We picked up the ashes of our sweet kitty today. I didn't think it would bother me so much. I am getting used to him not meeting me at the door every morning for food. The other cats seem to be doing well. We taught one to fetch my hair tie and bring it back. I am just still so very sad. I know he is with his sister and chasing birds and being young again, but I want him here with me. He was the sweetest cat ever. Now I am laying with my other boys so thankful I have them for as long as possible. The vet made a paw print and cut pieces of all the colors of his hair. So appreciative of the kindness and compassion they showed us.
I just needed to "talk' about this. I am trying to not bring others around me down with it. Every day I have had a moment of tears, but so glad he is finally back home with me where he belongs.
Almost adopted a rescue lol, but common sense finally kicked in.
Sorry for for the downer thread everyone. I should delete, but I was hoping for comfort in writing this. Real life people aren't understanding our pain. Now brother and sister are fighting lol. I guess the mourning is over and it's back to real life.
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Thank you everyone. Last night was tough, but every day it gets a little easier. I wasn't expecting the emotions when I saw the container and the piece of hair next to a poem. I know he had a good life and was happy. I am also so glad he didn't suffer too much. After acting funny on Thursday and Friday, we were taking him to the vet Saturday morning and he passed in his favorite spot.
Aw! I am so sorry. I'm going to be a basket case when I lose my Kiddie Rock. I totally get you. So many hugs... and sending comforting vibes your way. It seems he had a wonderful life. Try to focus on that when you're feeling down.
We had to put down our cat, Couscous, not too long ago. My son was beside himself.
"Mom, you can't let him die! There has to be something we can do! Maybe a kidney transplant? You CAN'T!"
"Yes, honey, I can. He's 20 and not happy any more."
Thank you so much everyone. We are slowly doing ok. It is still an empty part of the house, but I would not trade the time I had with him for anything. We have lost two cats in 14 months and gained one. The two sweet kitties both had the strength to pass with us at home while vet arrangements were being made for the two. They gave us that gift along with their love for so many years. 17 & 16 is far too short for me, but they had their time. Focussing on the others right now. We have a 13 y/o, 9 y/o and a 2 y/o. They give us so much love we are blessed.
I appreciate all of the support and wonderful thoughts. I wish all cat lovers a kitty like our Coop. He was one in a million. Truly the sweetest cat ever. Just wanted to give love. There will always be a snuggle spot on the couch next to me for him.
Maybe this is strange, but we want to spread some of his ashes at our favorite place. Maybe a reminder that he is there with us. Weird?
Thank you so much everyone. We are slowly doing ok. It is still an empty part of the house, but I would not trade the time I had with him for anything. We have lost two cats in 14 months and gained one. The two sweet kitties both had the strength to pass with us at home while vet arrangements were being made for the two. They gave us that gift along with their love for so many years. 17 & 16 is far too short for me, but they had their time. Focussing on the others right now. We have a 13 y/o, 9 y/o and a 2 y/o. They give us so much love we are blessed.
I appreciate all of the support and wonderful thoughts. I wish all cat lovers a kitty like our Coop. He was one in a million. Truly the sweetest cat ever. Just wanted to give love. There will always be a snuggle spot on the couch next to me for him.
Maybe this is strange, but we want to spread some of his ashes at our favorite place. Maybe a reminder that he is there with us. Weird?
