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Would you hire a nanny like her? [19 vote(s)]

Are you crazy? Hell no.
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Why not? I trust my husband.
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Probably not. Why tempt fate?
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Depends.
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Ohfour wrote:
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I do not understand women who lack so much self confidence, that this would even be a question.

If a man is a cheat, he will cheat with anyone, looks will not matter.

 With my first husband, that was me. But i was also told every day how unattractive I was and how much better looking younger women were...I was a shell of the woman I am now. 

With G, its not even a thought.  It was at first, with him being on the road so much. But i was still in that shell. He brought me out of that to make me as confident as I am now. Although I ever so often have those flashbacks...I dont know that i will ever be released from the abuse.

 I went through a bit of that with my first husband as well.  Perhaps that's why there's a bit of insecurity here.   



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I trust my husband - it was one of the main reasons I married him, because I COULD trust him. I had too many boyfriends cheat to be naive, though.

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Doesn't matter if you're a celebrity. You'll cheat if you want to. There's celebs who have been married decades. We just don't hear about them because it doesn't feed into the stereotypical Hollywood type.

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As a guy, I truthfully do not find her attractive.  She appears rather annoying/irritating in appearance.  Also, I have never cheated when I was in a relationship.  I have no desire to even date at the current time.  Not worth the drama of dealing with many women's insecurities.  biggrin



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Renegade Time Lord wrote:

As a guy, I truthfully do not find her attractive.  She appears rather annoying/irritating in appearance.  Also, I have never cheated when I was in a relationship.  I have no desire to even date at the current time.  Not worth the drama of dealing with many women's insecurities.  biggrin

 RTL, you sound like my Dad.  He says that I'm the only woman in his life from now on... biggrin



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That's me. No desire to date.

Shoot I rarely have the desire to socialize at all anymore.



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Tinydancer wrote:
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I don't think my husband would leave me for a younger version, but I don't think I need to dangle the carrot.

 Exactly.  Wasn't there even a thread about this a while back?  About women being the cause of men's lust?  Seems the argument changes depending on the weather.  LOL!

It does.

 

So many on here said they would MOVE IN someone who WANTED to sleep with their husband--no matter what they looked like--yet they won't even hire a pretty woman even if she has expressed no interest in the husband.   

 No. What was said was that men should be able to control themselves if someone other than their partner throws themselves at him. I don't recall a single person saying they thought it was a good idea to keep hussy sister there. I do recall you said that the man wouldn't be able to "control" himself. We also pointed out that we knew many men who had self control even if you didn't think they would have.

 You are dead wrong.  Go back and look at the thread.  SEVERAL said that the wife should be able to move the sister in. 



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lilyofcourse wrote:

That's me. No desire to date.

Shoot I rarely have the desire to socialize at all anymore.

 I'm right there with you Lily.



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If you can't trust your husband around a woman, any woman, you married the wrong man. If you have misgivings letting your husband around an employee who is female, he married the wrong woman.

Cheaters gonna cheat. But a trustworthy man won't cheat, no matter what the woman looks like.

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Mellow Momma wrote:

If you can't trust your husband around a woman, any woman, you married the wrong man. If you have misgivings letting your husband around an employee who is female, he married the wrong woman.

Cheaters gonna cheat. But a trustworthy man won't cheat, no matter what the woman looks like.

 That is the truth.  Plain and simple.



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