TOTALLY GEEKED!

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

RE: Friend's car triggers woman's PTSD

lilyofcourse · My spirit animal is a pink flamingo.

Lawyerlady wrote:
Yeah, your 3 little words said a lot about you. It conveyed a whole lot of nasty attitude with an extra serving of heartless. Dealing with crap you bring on yourself, or that is regular life crap is not remotely the same as having YOUR CHILD DIE.

Again my post was not personal at all.

But by all means, make your little personal attacks all you want.

lilyofcourse · My spirit animal is a pink flamingo.

flan327 wrote:
Blah, blah, blah...

Some people need to seriously get a LIFE of their OWN, not their kids, not their parents.

flan

I have a life. Didn't have steal anybody else's to have it either.

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

lilyofcourse wrote:
flan327 wrote:
Blah, blah, blah...

Some people need to seriously get a LIFE of their OWN, not their kids, not their parents.

flan
I have a life. Didn't have steal anybody else's to have it either.

And I DID?

What is wrong with you?

flan

Mellow Momma · Sniff...sniff, sniff. Yay! A Bum!

I didn't read the OP as wanting anything other than advice on how to gently tell her friend that her car was a trigger for her. She doesn't want to rain on her parade - quite the opposite. She wants to be supportive and happy for her friend. But she also recognizes that there may be an occasion where she will have to let her friend know why she can't ride in her new car and she wants to know how to do it with grace. What is wrong with that?! I think she is actually being quite sensitive. She didn't say "I want my friend to sell her car ASAP" or "I can't believe she had the nerve to purchase a car without asking me first". She just wants some guidance in how to deal with being polite and mentioning her issue without spoiling her friends happiness. Sounds like a caring person to me and NOT a VSS.

-- Edited by Mellow Momma on Monday 8th of June 2015 03:06:47 PM

lilyofcourse · My spirit animal is a pink flamingo.

Ok. I'm done. Not going to sink any deeper in this.

The OP is going to have to get her crap together and stop putting it on everyone else.

Yes it is sad.

NAOW · Vette's SS

Mellow Momma wrote:
I didn't read the OP as wanting anything other than advice on how to gently tell her friend that her car was a trigger for her. She doesn't want to rain on her parade - quite the opposite. She wants to be supportive and happy for her friend. But she also recognizes that there may be an occasion where she will have to let her friend know why she can't ride in her new car and she wants to know how to do it with grace. What is wrong with that?! I think she is actually being quite sensitive. She didn't say "I want my friend to sell her car ASAP" or "I can't believe she had the nerve to purchase a car without asking me first". She just wants some guidance in how to deal with being polite and mentioning her issue without spoiling her friends happiness. Sounds like a caring person to me and NOT a VSS.

-- Edited by Mellow Momma on Monday 8th of June 2015 03:05:18 PM

Same here.

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

lilyofcourse wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
Yeah, your 3 little words said a lot about you. It conveyed a whole lot of nasty attitude with an extra serving of heartless. Dealing with crap you bring on yourself, or that is regular life crap is not remotely the same as having YOUR CHILD DIE.

Again my post was not personal at all.
But by all means, make your little personal attacks all you want.

Maybe you should have quit after your 3 little words instead of trying to defend them with the rest of the crap you posted. Don't play innocent in the personal attack department, Miss calling posters trolls.

lilyofcourse · My spirit animal is a pink flamingo.

Nope. Said I was done with it.

-- Edited by lilyofcourse on Monday 8th of June 2015 03:36:11 PM