TOTALLY GEEKED!

Lady Gaga Snerd · Guru

RE: Outrage as Maryland bride presents Christian pastor father with 'certificate of purity' to prove she's a virgin

Lindley · Guru

Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:
I think it is the whole TMI thing. Like gays, I don't need to know who they are sleeping with. I dont' need to know that you are a virgin. I don't need to know that you jacked off in the car this morning before you came into work. Let personal things be personal. We don't need to KNOW every damn thing about everyone!

I agree

Ohfour · Hooker

Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:
Huh? Instagram is the media. Hello.

No its not. I have a couple of instagram accounts. No one can see anything unless I approve them...

Lady Gaga Snerd · Guru

Sorry but posting the details of your hymen on social media deserves being slammed.

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

The father could have declined to comment:

Mr Freeman told BuzzFeed that he was not expecting to be presented with the certificate and was caught off guard when he was asked to stand during the wedding reception

He said: 'I was totally unaware of what was about to take place. During the remarks, she shared that she wanted to honor me by not allowing any man to touch her before her husband.'

flan

Ohfour · Hooker

Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:

Sorry but posting the details of your hymen on social media deserves being slammed.

I disagree.

Lady Gaga Snerd · Guru

Ohfour wrote:

Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:

Sorry but posting the details of your hymen on social media deserves being slammed.
I disagree.

You disagree with that? Really? lol

just Czech · Give Me Grand's!

Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:
Ohfour wrote:

Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:

Sorry but posting the details of your hymen on social media deserves being slammed.
I disagree.

You disagree with that? Really? lol

I agree with O4.

If people don't get slammed for posting that they are gay, why the heck should a person get slammed for the details of their hymen?

Ohfour · Hooker

Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:
Ohfour wrote:

Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:

Sorry but posting the details of your hymen on social media deserves being slammed.
I disagree.

You disagree with that? Really? lol

There are things on my Instagram accounts that I don't want the world seeing...

just Czech · Give Me Grand's!

Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:
I think it is the whole TMI thing. Like gays, I don't need to know who they are sleeping with. I dont' need to know that you are a virgin. I don't need to know that you jacked off in the car this morning before you came into work. Let personal things be personal. We don't need to KNOW every damn thing about everyone!

Then don't read it. Simple.

Lindley · Guru

I don't have instagram but it sounds a lot like facebook. I just hide the ones I don't want to see.

chef · Guru

So Bruce Jenner puts on a dress and is suddenly a hero but this woman upholds the Bible and gets criticized? Disgusting.

huskerbb · Guru

Ok, it's not for everyone--but why can't she do what she wants to here?

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

huskerbb wrote:
Ok, it's not for everyone--but why can't she do what she wants to here?

She did what she wanted to.

And other people are allowed to have an opinion.

flan

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

just Czech wrote:
Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:
Ohfour wrote:

Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:

Sorry but posting the details of your hymen on social media deserves being slammed.
I disagree.

You disagree with that? Really? lol
I agree with O4.
If people don't get slammed for posting that they are gay, why the heck should a person get slammed for the details of their hymen?

The difference, imo, is that homosexuals have been persecuted for centuries. I don't think a virgin can say the same.

flan

huskerbb · Guru

flan327 wrote:
huskerbb wrote:
Ok, it's not for everyone--but why can't she do what she wants to here?
She did what she wanted to.
And other people are allowed to have an opinion.
flan

Sure, but then don't whine when people call homosexuality the perversion it is. People are allowed to have an opinion.

just Czech · Give Me Grand's!

huskerbb wrote:
flan327 wrote:
huskerbb wrote:
Ok, it's not for everyone--but why can't she do what she wants to here?
She did what she wanted to.
And other people are allowed to have an opinion.
flan
Sure, but then don't whine when people call homosexuality the perversion it is. People are allowed to have an opinion.

Where is the applause button!! Thank you, husker!

just Czech · Give Me Grand's!

flan327 wrote:
just Czech wrote:
Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:
Ohfour wrote:

Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:

Sorry but posting the details of your hymen on social media deserves being slammed.
I disagree.

You disagree with that? Really? lol
I agree with O4.
If people don't get slammed for posting that they are gay, why the heck should a person get slammed for the details of their hymen?
The difference, imo, is that homosexuals have been persecuted for centuries. I don't think a virgin can say the same.
flan

THIS former virgin IS being persecuted by public opinion. Are you saying ONE person does not count?

I love you dearly, flan, but really?

lilyofcourse · My spirit animal is a pink flamingo.

chef wrote:
So Bruce Jenner puts on a dress and is suddenly a hero but this woman upholds the Bible and gets criticized? Disgusting.

Yup.

Lady Gaga Snerd · Guru

chef wrote:

So Bruce Jenner puts on a dress and is suddenly a hero but this woman upholds the Bible and gets criticized? Disgusting.

Whhaaatt?? What does that have to do with anything? And, btw, I never hailed Bruce as a hero for that. hmm

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:
chef wrote:

So Bruce Jenner puts on a dress and is suddenly a hero but this woman upholds the Bible and gets criticized? Disgusting.

Whhaaatt?? What does that have to do with anything? And, btw, I never hailed Bruce as a hero for that.

Neither did I.

flan

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

just Czech wrote:
flan327 wrote:
just Czech wrote:
Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:
Ohfour wrote:

Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:

Sorry but posting the details of your hymen on social media deserves being slammed.
I disagree.

You disagree with that? Really? lol
I agree with O4.
If people don't get slammed for posting that they are gay, why the heck should a person get slammed for the details of their hymen?
The difference, imo, is that homosexuals have been persecuted for centuries. I don't think a virgin can say the same.
flan
THIS former virgin IS being persecuted by public opinion. Are you saying ONE person does not count?
I love you dearly, flan, but really?

It is NOT the fact that she was a virgin. It was a bit bizarre that she was examined by a doctor & presented a framed certificate to her father during her wedding.

Is she also going to give Daddy the bloody wedding sheets?

flan

Lady Gaga Snerd · Guru

So, she has to be examined by a doctor WHY? To prove she isn't lying? Oh ok.

chef · Guru

Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:
chef wrote:

So Bruce Jenner puts on a dress and is suddenly a hero but this woman upholds the Bible and gets criticized? Disgusting.

Whhaaatt?? What does that have to do with anything? And, btw, I never hailed Bruce as a hero for that.

It's an observation of how the world is. And, btw, I never said you hailed Bruce as a hero for that.

just Czech · Give Me Grand's!

flan327 wrote:
just Czech wrote:
flan327 wrote:
just Czech wrote:
Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:
Ohfour wrote:

Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:

Sorry but posting the details of your hymen on social media deserves being slammed.
I disagree.

You disagree with that? Really? lol
I agree with O4.
If people don't get slammed for posting that they are gay, why the heck should a person get slammed for the details of their hymen?
The difference, imo, is that homosexuals have been persecuted for centuries. I don't think a virgin can say the same.
flan
THIS former virgin IS being persecuted by public opinion. Are you saying ONE person does not count?
I love you dearly, flan, but really?
It is NOT the fact that she was a virgin. It was a bit bizarre that she was examined by a doctor & presented a framed certificate to her father during her wedding.
Is she also going to give Daddy the bloody wedding sheets?
flan

Bruce Jenner is bizarre. The framed certificate is not, IMHO.

Tinydancer · Guru

We were told over and over again how "brave" Bruce was.

lilyofcourse · My spirit animal is a pink flamingo.

I'm curious as to what the problem with this really is?

I mean, so what if she did have an examination and did frame a certificate to give to her father?

This was something SHE chose to do. No one forced her to do this.

And why is it a bad thing to have high standards and high moral bars for yourself?

Why is the fact that she DID remain a virgin and has proof of that a bad thing?

Have we gone so far down the proverbial drain that being moral is mocked?

Lady Gaga Snerd · Guru

If that is what she chooses to do fine. . That doesnt' mean you go out and display it to the world. What is the point of that exactly?

lilyofcourse · My spirit animal is a pink flamingo.

Why not?

If the moral degenerates of the world can push their gay pride in everyone's faces, why can't a bride prove she followed the Bible's teachings?

Lady Gaga Snerd · Guru

Prove what?

Lady Gaga Snerd · Guru

What does that prove exactly? An intact hymen doesn't necessarily prove anything. And, not having an intact hymen doesn't prove anything either.

Lady Gaga Snerd · Guru

If she is a virgin, that is great. And, good for her for following her moral compass. But, again, there are intimate details of one's relationship that simply should be intimate details. I think we are diminishing our relationships by making everything into fodder for everyone else. There should be things you share with your spouse and family and no one else. I think this is one of those things.

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:
Ohfour wrote:

Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:

Sorry but posting the details of your hymen on social media deserves being slammed.
I disagree.

You disagree with that? Really? lol

I disagree, too! I think it's great that a girl wants to announce to the world she waited until marriage! I mean, maybe if more young women would announce it - it would become in vogue!

Dona Worry Be Happy · Vette's SS!!

Waiting until marriage is a lovely notion, I know several people that did, and they are happy for it.
But having a doctor certify it, and frame a certificate, and make a whole speech about no man touching you, and honoring your father brings it into creepy town.

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:
What does that prove exactly? An intact hymen doesn't necessarily prove anything. And, not having an intact hymen doesn't prove anything either.

100% true

flan

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

Dona Worry Be Happy wrote:
Waiting until marriage is a lovely notion, I know several people that did, and they are happy for it.
But having a doctor certify it, and frame a certificate, and make a whole speech about no man touching you, and honoring your father brings it into creepy town.

Not really. It shows respect to her father, her God and their teachings. It shows them she listened, and she wanted them to know.

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

How would a non-virgin have an intact hymen? I'm genuinely curious.

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

Dona Worry Be Happy wrote:
Waiting until marriage is a lovely notion, I know several people that did, and they are happy for it.
But having a doctor certify it, and frame a certificate, and make a whole speech about no man touching you, and honoring your father brings it into creepy town.

Exactly!

Can you imagine going to the parents' house & seeing the certificate hanging on the wall?

flan

Lady Gaga Snerd · Guru

There are women who have had sex that didnt break the hymen LL.

Dona Worry Be Happy · Vette's SS!!

Lawyerlady wrote:
Dona Worry Be Happy wrote:
Waiting until marriage is a lovely notion, I know several people that did, and they are happy for it.
But having a doctor certify it, and frame a certificate, and make a whole speech about no man touching you, and honoring your father brings it into creepy town.
Not really. It shows respect to her father, her God and their teachings. It shows them she listened, and she wanted them to know.

So tell them! That's fine. But the whole way she went about it sends off the eww meter.

I have kept this commitment and present this certificate to my father Dr Michael A. Freeman to show how I have honored God and my earthly father in my body by maintaining my purity and that my hymen is intact on this 10th day of October 2015.'

Mr Freeman told BuzzFeed that he was not expecting to be presented with the certificate and was caught off guard when he was asked to stand during the wedding reception

He said: 'I was totally unaware of what was about to take place. During the remarks, she shared that she wanted to honor me by not allowing any man to touch her before her husband.'

Sorry, but any time you bring your parent into your sex life, I am gong to think it is weird.

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:
There are women who have had sex that didnt break the hymen LL.

Yes, it can happen.

flan

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

flan327 wrote:
Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:
There are women who have had sex that didnt break the hymen LL.
Yes, it can happen.
flan

WEll I am very sorry for them. That must not have been very satisfying.

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

Dona Worry Be Happy wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
Dona Worry Be Happy wrote:
Waiting until marriage is a lovely notion, I know several people that did, and they are happy for it.
But having a doctor certify it, and frame a certificate, and make a whole speech about no man touching you, and honoring your father brings it into creepy town.
Not really. It shows respect to her father, her God and their teachings. It shows them she listened, and she wanted them to know.
So tell them! That's fine. But the whole way she went about it sends off the eww meter.
I have kept this commitment and present this certificate to my father Dr Michael A. Freeman to show how I have honored God and my earthly father in my body by maintaining my purity and that my hymen is intact on this 10th day of October 2015.'

Mr Freeman told BuzzFeed that he was not expecting to be presented with the certificate and was caught off guard when he was asked to stand during the wedding reception

He said: 'I was totally unaware of what was about to take place. During the remarks, she shared that she wanted to honor me by not allowing any man to touch her before her husband.'

Sorry, but any time you bring your parent into your sex life, I am gong to think it is weird.

Fair enough. But on the bright side....at least he was surprised by it and not expecting it.

msrock · Guru

Dona Worry Be Happy wrote:
Waiting until marriage is a lovely notion, I know several people that did, and they are happy for it.
But having a doctor certify it, and frame a certificate, and make a whole speech about no man touching you, and honoring your father brings it into creepy town.

I agree. This is cringe-worthy. Ugh.

msrock · Guru

Lawyerlady wrote:
How would a non-virgin have an intact hymen? I'm genuinely curious.

Do BJ's count?

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

msrock wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
How would a non-virgin have an intact hymen? I'm genuinely curious.
Do BJ's count?

Not for virginity.

lilyofcourse · My spirit animal is a pink flamingo.

Dona Worry Be Happy wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
Dona Worry Be Happy wrote:
Waiting until marriage is a lovely notion, I know several people that did, and they are happy for it.
But having a doctor certify it, and frame a certificate, and make a whole speech about no man touching you, and honoring your father brings it into creepy town.
Not really. It shows respect to her father, her God and their teachings. It shows them she listened, and she wanted them to know.
So tell them! That's fine. But the whole way she went about it sends off the eww meter.
I have kept this commitment and present this certificate to my father Dr Michael A. Freeman to show how I have honored God and my earthly father in my body by maintaining my purity and that my hymen is intact on this 10th day of October 2015.'

Mr Freeman told BuzzFeed that he was not expecting to be presented with the certificate and was caught off guard when he was asked to stand during the wedding reception

He said: 'I was totally unaware of what was about to take place. During the remarks, she shared that she wanted to honor me by not allowing any man to touch her before her husband.'

Sorry, but any time you bring your parent into your sex life, I am gong to think it is weird.

But standing up and announcing you are gay is bringing the whole world into your sex life.

And really, it isnt a sex life until you have sex.

She announced she followed her Faith and the teachings of the Bible and her father.

msrock · Guru

Lawyerlady wrote:
msrock wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
How would a non-virgin have an intact hymen? I'm genuinely curious.
Do BJ's count?
Not for virginity.

I don't consider someone "pure" who performs oral on her man. lol! This whole thing is just silly.

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

msrock wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
msrock wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
How would a non-virgin have an intact hymen? I'm genuinely curious.
Do BJ's count?
Not for virginity.
I don't consider someone "pure" who performs oral on her man. lol! This whole thing is just silly.

Well, I didn't say it didn't count for other stuff. That's where the expression "virgin slut" comes from.

lilyofcourse · My spirit animal is a pink flamingo.

Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:
Prove what?

My God. Gaga. You are not this dense.

I've said it several times now.

That she followed her Faith and the Bible.

What exactly are you arguing against?

Why would you not think waiting till marriage is good thing? After all, you've announced here that you did.