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Open Shut Case

Prudie advises a letter writer who feels guilty for not performing oral sex.

By Mallory Ortberg
 
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Mallory Ortberg, aka Dear Prudence, is online weekly to chat live with readers. An edited transcript of the chat is below. (Sign up below to get Dear Prudence delivered to your inbox each week. Read Prudie’s Slate columns here. Send questions to Prudence at prudence@slate.com.)

 
 
 

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-- Edited by ed11563 on Tuesday 22nd of December 2015 01:04:35 PM

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I don't think she should worry about it. He probably doesn't mind AT ALL.



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Put some chocolate syrup on it!

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TrudyML wrote:

Put some chocolate syrup on it!

 You crack me up...hahahahahaha



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she's insecure and immature--they've been involved for a year--he's fine with things as they are--" take him at his word. "--people that genuinely love each other don't force/guilt trip/blackmail their loved ones into performing/doing things that are uncomfortable for one or the other--just selfish and stupid

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Tinydancer wrote:
TrudyML wrote:

Put some chocolate syrup on it!

 You crack me up...hahahahahaha

And a cherry on top! 



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Oh Lord.

Practice make perfect.

Like Burns said, take him at his word.




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Watch a youtube video. It doesn't HAVE to be "deep throat."

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Why would you feel the need to tell us we shouldn't discuss this with our children?

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Yeah, really.

Maybe we should discuss it with our kids to some degree.

Age appropriately of course.

They need to know they can get STDs this way too.



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I absolutely agree with her guy, not caring whether she does it to/for him, but

LOVING doing it to/for HER.

 

 



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If she doesn't like it, she is doing it wrooonggg.
It is fun and empowering.
But no head touching. Touch my head I'll bite your hands off.
Or something else. . .

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There may be a tea bag thing going on ( for you SATC fans)

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I know what to do_sometimes wrote:

There may be a tea bag thing going on ( for you SATC fans)

 Hated the show but I assume you're referring to "the boys."

They need attention too!!!

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lilyofcourse wrote:

Yeah, really.

Maybe we should discuss it with our kids to some degree.

Age appropriately of course.

They need to know they can get STDs this way too.

 That's not what I meant.



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Lawyerlady wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:

Yeah, really.

Maybe we should discuss it with our kids to some degree.

Age appropriately of course.

They need to know they can get STDs this way too.

 That's not what I meant.

 I know.

Kind of addressing Ed's statement while agreeing with what you said.



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I think the LW should take him at his word (that he has accepted that she can't), but that she should also go ahead and learn how to do as much as her physical limitations will allow her to do.

Oral on a man doesn't have to be only "nose into pubic hair" deep. I don't want to go into more detail that that because it might qualify as "TMI", but there is a lot of fellatio variety that doesn't include "deep throat".

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Why would you feel the need to tell us we shouldn't discuss this with our children?
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I understand "FELLATIO" makes for a good scrabble word. LOL. ;)

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