Sigh. I wish I were with flan. DN is going to be the best of us for Christmas shopping. We have to head out later to do some. Yesterday I got a ton done. Wrapped all the gifts for the families, stuffed stockings, made cookie dough, dinner, and did the whole shaving thing. We have more shopping to do today and I have to roll out the cookies and bake them today. I hope they come out good. I've never made Mexican cookies before.
So sorry to hear about all the deaths.
DS1 leaves Sunday night (his friend leaves today).
That means we have a second bedroom sitting there...empty.
“You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still, like air, I'll rise!” ― Maya Angelou
“You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still, like air, I'll rise!” ― Maya Angelou
On the way to Poipu, we drive through the Tunnel of Trees.
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As long as it's daytime...
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“You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still, like air, I'll rise!” ― Maya Angelou
On the way to Poipu, we drive through the Tunnel of Trees.
flan
As long as it's daytime...
The last 2 trips, we have landed after dark. Both times, we managed to miss a turn. The thing is, it's a small island and the road signs are excellent. We just didn't see the one we needed.
So, DN works in the billing department. Here's a new name. Jaeceon. Supposed to be Jason. lol
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“You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still, like air, I'll rise!” ― Maya Angelou
So, DN works in the billing department. Here's a new name. Jaeceon. Supposed to be Jason. lol
So the mother hated her son that much?
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Yep. I can't imagine the amount of drugs that were involved to cause a mother to name her little girl Twinkle Twinkie Twilight.
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“You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still, like air, I'll rise!” ― Maya Angelou
I think some parents want their children to become strippers. At least it seems that way when they pick out names.
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“You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still, like air, I'll rise!” ― Maya Angelou
“You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still, like air, I'll rise!” ― Maya Angelou
Am so sorry to hear about your co-workers son, I can't imagine anything worse then losing a child. NJN, you should join flan. Just think of all the trouble you two will get into or should I say fun.... I ordered Kona coffee for Christmas presents and I do hope they get here soon.
Am so sorry to hear about your co-workers son, I can't imagine anything worse then losing a child. NJN, you should join flan. Just think of all the trouble you two will get into or should I say fun.... I ordered Kona coffee for Christmas presents and I do hope they get here soon.
Awwwwwwwwww Kona coffee is the BEST! Smooth and not bitter at all.
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“You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still, like air, I'll rise!” ― Maya Angelou
Am so sorry to hear about your co-workers son, I can't imagine anything worse then losing a child. NJN, you should join flan. Just think of all the trouble you two will get into or should I say fun.... I ordered Kona coffee for Christmas presents and I do hope they get here soon.
Awwwwwwwwww Kona coffee is the BEST! Smooth and not bitter at all.
I want to come to Hawaii too. I am going to be a VSS and invite myself.
I had to fire someone today, which normally doesn't bother me at all. This one was different. She is being abused at home and it's drastically effecting how she performs her job duties. She can't concentrate, she is making major mistakes, she is clinging onto her coworkers and socializing too much, and she is neglecting half of her responsibilities. We tried to get her help, she wouldn't take it, wouldn't listen. Refuses to help herself at all. Finally the written warnings added up and she earned a termination. And at the holidays - even stone cold me had a tough time with it afterwards.
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I want to come to Hawaii too. I am going to be a VSS and invite myself.
I had to fire someone today, which normally doesn't bother me at all. This one was different. She is being abused at home and it's drastically effecting how she performs her job duties. She can't concentrate, she is making major mistakes, she is clinging onto her coworkers and socializing too much, and she is neglecting half of her responsibilities. We tried to get her help, she wouldn't take it, wouldn't listen. Refuses to help herself at all. Finally the written warnings added up and she earned a termination. And at the holidays - even stone cold me had a tough time with it afterwards.
MM, Don't beat yourself up about it. You did everything you could to give her a chance. I understand she is abused at home but until she is ready to help herself there isn't much for anyone to do.
That is tough MM. I've had to fire people too and it stinks.
All of Dd's gifts are wrapped! Just need a pair of PJs and a couple of more stocking stuffers and I am done. Need to send something else to DS, thinking some GC's or maybe Banana Republic sweaters. Their styles are so classic and stylish.
And not much luck on finding the size box I need. I did find one that I could try to re do the top on and "make the box" it is just 1/2 inch shy of being tall enough. I just may have to.
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Thanks. The logical side of me totally understands that I did what I had to do. The emotional side understands too, but still thinks it was pretty crappy.
Half of my team is relieved she is gone - they were sick of picking up her slack. But they are saying "what took you so long?" Like it's easy to fire someone. The other half thinks I am a terrible person and doesn't understand why she had to go. I don't need to be popular, so I don't care what they think. It's just frustrating.
-- Edited by Mellow Momma on Friday 11th of December 2015 03:34:06 PM
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Out of all the lies I have told, "just kidding" is my favorite !
Awww. This is sort of a crappy Friday of sorts, isn't it. I vote we all pack up and go share Flan's spare room. Sending love to those of you who have lost people you care about and strength to MM who had to take action with someone who really needed - but wouldn't take - the action that was offered earlier.
My Christmas shopping is done. Just need to wrap one more SS thing and get it in the mail on Monday, then finish wrapping one more Christmas Eve friend party thing and then, well, go to the friend party after work on Christmas Eve.
For the family dinner in a week or so I'm doing a boardgame theme. I figure it's the safest. If we all have something to do, that we won't be fighting with each other! My parents are getting Settlers of Catan so that I can play it when I'm at their house instead of dominoes because dominoes got old when I was a kid. My bro and his girlfriend are actually getting their own set of dominoes because she's just discovered them and loves the game. The friends are getting Monopoly Junior for their family and then Exploding Kittens for Mom and Dad. They're trying to have a family boardgame night and like to have boardgame parties with non-kid evenings, so I figure I can continue the theme with them. I'm excited! I like boardgames too!
I want to come to Hawaii too. I am going to be a VSS and invite myself.
I had to fire someone today, which normally doesn't bother me at all. This one was different. She is being abused at home and it's drastically effecting how she performs her job duties. She can't concentrate, she is making major mistakes, she is clinging onto her coworkers and socializing too much, and she is neglecting half of her responsibilities. We tried to get her help, she wouldn't take it, wouldn't listen. Refuses to help herself at all. Finally the written warnings added up and she earned a termination. And at the holidays - even stone cold me had a tough time with it afterwards.
I'm sorry, MM. Maybe this will be her wake-up call?
A flock of flirting flamingos is pure, passionate, pink pandemonium-a frenetic flamingle-mangle-a discordant discotheque of delirious dancing, flamboyant feathers, and flamingo lingo.
Home from the dentist. Root canal went fine. He said it was obvious the tooth had been dead for a while, said there was not a drop of blood the whole time. I go back the 30th to get a crown. Until then I have to be careful crewing on it. Sucks I have to watch what I eat over Christmas. But, good to get it taken care of.
He wrote me another zpack, just to be on the safe side. I go to pick it up and the chick at CVS tells me - very seriously - that my insurance will only cover 1 pack a month, do I still want it. I ask how much it is without my insurance, by her tone and expression I'm estimating about $400. $28. I almost laughed at her. Yes, I know $28 can be a lot to some people, but she looked like she had to give me the worst news ever.
I killed it at our white elephant/potluck today. I brought in a homemade chocolate pecan pie which everyone loved. I scored a bottle of white wine and really cool coloring book from the same person who did the fancy Ink Gardens one.
Home from the dentist. Root canal went fine. He said it was obvious the tooth had been dead for a while, said there was not a drop of blood the whole time. I go back the 30th to get a crown. Until then I have to be careful crewing on it. Sucks I have to watch what I eat over Christmas. But, good to get it taken care of.
He wrote me another zpack, just to be on the safe side. I go to pick it up and the chick at CVS tells me - very seriously - that my insurance will only cover 1 pack a month, do I still want it. I ask how much it is without my insurance, by her tone and expression I'm estimating about $400. $28. I almost laughed at her. Yes, I know $28 can be a lot to some people, but she looked like she had to give me the worst news ever.
LOL We called my allergy doctor. If we use our Obamacare insurance for my allergy shots they are $75 a piece. Two a week, every other week. If we pay cash it's $16.50 total.
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“You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still, like air, I'll rise!” ― Maya Angelou
My little Carlee has been seizure free for 14 days now.
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“You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still, like air, I'll rise!” ― Maya Angelou
I don't even need a bed in Hawaii, just a shower. And I will cook for everyone. All I really need is some snorkel and float time.
Yep. YEAH!! I'm sure she'll another at some point but they seem to be getting further apart!
You people are making me want to go to Hawaii so badly.
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“You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still, like air, I'll rise!” ― Maya Angelou
I just want to sit on the edge of the ocean and stick my toes in and let the waves wash all over me.
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“You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still, like air, I'll rise!” ― Maya Angelou
I miss Hawaii, I hope you are having a great time flan!
Planned a party for tomorrow for Husband's big 4-0 birthday, arranged to have Bunny spend the night at my mom's house. Mom arranged to have his cousin visit too. Bunny came home from school with a fever and a cough.
He's promising to cover his mouth every time he coughs, he really wants to see his cousin and grandma. Poor kid.
“You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still, like air, I'll rise!” ― Maya Angelou
I miss Hawaii, I hope you are having a great time flan!
Planned a party for tomorrow for Husband's big 4-0 birthday, arranged to have Bunny spend the night at my mom's house. Mom arranged to have his cousin visit too. Bunny came home from school with a fever and a cough.
He's promising to cover his mouth every time he coughs, he really wants to see his cousin and grandma. Poor kid.
I miss Hawaii, I hope you are having a great time flan!
Planned a party for tomorrow for Husband's big 4-0 birthday, arranged to have Bunny spend the night at my mom's house. Mom arranged to have his cousin visit too. Bunny came home from school with a fever and a cough.
He's promising to cover his mouth every time he coughs, he really wants to see his cousin and grandma. Poor kid.
What island(s) have you been to?
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Oahu, Maui, the big island, Lanai, and Kauai. Kauai and Lanai were our favorites.
I miss Hawaii, I hope you are having a great time flan!
Planned a party for tomorrow for Husband's big 4-0 birthday, arranged to have Bunny spend the night at my mom's house. Mom arranged to have his cousin visit too. Bunny came home from school with a fever and a cough.
He's promising to cover his mouth every time he coughs, he really wants to see his cousin and grandma. Poor kid.
What island(s) have you been to?
flan
Oahu, Maui, the big island, Lanai, and Kauai. Kauai and Lanai were our favorites.