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TOPIC: Toddler dies from untreated ear infection after 'parents refused treatment because they don't believe in modern medicine
I really hope they were loving parents who put their kid's health before their disbelief in modern medicine. I don't know enough about medicine to know if she could go from 'appearing better' to barely breathing faster than the parents could notice and get her help.
Here is what I have issue with.
An emergency room nurse said that Hope wasn't breathing when she got to the hospital and as staff worked to resuscitate her, Christine became upset and said 'you're putting holes in her,' and 'you're putting chemicals in her.
That doesn't sound good to me. Her baby is dying and she is concerned about the 'chemicals' they are using to try and save her life.
Any why did she wait 30 minutes before taking her baby to the hospital when her breathing became shallow?
Thank you.
I don't run run my child to the doctor for every little thing. But I do take her when something doesn't clear up after a few daysMore if she doesn't show improvement after a few days. if your child isn't getting better, then she is suffering. I don't want my child to suffer needlessly, so I take her to get get help. It would have killed me to sit and watch my daughter suffer with any ailment that badly without getting her help. These people sounds like they are mentally ill. Screaming about chemicald and such when your daughter cannot breathe is ridiculous. Do whatever you have to in order to save my baby! Why wasn't the mom thinking along those lines? Please save her, please help my baby girl! That's what I would expect to hear. Some concern for the welfare of her daughter, some understanding of the gravity of the situation. Not worry about chemicals.
And you are correct, earaches should not be treated with antibiotics. I never said they should. The only reason to go to the doctor is not to get medicine. You go to the doctor so the doc can check for things that are beyond the scope of understanding for the lay person. So your doctor can use her expertise and education to look for things a parent would not notice, to look for things a parent would not know about, to look for things a parent doesn't have the instruments to look for. You also go to the doctor so that they doctor can educate you on next steps, symptoms to look out for, things to worry about if you see them. A doctor's job goes beyond just passing out meds. They are there to look for things we as parents cannot see and to educate us on what to look for in order to seek further help.
These people chose not to seek out help when their child was sick. That decision cost them their daughter. It's neglect whether or not they intended to kill her. She died from their poor choices.
You do not know that. This was a freak case. Even if they went to the doctor when the ear infection started, this could have happened. You have even admitted it is normal to NOT give antibiotics, so going to the doctor just to confirm what they already knew - that she had an ear infection - would not have done anything. This was a weird and freak complication.
Going to the doctor could have given them the information they needed in order to care for her better. The doctor would have given them symptoms to look out for, warning signs of a more serious condition to bring the child back for, etc. As I said above, you go to the doctor for more reasons than just to get an antibiotic. You go so the doctor can use his/her education and expertise to see what you as a parent cannot see and to get educated on what you should be looking for in case the child does not improve. Not just for meds!
She would most likely still be dead - because the symptoms she had were an ear infection, until it suddenly got worse. And when is suddenly got worse - they took her to the hospital. A doctor finding an ear infection at a vist and not prescribing antibiotics would not have changed things. And in fact, the parents would have been ever MORE comfortable with their decision backed up by a doctor.
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LawyerLady
I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you.
Sweetness had horrible ear infections until she got tubes. Her doctor quit giving her antibiotics. And I just asked DD. Her doctor never warned her some something like this. Neither did my kids' doctor.
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Many people choose to allow ear infections to clear on their own. Because usually they will. This complication is rare and could not be foreseen. And in fact, some ear infections are caused by viruses and can't be treated with antibiotics, anyway and sometimes it is hard to tell. Even the medical community debates using antibiotics regularly for ear infections so I do not think parents need to be charged with murder over it.
But they didn't bother to even find out what the situation was. The charges are appropriate.
Are you incapable of knowing what an ear infection is? I know when my kids have an ear infection every single time - I have never been wrong. If you don't want medicine for it - you don't have to go to a doctor.
Did you take your kids to the doctor for every cold? It could have been pneumonia, after all. Did you take your kid to the doctor for every headache? It might have been meninghitis.
People do not have to be clairvoyant. Hindsight is always 20/20.
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LawyerLady
I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you.
I find it amazing that some of the same people who give sympathy to parents who kill their kids by forgetting them in a car are the same ones that think not treating an ear infection with antibiotics is murder.
Two totally different situations. These parents didn't "forget" to take their child to a doctor.
flan
No. They were actually caring for her. She died of a freak spreading of a bacterial infection - not due to the actions of her parents.
I find it amazing that some of the same people who give sympathy to parents who kill their kids by forgetting them in a car are the same ones that think not treating an ear infection with antibiotics is murder.
Two totally different situations. These parents didn't "forget" to take their child to a doctor.
flan
No. They were actually caring for her. She died of a freak spreading of a bacterial infection - not due to the actions of her parents.
With herbal remedies...
flan
So? I treat sore throats with chai tea or honey or salt water gargles. What part of too many anti-biotics are bad for you don't you get? And an ear infection being deadly is virtually unheard of.
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LawyerLady
I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you.
I find it amazing that some of the same people who give sympathy to parents who kill their kids by forgetting them in a car are the same ones that think not treating an ear infection with antibiotics is murder.
Two totally different situations. These parents didn't "forget" to take their child to a doctor.
flan
No. They were actually caring for her. She died of a freak spreading of a bacterial infection - not due to the actions of her parents.
With herbal remedies...
flan
So? I treat sore throats with chai tea or honey or salt water gargles. What part of too many anti-biotics are bad for you don't you get? And an ear infection being deadly is virtually unheard of.
Um, too many antibiotics wasn't the issue here. The issue was not enough. She would have LIVED had she gotten them.
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I'm not arguing, I'm just explaining why I'm right.
Well, I could agree with you--but then we'd both be wrong.
I find it amazing that some of the same people who give sympathy to parents who kill their kids by forgetting them in a car are the same ones that think not treating an ear infection with antibiotics is murder.
Two totally different situations. These parents didn't "forget" to take their child to a doctor.
flan
No. They were actually caring for her. She died of a freak spreading of a bacterial infection - not due to the actions of her parents.
With herbal remedies...
flan
So? I treat sore throats with chai tea or honey or salt water gargles. What part of too many anti-biotics are bad for you don't you get? And an ear infection being deadly is virtually unheard of.
Um, too many antibiotics wasn't the issue here. The issue was not enough. She would have LIVED had she gotten them.
So? This is nothing that millions of parents aren't doing every day. People die. It just happens. You can't predict every outcome.
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I find it amazing that some of the same people who give sympathy to parents who kill their kids by forgetting them in a car are the same ones that think not treating an ear infection with antibiotics is murder.
Not me. They should be charged in both situations.
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I'm not arguing, I'm just explaining why I'm right.
Well, I could agree with you--but then we'd both be wrong.
Despite the recommendations, none of us knows if a doctor would have prescribed antibiotics or not.
flan
Believe it or not - parents have the right to decide not to give their kids anti-biotics for every little thing. It's BAD for them.
So...it's better to let your child die? Dying is good for them?
Nobody even thinks their child will die from an ear infection. Unforeseeable things happen sometimes - that doesn't mean it's murder.
This was preventable. They didn't even bother to get the situation assessed. I don't believe they ever would have despite what they say after the fact.
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I'm not arguing, I'm just explaining why I'm right.
Well, I could agree with you--but then we'd both be wrong.
Despite the recommendations, none of us knows if a doctor would have prescribed antibiotics or not.
flan
Believe it or not - parents have the right to decide not to give their kids anti-biotics for every little thing. It's BAD for them.
So...it's better to let your child die? Dying is good for them?
Nobody even thinks their child will die from an ear infection. Unforeseeable things happen sometimes - that doesn't mean it's murder.
This was preventable. They didn't even bother to get the situation assessed. I don't believe they ever would have despite what they say after the fact.
Most people now-a-days don't. They did exactly what other have and would have done. This one just got out of control...
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America guarantees equal opportunity, not equal outcome...
Despite the recommendations, none of us knows if a doctor would have prescribed antibiotics or not.
flan
Believe it or not - parents have the right to decide not to give their kids anti-biotics for every little thing. It's BAD for them.
So...it's better to let your child die? Dying is good for them?
Nobody even thinks their child will die from an ear infection. Unforeseeable things happen sometimes - that doesn't mean it's murder.
This was preventable. They didn't even bother to get the situation assessed. I don't believe they ever would have despite what they say after the fact.
Most people now-a-days don't. They did exactly what other have and would have done. This one just got out of control...
No, they don't. People avoid the doctor's office if they can. They are required to wait forever and it's expensive. For a routine illness - many people don't go.
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LawyerLady
I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you.
People used to die from Chicken Pox too. That didn't stop MANY people from having Pox Parties, ensuring that their kids got Chicken Pox when it was the best time for them.
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I have had my kids at the doctor, the doctor tell me their illness will run its course, give them the medicine. And then had to take them to the ER that night. The "just an ear infection" the doctor diagnosed was way more and the doctor missed it.
Heck, one was being treated monthly for strep throat AFTER tonsils were removed. Turned out it was a staph infection.
I don't blame these parents at all. This was a sad turn of events that anyone with a child has dealt with.
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Despite the recommendations, none of us knows if a doctor would have prescribed antibiotics or not.
flan
Believe it or not - parents have the right to decide not to give their kids anti-biotics for every little thing. It's BAD for them.
So...it's better to let your child die? Dying is good for them?
Nobody even thinks their child will die from an ear infection. Unforeseeable things happen sometimes - that doesn't mean it's murder.
This was preventable. They didn't even bother to get the situation assessed. I don't believe they ever would have despite what they say after the fact.
Most people now-a-days don't. They did exactly what other have and would have done. This one just got out of control...
And that was their mistake.
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I'm not arguing, I'm just explaining why I'm right.
Well, I could agree with you--but then we'd both be wrong.
Despite the recommendations, none of us knows if a doctor would have prescribed antibiotics or not.
flan
Believe it or not - parents have the right to decide not to give their kids anti-biotics for every little thing. It's BAD for them.
So...it's better to let your child die? Dying is good for them?
Nobody even thinks their child will die from an ear infection. Unforeseeable things happen sometimes - that doesn't mean it's murder.
This was preventable. They didn't even bother to get the situation assessed. I don't believe they ever would have despite what they say after the fact.
Most people now-a-days don't. They did exactly what other have and would have done. This one just got out of control...
No, they don't. People avoid the doctor's office if they can. They are required to wait forever and it's expensive. For a routine illness - many people don't go.
Yeah. expensive. Apparently a child is not very valuable.
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I'm not arguing, I'm just explaining why I'm right.
Well, I could agree with you--but then we'd both be wrong.
Despite the recommendations, none of us knows if a doctor would have prescribed antibiotics or not.
flan
Believe it or not - parents have the right to decide not to give their kids anti-biotics for every little thing. It's BAD for them.
So...it's better to let your child die? Dying is good for them?
Nobody even thinks their child will die from an ear infection. Unforeseeable things happen sometimes - that doesn't mean it's murder.
This was preventable. They didn't even bother to get the situation assessed. I don't believe they ever would have despite what they say after the fact.
Most people now-a-days don't. They did exactly what other have and would have done. This one just got out of control...
And that was their mistake.
A totally innocent one.
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America guarantees equal opportunity, not equal outcome...
Despite the recommendations, none of us knows if a doctor would have prescribed antibiotics or not.
flan
Believe it or not - parents have the right to decide not to give their kids anti-biotics for every little thing. It's BAD for them.
So...it's better to let your child die? Dying is good for them?
Nobody even thinks their child will die from an ear infection. Unforeseeable things happen sometimes - that doesn't mean it's murder.
This was preventable. They didn't even bother to get the situation assessed. I don't believe they ever would have despite what they say after the fact.
Most people now-a-days don't. They did exactly what other have and would have done. This one just got out of control...
And that was their mistake.
A totally innocent one.
The child died and it was wholly preventable. It wasnt some split second lapse,either. Not remotely innocent.
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I'm not arguing, I'm just explaining why I'm right.
Well, I could agree with you--but then we'd both be wrong.
My parents never took me to the doctor for an ear infection. Mom treated our ear aches with warm olive oil. Worked every single time. Did that make my parents negligent? Hell no.
I repeat, the AMA is recommending that anti-biotic's NOT be given for ear aches.
This was a RARE infection. What part of RARE is so hard to understand? Heck, a doctor would probably have missed it in the first place as a RARE infection. Good grief people.
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Faith isn't something that keeps bad things from happening. Faith is what helps us get through bad things when they do happen.
Despite the recommendations, none of us knows if a doctor would have prescribed antibiotics or not.
flan
Believe it or not - parents have the right to decide not to give their kids anti-biotics for every little thing. It's BAD for them.
So...it's better to let your child die? Dying is good for them?
Nobody even thinks their child will die from an ear infection. Unforeseeable things happen sometimes - that doesn't mean it's murder.
This was preventable. They didn't even bother to get the situation assessed. I don't believe they ever would have despite what they say after the fact.
Most people now-a-days don't. They did exactly what other have and would have done. This one just got out of control...
And that was their mistake.
A totally innocent one.
The child died and it was wholly preventable. It wasnt some split second lapse,either. Not remotely innocent.
Children die all the time from "wholly preventable" things. It's called life. Car accidents, trampolines, swimming pools, bicycles, the flu (even if they got a flu shot), asthsma attacks, getting strangled by cords from the blinds, smothering in the blankets.
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LawyerLady
I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you.
The chances of dying from an ear infection is less than 1 in one million WORLDWIDE. Worldwide being important because it shows it is still extremely rare even in countries without medical care.
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LawyerLady
I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you.
Despite the recommendations, none of us knows if a doctor would have prescribed antibiotics or not.
flan
Believe it or not - parents have the right to decide not to give their kids anti-biotics for every little thing. It's BAD for them.
So...it's better to let your child die? Dying is good for them?
Nobody even thinks their child will die from an ear infection. Unforeseeable things happen sometimes - that doesn't mean it's murder.
This was preventable. They didn't even bother to get the situation assessed. I don't believe they ever would have despite what they say after the fact.
Most people now-a-days don't. They did exactly what other have and would have done. This one just got out of control...
And that was their mistake.
A totally innocent one.
The child died and it was wholly preventable. It wasnt some split second lapse,either. Not remotely innocent.
THEY NEVER TOOK THE CHILD TO A DOCTOR...EVER...not for vaccines, not for checkups.
Let me get this straight, on one, mind your own business but on the other other hand tell them what they should have done.
Let's use common sense. How many deaths have you heard of due to ear infection?
This is the one and only time I have ever heard of.
And it wasn't the typical ear infection.
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Despite the recommendations, none of us knows if a doctor would have prescribed antibiotics or not.
flan
Believe it or not - parents have the right to decide not to give their kids anti-biotics for every little thing. It's BAD for them.
So...it's better to let your child die? Dying is good for them?
Nobody even thinks their child will die from an ear infection. Unforeseeable things happen sometimes - that doesn't mean it's murder.
This was preventable. They didn't even bother to get the situation assessed. I don't believe they ever would have despite what they say after the fact.
Most people now-a-days don't. They did exactly what other have and would have done. This one just got out of control...
And that was their mistake.
A totally innocent one.
The child died and it was wholly preventable. It wasnt some split second lapse,either. Not remotely innocent.
THEY NEVER TOOK THE CHILD TO A DOCTOR...EVER...not for vaccines, not for checkups.
That speaks to cause.
flan
They did not die of that. The kid did not get an ear infection because it wasn't vaccinated or hadn't had a well visit. The child died from an ear infection - which is virtually unheard of.
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LawyerLady
I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you.
They did not die of that. The kid did not get an ear infection because it wasn't vaccinated or hadn't had a well visit. The child died from an ear infection - which is virtually unheard of.
And something that 99.9% of ALL children get. Whether they see a doctor or not.
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My kids have had ear infections, complete with fever, dizziness and throwing up and the doctor not give antibiotic.
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A flock of flirting flamingos is pure, passionate, pink pandemonium-a frenetic flamingle-mangle-a discordant discotheque of delirious dancing, flamboyant feathers, and flamingo lingo.
They did not die of that. The kid did not get an ear infection because it wasn't vaccinated or hadn't had a well visit. The child died from an ear infection - which is virtually unheard of.
And something that 99.9% of ALL children get. Whether they see a doctor or not.
And something that 99.9% of all children recover from without issue - whether they see a doctor or not.
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LawyerLady
I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you.
They did not die of that. The kid did not get an ear infection because it wasn't vaccinated or hadn't had a well visit. The child died from an ear infection - which is virtually unheard of.
And something that 99.9% of ALL children get. Whether they see a doctor or not.
And something that 99.9% of all children recover from without issue - whether they see a doctor or not.
Otitis media is an infection inside the ear caused by a bacteria. Occuring mainly in children often after catching a cold, otitis media can cause earache and temporary deafness. Sometimes treatment with antibiotics is needed. Severe recurrent infections can permanently damage the hearing mechanism. Sometimes infection gets into the nearby bone (mastoiditis) and occassionally this is a cause of meningitis, which can be fatal.
Otitis media caused 0.0063% of all deaths worldwide in 2002, an average of 1 death per million people per year.
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America guarantees equal opportunity, not equal outcome...
They did not die of that. The kid did not get an ear infection because it wasn't vaccinated or hadn't had a well visit. The child died from an ear infection - which is virtually unheard of.
And something that 99.9% of ALL children get. Whether they see a doctor or not.
And something that 99.9% of all children recover from without issue - whether they see a doctor or not.
Do you have a source for that statement?
flan
Have you ever heard of a child dying from an ear infection before today?
I know I never have before today.
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Faith isn't something that keeps bad things from happening. Faith is what helps us get through bad things when they do happen.
They did not die of that. The kid did not get an ear infection because it wasn't vaccinated or hadn't had a well visit. The child died from an ear infection - which is virtually unheard of.
And something that 99.9% of ALL children get. Whether they see a doctor or not.
And something that 99.9% of all children recover from without issue - whether they see a doctor or not.
Do you have a source for that statement?
flan
Have you ever heard of a child dying from an ear infection before today?
I know I never have before today.
Neither have I because they are EASILY TREATABLE with antibiotics.
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I'm not arguing, I'm just explaining why I'm right.
Well, I could agree with you--but then we'd both be wrong.
They did not die of that. The kid did not get an ear infection because it wasn't vaccinated or hadn't had a well visit. The child died from an ear infection - which is virtually unheard of.
And something that 99.9% of ALL children get. Whether they see a doctor or not.
And something that 99.9% of all children recover from without issue - whether they see a doctor or not.
Do you have a source for that statement?
flan
Have you ever heard of a child dying from an ear infection before today?
I know I never have before today.
Neither have I because they are EASILY TREATABLE with antibiotics.
What part of "do not treat with antibiotics" do you not understand? Or are you above the AMA.
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I drink coffee so I don't kill you.
I quilt so I don't kill you.
Do you see a theme?
Faith isn't something that keeps bad things from happening. Faith is what helps us get through bad things when they do happen.
They did not die of that. The kid did not get an ear infection because it wasn't vaccinated or hadn't had a well visit. The child died from an ear infection - which is virtually unheard of.
And something that 99.9% of ALL children get. Whether they see a doctor or not.
And something that 99.9% of all children recover from without issue - whether they see a doctor or not.
Do you have a source for that statement?
flan
Have you ever heard of a child dying from an ear infection before today?
I know I never have before today.
Neither have I because they are EASILY TREATABLE with antibiotics.
They don't treat them all with antibiotics, anymore. Less and less all the time because too many antibiotics are bad and ear infections clear on their own. You are stubbornly choosing to ignore that fact.
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LawyerLady
I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you.
They did not die of that. The kid did not get an ear infection because it wasn't vaccinated or hadn't had a well visit. The child died from an ear infection - which is virtually unheard of.
And something that 99.9% of ALL children get. Whether they see a doctor or not.
And something that 99.9% of all children recover from without issue - whether they see a doctor or not.
Do you have a source for that statement?
flan
Have you ever heard of a child dying from an ear infection before today?
I know I never have before today.
Neither have I because they are EASILY TREATABLE with antibiotics.
They don't treat them all with antibiotics, anymore. Less and less all the time because too many antibiotics are bad and ear infections clear on their own. You are stubbornly choosing to ignore that fact.
They did not die of that. The kid did not get an ear infection because it wasn't vaccinated or hadn't had a well visit. The child died from an ear infection - which is virtually unheard of.
And something that 99.9% of ALL children get. Whether they see a doctor or not.
And something that 99.9% of all children recover from without issue - whether they see a doctor or not.
Do you have a source for that statement?
flan
Have you ever heard of a child dying from an ear infection before today?
I know I never have before today.
Neither have I because they are EASILY TREATABLE with antibiotics.
What part of "do not treat with antibiotics" do you not understand? Or are you above the AMA.
so its better that this child died. Got it.
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I'm not arguing, I'm just explaining why I'm right.
Well, I could agree with you--but then we'd both be wrong.
They did not die of that. The kid did not get an ear infection because it wasn't vaccinated or hadn't had a well visit. The child died from an ear infection - which is virtually unheard of.
And something that 99.9% of ALL children get. Whether they see a doctor or not.
And something that 99.9% of all children recover from without issue - whether they see a doctor or not.
Do you have a source for that statement?
flan
Have you ever heard of a child dying from an ear infection before today?
I know I never have before today.
Neither have I because they are EASILY TREATABLE with antibiotics.
They don't treat them all with antibiotics, anymore. Less and less all the time because too many antibiotics are bad and ear infections clear on their own. You are stubbornly choosing to ignore that fact.
You are stubbornly ignoring the fact that this case should have been treated.
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I'm not arguing, I'm just explaining why I'm right.
Well, I could agree with you--but then we'd both be wrong.
They did not die of that. The kid did not get an ear infection because it wasn't vaccinated or hadn't had a well visit. The child died from an ear infection - which is virtually unheard of.
And something that 99.9% of ALL children get. Whether they see a doctor or not.
And something that 99.9% of all children recover from without issue - whether they see a doctor or not.
Do you have a source for that statement?
flan
Have you ever heard of a child dying from an ear infection before today?
I know I never have before today.
Neither have I because they are EASILY TREATABLE with antibiotics.
What part of "do not treat with antibiotics" do you not understand? Or are you above the AMA.
so its better that this child died. Got it.
More children are dying BECAUSE of the antibiotics than are dying from ear infections. What can't you grasp about that?
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I find it amazing that some of the same people who give sympathy to parents who kill their kids by forgetting them in a car are the same ones that think not treating an ear infection with antibiotics is murder.
Two totally different situations. These parents didn't "forget" to take their child to a doctor.
flan
No. They were actually caring for her. She died of a freak spreading of a bacterial infection - not due to the actions of her parents.
With herbal remedies...
flan
So? I treat sore throats with chai tea or honey or salt water gargles. What part of too many anti-biotics are bad for you don't you get? And an ear infection being deadly is virtually unheard of.
Um, too many antibiotics wasn't the issue here. The issue was not enough. She would have LIVED had she gotten them.
So? This is nothing that millions of parents aren't doing every day. People die. It just happens. You can't predict every outcome.
This one was predictable.
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I'm not arguing, I'm just explaining why I'm right.
Well, I could agree with you--but then we'd both be wrong.
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