TOTALLY GEEKED!

weltschmerz · Guru

RE: Dear Prudie: Pregnant after Dating 2 Months

lilyofcourse · My spirit animal is a pink flamingo.

He isn't the one writing to an advice column seeking validation to kill the baby that could have been 100% preventable.

Yes. He is in the wrong too.

Lady Gaga Snerd · Guru

weltschmerz wrote:
I'm reasonably certain he was there, too.

He doesnt know she's pregnant.

Lady Gaga Snerd · Guru

An abortion is not Your body.

Ohfour · Hooker

weltschmerz wrote:
Ohfour wrote:
flan327 wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
That's the big thing.

Pregnancy is 100% preventable.

EXCEPT for the FACT that birth control is NOT 100% effective.
flan
She screwed a guy she had known for a week. Shes a total slut. Pregnancy whatever...she should worry more about AIDS.
So, you've never "screwed" anyone?
Were a virgin on your wedding night?

No...ive never screwed anyone. I was not a virgin, but he was rhe only person i had "screwed".

-- Edited by Ohfour on Monday 21st of December 2015 09:51:34 PM

WYSIWYG · Guru

I agree with the clarified idea of what Divine Geek said: "a person shouldn't be having careless unprotected sex with someone that they aren't willing to marry or raise a child with".

In a perfect world sex wouldn't happen until at least after the engagement, but we all know we don't live in a perfect world.

Dona Worry Be Happy · Vette's SS!!

ed11563 wrote:
She got pregnant after dating him for a week.
Methinks the lady wants a baby. Deep down inside, she planned this.
Like a woman who tells her companion that she's got her period and can't get pregnant today ... when her last period started two weeks ago, so she's most likely spotting during ovulation.

For one thing, your analogy makes no sense. I don't track my cycle, and I can't always tell the difference between heavy spotting and a light period, so a woman telling her partner she is on her period when she thinks she is does not seem at all dishonest to me.

For another, if she is having baby fever, why oh why would she get an abortion?

Sorry Ed, I think you struck out here.

Lady Gaga Snerd · Guru

flan327 wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
A person shouldn't be having sex unless you are already married to each other.

But in this instant gratification world we are living in, that ain't gonna happen very often.

So premarital sex has ONLY existed for what...20 or 30 years?!
flan

So, then that's a calculated risk. If you have sex, you might get pregnant. IN times past, women would then realize their child was not to blame and not to be killed for that decision. They would have their babies and raise and love them.

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:
flan327 wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
A person shouldn't be having sex unless you are already married to each other.

But in this instant gratification world we are living in, that ain't gonna happen very often.

So premarital sex has ONLY existed for what...20 or 30 years?!
flan
So, then that's a calculated risk. If you have sex, you might get pregnant. IN times past, women would then realize their child was not to blame and not to be killed for that decision. They would have their babies and raise and love them.

And in the past, people would suck it up and get married because of the child they created. It wasn't all about ME, ME, ME.

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

Lawyerlady wrote:
Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:
flan327 wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
A person shouldn't be having sex unless you are already married to each other.

But in this instant gratification world we are living in, that ain't gonna happen very often.

So premarital sex has ONLY existed for what...20 or 30 years?!
flan
So, then that's a calculated risk. If you have sex, you might get pregnant. IN times past, women would then realize their child was not to blame and not to be killed for that decision. They would have their babies and raise and love them.
And in the past, people would suck it up and get married because of the child they created. It wasn't all about ME, ME, ME.

Oh, please, abortion has been around since the dawn of time.

flan

Lady Gaga Snerd · Guru

flan327 wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:
flan327 wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
A person shouldn't be having sex unless you are already married to each other.

But in this instant gratification world we are living in, that ain't gonna happen very often.

So premarital sex has ONLY existed for what...20 or 30 years?!
flan
So, then that's a calculated risk. If you have sex, you might get pregnant. IN times past, women would then realize their child was not to blame and not to be killed for that decision. They would have their babies and raise and love them.
And in the past, people would suck it up and get married because of the child they created. It wasn't all about ME, ME, ME.
Oh, please, abortion has been around since the dawn of time.
flan

I don't think they were aborting 55 million babies with a stick.

ed11563 · Guru

Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:
flan327 wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:
flan327 wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
A person shouldn't be having sex unless you are already married to each other.

But in this instant gratification world we are living in, that ain't gonna happen very often.

So premarital sex has ONLY existed for what...20 or 30 years?!
flan
So, then that's a calculated risk. If you have sex, you might get pregnant. IN times past, women would then realize their child was not to blame and not to be killed for that decision. They would have their babies and raise and love them.
And in the past, people would suck it up and get married because of the child they created. It wasn't all about ME, ME, ME.
Oh, please, abortion has been around since the dawn of time.
flan
I don't think they were aborting 55 million babies with a stick.

Wire hangars were more popular.

Midwives did more than deliver babies. At age 5, my aunt came home from school early one day and saw her mother on the kitchen table, with the local midwife ending a pregnancy.

That was around 1920.

Lady Gaga Snerd · Guru

There weren't wire hangers at the "beginning of time".

lilyofcourse · My spirit animal is a pink flamingo.

Yes. There have always been sick, sadistic people who kill babies.

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:
There weren't wire hangers at the "beginning of time".

No, there were herbs & potions.

flan

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

lilyofcourse wrote:
Yes. There have always been sick, sadistic people who kill babies.

There have always been desperate women dealing with UNwanted pregnancies...

flan

Lady Gaga Snerd · Guru

Yes murder has gone on since the beginning of time. And its still wrong.

Lady Gaga Snerd · Guru

But i will never understand not wanting your own child.

FNW · Guru

A friend of mine who is in her 90's, was pregnant with her husband's child. Unbeknownst at the time, her husband was having an affair with her cousin. Her MIL wanted to give her an abortion with a coat hanger. She refused.

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:
But i will never understand not wanting your own child.

Yet you have ZERO problem judging another woman for her feelings?

flan

Lady Gaga Snerd · Guru

Feeling are one thing. Actions are another.

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

flan327 wrote:
Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:
But i will never understand not wanting your own child.
Yet you have ZERO problem judging another woman for her feelings?
flan

Please. People do that all the time. You do it.

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

Lawyerlady wrote:
flan327 wrote:
Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:
But i will never understand not wanting your own child.
Yet you have ZERO problem judging another woman for her feelings?
flan
Please. People do that all the time. You do it.

Why, yes, I do judge bigots & people who try to control others with religion...

flan

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

flan327 wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
flan327 wrote:
Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:
But i will never understand not wanting your own child.
Yet you have ZERO problem judging another woman for her feelings?
flan
Please. People do that all the time. You do it.
Why, yes, I do judge bigots & people who try to control others with religion...
flan

And I judge women who think it's perfectly fine to rip apart babies and I judge religious bigots and I judge trashy women who slut around with no care to the consequences.

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

My comment was NOT directed at any specific poster.

flan

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

Neither was mine.

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

Lawyerlady wrote:
Neither was mine.

Darmit..cuz I was kinda proud of being a trashy woman who sluts around...

evileye

flan

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

Hey, if you think the shoe fits, have at it.

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

Lawyerlady wrote:
Hey, if you think the shoe fits, have at it.

I was attempting to make a joke!

And, FTR, in my case, I did know what the consequences were and cared about them.

flan

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

flan327 wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
Hey, if you think the shoe fits, have at it.
I was attempting to make a joke!
And, FTR, in my case, I did know what the consequences were and cared about them.
flan

What are you talking about? Did you sleep with a guy you barely know without proper birth control and then kill a baby rather than face the consequences of your actions?