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The 'Yes' to sex app: New mobile phone device films people giving consent to protect users from assault claims - but health workers condemn 'contracts' as 'evil'

  • The WeConsent app was created by a former Wall Street banker
  • Uses Apple iPhone's video camera to make 20-second recording
  • Asks both partners to state their names and that they agree to sex
  • Critics have branded sex contracts 'pure evil' and a 'dangerous notion' 

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They're already used for everything from ordering your groceries to checking your bank balance and booking a table at a restaurant.

So it was only matter of time before a mobile phone app was launched that lets people say yes to sex.

The app is designed to make sure there’s no trouble between partners the morning after the night before, as they film themselves giving consent. But while some health workers have backed so-called ‘sex contracts’, rape victims and student union leaders have condemned them as ‘evil’ and ‘dangerous’.

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The video is then saved in a cloud or server
 

'No Doubts': The app uses an Apple iPhone’s video camera to make a 20-second recording of both partners agreeing to sex. The video is then saved in a cloud or server

The WeConsent app is available for £3.20 and is the creation of former Wall Street banker turned philosophy professor Michael Lissick. It uses an Apple iPhone’s video camera to make a 20-second recording of both partners agreeing to sex.

A breathy female British voice asks participants to state their name and to agree to sex. Once the video has been completed the voice says: ‘Consent confirmed. Have fun.’ The video is then saved in a ‘cloud’ or server.

Mr Lissick, 57, said: ‘The videos are twice encrypted and can only be accessed by law enforcement, by a written judge’s order or as part on an ongoing sexual investigation by a college.’

More than 100 people in the UK have already downloaded it.

 
We-Consent: app allows users to video date agreeing to sex
 
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Sex contracts are being encouraged widely in American colleges. University of Massachusetts student Noah Convicer, 21, has used the WeConsent app several times and said: ‘It’s a great idea. I don’t feel embarrassed asking a girl to consent to sex on video. It protects both of us and it is a mature and responsible thing to do. I use apps for everything else, so why not this?’

 

Sally Bratton, who sits on the board of the Health Services Association for Californian Community Colleges, which represents two million students on 112 campuses, said: ‘These contracts are a very good idea. They take away any doubt or misunderstanding, which is one of the leading causes of accusations of sexual assault. When you have apps like Tinder making sex purely recreational, why not have an app or contract to protect yourself?’ But Jasmin Enriquez, 23, who was date-raped as a student at Pennsylvania State University, branded sex contracts ‘pure evil’, saying: ‘They are nothing more than stunts and money-generating schemes which distract from the real issue which is education. We need to educate students of both sexes. Informed consent is an ongoing, shifting process which cannot be encapsulated in a contract. A contract fails to safeguard a woman who might change her mind after signing it.’

And Susuana Amoah, women’s officer at the UK’s National Union of Students, said: ‘The idea that consent could be given through an app is a really dangerous notion – this type of technology isn’t the answer to developing better sexual consent behaviour. We shouldn’t be encouraging students to equate consent with “there’s an app for that” – we should be encouraging them to engage in on-going discussions about consent and boundaries.’

Mr Lissick has also launched a ‘What About No’ app, for £3.99. If the user chooses this, a stern voice on the phone says: ‘What part of no do you not understand?’

A video of the person being told no is recorded and stored, and could be used in evidence.

Another version of the sex contract, the Consent Conscious Kit, is being sold online for £2. It includes a paper contract stating ‘Yes! We agree to have sex!’ which couples are asked to sign and date. They can then take a time-stamped photo or video of themselves holding it.

We-Consent is available via the Institute for the Study of Coherence and Emergence in Massachusetts. What-About-No is available on the UK app store for £3.99.



Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3166650/The-Yes-sex-app-New-mobile-phone-device-films-people-giving-consent-protect-users-assault-claims-health-workers-condemn-contracts-evil.html#ixzz3gHoIXlQ4
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What?
What?
WHAT?

No, this is absurd.

What if you are drunk? Or coerced? Or change your mind halfway through the night and just want to go home?
Sex is not complicated, people, both parties should be having sexy fun. If somebody is not having sexy fun, put it on hold until they are ready to have sexy fun.

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No way in hell I'd put my sexual exploits on a permanent record like that.

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I only see how this could help the guy and not how this helps the woman.

As was said before, what if she changes her mind mid way? What if he likes it rough and she decides she doesn't want that and he forces her? That's rape. But he will get away with it because he had this app.

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This is a good idea, with a caveat.

While I will wholeheartedly agree that it doesn't do anything about the person that changes their mind, it does remove any sort of "I never agreed to have sex with him/her!" kind of false reports.

The only true and sure-fire way for this app to be of any real use against the "I changed my mind" problem would be for the app to video record everything from that point on, including the sex, consensually, of course. And then finish with another Q and A "Did you consent to the sex that just occurred?"

I'm not sure too many people would be comfortable with that.

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You know - people could just stop having one night stands, and then this wouldn't be such an issue.

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You know - people could just stop having one night stands, and then this wouldn't be such an issue.


 That wouldnt prevent the issues when women get drugged or are drunk and cannot consent  - but it would prevent a LOT of issues for sure. 



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Drugged? I agree. But drunk women can, and often do, consent. Drunkenness is a voluntary state - you don't get to get drunk and disclaim your actions.

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Lawyerlady wrote:

You know - people could just stop having one night stands, and then this wouldn't be such an issue.


 That wouldnt prevent the issues when women get drugged or are drunk and cannot consent  - but it would prevent a LOT of issues for sure. 


 Why can women " not consent" when drunk and not men?  BS double standard.



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Come on Husker. Women are only responsible for their own bodies when seeking an abortion.

The rest of the time they are inept babies in pretty shoes.

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Come on Husker. Women are only responsible for their own bodies when seeking an abortion.

The rest of the time they are inept babies in pretty shoes.


Shoes? Barefoot is better. 

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Come on Husker. Women are only responsible for their own bodies when seeking an abortion.

The rest of the time they are inept babies in pretty shoes.


 Sadly, you are exactly right in regards to how they are treated by many, including some laws.



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