I'm sorry but I disagree. If someone calls me non stop for a year after I told him I am not interested and stop..... He is a stalker. I think if anyone but Lily posted the story there would be more sympathy. I would feel threatened if a guy did that after being told to stop. That is controlling behavior. And says that the person only cares aboot getting what he wants.... people like that can be dangerous. If I had to.pretend I'm moving to France or whatever....I don't care as long as he stops. Perhaps realizing someone felt compelled to say they died to get you to leave them the fvck alone was a wake up call. Geesh
Then we'll have to disagree. Lily's first post on the subject said she went from telling him she couldn't talk to avoiding his calls. She never once said anything about telling him straight up not to contact her again - and this was on the heels of her saying there is no reason to have to tell people directly, you just don't have to answer and that's good enough. So, yeah, the fact that the story changed after she was called out for telling him she was dead makes me think the first version she told was a whole lot closer to the truth. Especially considering her previous posts on the thread.
And it doesn't matter who it would be. I don't like labeling college guys who have sex with willing drunk girls rapists and I don't like labeling men who stalkers who are not. The victimhood mentality gets old. And if it was anyone else, I can ASSURE you Lily would be agreeing with ME.
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