her pain. He was all about him and his feelings. He did kill himself but not till the police surrounded his home.

My sympathy is for his family whose lives were taken away from them.


 I agree...  And then he posts it on Facebook.  That says a lot.  Ugh. cry



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I'm sure the father felt hopeless but he had no right to take his families life. Who was he to say she didn't want to live anymore? What about his families feelings and desires. They had a right to their life!!! his daughter had a right to her life. She was young and still had time for her hormones to settle down/and to have hope the dr.'s will find something to relieve her pain. He was all about him and his feelings. He did kill himself but not till the police surrounded his home.

My sympathy is for his family whose lives were taken away from them.


 I agree...  And then he posts it on Facebook.  That says a lot.  Ugh. cry


He obviously was not in his right mind, but that doesn't mean he didn't love his wife & daughter.

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I'm sure the father felt hopeless but he had no right to take his families life. Who was he to say she didn't want to live anymore? What about his families feelings and desires. They had a right to their life!!! his daughter had a right to her life. She was young and still had time for her hormones to settle down/and to have hope the dr.'s will find something to relieve her pain. He was all about him and his feelings. He did kill himself but not till the police surrounded his home.

My sympathy is for his family whose lives were taken away from them.


 I agree...  And then he posts it on Facebook.  That says a lot.  Ugh. cry


He obviously was not in his right mind, but that doesn't mean he didn't love his wife & daughter.

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 He sure showed just how much he loved his family. How can you pity someone that evil and still pretend that he LOVED them. I hope no one ever loves me that way.



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I'm sure the father felt hopeless but he had no right to take his families life. Who was he to say she didn't want to live anymore? What about his families feelings and desires. They had a right to their life!!! his daughter had a right to her life. She was young and still had time for her hormones to settle down/and to have hope the dr.'s will find something to relieve her pain. He was all about him and his feelings. He did kill himself but not till the police surrounded his home.

My sympathy is for his family whose lives were taken away from them.


 I agree...  And then he posts it on Facebook.  That says a lot.  Ugh. cry


He obviously was not in his right mind, but that doesn't mean he didn't love his wife & daughter.

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I can sympathize with his hopelesness, but not his actions. He messed up, big time. I can only hope I am never in the situation where I believe death is the only way out. It must be dark and lonely place to be indeed.


And I'm going to agree with your statement too.

I am capable of feeling compassion for someone in his position. If that makes me "deviant," so be it.

flan 


 You said it.


 Agreed.  What is sad is that with all the advances we've supposedly made in the medical arts, that this poor girl had to suffer so.

My worst fear isn't death, it's unrelenting suffering without hope of relief.



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Still waiting for those quotes...and chille's question has not been answered.

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JPT wrote:
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I can sympathize with his hopelesness, but not his actions. He messed up, big time. I can only hope I am never in the situation where I believe death is the only way out. It must be dark and lonely place to be indeed.


And I'm going to agree with your statement too.

I am capable of feeling compassion for someone in his position. If that makes me "deviant," so be it.

flan 


 You said it.


 Agreed.  What is sad is that with all the advances we've supposedly made in the medical arts, that this poor girl had to suffer so.

My worst fear isn't death, it's unrelenting suffering without hope of relief.


And I immediately thought of FWM's niece & what she has to endure.

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chillepeppa wrote:
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I can sympathize with his hopelesness, but not his actions. He messed up, big time. I can only hope I am never in the situation where I believe death is the only way out. It must be dark and lonely place to be indeed.


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 Oh please. You sympathize with his hopelessness even though he killed his whole family, not just the daughter he loved sooooo much. No wonder criminals think they can get away with crap.


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It can be seen in the same light as love the sinner but not the sin. Perhaps you've heard of it?


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 Yes I've heard of it but you using it to excuse this guys actions is insulting.


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How did I excuse his actions when I state categorically that his actions are messed up?


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 Because he wasn't hopeless he was evil. How did killing his sister help anyone or anything? You and flan can continue to excuse evil but I'm done with this as I find it sick and insulting to listen to anymore.

 

 

 

 


Read up thread for your quotes on pitying abusers and as far as pedophiles you know exactly what you have said and I answered chillepeppas question before she asked. See the bolded.

 

Go ahead back to your pity and sympathy for a murderer...lol



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Why the eff do you end every post with LOL...

Go back to your pity and sympathy for a murderer...and I am actually supposed to LAUGH OUT LOUD?!!!



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Why the eff do you end every post with LOL...

Go back to your pity and sympathy for a murderer...and I am actually supposed to LAUGH OUT LOUD?!!!



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Kind of like you use the stupid shaking head all the time and sign your name like you're Madonna or Cher or something...lol and it's me laughing out loud at you  (there it is again) no

 



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Why the eff do you end every post with LOL...

Go back to your pity and sympathy for a murderer...and I am actually supposed to LAUGH OUT LOUD?!!!



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Kind of like you use the stupid shaking head all the time and sign your name like you're Madonna or Cher or something...lol and it's me laughing out loud at you  (there it is again) no

 



-- Edited by Tinydancer on Monday 11th of May 2015 10:47:58 AM


I have explained countless times WHY I sign my name.

If you're so jealous, sign your posts.

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JPT wrote:
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I can sympathize with his hopelesness, but not his actions. He messed up, big time. I can only hope I am never in the situation where I believe death is the only way out. It must be dark and lonely place to be indeed.


And I'm going to agree with your statement too.

I am capable of feeling compassion for someone in his position. If that makes me "deviant," so be it.

flan 


 You said it.


 Agreed.  What is sad is that with all the advances we've supposedly made in the medical arts, that this poor girl had to suffer so.

My worst fear isn't death, it's unrelenting suffering without hope of relief.


 It was not his suffering, and you have no idea if she had hope or not. 



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flan327 wrote:
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Why the eff do you end every post with LOL...

Go back to your pity and sympathy for a murderer...and I am actually supposed to LAUGH OUT LOUD?!!!



flan


 

Kind of like you use the stupid shaking head all the time and sign your name like you're Madonna or Cher or something...lol and it's me laughing out loud at you  (there it is again) no

 



-- Edited by Tinydancer on Monday 11th of May 2015 10:47:58 AM


I have explained countless times WHY I sign my name.

If you're so jealous, sign your posts.

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 I'm not jealous. I just find it amusing that you don't like my LOL but your shaking head and signing your name every time is ok. It doesn't matter what I write or how I end a post you won't like it anyway and I really don't give a flying flip...lol (there it is again mostly because now I know it bothers you)



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Frankly, I find it pathetic.

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I can sympathize with his hopelesness, but not his actions. He messed up, big time. I can only hope I am never in the situation where I believe death is the only way out. It must be dark and lonely place to be indeed.


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 Oh please. You sympathize with his hopelessness even though he killed his whole family, not just the daughter he loved sooooo much. No wonder criminals think they can get away with crap.


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It can be seen in the same light as love the sinner but not the sin. Perhaps you've heard of it?


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 Yes I've heard of it but you using it to excuse this guys actions is insulting.


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How did I excuse his actions when I state categorically that his actions are messed up?


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 Because he wasn't hopeless he was evil. How did killing his sister help anyone or anything? You and flan can continue to excuse evil but I'm done with this as I find it sick and insulting to listen to anymore.

 

 

 

 


Read up thread for your quotes on pitying abusers and as far as pedophiles you know exactly what you have said and I answered chillepeppas question before she asked. See the bolded.

 

Go ahead back to your pity and sympathy for a murderer...lol


My first comment in this quote mine states that I thought his actions were wrong. 



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I can sympathize with his hopelesness, but not his actions. He messed up, big time. I can only hope I am never in the situation where I believe death is the only way out. It must be dark and lonely place to be indeed.


And I'm going to agree with your statement too.

I am capable of feeling compassion for someone in his position. If that makes me "deviant," so be it.

flan 


 You said it.


 Agreed.  What is sad is that with all the advances we've supposedly made in the medical arts, that this poor girl had to suffer so.

My worst fear isn't death, it's unrelenting suffering without hope of relief.


 It was not his suffering, and you have no idea if she had hope or not. 


That's a good point, LL, but I think many men are prone to fixing things. He did not want his daughter to suffer.

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chillepeppa wrote:
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I can sympathize with his hopelesness, but not his actions. He messed up, big time. I can only hope I am never in the situation where I believe death is the only way out. It must be dark and lonely place to be indeed.


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 Oh please. You sympathize with his hopelessness even though he killed his whole family, not just the daughter he loved sooooo much. No wonder criminals think they can get away with crap.


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It can be seen in the same light as love the sinner but not the sin. Perhaps you've heard of it?


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 Yes I've heard of it but you using it to excuse this guys actions is insulting.


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How did I excuse his actions when I state categorically that his actions are messed up?


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 Because he wasn't hopeless he was evil. How did killing his sister help anyone or anything? You and flan can continue to excuse evil but I'm done with this as I find it sick and insulting to listen to anymore.

 

 

 

 


Read up thread for your quotes on pitying abusers and as far as pedophiles you know exactly what you have said and I answered chillepeppas question before she asked. See the bolded.

 

Go ahead back to your pity and sympathy for a murderer...lol


My first comment in this quote mine states that I thought his actions were wrong. 


 Yes but you can sympathize with his hopelessness. It wasn't his hopelessness that caused him to kill his wife and sister. Not sure why that's considered part of his "hopelessness.



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I wonder what went through her mind when her dad shot her in the head. I hope she didn't know.

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I can sympathize with his hopelesness, but not his actions. He messed up, big time. I can only hope I am never in the situation where I believe death is the only way out. It must be dark and lonely place to be indeed.


And I'm going to agree with your statement too.

I am capable of feeling compassion for someone in his position. If that makes me "deviant," so be it.

flan 


 You said it.


 Agreed.  What is sad is that with all the advances we've supposedly made in the medical arts, that this poor girl had to suffer so.

My worst fear isn't death, it's unrelenting suffering without hope of relief.


 It was not his suffering, and you have no idea if she had hope or not. 


That's a good point, LL, but I think many men are prone to fixing things. He did not want his daughter to suffer.

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 Again so why did he kill his wife and sister. That's just ridiculous.



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I wonder what went through her mind when her dad shot her in the head. I hope she didn't know.


 I hope she didn't see it coming either. Imagine knowing your dad's going to kill you. She probably didn't know about her mom and her aunt.



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flan327 wrote:
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chillepeppa wrote:

I can sympathize with his hopelesness, but not his actions. He messed up, big time. I can only hope I am never in the situation where I believe death is the only way out. It must be dark and lonely place to be indeed.


And I'm going to agree with your statement too.

I am capable of feeling compassion for someone in his position. If that makes me "deviant," so be it.

flan 


 You said it.


 Agreed.  What is sad is that with all the advances we've supposedly made in the medical arts, that this poor girl had to suffer so.

My worst fear isn't death, it's unrelenting suffering without hope of relief.


 It was not his suffering, and you have no idea if she had hope or not. 


That's a good point, LL, but I think many men are prone to fixing things. He did not want his daughter to suffer.

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 She was not a dog to be put out of her misery.  There is no excuse for this.



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I wonder what went through her mind when her dad shot her in the head. I hope she didn't know.


Yes, I hope she was sleeping.

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I can sympathize with his hopelesness, but not his actions. He messed up, big time. I can only hope I am never in the situation where I believe death is the only way out. It must be dark and lonely place to be indeed.


And I'm going to agree with your statement too.

I am capable of feeling compassion for someone in his position. If that makes me "deviant," so be it.

flan 


 You said it.


 Agreed.  What is sad is that with all the advances we've supposedly made in the medical arts, that this poor girl had to suffer so.

My worst fear isn't death, it's unrelenting suffering without hope of relief.


 It was not his suffering, and you have no idea if she had hope or not. 


That's a good point, LL, but I think many men are prone to fixing things. He did not want his daughter to suffer.

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 She was not a dog to be put out of her misery.  There is no excuse for this.


I agree, but I still maintain that he loved his daughter.

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With that kind of love, who needs hate?

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flan327 wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
flan327 wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
JPT wrote:
Tinydancer wrote:
flan327 wrote:
chillepeppa wrote:

I can sympathize with his hopelesness, but not his actions. He messed up, big time. I can only hope I am never in the situation where I believe death is the only way out. It must be dark and lonely place to be indeed.


And I'm going to agree with your statement too.

I am capable of feeling compassion for someone in his position. If that makes me "deviant," so be it.

flan 


 You said it.


 Agreed.  What is sad is that with all the advances we've supposedly made in the medical arts, that this poor girl had to suffer so.

My worst fear isn't death, it's unrelenting suffering without hope of relief.


 It was not his suffering, and you have no idea if she had hope or not. 


That's a good point, LL, but I think many men are prone to fixing things. He did not want his daughter to suffer.

flan 


 She was not a dog to be put out of her misery.  There is no excuse for this.


I agree, but I still maintain that he loved his daughter.

flan 


 And his wife and sister? This guy was pure evil that he could even do that to his family. You don't shoot the people you love in the head but I guess you just can't see that...sheesh



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With that kind of love, who needs hate?


What he did was wrong, but I don't think it can be compared to a drug deal gone bad, for example.

I understand that you think it was worse.

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So a loved one shooting you is better than a stranger shooting you? That's just whacked flan.

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With that kind of love, who needs hate?


What he did was wrong, but I don't think it can be compared to a drug deal gone bad, for example.

I understand that you think it was worse.

flan 


 Much worse.  Drug deals gone bad are stupid criminals who are reveling in dangerous dealings.

 

Those women had their lives ended by someone they trusted.  It was a horrible betrayal on top of an evil act.



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That girl did not want to die -

"Last month, Emily, a talented singer, tweeted in apparent reference to her migraines: 'Whenever I start to feel sorry for myself, I just thank God I’m still alive."

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With that kind of love, who needs hate?


What he did was wrong, but I don't think it can be compared to a drug deal gone bad, for example.

I understand that you think it was worse.

flan 


 Much worse.  Drug deals gone bad are stupid criminals who are reveling in dangerous dealings.

 

Those women had their lives ended by someone they trusted.  It was a horrible betrayal on top of an evil act.


I said that I understood your reasoning.

I just have my own opinion.

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Which I cannot fathom.

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He's not Andrea Yates.

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Me either. flan seems to have sympathy for all the wrong people and none for the ones who actually deserve some sympathy.

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He's not Andrea Yates.

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No he's worse. Much much worse.

 



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