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just Czech · Give Me Grand's!

RE: Dear Abby: Hubby has Photos of Ex on Facebook

Empyreal · Senior Member

I think he should get rid of the pics. No brainer.

Oughttabeworking · Regular

I think it is more about respecting your spouse after she has told you that something bothers her than it is about the pictures. He should take them down. UNLESS he and the X have kids together.

I don't have pics of my X on FB, but I do still have our wedding photo album. My bf has pics of his X on FB, too. I don't care. If I DID care, however, and I asked him to take them down, I'm reasonably certain that he would do so and we wouldn't be fighting about it.

When we were moving the last of this things from out of state, he was going to toss some pics that were of him and his X (the kids weren't in them), but I told him he should keep them. They will matter to the kids one day. So, he kept them. As long as he isn't keeping them under his pillow, it doesn't matter :)

I know what to do_sometimes · Frozen Sucks!

just Czech wrote:
I have been on facebook for years and have never gone to anyone's page just to look at their photo albums.

To me, that is a form or stalking. JMHO

FB now has pictures pop up on the anniversary of their postings. Perhaps that is a reminder to her.

Lady Gaga Snerd · Guru

OK, now THAT is the best point I have heard. You are right. Facebook does do that.

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:
OK, now THAT is the best point I have heard. You are right. Facebook does do that.

An automatic Facebook posting engine is a better reason that her husband clinging to pictures of his ex and refusing to take them down? Uh - ok. hmm

Lady Gaga Snerd · Guru

Where do u get " clinging"?

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:
Where do u get " clinging"?

He's fighting with his wife over taking them down. If he wasn't clinging to them, he would take them down without hesitation.

Ohfour · Hooker

Lawyerlady wrote:
Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:
Where do u get " clinging"?
He's fighting with his wife over taking them down. If he wasn't clinging to them, he would take them down without hesitation.

Agree...

Lady Gaga Snerd · Guru

Just get a divorce already.

just Czech · Give Me Grand's!

Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:
Just get a divorce already.

That IS where they are headed.

Gosh, over stupid stuff.

Must be a hill to die on..

Ohfour · Hooker

Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:
Just get a divorce already.

I might. Just talked to G about it....it would definitely be a bone of contention.

just Czech · Give Me Grand's!

I doubt that my DH would care. He is very confident in our relationship and he's not going to sweat the small stuff in life.

Granted, he does not have facebook, or as he refers to the net, mind junk.

Nobody Just Nobody · Rib-it! Rrrib-it!

My DH has pictures of ex g/f's and wives in his photo album. I know who they are and can talk to any of them anytime I want. If he were sneaking around behind my back it would be an issue. The past is the past because it has passed. I don't worry about what was. I focus on what is.