She didn't say she hated this board. And she does have a point. A lot of threads here revolve around religion & abortion. It does get tiresome. I usually just leave & don't say anything but she felt like saying something.
White chocolate mud cake? They look like decorated berries or cherries to me. Whatever it is I'll have some.
As far as I'm aware - you have to actually click on the thread to open and read it. And threads about abortion usually have abortion or similar in the title in the title - like "Planned Parenthood". And those usually lead to discussion about religion. In fact - you can normally tell what a thread is by the title. And there are PLENTY of other threads that don't have that in them. And there is also a "Start a new topic" button where you can start a thread about whatever the hell you want. So, if you HATE threads on abortion, WHY THE HELL DO YOU OPEN THEM AND READ THEM?
BECAUSE THE OTHER THREADS GET VERY LITTLE TRAFFIC IN CASE YOU DIDN"T NOTICE HOW MANY PAGES THIS ONE HAS?!?
I hope your day gets better. I'm going to bow out now that it has turned to screaming at each other.
She didn't say she hated this board. And she does have a point. A lot of threads here revolve around religion & abortion. It does get tiresome. I usually just leave & don't say anything but she felt like saying something.
White chocolate mud cake? They look like decorated berries or cherries to me. Whatever it is I'll have some.
As far as I'm aware - you have to actually click on the thread to open and read it. And threads about abortion usually have abortion or similar in the title in the title - like "Planned Parenthood". And those usually lead to discussion about religion. In fact - you can normally tell what a thread is by the title. And there are PLENTY of other threads that don't have that in them. And there is also a "Start a new topic" button where you can start a thread about whatever the hell you want. So, if you HATE threads on abortion, WHY THE HELL DO YOU OPEN THEM AND READ THEM?
BECAUSE THE OTHER THREADS GET VERY LITTLE TRAFFIC IN CASE YOU DIDN"T NOTICE HOW MANY PAGES THIS ONE HAS?!?
I hope your day gets better. I'm going to bow out now that it has turned to screaming at each other.
They get very little traffic because they're mostly boring. Obviously lot's of people like these threads so why would you want them to stop?
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She didn't say she hated this board. And she does have a point. A lot of threads here revolve around religion & abortion. It does get tiresome. I usually just leave & don't say anything but she felt like saying something.
White chocolate mud cake? They look like decorated berries or cherries to me. Whatever it is I'll have some.
As far as I'm aware - you have to actually click on the thread to open and read it. And threads about abortion usually have abortion or similar in the title in the title - like "Planned Parenthood". And those usually lead to discussion about religion. In fact - you can normally tell what a thread is by the title. And there are PLENTY of other threads that don't have that in them. And there is also a "Start a new topic" button where you can start a thread about whatever the hell you want. So, if you HATE threads on abortion, WHY THE HELL DO YOU OPEN THEM AND READ THEM?
BECAUSE THE OTHER THREADS GET VERY LITTLE TRAFFIC IN CASE YOU DIDN"T NOTICE HOW MANY PAGES THIS ONE HAS?!?
I hope your day gets better. I'm going to bow out now that it has turned to screaming at each other.
OK, well, here's the catch-22 on that one. If people such as yourself and Tang would post more on the other threads that are not getting as much traffic, people would have more to respond to. So, your excuse that this one gets more traffic - YOU are part of that traffic.
I personally would prefer to talk about many other things, those fizzle out fast because not many people respond. So, if the complaint is that other threads need more traffic, WHY do the people that claim to want those threads barely touch them?
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I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you.
Well I like talking politics, religion , etc. And other posters do as well. Post what u want. If others are interested they will chat. But you don't get to control what o prefer to chat about. Nobody's arm is being twisted to get on an abortion thread.
You're not being offensive tangerine, you're sharing your thoughts and opinions which apparently isn't okay to some people, hence the immature backlash. I hope you stick around and just ignore the mean, entitled comments.
Immaturity is obviously based upon the viewpoint. I find it highly immature to come and post pissy comments on threads you claim to dislike while ignoring the majority of other threads on different topics - the ones claimed not to exist. The people who pop in now and then to simply bitch about what people are posting instead of contributing to the type of threads they claim to like seems immature to me. And to expressly go to threads that are controversial and include religious issues and then to complain about people posting their religious views IS a swipe at the Christians on the board. THAT is immature and entitled. Entitled in thinking that what you are posting is somehow more important than what others are posting.
And flouncing because someone responds badly to an ADMITTEDLY pissy post is also immature. You could try contributing to the other threads and staying off the ones that chap your ass. Or should I post a vote and see if people only want a board where none of the threads can be controversial? Would that be better?
And Vette, your constant defense of people you like even when they are the ones in the wrong is also immature as is the insulting tone of your post.
Clearly it is your opinion and not mine that she is in the wrong, so don't assume you know my motives.
And what exactly do you mean by constant? I hardly even post anymore.
But that's what most of your posts are these days. You come in to either defend your friends when they have put themselves in a situation of their own making.
If that's how you feel about my posts, (and I still disagree, most of my posts are not "defending my friends") then why don't you take your own advice and don't read them? There must be hundreds of other posts to read every day from other people, why don't you just gloss over mine? Notice how I have a super bright avatar that kind of stands out? Maybe when you see it you can just scroll on by.
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Was it a bad day?
Or was it a bad five minutes that you milked all day?
You're not being offensive tangerine, you're sharing your thoughts and opinions which apparently isn't okay to some people, hence the immature backlash. I hope you stick around and just ignore the mean, entitled comments.
Immaturity is obviously based upon the viewpoint. I find it highly immature to come and post pissy comments on threads you claim to dislike while ignoring the majority of other threads on different topics - the ones claimed not to exist. The people who pop in now and then to simply bitch about what people are posting instead of contributing to the type of threads they claim to like seems immature to me. And to expressly go to threads that are controversial and include religious issues and then to complain about people posting their religious views IS a swipe at the Christians on the board. THAT is immature and entitled. Entitled in thinking that what you are posting is somehow more important than what others are posting.
And flouncing because someone responds badly to an ADMITTEDLY pissy post is also immature. You could try contributing to the other threads and staying off the ones that chap your ass. Or should I post a vote and see if people only want a board where none of the threads can be controversial? Would that be better?
And Vette, your constant defense of people you like even when they are the ones in the wrong is also immature as is the insulting tone of your post.
Clearly it is your opinion and not mine that she is in the wrong, so don't assume you know my motives.
And what exactly do you mean by constant? I hardly even post anymore.
But that's what most of your posts are these days. You come in to either defend your friends when they have put themselves in a situation of their own making.
If that's how you feel about my posts, (and I still disagree, most of my posts are not "defending my friends") then why don't you take your own advice and don't read them? There must be hundreds of other posts to read every day from other people, why don't you just gloss over mine? Notice how I have a super bright avatar that kind of stands out? Maybe when you see it you can just scroll on by.
Ah, no. I'm not going to just scroll on by your posts attacking other people on behalf of others.
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I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you.
Please, show me where I ATTACKED anybody. I would REALLY love to know.
Really?
"You're not being offensive tangerine, you're sharing your thoughts and opinions which apparently isn't okay to some people, hence the immature backlash. I hope you stick around and just ignore the mean, entitled comments."
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I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you.
Seriously? You called the people responding to Tang immature, and their posts mean and entitled. There were only a few of us responding to her so it was VERY obvious. And MY original post to her did not include any insults - it simply said if you prefer the other types of threads, you should post on those and stay off this one since she was complaining about this one.
And while her post annoyed me - yours went over the top.
And while you thought the responses were mean - I thought her original post on the thread was mean. See how that works?
-- Edited by Lawyerlady on Thursday 16th of July 2015 01:09:12 PM
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I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you.
So show me what rule I've actually broken otherwise we can just be on our merry way.
Did I say you broke a rule? But, if you are going to post such nasty things - you are going to get it back. YOU made this situation worse with your over the line insulting of the people arguing. It's a hilarious double standard you have that some people can post pissy things, but others can't respond without you stepping in to insult them and make the situation worse.
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I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you.
Because it isn't only the Christians posting Bible verses, and it isn't the Christians who are telling others not to talk about or discus the Bible.
And a Christian who does point out or posts something contrary to the general secular view, well they just ain't being very Christian like and are hating.
Kind of like what's happening in the real world. It's now here in the cyber world.
Until my 1st amendment right is repealed, I will speak of God and the Bible when and where and as often as I please.
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Okay. I guess my real problem is that I vehemently disagree with several very vocal posters who also happen to frequently cite the Bible as the reasoning behind their opinions.
I think I will just take a another step back from this board.
I can be reached via pm, if anyone wants to talk to me.
I apologize for being offensive.
So, basically, you want people who disagree with you to quit posting stuff you disagree with.
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I'm not arguing, I'm just explaining why I'm right.
Well, I could agree with you--but then we'd both be wrong.
Okay. I guess my real problem is that I vehemently disagree with several very vocal posters who also happen to frequently cite the Bible as the reasoning behind their opinions.
I think I will just take a another step back from this board.
I can be reached via pm, if anyone wants to talk to me.
I apologize for being offensive.
Go to the hospital to be with your DH and see what happens...
Tang, you are a long-time poster and I am so sorry you feel this way. I also understand exactly HOW you feel.
She didn't say she hated this board. And she does have a point. A lot of threads here revolve around religion & abortion. It does get tiresome. I usually just leave & don't say anything but she felt like saying something.
White chocolate mud cake? They look like decorated berries or cherries to me. Whatever it is I'll have some.
After the Supreme Court decision, there were AT LEAST 3 different threads on page 1...and other threads that managed to change topic & discuss SSM.
I don't know why people can't admit what is in front of their eyes.
You're not being offensive tangerine, you're sharing your thoughts and opinions which apparently isn't okay to some people, hence the immature backlash. I hope you stick around and just ignore the mean, entitled comments.
Immaturity is obviously based upon the viewpoint. I find it highly immature to come and post pissy comments on threads you claim to dislike while ignoring the majority of other threads on different topics - the ones claimed not to exist. The people who pop in now and then to simply bitch about what people are posting instead of contributing to the type of threads they claim to like seems immature to me. And to expressly go to threads that are controversial and include religious issues and then to complain about people posting their religious views IS a swipe at the Christians on the board. THAT is immature and entitled. Entitled in thinking that what you are posting is somehow more important than what others are posting.
And flouncing because someone responds badly to an ADMITTEDLY pissy post is also immature. You could try contributing to the other threads and staying off the ones that chap your ass. Or should I post a vote and see if people only want a board where none of the threads can be controversial? Would that be better?
And Vette, your constant defense of people you like even when they are the ones in the wrong is also immature as is the insulting tone of your post.
Clearly it is your opinion and not mine that she is in the wrong, so don't assume you know my motives.
And what exactly do you mean by constant? I hardly even post anymore.
But that's what most of your posts are these days. You come in to either defend your friends when they have put themselves in a situation of their own making.
If that's how you feel about my posts, (and I still disagree, most of my posts are not "defending my friends") then why don't you take your own advice and don't read them? There must be hundreds of other posts to read every day from other people, why don't you just gloss over mine? Notice how I have a super bright avatar that kind of stands out? Maybe when you see it you can just scroll on by.
Okay. I guess my real problem is that I vehemently disagree with several very vocal posters who also happen to frequently cite the Bible as the reasoning behind their opinions.
I think I will just take a another step back from this board.
I can be reached via pm, if anyone wants to talk to me.
I apologize for being offensive.
Go to the hospital to be with your DH and see what happens...
Tang, you are a long-time poster and I am so sorry you feel this way. I also understand exactly HOW you feel.
And you were NOT offensive.
flan
How is she the "victim" here? We were all getting along just fine debating our normal stuff. SHE is the one had issues with OTHERS quoting the Bible and talking about what THEY wanted to talk about. Same old thing. Attack, then retreat, then pretend to be the wounded one as if you had no part in it. Sheesh. She is free to start posts of her liking, contribute how she sees fit and say whatever the heck she wants to say. But, likewise, if someone wants to quote the Bible then that is their prerogative too.
Okay. I guess my real problem is that I vehemently disagree with several very vocal posters who also happen to frequently cite the Bible as the reasoning behind their opinions.
I think I will just take a another step back from this board.
I can be reached via pm, if anyone wants to talk to me.
I apologize for being offensive.
Go to the hospital to be with your DH and see what happens...
Tang, you are a long-time poster and I am so sorry you feel this way. I also understand exactly HOW you feel.
And you were NOT offensive.
flan
So you, also, think that anyone who disagrees with you should not post? That is EXACTLY what she just said.
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I'm not arguing, I'm just explaining why I'm right.
Well, I could agree with you--but then we'd both be wrong.
Okay. I guess my real problem is that I vehemently disagree with several very vocal posters who also happen to frequently cite the Bible as the reasoning behind their opinions.
I think I will just take a another step back from this board.
I can be reached via pm, if anyone wants to talk to me.
I apologize for being offensive.
So, basically, you want people who disagree with you to quit posting stuff you disagree with.
No. I don't want anyone to quit posting. I was trying to explain that I realized that I was the one with the problem here and the way I can solve my problem is by not reading this stuff.
everyone please carry on with what you were doing.
Okay. I guess my real problem is that I vehemently disagree with several very vocal posters who also happen to frequently cite the Bible as the reasoning behind their opinions.
I think I will just take a another step back from this board.
I can be reached via pm, if anyone wants to talk to me.
I apologize for being offensive.
So, basically, you want people who disagree with you to quit posting stuff you disagree with.
No. I don't want anyone to quit posting. I was trying to explain that I realized that I was the one with the problem here and the way I can solve my problem is by not reading this stuff.
everyone please carry on with what you were doing.
I appreciate that. I really got offended, but I'm going to apologize for my responses becoming more and more harsh. Vette's post really crawled up my ass and made it 10 times worse, but I'm going to apologize to her, too, for my very strong response because I don't like fighting with her.
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I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you.
A flock of flirting flamingos is pure, passionate, pink pandemonium-a frenetic flamingle-mangle-a discordant discotheque of delirious dancing, flamboyant feathers, and flamingo lingo.
Ed. I would love to post on cars but I really don't know much about them!
Perfect! You could ask QUESTIONS!
Maybe talk about the last time you had to have a car serviced, describe whatever it was that made you take the car in, what kind of place you took it to.
Then we could have a long discussion about incompetent or thieving mechanics...
or GOOD mechanics.
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I don't post much about religion, and nothing about the Bible,
and I'd LOVE it if more people would comment on or respond to my other posts.
That might be difficult for people who don't have or know anything about cars, or cartoons,
or maybe don't like Puzzler challenges.
ed, this is NOT a criticism, so please don't take it that way--but a lot of your threads don't lend themselves well to a lot of responses. A lot of them seem more like informational posts and not so much discussion posts.
Just an observation and not a criticism. Some of the information is very good.
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I'm not arguing, I'm just explaining why I'm right.
Well, I could agree with you--but then we'd both be wrong.
Lily, how do you feel about the guys who OWN those muscle cars?
Depends.
I know some who are really great guys and I know some who are total douches.
As for attracting those guys, I generally just pulled up beside them with mine and revved the engine.
Or when I wasn't in my car I would talk about theirs and they would usually let me drive it.
Around here, you either had a musclear car, a four wheel drive or motorcycle.
So it was pretty common.
I also was friends with a local drag racing champion. So that got me close to the action too.
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Lily, how do you feel about the guys who OWN those muscle cars?
Guys? I had a '66 T-Bird that I adored.
Does that count as a muscle car?
Yeah. Sort of. More classic than muscle.
I had a 80 buick regal, v8, headers, and serious horse power.
It grumbled and growled like an angry lion.
I loved it.
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Also had a few granadas, a camero, and several others.
My dad bought, sold and traded cars for a long time. My grandfather was an auctioneer and all my uncles have run car lots.
I'd get a car on Sunday morning, clean it up, drive it for two days or sometimes a month, just depended, and come in from school and dad say "give me your keys, I sold the car". Next day I'd have another.
There isn't much I haven't had.
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