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have you ever willingly taken a drink with a guy, then later willingly had sex with him? [13 vote(s)]

yes
23.1%
maybe, not sure
7.7%
no, never
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other / confused
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Ladies, have you ever willingly taken a drink (or something stronger) with a guy, then later willingly had sex with him?

For this survey, if you don't mind, I'd like to define "willingly" as (1) something was offered and you didn't say "no" or get up and leave, and

(2) he never did anything that would have actually prevented you from getting up and leaving, and you stayed.

 

If you have a better way to ask this, please feel free.

 



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I'm not sure exactly what you are asking. If you mean hook up with some guy at a bar after drinking a few (maybe too many) then Yes. I've never had anyone slip roofies or qualudes in my drink so if that is what you mean, willingly at the time only to realize later I was drugged, then No.

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No, never.

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Well I got married at 19 before I was old enough to go to bars and drink. Lol

I taught both girls to never take a drink from a man without seeing it being poured and to never leave the drink. Hold it, but once you put it down and let it out of your sight...don't drink from it again.

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Gross. No.

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No, never.


 

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Yes.



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Nope. I was never that free wheeling.

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Why would you need to take something to have sex if you want to have it. This is really a strange question.

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I think it's about those who get drunk or does drugs because they want to, and then agree to have sex.

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Tinydancer wrote:

Why would you need to take something to have sex if you want to have it. This is really a strange question.


Some people think sex is better when they're high. Some people think EVERYTHING is better when they're high. 

 

 

I don't think so, but then again I've been drunk only twice, once with my freshman year room mates (nothing sexual there) and once with  a young lady who brought over a quart of white wine. I learned first hand that there is nothing sexy about a drunk girl throwing up, even if she is naked.

So I stay(ed) sober after that.

But I've known people who wanted to be high all the time, and said that sex was better without inhibitions. (i.e. when stoned or buzzed)

I believe that the girls who took drugs from Cosby wanted the drugs and also wanted the buzzed sex.

 I just don't believe he ever would have had to drug a woman to get into her pants.

 



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My apologies if I messed up your poll. I answered it before I read the OP and saw you were asking the ladies of the board.

So you can make the appropriate adjustment calculation, for the record, I voted "no, never".

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WYSIWYG wrote:

My apologies if I messed up your poll. I answered it before I read the OP and saw you were asking the ladies of the board.

So you can make the appropriate adjustment calculation, for the record, I voted "no, never".


I've never had sex with a guy either. But I have had sex with a WOMAN after one drink. 

And to see the results of the poll I had to answer SOMETHING.

 

I think in the future I'll add a choice of "does not apply".



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ed--you seem to be overlooking a major component of cosby's MO--as confirmed by many of his victims--he drugged them WITHOUT their knowledge and had sex with them against their wishes OR when they were incapacitated to the point they could not consent / remember

this is CLEARLY the behavior of a PREDATOR not just some celebrity schmuck out for a night of partying


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burns07 wrote:


ed--you seem to be overlooking a major component of cosby's MO--as confirmed by many of his victims--he drugged them WITHOUT their knowledge and had sex with them against their wishes OR when they were incapacitated to the point they could not consent / remember

this is CLEARLY the behavior of a PREDATOR not just some celebrity schmuck out for a night of partying


 Not in the case of the girls he was admitting to in the deposition.  He has never admitted to drugging girls without their knowledge.  He was living the 60 and 70's were drugs and rock & roll were the thing and now is being vilified.  I am not defending him but a society cannot not demonize someone for doing something that was the norm in the era. Don't fall into that trap.



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Not in the case of the girls he was admitting to in the deposition. He has never admitted to drugging girls without their knowledge. He was living the 60 and 70's were drugs and rock & roll were the thing and now is being vilified. I am not defending him but a society cannot not demonize someone for doing something that was the norm in the era. Don't fall into that trap.
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This!

In the quotes from the deposition I read, I never saw him admit to drugging anyone against their will, and back then getting drugged up with celebrities was pretty much in fashion. Don't vilify him for something that was more likely, based on the attitudes towards it at the time, consensual than not.

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