I gave up caring what strangers thought years ago, ed.
flan
Me too. So I can post here and not care what people say about me. (There is one in particular who clearly thinks I'm a nut job.)
Well, that's not entirely true. I DO care when people are supportive.
Consider the source, ed. (I know you do.)
flan
Keep telling him everything he wants to hear because that's so helpful. You've got him convinced he's doing the right thing for his wife when really it's just enabling her histrionics. You keep telling him that the way he talks about young girls is fine and I'll keep telling him it's weird. I don't think ed's a "nut job". I just don't think he knows how he sounds to others.
ed is an adult. Many of us have told him that he is enabling his wife, but in the end, it's HIS decision.
He has a good heart and I've known him for years.
flan
I notice you said nothing about the talking about young girls. You are also an enabler. You enable him.
YES, YES, I DO!!!
(What a load of bullcrap!)
flan
You are defending him when he came here to talk about his wife's custom underwear and how she wears them and why that's such a problem. Talk about a load of crap.
-- Edited by Tinydancer on Thursday 28th of May 2015 06:19:44 PM
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I gave up caring what strangers thought years ago, ed.
flan
Me too. So I can post here and not care what people say about me. (There is one in particular who clearly thinks I'm a nut job.)
Well, that's not entirely true. I DO care when people are supportive.
Consider the source, ed. (I know you do.)
flan
Keep telling him everything he wants to hear because that's so helpful. You've got him convinced he's doing the right thing for his wife when really it's just enabling her histrionics. You keep telling him that the way he talks about young girls is fine and I'll keep telling him it's weird. I don't think ed's a "nut job". I just don't think he knows how he sounds to others.
ed is an adult. Many of us have told him that he is enabling his wife, but in the end, it's HIS decision.
He has a good heart and I've known him for years.
flan
I notice you said nothing about the talking about young girls. You are also an enabler. You enable him.
YES, YES, I DO!!!
(What a load of bullcrap!)
flan
You are defending him when he came here to talk about his wife's custom underwear and how she wears them. Talk about a load of crap.
I don't understand why this is a problem. I could talk about Husband's underwear if I wanted to, would I be trouble if I did?
i hope not, because I will now discuss Husband's underwear. I buy almost all of his boxers in the funkiest patterns I can find. I am saving all his worn out ones to someday make a quilt.
I think that is hilarious. Some people might find it gross. Fyi, I only intend to use the leg areas for the quilt.
I gave up caring what strangers thought years ago, ed.
flan
Me too. So I can post here and not care what people say about me. (There is one in particular who clearly thinks I'm a nut job.)
Well, that's not entirely true. I DO care when people are supportive.
Consider the source, ed. (I know you do.)
flan
Keep telling him everything he wants to hear because that's so helpful. You've got him convinced he's doing the right thing for his wife when really it's just enabling her histrionics. You keep telling him that the way he talks about young girls is fine and I'll keep telling him it's weird. I don't think ed's a "nut job". I just don't think he knows how he sounds to others.
ed is an adult. Many of us have told him that he is enabling his wife, but in the end, it's HIS decision.
He has a good heart and I've known him for years.
flan
I notice you said nothing about the talking about young girls. You are also an enabler. You enable him.
YES, YES, I DO!!!
(What a load of bullcrap!)
flan
You are defending him when he came here to talk about his wife's custom underwear and how she wears them. Talk about a load of crap.
I don't understand why this is a problem. I could talk about Husband's underwear if I wanted to, would I be trouble if I did?
i hope not, because I will now discuss Husband's underwear. I buy almost all of his boxers in the funkiest patterns I can find. I am saving all his worn out ones to someday make a quilt.
I think that is hilarious. Some people might find it gross. Fyi, I only intend to use the leg areas for the quilt.
Because I am apparently the bane of her existence...
I love boxers in funky patterns, but DH has decided that he doesn't want to wear them any more. BORING!
Yes they do. But they're really expensive. I hate my boobs because one is larger than the other. It makes my bras break down faster. I asked DH to spring for an expensive bra for me. He was more than happy to do so. When I got the kit to measure for one I quickly found out they only make bras for itty bitty titties. I got a refund on the fitting kit.
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I gave up caring what strangers thought years ago, ed.
flan
Me too. So I can post here and not care what people say about me. (There is one in particular who clearly thinks I'm a nut job.)
Well, that's not entirely true. I DO care when people are supportive.
Consider the source, ed. (I know you do.)
flan
Keep telling him everything he wants to hear because that's so helpful. You've got him convinced he's doing the right thing for his wife when really it's just enabling her histrionics. You keep telling him that the way he talks about young girls is fine and I'll keep telling him it's weird. I don't think ed's a "nut job". I just don't think he knows how he sounds to others.
ed is an adult. Many of us have told him that he is enabling his wife, but in the end, it's HIS decision.
He has a good heart and I've known him for years.
flan
I notice you said nothing about the talking about young girls. You are also an enabler. You enable him.
YES, YES, I DO!!!
(What a load of bullcrap!)
flan
You are defending him when he came here to talk about his wife's custom underwear and how she wears them. Talk about a load of crap.
I don't understand why this is a problem. I could talk about Husband's underwear if I wanted to, would I be trouble if I did?
i hope not, because I will now discuss Husband's underwear. I buy almost all of his boxers in the funkiest patterns I can find. I am saving all his worn out ones to someday make a quilt.
I think that is hilarious. Some people might find it gross. Fyi, I only intend to use the leg areas for the quilt.
Because I am apparently the bane of her existence...
I love boxers in funky patterns, but DH has decided that he doesn't want to wear them any more. BORING!
flan
I'll use one of your favorite lines. Dramatic much? You really are starting to be one of my favorite posters in spite of yourself...lol
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I don't want to p!ss you off Tiny and I don't want to be accused by you of being in cahoots with anyone, but you really put a lot of effort into Flan. I realize it goes both ways, but man... you're like a dog... and Flan's the bone. Seriously. We get it. Flan annoys you. lol. I get annoyed sometimes with people, but I make an effort to reign it in. I don't always succeed... I can admit that.
Tang, I love you but I do find the underwear quilt weird!
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I don't want to p!ss you off Tiny and I don't want to be accused by you of being in cahoots with anyone, but you really put a lot of effort into Flan. I realize it goes both ways, but man... you're like a dog... and Flan's the bone. Seriously. We get it. Flan annoys you. lol. I get annoyed sometimes with people, but I make an effort to reign it in. I don't always succeed... I can admit that.
msrock you've never been anything but nice to me so it would take some doing to piss me off. With that being said I have felt more like the "bone" since the first time flan went after me for disagreeing. While I understand you and flan are friends I do find it kind of insulting that it's always me called to the carpet. I tried ignoring and that didn't work. I will point out that it has gotten worse but I only give what I get. Disrespecting me since we met is all on flan.
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Tang, I love you but I do find the underwear quilt weird!
Haha. The really weird part is that so far all I have is a storage tote filled with old boxer shorts.
Well, if you die suddenly and the police come in that should really throw them off!
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A flock of flirting flamingos is pure, passionate, pink pandemonium-a frenetic flamingle-mangle-a discordant discotheque of delirious dancing, flamboyant feathers, and flamingo lingo.
A flock of flirting flamingos is pure, passionate, pink pandemonium-a frenetic flamingle-mangle-a discordant discotheque of delirious dancing, flamboyant feathers, and flamingo lingo.
A flock of flirting flamingos is pure, passionate, pink pandemonium-a frenetic flamingle-mangle-a discordant discotheque of delirious dancing, flamboyant feathers, and flamingo lingo.
I'm trying to see why you poking at lily (or me for that matter) is considered fine yet when we defend ourselves we're called trolls. I truly just don't understand the mentality that caused you to hate me (or is it bane of my existence) because I disagreed with you. You went so far as to defend husker for calling me ugly because we disagreed. When you decide I'm not ISIS let me know and maybe then we can talk. Until then I'll ignore you as much as I can. Just know I can't stand much hypocrisy so try to keep that to a minimum please.
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I'm trying to see why you poking at lily (or me for that matter) is considered fine yet when we defend ourselves we're called trolls. I truly just don't understand the mentality that caused you to hate me (or is it bane of my existence) because I disagreed with you. You went so far as to defend husker for calling me ugly because we disagreed. When you decide I'm not ISIS let me know and maybe then we can talk. Until then I'll ignore you as much as I can. Just know I can't stand much hypocrisy so try to keep that to a minimum please.
Why why oh why does every thread have to devolve into flan and tiny bickering at each other? I am so sick of it. Of BOTH of you.
I get it. You hate each other. We ALL get it. Frankly I don't care who started it, it's on BOTH of you for continuing it and for ruining every thread with your childish bickering. Every. Thread. Every one. Same thing. Get married already or else give it up. Surely one of you has got to be a big enough person to let it go?! Obviously not.
And lest either of you say I am taking sides or that I like the other one's views on chocolate ice cream so that's why I am siding with one (because it's that silly at this point) let me be perfectly clear. You both are at fault for dragging it to every thread. You BOTH are irritating me with this silly back and forth. Stop it.
Yes, you can post what you like and how you like. Every one of us here has the right to be an azz hole. You two are abusing that right. I love you both. Get over it.
I had to get that out. Sorry.
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I'm trying to see why you poking at lily (or me for that matter) is considered fine yet when we defend ourselves we're called trolls. I truly just don't understand the mentality that caused you to hate me (or is it bane of my existence) because I disagreed with you. You went so far as to defend husker for calling me ugly because we disagreed. When you decide I'm not ISIS let me know and maybe then we can talk. Until then I'll ignore you as much as I can. Just know I can't stand much hypocrisy so try to keep that to a minimum please.
Why why oh why does every thread have to devolve into flan and tiny bickering at each other? I am so sick of it. Of BOTH of you.
I get it. You hate each other. We ALL get it. Frankly I don't care who started it, it's on BOTH of you for continuing it and for ruining every thread with your childish bickering. Every. Thread. Every one. Same thing. Get married already or else give it up. Surely one of you has got to be a big enough person to let it go?! Obviously not.
And lest either of you say I am taking sides or that I like the other one's views on chocolate ice cream so that's why I am siding with one (because it's that silly at this point) let me be perfectly clear. You both are at fault for dragging it to every thread. You BOTH are irritating me with this silly back and forth. Stop it.
Yes, you can post what you like and how you like. Every one of us here has the right to be an azz hole. You two are abusing that right. I love you both. Get over it.
I joined this board because I thought it would be fun. I thought because there were different points of view allowed it could make for some lively discussions. I soon found that that was not true. Then I noticed a pattern. Every single one of my favorite posters was hated (yes hated) by flan when they joined. Most of them have been accepted by flan eventually. I just don't give a **** enough to worry about whether flan accepts me or not.
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Actually, it's NOT hate. That takes too much energy. It's serious distrust.
flan
Possibly. But at this point, it comes across as hate. And if you dont trust a poster, don't engage with that poster. Problem solved.
I really don't get this serious distrust thing. Unless they have done something to you on THIS board you should let it go.
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I joined this board because I thought it would be fun. I thought because there were different points of view allowed it could make for some lively discussions. I soon found that that was not true. Then I noticed a pattern. Every single one of my favorite posters was hated (yes hated) by flan when they joined. Most of them have been accepted by flan eventually. I just don't give a **** enough to worry about whether flan accepts me or not.
So if you don't care enough to worry about it, quit engaging with her.
You both SAY you don't care but your continued jabbing at each other proves otherwise.
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Out of all the lies I have told, "just kidding" is my favorite !
I joined this board because I thought it would be fun. I thought because there were different points of view allowed it could make for some lively discussions. I soon found that that was not true. Then I noticed a pattern. Every single one of my favorite posters was hated (yes hated) by flan when they joined. Most of them have been accepted by flan eventually. I just don't give a **** enough to worry about whether flan accepts me or not.
So if you don't care enough to worry about it, quit engaging with her.
You both SAY you don't care but your continued jabbing at each other proves otherwise.
She enjoys jabbing at me. I enjoy jabbing at her. I won't just sit back and let her have all the fun. If you don't like it just don't read them.
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You ruin every thread with your jabs. I guess I should just skip every thread ?!
Try turning the other cheek. If one of you quits engaging the other, sooner than later the jabs will stop. It takes two to tango. If one of you steps off the dance floor, trust me, the other will too.
But if you both want to continue to be childish and immature go right ahead. I think the behavior you both have exhibited is ridiculous and I have lost respect for both of you. But by all means continue with your foolishness so you can be the one who got the last word.
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Actually, it's NOT hate. That takes too much energy. It's serious distrust.
flan
Possibly. But at this point, it comes across as hate. And if you dont trust a poster, don't engage with that poster. Problem solved.
I really don't get this serious distrust thing. Unless they have done something to you on THIS board you should let it go.
She HAS, but in a PM.
flan
Then report it to a mod, LIKE YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO, and let them handle it. But please don't make us all pay because you don't like someone.
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Some of us are just tired of all the bickering. I'm like MM. I like you both. I do. But you have both abused your right to be obnoxious. You both have a lot to add to this board. I haven't ever said anything but like MM I'm just tired of the bickering. flan we understand how you feel. TD, if flan won't ever like you then accept that and move on. It just gets old.
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Okay! And I will stop. I know nobody likes getting beat up on!
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Does anyone else remember a Maidenform Bra commercial that showed women wearing their bras outside of their blouses or sweaters?
There was an article in (I think) Readers Digest, about a Connecticut housewife who thought this would be "the Next Big Fashion Trend", so she wore her bra outside her blouse to a PTA meeting.
Guess what happened ...
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