And then you and her started talking about LAWS. I simply contradicted that there are NO Laws that bar you form having and number of mixed aged, gender kids in a bedroom...
They will not come out to your house if someone calls and reports that O4's kids are all living in one bedroom, no they wont come out to take your kids away. BUT, if someone calls and says O4 is beating her kids, when they come out to investigate they WILL use that info against you. If a judge gets involved the judge WILL use that info to take your kids away or prevent unification. There is no law that says a parent must have food in the house, but if CPS comes and there is no food in your house they WILL use that to take your kids away. Just try telling a judge "those rules are only for foster parents not for bio parents" and see how far that gets you in court. I have spent time in family court - not as much as some of you, but I worked as a CASA and I had 2 cases I worked on. I actually saw a woman, against her lawyer's advice, tell a judge that her kids didn't need the things he was asking for because those rules only applied to foster parents not bio parents. And while she was technically correct, the judge kept her from her kids until she was in compliance because as he said "you cannot expect the court to believe you think a stranger should take better care of your children than you should". So while it isn't a law per se, if CPS has to visit you on some false report someone made on you out of spite...you can bet that CPS will make a note of it and potentially use it to take your children away.
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I don't disagree with that. But this post The CPS rules for housing are pretty generic for all states. There are some differences, but the basics apply to all states. You have to have a separate bedroom with a closing door and a closet for a child. Only 2 children can share a room and those children must be of the same sex if they are older than 2 years old. Children cannot sleep in a living room and cannot sleep in the same room as parents if they are past the newborn age.
Made it seem like this was a CPS rule for all families. Yes, it MAY be used against you, but those rules do not apply except in foster situations...
And this:
MM's laws are the same laws for TX. I know because whenever we sign a lease we have to make sure we have the right combo of kids in the room.
There are no LAWS. And you don't by law have to have the right combo of kids in a room. The people you have rented from may have preferred that and that may have been one of their rules, but it's not a law.
I was just correcting your incorrect thought that there are laws. That's all...
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Oh, and since we're dredging up old stuff. My point was originally about people in general. Not at the couple who had the kid with the ear infection. My point was, and I still stand by it, that if you are living in a camper with no job, no car, and five kids you can't feed, you SHOULD NOT be having more. If that is offensive then so be it.
You're talking about your in laws right?
The same ones that lost their house in a fire recently?
No idea what you're talking about.
The ones you always talk about. 5 kids, can't take care of them, had a sprinkling cause she is pregnant again.
About a month maybe 3 ago you were saying how happy you were karma bit them in the butt cause their house burned down.
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How did we get from circumcision to this? I'm not going to bother going back & reading three pages to figure it out.
Someone said that the parents should have the right to circumcise their child. Someone else pointed out that people were all up in arms about the ear infection child being raised in a camper. Both are parenting choices...
That's how we got here...
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How did we get from circumcision to this? I'm not going to bother going back & reading three pages to figure it out.
Someone said that the parents should have the right to circumcise their child. Someone else pointed out that people were all up in arms about the ear infection child being raised in a camper. Both are parenting choices...
That's how we got here...
Ok - thanks. It is the parents choice in both cases.
Oh, and since we're dredging up old stuff. My point was originally about people in general. Not at the couple who had the kid with the ear infection. My point was, and I still stand by it, that if you are living in a camper with no job, no car, and five kids you can't feed, you SHOULD NOT be having more. If that is offensive then so be it.
You're talking about your in laws right?
The same ones that lost their house in a fire recently?
No idea what you're talking about.
The ones you always talk about. 5 kids, can't take care of them, had a sprinkling cause she is pregnant again.
About a month maybe 3 ago you were saying how happy you were karma bit them in the butt cause their house burned down.
And again you are clueless. You like to make stuff up. My BROTHER has SEVEN kids. He is now divorced from his wife and his LAUNDRY ROOM burned down. Not his whole house. He's a great father. No matter how I may feel about him he's the best father I know. Didn't get it from my parents that's for sure. He takes good care of his seven kids. My SIL AND BIL DO NOT HAVE FIVE KIDS. They JUST HAD their THIRD. And no they can't take care of them. They had the second in the camper. So you're trying to drag my family into this and you don't even have your facts straight. Why don't stick to trying to figure out what's true and what's not before you try making others look bad.
I'm guessing you're trying to say that my brother had five kids in a camper and is a bad parent. Which isn't true. My SIL has three kids and they now own a tiny house. And they still suck at parenting. Now run off please and try to figure that out if you can manage it.
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Oh, and since we're dredging up old stuff. My point was originally about people in general. Not at the couple who had the kid with the ear infection. My point was, and I still stand by it, that if you are living in a camper with no job, no car, and five kids you can't feed, you SHOULD NOT be having more. If that is offensive then so be it.
You're talking about your in laws right?
The same ones that lost their house in a fire recently?
No idea what you're talking about.
The ones you always talk about. 5 kids, can't take care of them, had a sprinkling cause she is pregnant again.
About a month maybe 3 ago you were saying how happy you were karma bit them in the butt cause their house burned down.
And again you are clueless. You like to make stuff up. My BROTHER has SEVEN kids. He is now divorced from his wife and his LAUNDRY ROOM burned down. Not his whole house. He's a great father. No matter how I may feel about him he's the best father I know. Didn't get it from my parents that's for sure. He takes good care of his seven kids. My SIL AND BIL DO NOT HAVE FIVE KIDS. They JUST HAD their THIRD. And no they can't take care of them. They had the second in the camper. So you're trying to drag my family into this and you don't even have your facts straight. Why don't stick to trying to figure out what's true and what's not before you try making others look bad.
I'm guessing you're trying to say that my brother had five kids in a camper and is a bad parent. Which isn't true. My SIL has three kids and they now own a tiny house. And they still suck at parenting. Now run off please and try to figure that out if you can manage it.
Funny how stories change.
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No. The stories have NEVER changed. YOU can't keep them straight. You are wrong and can't admit it. I have never said my SIL that lived in the camper has five kids. Please pull up even ONE post where I did. I dare you. Neither of them, my BROTHER or my SIL, have five kids. My brother has seven and my SIL JUST HAD her third. I dare you to find one post. You'll make up some excuse why you can't because the truth is you are wrong.
If you want to call me a liar just come out and say it. But my stories have never changed. Maybe you've just taken too many meds lately.
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And what the hell is your issue with me? You follow me around from thread to thread to try to say bad things about me and every part of my life and the people in it? You are so unChristlike it's unbelievable. You fight with flan constantly and now I'm your latest target. Do you even see how you come off to other people? You definitely don't come off nice. And nothing like I would expect a "Christian" to be.
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No. The stories have NEVER changed. YOU can't keep them straight. You are wrong and can't admit it. I have never said my SIL that lived in the camper has five kids. Please pull up even ONE post where I did. I dare you. Neither of them, my BROTHER or my SIL, have five kids. My brother has seven and my SIL JUST HAD her third. I dare you to find one post. You'll make up some excuse why you can't because the truth is you are wrong.
If you want to call me a liar just come out and say it. But my stories have never changed. Maybe you've just taken too many meds lately.
Yeah. You were talking about how horrible one of them was. Laughed about the fire. Said it served them right.
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I didn't LAUGH. Again you are WRONG. And I didn't say it served them right. Again, you are WRONG! I said karma got them. I am not putting what happened out here because there are hateful miserable tiny minded people out here that judge. Like you. All I said was that karma got them. Then you gave me a long lecture about how you don't believe in karma because you're such an outstanding Christian and what a horrible person I was and how I deserved to beaten as a child and how I play the victim and you are the most wonderful person in the world because you have overcome so many adversities and blah blah blah. Want me to ask some other posters to chime in? I know they remember this.
I have always said my SIL, NOT MY BROTHER!, is a sucky parent. I have said that from early on. They don't teach their kids table manners, or manners in general. The last time we went out to eat with them the two kids she had at the time were drinking syrup from the containers on the tables of IHOP and were walking on the tables. She spends her time texting instead of parenting. And they spend all their money on vacations and motorcycles and then have to call my in-laws for food. And my in-laws do it every time. So you know what? If they all want to dance the crazy dance they can. But I'm not going to have a part in it.
Now I don't know what your hard on is for me but you need to get over it. You keep dragging me into your chit. You start more drama and crap on here than anyone else. You do it with many people. Did it ever occur to you that flan is NOT the problem? That the problem may be YOU?
ETA: My EXACT words about my BROTHER (since you are having a mental issue and can't distinguish between my BROTHER and SIL) was karma is sweet. Not I'm laughing, not I'm happy, not it serves them right. I said karma was sweet. That is it. Whatever YOU want to read into that is up to you. But don't put words in my mouth and call them mine.
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You didn't laugh. You enjoyed it. Took pleasure in their misfortune.
And I never said you deserved being beaten. You are out right lying now.
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You didn't laugh. You enjoyed it. Took pleasure in their misfortune.
And I never said you deserved being beaten. You are out right lying now.
No YOU are full of chit. I NEVER laughed. You're a damn liar and I'll say it. I said karma got him. And I fvcking stand by it.
And you did say that. You went off on some stupid fvcking tangent about how god was beaten before he died and I make all my chit up and how I deserved it.
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You didn't laugh. You enjoyed it. Took pleasure in their misfortune.
And I never said you deserved being beaten. You are out right lying now.
No YOU are full of chit. I NEVER laughed. You're a damn liar and I'll say it. I said karma got him. And I fvcking stand by it.
And you did say that. You went off on some stupid fvcking tangent about how god was beaten before he died and I make all my chit up and how I deserved it.
You're insane.
When you take pleasure in another's misfortune, you are enjoying it. And that ain't right. You got pissed cause you got called on it.
You get pissed any time some one calls you on your crap.
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You didn't laugh. You enjoyed it. Took pleasure in their misfortune.
And I never said you deserved being beaten. You are out right lying now.
No YOU are full of chit. I NEVER laughed. You're a damn liar and I'll say it. I said karma got him. And I fvcking stand by it.
And you did say that. You went off on some stupid fvcking tangent about how god was beaten before he died and I make all my chit up and how I deserved it.
You're insane.
When you take pleasure in another's misfortune, you are enjoying it. And that ain't right. You got pissed cause you got called on it.
You get pissed any time some one calls you on your crap.
I would truly tell you what I think of you right now but then I would get banned. You are a liar.
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Oh I really don't care what you think about me. I don't take pleasure in other people's misfortune. So no matter what you think of me, it's no where near as bad as the truth about you.
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Oh I really don't care what you think about me. I don't take pleasure in other people's misfortune. So no matter what you think of me, it's no where near as bad as the truth about you.
So you really want to sit here and keep on? What are you hoping I lower myself to your level? Not going to happen. Keep trying.
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MOther of two uncircumcised sons, and two uncircumcised grandsons. Don't understand what women find so disturbing about it.
Meh, me either.
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I once knew a guy who liked to be bit. It was weird. He creeped me out and I stayed away from him after that.
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I am a huge fan of oral and uncut doesn't stop me for a second. I might feel different if he was not clean, but not clean is a deal breaker with or without extra skin.
If I had do do it over again I might not have cut my son. I don't really enjoy thinking of his crank so I just try not to.
Oral sex...that's the difference. Much more pleasant with a cut guy...period.
But there is so much more to play with, and to do! The options are practically endless!
I don't understand the grossness factor to it. If it's clean, it's clean, cut or not.
It's got nothing to do with cleanliness (although it better be clean), it's got to do with the look factor. I prefer mine cut just like I prefer my men to be beardless or tall.
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