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Ok Welts i am making fun. So what? Nobody else was but ME. Dont forget to correct my punctuation in between your self righteous feigned outrage!

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Don't like my posts? Don't read 'em.
But you can't say nobody is making fun while calling people lardos.

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You commented on my posts first.  Sooo try taking your own advice.



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Ilumine wrote:

These conversations just bemuse the average European.

Context matters and to say it doesn't is just obtuse.


 I know, right?

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lilyofcourse wrote:
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Who is making fun?


Does "lardos in Speedos" ring a bell?


 Oh i forgot.  You are Mother Theresa and too prim and proper to chuckle.  Sure.


You can't say nobody is making fun, when you called people lardos.

"Lardos"  IS making fun of people.


 Does it apply to you? If not, then why are you offended?

And since you have this supposed degree in psychology, why do you engage in the act of name calling and what basically boils down to board stalking?

Your friend does it too.

Seems a good, long look in the mirror could do you some good.


 Pot, meet kettle.

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According to Lilly being nude before you step into the shower is no different than streaking through downtown at the Daycare.

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flan327 wrote:
Ilumine wrote:

These conversations just bemuse the average European.

Context matters and to say it doesn't is just obtuse.


 I know, right?

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I would THINK that if just the act of seeing a stranger's nude body would increase things like premarital sex, homosexuality and pedophilia (and the subsequent acts of child abuse, kidnapping etc) then countries like Germany, Luxembourg, Italy, etc would just be the most dangerous places to go to and we would have State Department Warnings. 

 



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I don't understand why the parents wouldn't use the family changing room. I would think it'd be easier than having to watch your kid in the main locker room.

Maybe the guy who is uncomfortable could use the family changing room and just be done with it. It's there and not getting used so why not.

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Ilumine wrote:
flan327 wrote:
Ilumine wrote:

These conversations just bemuse the average European.

Context matters and to say it doesn't is just obtuse.


 I know, right?

flan


I would THINK that if just the act of seeing a stranger's nude body would increase things like premarital sex, homosexuality and pedophilia (and the subsequent acts of child abuse, kidnapping etc) then countries like Germany, Luxembourg, Italy, etc would just be the most dangerous places to go to and we would have State Department Warnings. 

 


 One of my favorite memories from living in Germany was family night at the indoor water park. Only families were allowed and the whole thing was no swimsuits allowed. We went many times, I think they had it once a month? I was 9-10 years old.

Do you know how fast you can go down a water slide when you are naked?! It was awesome. 

And yes, I saw many nude adults. I was not the least bit traumatized. I actually think it is good for children to see that there are many variations of "normal" bodies. 



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Tangerine wrote:
Ilumine wrote:
flan327 wrote:
Ilumine wrote:

These conversations just bemuse the average European.

Context matters and to say it doesn't is just obtuse.


 I know, right?

flan


I would THINK that if just the act of seeing a stranger's nude body would increase things like premarital sex, homosexuality and pedophilia (and the subsequent acts of child abuse, kidnapping etc) then countries like Germany, Luxembourg, Italy, etc would just be the most dangerous places to go to and we would have State Department Warnings. 

 


 One of my favorite memories from living in Germany was family night at the indoor water park. Only families were allowed and the whole thing was no swimsuits allowed. We went many times, I think they had it once a month? I was 9-10 years old.

Do you know how fast you can go down a water slide when you are naked?! It was awesome. 

And yes, I saw many nude adults. I was not the least bit traumatized. I actually think it is good for children to see that there are many variations of "normal" bodies. 


 I wonder if they still do this?  I love swimming naked.  I imagine a water slide would be a lot of fun.



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Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:

According to Lilly being nude before you step into the shower is no different than streaking through downtown at the Daycare.


 No.

But you say context.

Ok.

So a little girl in a mens locker room is ok, but that same little girl in a women's bathroom with a cross dresser is not? 

Why is one ok and the other not?



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There is a place in Indy called "Sybaris," a couples-only retreat.

Rooms come with a variety of amenities and my favorite is the one with a small pool. Floating naked is incredibly soothing.

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lilyofcourse wrote:
Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:

According to Lilly being nude before you step into the shower is no different than streaking through downtown at the Daycare.


 No.

But you say context.

Ok.

So a little girl in a men's locker room is ok, but that same little girl in a women's bathroom with a cross dresser is not? 

Why is one ok and the other not?


 First, a girl age 6 or less with her parent in a men's locker room is both voluntary and safe.

A 12 year old girl in a girl's locker room or bathroom with a person with a penis, especially an older person with a penis, is

(1) not voluntary, and

(2) not protected if the person with a penis turns out to be aggressive.

A girl age 6 or less with her mother in a women's locker room or bathroom when a person with a penis comes in (or is already there) is unlikely to be attacked by a male pretending to be transgender.

 



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I'm not talking about being attacked.

I'm talking about one being acceptable and the other not.

Context?

Both are little girls possibly seeing naked men.

And Ed, if a dad is taking his little daughter to a man's locker room, how do you know he isn't "grooming" her?

I'm not saying that is at all the case. But you tend to go there before others. But here, it's no big deal.

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lilyofcourse wrote:
Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:

According to Lilly being nude before you step into the shower is no different than streaking through downtown at the Daycare.


 No.

But you say context.

Ok.

So a little girl in a mens locker room is ok, but that same little girl in a women's bathroom with a cross dresser is not? 

Why is one ok and the other not?


 Where did i say both of those were OK?



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Lawyerlady wrote:
Tangerine wrote:
Ilumine wrote:
flan327 wrote:
Ilumine wrote:

These conversations just bemuse the average European.

Context matters and to say it doesn't is just obtuse.


 I know, right?

flan


I would THINK that if just the act of seeing a stranger's nude body would increase things like premarital sex, homosexuality and pedophilia (and the subsequent acts of child abuse, kidnapping etc) then countries like Germany, Luxembourg, Italy, etc would just be the most dangerous places to go to and we would have State Department Warnings. 

 


 One of my favorite memories from living in Germany was family night at the indoor water park. Only families were allowed and the whole thing was no swimsuits allowed. We went many times, I think they had it once a month? I was 9-10 years old.

Do you know how fast you can go down a water slide when you are naked?! It was awesome. 

And yes, I saw many nude adults. I was not the least bit traumatized. I actually think it is good for children to see that there are many variations of "normal" bodies. 


 I wonder if they still do this?  I love swimming naked.  I imagine a water slide would be a lot of fun.


 Oh yes. our local pool had clothing optional day every Wednesday. We went a number of times, becuase if it was warm and sunny enough to get into the outside pool, you GO, clothing or no clothing. 



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As I said. Depends on context. Seeing someone nude in the locker room or walking into the bathroom at home or whatever, then fine. Parading down Park Ave, not so fine.

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Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:
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According to Lilly being nude before you step into the shower is no different than streaking through downtown at the Daycare.


 No.

But you say context.

Ok.

So a little girl in a mens locker room is ok, but that same little girl in a women's bathroom with a cross dresser is not? 

Why is one ok and the other not?


 Where did i say both of those were OK?


 Huh?



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I agree with the points that Tangerine and Illumine made. We are too hung up on modesty. Adam and Eve were created naked, and God didn't have a problem with it. Why should we?

Being modest shouldn't have to do with attire, it should have to do with attitude. You can be naked without being naughty. It's been proven in Europe for a long time.

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I agree with the points that Tangerine and Illumine made. We are too hung up on modesty. Adam and Eve were created naked, and God didn't have a problem with it. Why should we?

Being modest shouldn't have to do with attire, it should have to do with attitude. You can be naked without being naughty. It's been proven in Europe for a long time.


 Well, that's not entirely true.  God didn't have a problem with nudity PRIOR to Adam and Eve sinning and allowing Sin to enter into the world and hearts of men.  Once they sinned, God actually killed some animals for their skins and clothed them.

 

21 The Lord God made garments of skin for Adam and his wife and clothed them. 22 And the Lord God said, “The man has now become like one of us, knowing good and evil.   Genesis 3:21-22



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I was always under the impression that the 'family' lockers were ones where both female and male adults and kids use, but that the actual place to change is a closed door. At least this is how it is at my local rec center. Or am I missing the point / situation completely?

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Well, that's not entirely true. God didn't have a problem with nudity PRIOR to Adam and Eve sinning and allowing Sin to enter into the world and hearts of men. Once they sinned, God actually killed some animals for their skins and clothed them.

21 The Lord God made garments of skin for Adam and his wife and clothed them. 22 And the Lord God said, “The man has now become like one of us, knowing good and evil. Genesis 3:21-22
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I know God made them clothes. However, the point I was trying to make was "God is all knowing and in his wisdom, he made them without clothes or the need for them" Why are we to question God's preference or ideas or beliefs?

Before Adam and Eve knew of good and evil, we were innocent, as children even. Just look at children today to see how much we are supposed to care about being clothed. They don't care about clothes until we teach them how evil it is to be immodest. I'd bet just about any parent can come up with some story about how their child wanted "naked time" or whatever it was called in their house.

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Well, that's not entirely true. God didn't have a problem with nudity PRIOR to Adam and Eve sinning and allowing Sin to enter into the world and hearts of men. Once they sinned, God actually killed some animals for their skins and clothed them.

21 The Lord God made garments of skin for Adam and his wife and clothed them. 22 And the Lord God said, “The man has now become like one of us, knowing good and evil. Genesis 3:21-22
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I know God made them clothes. However, the point I was trying to make was "God is all knowing and in his wisdom, he made them without clothes or the need for them" Why are we to question God's preference or ideas or beliefs?

Before Adam and Eve knew of good and evil, we were innocent, as children even. Just look at children today to see how much we are supposed to care about being clothed. They don't care about clothes until we teach them how evil it is to be immodest. I'd bet just about any parent can come up with some story about how their child wanted "naked time" or whatever it was called in their house.


 Well, God also made the clothes to cover them, so then why are you to question that decision of God's either?  Once Sin entered the world, God was aware that nudity now would be something that man would warp for evil.  That with that would come evil and sinful thoughts.  So, God made the garments to at least shield their eyes from situations that might promote this type of impropriety.

  God prounounced the world "Good".  And, it was Good.  And, yes Adam and Eve were Good as well and with out clothes.  However, when they sinned, that changed the dynamics of who we are.  And, God addressed that and is still addressing that to this day.



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Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:
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Well, that's not entirely true. God didn't have a problem with nudity PRIOR to Adam and Eve sinning and allowing Sin to enter into the world and hearts of men. Once they sinned, God actually killed some animals for their skins and clothed them.

21 The Lord God made garments of skin for Adam and his wife and clothed them. 22 And the Lord God said, “The man has now become like one of us, knowing good and evil. Genesis 3:21-22
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I know God made them clothes. However, the point I was trying to make was "God is all knowing and in his wisdom, he made them without clothes or the need for them" Why are we to question God's preference or ideas or beliefs?

Before Adam and Eve knew of good and evil, we were innocent, as children even. Just look at children today to see how much we are supposed to care about being clothed. They don't care about clothes until we teach them how evil it is to be immodest. I'd bet just about any parent can come up with some story about how their child wanted "naked time" or whatever it was called in their house.


 Well, God also made the clothes to cover them, so then why are you to question that decision of God's either?  Once Sin entered the world, God was aware that nudity now would be something that man would warp for evil.  That with that would come evil and sinful thoughts.  So, God made the garments to at least shield their eyes from situations that might promote this type of impropriety.

  God prounounced the world "Good".  And, it was Good.  And, yes Adam and Eve were Good as well and with out clothes.  However, when they sinned, that changed the dynamics of who we are.  And, God addressed that and is still addressing that to this day.


Yeah, and this depends upon the translations.  There is an ambiguity in the ORIGINAL Hebrew text.  The word could have been eromim = naked, without clothes or arumim = which means uncovering of deceptions.  The original text was written using ONLY consonants, no vowels.  This leaves the translation up to the translators interpretation. The same can be said about the Hebrew word chagowr, which literally means a belt around the waist. But Christian biblical translators have always translated that word to meaning a covering that at least covers the genitalia, if not the whole body.  


All of the other handful of passages that denote nakedness as sinful can have other interpretations, especially when you use the context of the time the bible was written vs the context and of the time the bible was translated and the purpose of the translators.  

When Noah cursed Ham's son Caanan, was it because Ham just happened to see Noah naked or was it because Ham ridiculed his father when he called his brothers into the room?  Given there are later versus in the bible that condemn sons for ridiculing or shaming their fathers (note the paternal theme here?  If we wanted to follow the bible to its dotted "Is" and crossed "Ts" we would have different rules for men and women). 

Baptism was always done naked, in groups,

And finally in John 13:4-5 Jesus "riseth from supper and laid aside his garments; and took a towel and girded himself. After that he poureth water into a basin and began to wash the disciples feet and wiped them wherewith the towel he was girded."  

Dude, he was naked.  

I am going to go with Pope John Paul. " Nakedness itself is not immodest...Immodesty is present only when nakedness plays a negative role with regard to the value of the person, when its aim is to arouse concupiscence, as a result of which the person is put in the position of an object of enjoyment"  A little girl having to change with her father in a pool's locker room because there are no family stalls is not immodest, for the little girl or the father or the men who may have innocently flashed his genitalia while changing.  




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Man tends to corrupt good. Food is good. Gluttony is not. That doesnt make food bad. Nudity is good but can also be used as porn , fuel for sexual immorality etc. There is a balance.

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Well, God also made the clothes to cover them, so then why are you to question that decision of God's either? Once Sin entered the world, God was aware that nudity now would be something that man would warp for evil. That with that would come evil and sinful thoughts. So, God made the garments to at least shield their eyes from situations that might promote this type of impropriety.

God prounounced the world "Good". And, it was Good. And, yes Adam and Eve were Good as well and with out clothes. However, when they sinned, that changed the dynamics of who we are. And, God addressed that and is still addressing that to this day.
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This is just my belief, but I believe that God knew he was right in leaving them unclothed when he created them, and that he only made them clothes because he knew that leaves wouldn't work for long, so if they wanted clothes he would make them good and sturdy ones.

That's my interpretation of God declaring the clothes "good", because God is perfect as well as all knowing and doesn't make mistakes, so if he had deemed they would need clothes he would have made them originally. Others may interpret it differently and that's o.k.

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Nudity is good but can also be used as porn , fuel for sexual immorality etc. There is a balance.
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That was basically my point when I said "Being modest shouldn't have to do with attire, it should have to do with attitude. You can be naked without being naughty." a few posts ago.

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