My grandma used to make up little bags of candy corn. She would keep them back for when there was someone she thought was too old to trick-or-treat or did not put enough effort into their costume. One year there was a group of rough looking teenagers that she was not impressed with, and she was loudly telling my cousin and I all about her displeasure. I was like Grandma, hush, you're going to get us knifed!
Many, many years ago, my friend's father used to keep peanuts for the black children. She answered the door for him and he'd be in the living room yelling, "blacks, peanuts." Talk about cringe.
I have to laugh, and not because I think what he said is funny but in some ways, it is similar to things my father has said. It is such a generational thing, being brought up in an era where our parents/grandparents were taught things that are just wrong. I have cringed many times in my life. My father needs a filter.
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My grandma used to make up little bags of candy corn. She would keep them back for when there was someone she thought was too old to trick-or-treat or did not put enough effort into their costume. One year there was a group of rough looking teenagers that she was not impressed with, and she was loudly telling my cousin and I all about her displeasure. I was like Grandma, hush, you're going to get us knifed!
Many, many years ago, my friend's father used to keep peanuts for the black children. She answered the door for him and he'd be in the living room yelling, "blacks, peanuts." Talk about cringe.
I have to laugh, and not because I think what he said is funny but in some ways, it is similar to things my father has said. It is such a generational thing, being brought up in an era where our parents/grandparents were taught things that are just wrong. I have cringed many times in my life. My father needs a filter.
both my grandparents were a tad racist. Not really on purpose, its just how they were raised.
So I went to the LL Bean outlet near me. If any of you are fans, you may remember that last year they couldn't keep up with the demand for their signature winter boots, the ones with gortex on the inside. Well they have a ton of them at the outlet. My snow blowing boots started leaking last year so I have to replace them. I do have 4 other pairs of boots, but those are not for doing the heavy snow removal work. Any how, even at the outlet they were $169, I couldn't justify that price plus they are lace ups. I wanted pull on boots. Found some there at the outlet that were cheaper, better looking IMO and just as warm as the signature ones. Great buy! That is my good news story of the day.
I am in another funk. I was supposed to work today and I just couldn't bring myself to turn on the computer. I think I am experiencing burn out. I'm f***** for this week because I didn't work today.
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So I went to the LL Bean outlet near me. If any of you are fans, you may remember that last year they couldn't keep up with the demand for their signature winter boots, the ones with gortex on the inside. Well they have a ton of them at the outlet. My snow blowing boots started leaking last year so I have to replace them. I do have 4 other pairs of boots, but those are not for doing the heavy snow removal work. Any how, even at the outlet they were $169, I couldn't justify that price plus they are lace ups. I wanted pull on boots. Found some there at the outlet that were cheaper, better looking IMO and just as warm as the signature ones. Great buy! That is my good news story of the day.
I am in another funk. I was supposed to work today and I just couldn't bring myself to turn on the computer. I think I am experiencing burn out. I'm f***** for this week because I didn't work today.
-- Edited by I know what to do_sometimes on Sunday 1st of November 2015 03:50:04 PM
I know what you mean about work IKWTDS. I went in yesterday and only worked for an hour. I had a few reports that needed finished to close the month, and then I left. I had so much more I could have done, but I just wanted to leave. I hated even being there, but by 7:00 on Friday night, my brain just wasn't firing on all cylinders and I figured it wasn't the time for advanced calculations.
I don't know what happened. I turned around and all of sudden it is November....I feel like I totally missed September and October. I had things I wanted to do this fall, and I haven't done any of them :(
My DH just left for a business trip. He will be gone for a week so no cooking and full control of the remote. I will still miss him though.
I so enjoy having the remote all to myself!
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I am at the laundromat right now to use the giant industrial sized machines to wash our queen sized comforters. But I have to wait because a group of women have filled them with literally all their clothes from their whole family. There are rows and rows of regular sized machines sitting empty while these women use the industrial sized machines to wash every stitch of clothing they own in one batch. I guess it's not rude, per se, but it's annoying as heck. I am here and I want to use 2 machines - the only 2 my comforters will fit in. And I have to wait while they wash every article of clothing they own at once. Their whites are so dingy I wouldn't wear them. But whatever. Sigh. Vent over. Sorry.
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I am at the laundromat right now to use the giant industrial sized machines to wash our queen sized comforters. But I have to wait because a group of women have filled them with literally all their clothes from their whole family. There are rows and rows of regular sized machines sitting empty while these women use the industrial sized machines to wash every stitch of clothing they own in one batch. I guess it's not rude, per se, but it's annoying as heck. I am here and I want to use 2 machines - the only 2 my comforters will fit in. And I have to wait while they wash every article of clothing they own at once. Their whites are so dingy I wouldn't wear them. But whatever. Sigh. Vent over. Sorry.
That's a bummer, MM.
I'm glad I got my front loaders.
I can fit a King sized comforter, and not have to go to a Laundromat.
I am at the laundromat right now to use the giant industrial sized machines to wash our queen sized comforters. But I have to wait because a group of women have filled them with literally all their clothes from their whole family. There are rows and rows of regular sized machines sitting empty while these women use the industrial sized machines to wash every stitch of clothing they own in one batch. I guess it's not rude, per se, but it's annoying as heck. I am here and I want to use 2 machines - the only 2 my comforters will fit in. And I have to wait while they wash every article of clothing they own at once. Their whites are so dingy I wouldn't wear them. But whatever. Sigh. Vent over. Sorry.
I understand that frustration.
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I am at the laundromat right now to use the giant industrial sized machines to wash our queen sized comforters. But I have to wait because a group of women have filled them with literally all their clothes from their whole family. There are rows and rows of regular sized machines sitting empty while these women use the industrial sized machines to wash every stitch of clothing they own in one batch. I guess it's not rude, per se, but it's annoying as heck. I am here and I want to use 2 machines - the only 2 my comforters will fit in. And I have to wait while they wash every article of clothing they own at once. Their whites are so dingy I wouldn't wear them. But whatever. Sigh. Vent over. Sorry.
That's a bummer, MM.
I'm glad I got my front loaders.
I can fit a King sized comforter, and not have to go to a Laundromat.
Thank goodness. I used to hate those places.
I definitely feel like I am in the cantina scene from Star Wars.
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I am at the laundromat right now to use the giant industrial sized machines to wash our queen sized comforters. But I have to wait because a group of women have filled them with literally all their clothes from their whole family. There are rows and rows of regular sized machines sitting empty while these women use the industrial sized machines to wash every stitch of clothing they own in one batch. I guess it's not rude, per se, but it's annoying as heck. I am here and I want to use 2 machines - the only 2 my comforters will fit in. And I have to wait while they wash every article of clothing they own at once. Their whites are so dingy I wouldn't wear them. But whatever. Sigh. Vent over. Sorry.
That's a bummer, MM.
I'm glad I got my front loaders.
I can fit a King sized comforter, and not have to go to a Laundromat.
Thank goodness. I used to hate those places.
I definitely feel like I am in the cantina scene from Star Wars.
I just can't see putting towels and sweaters in together with white and reds. The towells will ruin the sweaters and the Reds will bleed onto the whites. But hey - if they don't care, why should I ?!
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And what was the point of that post other than to try to start chit on the board? You love to try to stir things up and then pretend to be oh so innocent when you do.
Halloween is for kids.
It was a question. Seeking clarity.
If it offends you when asked to clarify your own words, well, that's on you.
And no. Not trying to act any which way.
But go being offended if you want.
Doesn't hurt my feelings at all.
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And what was the point of that post other than to try to start chit on the board? You love to try to stir things up and then pretend to be oh so innocent when you do.
Halloween is for kids.
It was a question. Seeking clarity.
If it offends you when asked to clarify your own words, well, that's on you.
And no. Not trying to act any which way.
But go being offended if you want.
Doesn't hurt my feelings at all.
No Lily, you were trying to start trouble. EVERYONE KNEW what I was talking about. EVERYONE. You can try to pretend that I'm the issue all you want. You always do. You always say, "Oh, it's your problem if you're offended". Trust me, I'm not offended that you tried to start yet another fight. It just shows me your true colors.
Also, first you agreed with me that it was tacky, your words, to take your four month old out and collect candy for you to eat. Then later on you copied post from like two days ago and said, "That's not what you said." You didn't say, could you clarify this post? It was designed to stir things up. You love to do that and then pretend you did nothing and blame it all on the other person saying they are playing the victim. Maybe if you didn't try to start trouble so often... Andy why is it I wonder that everyone around you is always offended about something it seems? Maybe you should look a little at yourself for the reason why.
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What does Miss Manners say is the correct etiquette for watching someone's dry clothes sit in the dryer while you wait to use it? Can I throw the clothes onto the floor, should I remove them and fold them up for the person who has apparently left the planet? How long do I have to let them sit there ?
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What does Miss Manners say is the correct etiquette for watching someone's dry clothes sit in the dryer while you wait to use it? Can I throw the clothes onto the floor, should I remove them and fold them up for the person who has apparently left the planet? How long do I have to let them sit there ?
Is there a table? You can put them on the table I think. Or one of those rolling baskets.
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And what was the point of that post other than to try to start chit on the board? You love to try to stir things up and then pretend to be oh so innocent when you do.
Halloween is for kids.
It was a question. Seeking clarity.
If it offends you when asked to clarify your own words, well, that's on you.
And no. Not trying to act any which way.
But go being offended if you want.
Doesn't hurt my feelings at all.
No Lily, you were trying to start trouble. EVERYONE KNEW what I was talking about. EVERYONE. You can try to pretend that I'm the issue all you want. You always do. You always say, "Oh, it's your problem if you're offended". Trust me, I'm not offended that you tried to start yet another fight. It just shows me your true colors.
If your own words cause this reaction. ....
And you've said it more than once.
"I don't care who comes to my door, they get candy."
I was curious as to your change in tune.
But you have explained your stance.
So I'll just drop it.
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What does Miss Manners say is the correct etiquette for watching someone's dry clothes sit in the dryer while you wait to use it? Can I throw the clothes onto the floor, should I remove them and fold them up for the person who has apparently left the planet? How long do I have to let them sit there ?
Is there a table? You can put them on the table I think. Or one of those rolling baskets.
Her nice friend came and removed her stuff and apologized. She was very sweet about it. She dumped them into a bin for her/me. She was very very shy.
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And what was the point of that post other than to try to start chit on the board? You love to try to stir things up and then pretend to be oh so innocent when you do.
Halloween is for kids.
It was a question. Seeking clarity.
If it offends you when asked to clarify your own words, well, that's on you.
And no. Not trying to act any which way.
But go being offended if you want.
Doesn't hurt my feelings at all.
No Lily, you were trying to start trouble. EVERYONE KNEW what I was talking about. EVERYONE. You can try to pretend that I'm the issue all you want. You always do. You always say, "Oh, it's your problem if you're offended". Trust me, I'm not offended that you tried to start yet another fight. It just shows me your true colors.
If your own words cause this reaction. ....
And you've said it more than once.
"I don't care who comes to my door, they get candy."
I was curious as to your change in tune.
But you have explained your stance.
So I'll just drop it.
The whole damn thread was about KIDS! Not adults. Not adults who hide behind their kids to get candy. Maybe you shouldn't take one post out of context. We were talking about KIDS! And why do you care so damn much?
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These dryers are the bomb. They dry the big comforter in about 15 minutes. It's amazing.
I had to show the poor thing how to use the dryer sheet. She didn't know what they were for. There was a bit of a language barrier, but I got the info across.
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These dryers are the bomb. They dry the big comforter in about 15 minutes. It's amazing.
I had to show the poor thing how to use the dryer sheet. She didn't know what they were for. There was a bit of a language barrier, but I got the info across.
I hated going to the laundry mat.
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“You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still, like air, I'll rise!” ― Maya Angelou
And what was the point of that post other than to try to start chit on the board? You love to try to stir things up and then pretend to be oh so innocent when you do.
Halloween is for kids.
It was a question. Seeking clarity.
If it offends you when asked to clarify your own words, well, that's on you.
And no. Not trying to act any which way.
But go being offended if you want.
Doesn't hurt my feelings at all.
No Lily, you were trying to start trouble. EVERYONE KNEW what I was talking about. EVERYONE. You can try to pretend that I'm the issue all you want. You always do. You always say, "Oh, it's your problem if you're offended". Trust me, I'm not offended that you tried to start yet another fight. It just shows me your true colors.
If your own words cause this reaction. ....
And you've said it more than once.
"I don't care who comes to my door, they get candy."
I was curious as to your change in tune.
But you have explained your stance.
So I'll just drop it.
The whole damn thread was about KIDS! Not adults. Not adults who hide behind their kids to get candy. Maybe you shouldn't take one post out of context. We were talking about KIDS! And why do you care so damn much?
I said you explained and that I would drop it.
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These dryers are the bomb. They dry the big comforter in about 15 minutes. It's amazing.
I had to show the poor thing how to use the dryer sheet. She didn't know what they were for. There was a bit of a language barrier, but I got the info across.
I hated going to the laundry mat.
I only go for the comforters. The big dryer makes it worth it. 15 minutes to dry a comforter can't be beat. But I feel like I don't belong here - that's for sure. Usually when I come it's much later in the day and no one is here. Lesson learned.
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These dryers are the bomb. They dry the big comforter in about 15 minutes. It's amazing.
I had to show the poor thing how to use the dryer sheet. She didn't know what they were for. There was a bit of a language barrier, but I got the info across.
So I have to say, it isn't the dryer. Its the large front end loaders, they extract so much of the water that they need little drying time. That is what I love about my front end loader.
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These dryers are the bomb. They dry the big comforter in about 15 minutes. It's amazing.
I had to show the poor thing how to use the dryer sheet. She didn't know what they were for. There was a bit of a language barrier, but I got the info across.
So I have to say, it isn't the dryer. Its the large front end loaders, they extract so much of the water that they need little drying time. That is what I love about my front end loader.
It's an industrial dryer that dried up to 5 loads at a time. And I have a front end loader at home. It just doesn't fit the comforter in it. It must be a small apartment sized one because it fits normal loads of laundry but not the comforters.
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“You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still, like air, I'll rise!” ― Maya Angelou
I never had to come to one before we moved here. Our washer/dryer always fit the bedding. The one here doesn't and with a white dog and brown comforter...even with the sheet on top it's a hot mess.
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Out of all the lies I have told, "just kidding" is my favorite !
These dryers are the bomb. They dry the big comforter in about 15 minutes. It's amazing.
I had to show the poor thing how to use the dryer sheet. She didn't know what they were for. There was a bit of a language barrier, but I got the info across.
So I have to say, it isn't the dryer. Its the large front end loaders, they extract so much of the water that they need little drying time. That is what I love about my front end loader.
It's an industrial dryer that dried up to 5 loads at a time. And I have a front end loader at home. It just doesn't fit the comforter in it. It must be a small apartment sized one because it fits normal loads of laundry but not the comforters.
My front end loader fits a lot of clothes. I don't know why I complain about doing laundry because, quite frankly, I can do what used to be three dark washes in one load. Towels, jeans and everything else fits and are cleaned well.
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I wish mine fit that much. It just fits a regular load's worth. This apartment is HUGE by boarding school standards - it's almost 2000 sq feet. But the fridge and the washer/dryer are small. It's ok - it beats the heck out of the last place we had and we don't pay a thing for it.
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Watching the Broncos beat the Packers. Broncos are currently winning. Hopefully it stays that away.
DS has managed to annoy DH to the point that DH (for now, anyway) doesn't want any more kids. DH sorely underestimated how taxing it can be to raise a toddler.
DS thoroughly enjoyed himself trick-or-treating. He has a gallon size ziploc bag mostly filled with candy.
These dryers are the bomb. They dry the big comforter in about 15 minutes. It's amazing.
I had to show the poor thing how to use the dryer sheet. She didn't know what they were for. There was a bit of a language barrier, but I got the info across.
So I have to say, it isn't the dryer. Its the large front end loaders, they extract so much of the water that they need little drying time. That is what I love about my front end loader.
It's an industrial dryer that dried up to 5 loads at a time. And I have a front end loader at home. It just doesn't fit the comforter in it. It must be a small apartment sized one because it fits normal loads of laundry but not the comforters.
My front end loader fits a lot of clothes. I don't know why I complain about doing laundry because, quite frankly, I can do what used to be three dark washes in one load. Towels, jeans and everything else fits and are cleaned well.
We had a front loading washer but it stayed mildewed all the time. No matter what we did.
Then we got a top loading, super-size washer. I could wash 12 pairs of heavy jeans in 30 minutes.
It took longer drying than washing. We had two dryers and I could get a weeks worth of laundry done in about 4 hours.
But it finally gave up the ghost and mom went and picked out a top loader with agitator and you can only wash about 4 or maybe 5 pairs of jeans at a time.
I don't know why she got it. She is constantly complaining about it taking so long to do the wash now.
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I don't think all front loaders are made equally. Lol. Mine sounds like yours Lily. It isn't anything special and not a lot of clothes fit in it. A regular load - but nothing extra. Certainly not any bedding bigger than a twin.
I am going to get a big fluffy duvet with a duvet cover. The cover will fit no problem and my laundry mat days will be over. Can't get down - I am allergic to it - but there are plenty of nice fluffy ones out there to choose from.
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MM, We have the down comforter with the duvet cover. I do wash the cover periodically but not as often as the sheets. I've only washed our comforter once and that was because Carlee peed on it during a seizure. I like it so much more with the cover. I wouldn't go back now.
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These dryers are the bomb. They dry the big comforter in about 15 minutes. It's amazing.
I had to show the poor thing how to use the dryer sheet. She didn't know what they were for. There was a bit of a language barrier, but I got the info across.
So I have to say, it isn't the dryer. Its the large front end loaders, they extract so much of the water that they need little drying time. That is what I love about my front end loader.
It's an industrial dryer that dried up to 5 loads at a time. And I have a front end loader at home. It just doesn't fit the comforter in it. It must be a small apartment sized one because it fits normal loads of laundry but not the comforters.
My front end loader fits a lot of clothes. I don't know why I complain about doing laundry because, quite frankly, I can do what used to be three dark washes in one load. Towels, jeans and everything else fits and are cleaned well.
We had a front loading washer but it stayed mildewed all the time. No matter what we did.
Then we got a top loading, super-size washer. I could wash 12 pairs of heavy jeans in 30 minutes.
It took longer drying than washing. We had two dryers and I could get a weeks worth of laundry done in about 4 hours.
But it finally gave up the ghost and mom went and picked out a top loader with agitator and you can only wash about 4 or maybe 5 pairs of jeans at a time.
I don't know why she got it. She is constantly complaining about it taking so long to do the wash now.
My washer extracts so much of the water from the clothes, that even a load of towels takes only about 15 minutes to dry.
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None of hours would dry that fast. About 30-45 minutes.
But with two dryers, a load was done every 30 minutes.
I'm going to have to take my bigger winter comforters to the laundromat.
We have one in town that will wash, dry and fold them for $10. I've never used them but I have been tempted.
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I don't think all front loaders are made equally. Lol. Mine sounds like yours Lily. It isn't anything special and not a lot of clothes fit in it. A regular load - but nothing extra. Certainly not any bedding bigger than a twin.
I am going to get a big fluffy duvet with a duvet cover. The cover will fit no problem and my laundry mat days will be over. Can't get down - I am allergic to it - but there are plenty of nice fluffy ones out there to choose from.
Yes, washers are different sizes.
Compared to the last two we have had, this new one looks like a toy.
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We have a very big HE washer, and I still need to go to the laundromat to do my comforter. It is still too big.
Ok - I don't feel like I am crazy now that you and Lily both chimed in. Thanks! I was starting to think I was the only one who had to make the trip to the cantina.
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We have a very big HE washer, and I still need to go to the laundromat to do my comforter. It is still too big.
Ok - I don't feel like I am crazy now that you and Lily both chimed in. Thanks! I was starting to think I was the only one who had to make the trip to the cantina.
Yep. In fact, it is time for me to make that trip. Maybe this Saturday.
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I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you.
Between washes I put the comforters in the dryer with a few dryer sheets.
Kills dust and possible dust mites and freshens it up.
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I put both the boys' comforters in at the same time. If I use allergiene cycle, soap suds come out through the dispenser. If I use heavy load cycle, they are fine. The comforters are both twin sized.
When we found out that Spouse would have severe skin reactions to residual soap left in the clothing and sheets, I went to extreme lengths to make sure all the soap was removed.
The washer I had at the time let me open the cover during the spin cycle, and I used a hose from the wash tub to rinse the clothing while it was spinning, until the water came out of the drain hose suds-free.
I found that using about 1/10th the recommended amount of detergent was enough to leave soap in the clothing after the regular wash/rinse process, and it still got everything as clean as if I'd used the "recommended" amount.
Now I put everything through a full second cycle, WITHOUT any additional soap ... and that seems to work.
If you EVER have soap suds coming out during a cycle, you should consider cutting WAY DOWN on the amount of soap / detergent you are using, IMHO.
Also note, hot or warm rinse water gets soap out a lot faster then cold water.
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