As a moderator and the head of SS you have every right to feel Tig was treated unfairly. And that is your place. I don't mean that snarky. You are in charge and should deal with these issues. However, as hurt as someone feels SS should never have become a board war. We've had several threads on how flan mistreated Tig. If you feel she did then you needed to handle it with Tig and flan as you have every right to. When it becomes a board war it's not doing anyone any good and it's just destructive. If ohfour feels she needs to intercede she should have pm'ed flan and told her just what she thought. She also could have pm'ed Tig with her support. So again, no. I don't think any of this needed to become a huge war.
It is absolutely NOT your place to tell other people what they can be upset about, post about, or anything else.
But if this is how you really feel, then try taking your own advice and leave ohfour alone.
LOL You asked me what I thought. Here's your exact words...
But ohfour and I are not allowed to be upset on Tig's behalf?
So you asked me and I gave you my opinion. Then you lecture me. Don't ask me a question you don't want an answer to.
She had more than enough opportunity to do the right thing. She chose not to for whatever twisted reasoning that goes on in that head of hers. And you are defending her. Peas in a pod, I guess.
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LawyerLady
I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you.
As a moderator and the head of SS you have every right to feel Tig was treated unfairly. And that is your place. I don't mean that snarky. You are in charge and should deal with these issues. However, as hurt as someone feels SS should never have become a board war. We've had several threads on how flan mistreated Tig. If you feel she did then you needed to handle it with Tig and flan as you have every right to. When it becomes a board war it's not doing anyone any good and it's just destructive. If ohfour feels she needs to intercede she should have pm'ed flan and told her just what she thought. She also could have pm'ed Tig with her support. So again, no. I don't think any of this needed to become a huge war.
It is absolutely NOT your place to tell other people what they can be upset about, post about, or anything else.
But if this is how you really feel, then try taking your own advice and leave ohfour alone.
LOL You asked me what I thought. Here's your exact words...
But ohfour and I are not allowed to be upset on Tig's behalf?
So you asked me and I gave you my opinion. Then you lecture me. Don't ask me a question you don't want an answer to.
She had more than enough opportunity to do the right thing. She chose not to for whatever twisted reasoning that goes on in that head of hers. And you are defending her. Peas in a pod, I guess.
Show me one post where I have defended the whole SS thing? I haven't even spoken my opinion on what flan should and shouldn't do. This whole thread is about my being mean to ohfour. It has not been brought up what I think. And is the bold supposed to be an insult? Hurt my feelings? What?
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“You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still, like air, I'll rise!” ― Maya Angelou
As a moderator and the head of SS you have every right to feel Tig was treated unfairly. And that is your place. I don't mean that snarky. You are in charge and should deal with these issues. However, as hurt as someone feels SS should never have become a board war. We've had several threads on how flan mistreated Tig. If you feel she did then you needed to handle it with Tig and flan as you have every right to. When it becomes a board war it's not doing anyone any good and it's just destructive. If ohfour feels she needs to intercede she should have pm'ed flan and told her just what she thought. She also could have pm'ed Tig with her support. So again, no. I don't think any of this needed to become a huge war.
It is absolutely NOT your place to tell other people what they can be upset about, post about, or anything else.
But if this is how you really feel, then try taking your own advice and leave ohfour alone.
LOL You asked me what I thought. Here's your exact words...
But ohfour and I are not allowed to be upset on Tig's behalf?
So you asked me and I gave you my opinion. Then you lecture me. Don't ask me a question you don't want an answer to.
She had more than enough opportunity to do the right thing. She chose not to for whatever twisted reasoning that goes on in that head of hers. And you are defending her. Peas in a pod, I guess.
Show me one post where I have defended the whole SS thing? I haven't even spoken my opinion on what flan should and shouldn't do. This whole thread is about my being mean to ohfour. It has not been brought up what I think. And is the bold supposed to be an insult? Hurt my feelings? What?
Because you made it about you. You werent even mentioned until you threw yourself into it.
I will say it again, others have tried....
No matter how much you want it to be all about you, it isnt.
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It affected every single one of us. I honestly hurt for Tig. And to do it through PMs is hiding the shun. It needed to be addressed publicly. It brought the entire SS exchange down this year.
Why isn't "every single one" posting?
Heck, we do SS at work and...guess what? We have NO rules; you don't even have to reveal who you are.
"Hiding the shun?" Is that a Christian thing?
flan
They may not be posting, but I cant even keep up with the PMs I'm getting...
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LL said I was defending her. I asked her to show me where. How does that make it about me?
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“You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still, like air, I'll rise!” ― Maya Angelou
It affected every single one of us. I honestly hurt for Tig. And to do it through PMs is hiding the shun. It needed to be addressed publicly. It brought the entire SS exchange down this year.
Why isn't "every single one" posting?
Heck, we do SS at work and...guess what? We have NO rules; you don't even have to reveal who you are.
"Hiding the shun?" Is that a Christian thing?
flan
They may not be posting, but I cant even keep up with the PMs I'm getting...
Well then, they need to speak up.
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“You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still, like air, I'll rise!” ― Maya Angelou
As a moderator and the head of SS you have every right to feel Tig was treated unfairly. And that is your place. I don't mean that snarky. You are in charge and should deal with these issues. However, as hurt as someone feels SS should never have become a board war. We've had several threads on how flan mistreated Tig. If you feel she did then you needed to handle it with Tig and flan as you have every right to. When it becomes a board war it's not doing anyone any good and it's just destructive. If ohfour feels she needs to intercede she should have pm'ed flan and told her just what she thought. She also could have pm'ed Tig with her support. So again, no. I don't think any of this needed to become a huge war.
It is absolutely NOT your place to tell other people what they can be upset about, post about, or anything else.
But if this is how you really feel, then try taking your own advice and leave ohfour alone.
LOL You asked me what I thought. Here's your exact words...
But ohfour and I are not allowed to be upset on Tig's behalf?
So you asked me and I gave you my opinion. Then you lecture me. Don't ask me a question you don't want an answer to.
She had more than enough opportunity to do the right thing. She chose not to for whatever twisted reasoning that goes on in that head of hers. And you are defending her. Peas in a pod, I guess.
Show me one post where I have defended the whole SS thing? I haven't even spoken my opinion on what flan should and shouldn't do. This whole thread is about my being mean to ohfour. It has not been brought up what I think. And is the bold supposed to be an insult? Hurt my feelings? What?
Then what are you even arguing about?
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LawyerLady
I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you.
LL said I was defending her. I asked her to show me where. How does that make it about me?
ohfour has a legitimate gripe with flan, and you have been jumping all over ohfour because she's calling flan out on it. And you are trying to do it by making it about you when it isn't.
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LawyerLady
I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you.
It affected every single one of us. I honestly hurt for Tig. And to do it through PMs is hiding the shun. It needed to be addressed publicly. It brought the entire SS exchange down this year.
Why isn't "every single one" posting?
Heck, we do SS at work and...guess what? We have NO rules; you don't even have to reveal who you are.
"Hiding the shun?" Is that a Christian thing?
flan
They may not be posting, but I cant even keep up with the PMs I'm getting...
Well then, they need to speak up.
Yeah, the PM's and text message traffic tonight is rush hour over the Tappenzy bridge!
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Sometimes you're the windshield, and sometimes you're the bug.
The topic is me being mean to ohfour. I was not. Then we talked about my ban and how hypocritical I am. And on and on. When I have a problem with someone on the board I pm them. I don't create a huge drama on the board about it.
You and ohfour were pissed off that flan started this thread.
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“You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still, like air, I'll rise!” ― Maya Angelou
It affected every single one of us. I honestly hurt for Tig. And to do it through PMs is hiding the shun. It needed to be addressed publicly. It brought the entire SS exchange down this year.
Why isn't "every single one" posting?
Heck, we do SS at work and...guess what? We have NO rules; you don't even have to reveal who you are.
"Hiding the shun?" Is that a Christian thing?
flan
They may not be posting, but I cant even keep up with the PMs I'm getting...
Well then, they need to speak up.
Most people don't feel the need to "speak up".
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Sometimes you're the windshield, and sometimes you're the bug.
LL said I was defending her. I asked her to show me where. How does that make it about me?
ohfour has a legitimate gripe with flan, and you have been jumping all over ohfour because she's calling flan out on it. And you are trying to do it by making it about you when it isn't.
How have I made this about me?
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“You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still, like air, I'll rise!” ― Maya Angelou
It affected every single one of us. I honestly hurt for Tig. And to do it through PMs is hiding the shun. It needed to be addressed publicly. It brought the entire SS exchange down this year.
Why isn't "every single one" posting?
Heck, we do SS at work and...guess what? We have NO rules; you don't even have to reveal who you are.
"Hiding the shun?" Is that a Christian thing?
flan
They may not be posting, but I cant even keep up with the PMs I'm getting...
Well then, they need to speak up.
Most people don't feel the need to "speak up".
Oh goody. Your little group of henchmen are all pm'ing. Again, is this supposed hurt my feelings because you're all calling flan and I names behind our backs?
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“You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still, like air, I'll rise!” ― Maya Angelou
The topic is me being mean to ohfour. I was not. Then we talked about my ban and how hypocritical I am. And on and on. When I have a problem with someone on the board I pm them. I don't create a huge drama on the board about it.
You and ohfour were pissed off that flan started this thread.
So it has what to do with you? You are most welcome to stay out of things that dont involve you....
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The topic is me being mean to ohfour. I was not. Then we talked about my ban and how hypocritical I am. And on and on. When I have a problem with someone on the board I pm them. I don't create a huge drama on the board about it.
You and ohfour were pissed off that flan started this thread.
Are you high? This is about flan failing to be courteous enough to thank Tig and then rub her face in it by starting this thread thanking someone else.
No, it is NOT about YOU. Get over yourself.
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LawyerLady
I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you.
It affected every single one of us. I honestly hurt for Tig. And to do it through PMs is hiding the shun. It needed to be addressed publicly. It brought the entire SS exchange down this year.
Why isn't "every single one" posting?
Heck, we do SS at work and...guess what? We have NO rules; you don't even have to reveal who you are.
"Hiding the shun?" Is that a Christian thing?
flan
They may not be posting, but I cant even keep up with the PMs I'm getting...
Well then, they need to speak up.
Most people don't feel the need to "speak up".
Oh goody. Your little group of henchmen are all pm'ing. Again, is this supposed hurt my feelings because you're all calling flan and I names behind our backs?
Just letting you know that its not just me and LL...
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The topic is me being mean to ohfour. I was not. Then we talked about my ban and how hypocritical I am. And on and on. When I have a problem with someone on the board I pm them. I don't create a huge drama on the board about it.
You and ohfour were pissed off that flan started this thread.
Are you high? This is about flan failing to be courteous enough to thank Tig and then rub her face in it by starting this thread thanking someone else.
No, it is NOT about YOU. Get over yourself.
This thread started out as a thread for flan to thank me. That is all. Then you and ohfour came in and said it was a slap in the face that she would post a thread to ME when she didn't post a thread to Tig. YOU threw me into this mix by saying this thread shouldn't have happened.
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“You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still, like air, I'll rise!” ― Maya Angelou
It affected every single one of us. I honestly hurt for Tig. And to do it through PMs is hiding the shun. It needed to be addressed publicly. It brought the entire SS exchange down this year.
Why isn't "every single one" posting?
Heck, we do SS at work and...guess what? We have NO rules; you don't even have to reveal who you are.
"Hiding the shun?" Is that a Christian thing?
flan
They may not be posting, but I cant even keep up with the PMs I'm getting...
Well then, they need to speak up.
Most people don't feel the need to "speak up".
Oh goody. Your little group of henchmen are all pm'ing. Again, is this supposed hurt my feelings because you're all calling flan and I names behind our backs?
Just letting you know that its not just me and LL...
So they need to grow some balls and stand up and say it. You say there are sooooooooooooo many people who are pissed off. Let them stand up and say it so we can get this aired out.
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“You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still, like air, I'll rise!” ― Maya Angelou
Seriously? It could have been about her next door neighbors cousins sister twice removed. It wasnt about YOU. It was about the crassness of posting this thread in the first place. YOU made it about you. I dont give a flying flip who sent her a gift.
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America guarantees equal opportunity, not equal outcome...
The topic is me being mean to ohfour. I was not. Then we talked about my ban and how hypocritical I am. And on and on. When I have a problem with someone on the board I pm them. I don't create a huge drama on the board about it.
You and ohfour were pissed off that flan started this thread.
Are you high? This is about flan failing to be courteous enough to thank Tig and then rub her face in it by starting this thread thanking someone else.
No, it is NOT about YOU. Get over yourself.
This thread started out as a thread for flan to thank me. That is all. Then you and ohfour came in and said it was a slap in the face that she would post a thread to ME when she didn't post a thread to Tig. YOU threw me into this mix by saying this thread shouldn't have happened.
No, YOU put yourself in the middle of this when you got all over ohfour when she pointed out her disappointment this thread wasn't about SS. YOU inserted yourself.
And once again - YOUR NAME was not even in the title or the OP. And who she was thanking was irrelevant once it was obvious it wasn't Tig.
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LawyerLady
I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you.
It affected every single one of us. I honestly hurt for Tig. And to do it through PMs is hiding the shun. It needed to be addressed publicly. It brought the entire SS exchange down this year.
Why isn't "every single one" posting?
Heck, we do SS at work and...guess what? We have NO rules; you don't even have to reveal who you are.
"Hiding the shun?" Is that a Christian thing?
flan
They may not be posting, but I cant even keep up with the PMs I'm getting...
Well then, they need to speak up.
Most people don't feel the need to "speak up".
Oh goody. Your little group of henchmen are all pm'ing. Again, is this supposed hurt my feelings because you're all calling flan and I names behind our backs?
Just letting you know that its not just me and LL...
So they need to grow some balls and stand up and say it. You say there are sooooooooooooo many people who are pissed off. Let them stand up and say it so we can get this aired out.
Trying to tell people how and when to post, again. Hows that working out for you?
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But it wasn't her next door neighbors cousins sister twice removed. If it had been there would not be a problem.
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“You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still, like air, I'll rise!” ― Maya Angelou
hahahaha, what a damn lie. If it was me you wouldn't have given a crap.
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“You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still, like air, I'll rise!” ― Maya Angelou
I didnt even know it was you when i saw the title. You give yourself WAY too much credit. And you couldnt be more wrong. And you are making yourself look like a fool, because everyone else understands...
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Okay. Keep feeding me the lies. You may believe I'll fall for them eventually.
And just for the record, IF Tig sees this thread she will be very upset. Not because of SS but because of all the fighting.
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“You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still, like air, I'll rise!” ― Maya Angelou
hahahaha, what a damn lie. If it was me you wouldn't have given a crap.
????? Why do you think it matters it was you? I do not understand.
Let me explain the simplest of terms I possibly can. If flan had been my SS and didn't post my gift no one here would give a damn if my "feelings" were hurt or not. It would not have been a concern of anyone here.
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“You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still, like air, I'll rise!” ― Maya Angelou
Okay. Keep feeding me the lies. You may believe I'll fall for them eventually.
And just for the record, IF Tig sees this thread she will be very upset. Not because of SS but because of all the fighting.
So now YOU speak for Tig?
Why is that ok for you and not for ohfour or me?
I really shouldn't speak for Tig. Not my place. It was just my guess that she wouldn't like this.
So have you talked to Tig about it LL? How hurt is she?
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“You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still, like air, I'll rise!” ― Maya Angelou
hahahaha, what a damn lie. If it was me you wouldn't have given a crap.
????? Why do you think it matters it was you? I do not understand.
Let me explain the simplest of terms I possibly can. If flan had been my SS and didn't post my gift no one here would give a damn if my "feelings" were hurt or not. It would not have been a concern of anyone here.
What? What the hell is that? Did you seriously just say what I think you said? You are JEALOUS because people are pissed off on Tig's behalf????
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LawyerLady
I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you.
hahahaha, what a damn lie. If it was me you wouldn't have given a crap.
????? Why do you think it matters it was you? I do not understand.
Let me explain the simplest of terms I possibly can. If flan had been my SS and didn't post my gift no one here would give a damn if my "feelings" were hurt or not. It would not have been a concern of anyone here.
It wouldnt have been a big deal for most of us. This is Tig. She IS SS...
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hahahaha, what a damn lie. If it was me you wouldn't have given a crap.
????? Why do you think it matters it was you? I do not understand.
Let me explain the simplest of terms I possibly can. If flan had been my SS and didn't post my gift no one here would give a damn if my "feelings" were hurt or not. It would not have been a concern of anyone here.
What? What the hell is that? Did you seriously just say what I think you said? You are JEALOUS because people are pissed off on Tig's behalf????
OMFG!! YOU THINK I'M JEALOUS? SERIOUSLY? Where do you get this? It has nothing whatsoever to do with jealousy. OMG I can't even understand your delusional thought process.
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“You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still, like air, I'll rise!” ― Maya Angelou
Okay. Keep feeding me the lies. You may believe I'll fall for them eventually.
And just for the record, IF Tig sees this thread she will be very upset. Not because of SS but because of all the fighting.
So now YOU speak for Tig?
Why is that ok for you and not for ohfour or me?
I really shouldn't speak for Tig. Not my place. It was just my guess that she wouldn't like this.
So have you talked to Tig about it LL? How hurt is she?
I wouldn't talk to you about Tig at this point if you were the last person on earth.
Awwww another dig.
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“You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still, like air, I'll rise!” ― Maya Angelou
hahahaha, what a damn lie. If it was me you wouldn't have given a crap.
????? Why do you think it matters it was you? I do not understand.
Let me explain the simplest of terms I possibly can. If flan had been my SS and didn't post my gift no one here would give a damn if my "feelings" were hurt or not. It would not have been a concern of anyone here.
What? What the hell is that? Did you seriously just say what I think you said? You are JEALOUS because people are pissed off on Tig's behalf????
OMFG!! YOU THINK I'M JEALOUS? SERIOUSLY? Where do you get this? It has nothing whatsoever to do with jealousy. OMG I can't even understand your delusional thought process.
Bless your heart...
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Well, today has been an awesome day for my post count.
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“You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still, like air, I'll rise!” ― Maya Angelou
hahahaha, what a damn lie. If it was me you wouldn't have given a crap.
????? Why do you think it matters it was you? I do not understand.
Let me explain the simplest of terms I possibly can. If flan had been my SS and didn't post my gift no one here would give a damn if my "feelings" were hurt or not. It would not have been a concern of anyone here.
What? What the hell is that? Did you seriously just say what I think you said? You are JEALOUS because people are pissed off on Tig's behalf????
OMFG!! YOU THINK I'M JEALOUS? SERIOUSLY? Where do you get this? It has nothing whatsoever to do with jealousy. OMG I can't even understand your delusional thought process.
Did you even read what you wrote?
I think you might want to take your own advice about not drunk posting.
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LawyerLady
I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you.
hahahaha, what a damn lie. If it was me you wouldn't have given a crap.
????? Why do you think it matters it was you? I do not understand.
Let me explain the simplest of terms I possibly can. If flan had been my SS and didn't post my gift no one here would give a damn if my "feelings" were hurt or not. It would not have been a concern of anyone here.
What? What the hell is that? Did you seriously just say what I think you said? You are JEALOUS because people are pissed off on Tig's behalf????
OMFG!! YOU THINK I'M JEALOUS? SERIOUSLY? Where do you get this? It has nothing whatsoever to do with jealousy. OMG I can't even understand your delusional thought process.
Bless your heart...
Thank you.
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“You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still, like air, I'll rise!” ― Maya Angelou
hahahaha, what a damn lie. If it was me you wouldn't have given a crap.
????? Why do you think it matters it was you? I do not understand.
Let me explain the simplest of terms I possibly can. If flan had been my SS and didn't post my gift no one here would give a damn if my "feelings" were hurt or not. It would not have been a concern of anyone here.
What? What the hell is that? Did you seriously just say what I think you said? You are JEALOUS because people are pissed off on Tig's behalf????
OMFG!! YOU THINK I'M JEALOUS? SERIOUSLY? Where do you get this? It has nothing whatsoever to do with jealousy. OMG I can't even understand your delusional thought process.
Did you even read what you wrote?
I think you might want to take your own advice about not drunk posting.
I don't drink. Well maybe twice a year so I guess I do. But not really.
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“You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still, like air, I'll rise!” ― Maya Angelou
Well, today has been an awesome day for my post count.
Of course! Its all about you dear!
It can be now... You're giving me blessings so I can use this to accomplish something. Thanks again.
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“You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still, like air, I'll rise!” ― Maya Angelou
You two are quite funny. Keep trying to turn this around. I know two things clearly -
flan couldn't be bothered to acknowledge Tig's SS gift on the SS thread, and
NJN felt the need to get a dig in at ohfour on her birthday thread.
And now, they are both trying to deny the nastiness of those things and try to make others out to be the bad guy. Read my signature line.
I said, I hate the bickering. Word for word. Which this thread has now become. I have owned my comment on ohfours birthday thread. Show me where I deny it.
No. That is not what you said.
Then PLEASE find my original quote. It was most definitely not far from that.
Here you go -
Domestic Engineer wrote:
Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
FNW wrote:
Okay, I saw the thread. Her comments were not undeserving, IMO. I will be glad when she returns.
I do not miss the name calling at all. It's been a lot more peaceful lately.
Seriously? Am I understanding you to say that you're glad O4 is banned?
I added DE's response to show that others took it EXACTLY the same way I did.
Late to the party.
Thanks LL for including my comments because if you hadn't I would have. In addition to the above comments, NJN decided to "catch up" on old threads the morning of O4s return sendping O4's birthday thread off the first page. When I called her out on it, I believe the comment was along the lines of " it was no longer her birthday" even though it was stated we were going to bump the thread daily until O4 returned.
Now that is lie DE. A flat out lie. I was told to stay off her thread and I did. I have a total of one post on that thread. flan posted that it wasn't her birthday anymore. At least I'm pretty sure it was flan. But it sure as hell wasn't me. So don't make up lies about me.
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“You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still, like air, I'll rise!” ― Maya Angelou
And you can feel free to verify that fact with FWM.
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“You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still, like air, I'll rise!” ― Maya Angelou
Now that is lie DE. A flat out lie. I was told to stay off her thread and I did. I have a total of one post on that thread. flan posted that it wasn't her birthday anymore. At least I'm pretty sure it was flan. But it sure as hell wasn't me. So don't make up lies about me.
I don't think she meant ON the birthday thread.
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LawyerLady
I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you.