TOTALLY GEEKED!

Still don't understand how it's imposing anything.

And if you are an adult, and you don't want a baby, and you still get pregnant, that's incredibly stupid.

It's so easy to not get pregnant.

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weltschmerz wrote:

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lilyofcourse wrote:

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Who is talking about your genitals?
I'm talking about not having sex if you don't want to get pregnant.

I think if you have sex indiscriminately you don't have a very good opinion of yourself.

If you have an abortion, you don't value life as much as you should.

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 I have a very good opinion of myself. I'm smart, I'm kind, I'm compassionate, I'm a great mom, a terrific nurse, etc.

I'm a good human being.

It has nothing to do with how much action my vagina has seen.

Maybe your self-worth and self-respect are tied up in your naughty bits, but mine isn't.

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 Yet you support abortion when prevention is so simple.

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 Yes, I absolutely do.

weltschmerz wrote:

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lilyofcourse wrote:

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weltschmerz wrote:

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lilyofcourse wrote:

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Who is talking about your genitals?
I'm talking about not having sex if you don't want to get pregnant.

I think if you have sex indiscriminately you don't have a very good opinion of yourself.

If you have an abortion, you don't value life as much as you should.

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 I have a very good opinion of myself. I'm smart, I'm kind, I'm compassionate, I'm a great mom, a terrific nurse, etc.

I'm a good human being.

It has nothing to do with how much action my vagina has seen.

Maybe your self-worth and self-respect are tied up in your naughty bits, but mine isn't.

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 Yet you support abortion when prevention is so simple.

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 Yes, I absolutely do.

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 Do you not see the complete lunacy in that? 

Why not prevent the pregnancy?  

Why not make THAT the moment to declare your rights as a woman?

I mean, it's possible to sew a thumb back on, but if you don't cut it off in the first place, you don't have to deal with the consequences. 

 

lilyofcourse wrote:

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Still don't understand how it's imposing anything.

And if you are an adult, and you don't want a baby, and you still get pregnant, that's incredibly stupid.

It's so easy to not get pregnant.

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 Keep saying that...

flan

flan327 wrote:

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Ohfour wrote:

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weltschmerz wrote:

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Ohfour wrote:

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weltschmerz wrote:

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My self-worth isn't tied up in my genitals.

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 Obviously...

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 Exactly! I think I'm fabulous, and it has nothing to do with my nether regions.

I like me.

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 Evidently, since you are willing to pervert your body with every Tom Dick and Harry that makes your nether regions feel good. Thats not something to be proud of...

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 You do realize, 04, that it IS possible to enjoy sex without being married? You can even be faithful to ONE partner.

But make a snide comment, because THAT will convince everyone.

flan

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 She has stated that she enjoys casual sex. With multiple partners. If she wants to be perceived like that, then more power to her. I will continue to think of her as she presents herself,  which is far less than moral...

"Is it any wonder you aren't married?"



flan

Ohfour wrote:

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weltschmerz wrote:

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Ohfour wrote:

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weltschmerz wrote:

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Ohfour wrote:

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weltschmerz wrote:

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My self-worth isn't tied up in my genitals.

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 Obviously...

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 Exactly! I think I'm fabulous, and it has nothing to do with my nether regions.

I like me.

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 Evidently, since you are willing to pervert your body with every Tom Dick and Harry that makes your nether regions feel good. Thats not something to be proud of...

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 ROTFLMAO!! You forget Pierre and Jean Luc.

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 If you thank its cute that you are used, go ahead. I have more respect for myself than that. You are the one that is proving you are nothing more than your nether regions. Good for one thing, according to your description of yourself. Is it any wonder that you arent married?

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 If everyone here who had premarital sex with more than one person before we got married weren't allowed to get married I can safely say the majority of us would not be married.  I mean, if you want I could go dig up the when you lost your virginity thread and bring it here.  I'd dare say most of us have had at least two sexual partners before we got married.

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Ohfour wrote:

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weltschmerz wrote:

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Ohfour wrote:

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weltschmerz wrote:

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Ohfour wrote:

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weltschmerz wrote:

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My self-worth isn't tied up in my genitals.

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 Obviously...

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 Exactly! I think I'm fabulous, and it has nothing to do with my nether regions.

I like me.

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 Evidently, since you are willing to pervert your body with every Tom Dick and Harry that makes your nether regions feel good. Thats not something to be proud of...

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 ROTFLMAO!! You forget Pierre and Jean Luc.

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 If you thank its cute that you are used, go ahead. I have more respect for myself than that. You are the one that is proving you are nothing more than your nether regions. Good for one thing, according to your description of yourself. Is it any wonder that you arent married?

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 If everyone here who had premarital sex with more than one person before we got married weren't allowed to get married I can safely say the majority of us would not be married.  I mean, if you want I could go dig up the when you lost your virginity thread and bring it here.  I'd dare say most of us have had at least two sexual partners before we got married.

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 Yes, but we grew up. And dont act like rutting animals...

No, but neither do girls in brothels...just sayin...

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No, but neither do girls in brothels...just sayin...

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 Brothels? What the hell are you babbling about now?

Now you want to give your high and mighty opinion about girls in brothels?

 Like you're the keeper of the world's moral compass?

Lol!!!!

"WATCH OUT GALS! THE CHURCH LADY IS COMING!"

Hey, I dont care. You dont do yourself any favors though.

weltschmerz wrote:

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Not my fault! Someone led me astray!
Could it be....


SATAN??

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 "Not my fault". (BTW, that's how you quote). 

Typical liberal response.  Nothing is your fault.  You can't control primal urges, not your fault. Can't keep your legs together,  not your fault. Can't support yourself with a bum arm, not your fault. 

Grow up. Take some responsibility for yourself and your life. 

Ohfour wrote:

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weltschmerz wrote:

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Not my fault! Someone led me astray!
Could it be....


SATAN??

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 "Not my fault". (BTW, that's how you quote). 

Typical liberal response.  Nothing is your fault.  You can't control primal urges, not your fault. Can't keep your legs together,  not your fault. Can't support yourself with a bum arm, not your fault. 

Grow up. Take some responsibility for yourself and your life. 

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What the hell are you babbling about NOW??

I'm supporting myself just fine. Where did you get such a supid idea? Ah, let me guess. LGS has been spresding lies about me in PMs and you believed her.

Figures.

Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:

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weltschmerz wrote:

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Ohfour wrote:

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weltschmerz wrote:

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Not my fault! Someone led me astray!
Could it be....


SATAN??

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 "Not my fault". (BTW, that's how you quote). 

Typical liberal response.  Nothing is your fault.  You can't control primal urges, not your fault. Can't keep your legs together,  not your fault. Can't support yourself with a bum arm, not your fault. 

Grow up. Take some responsibility for yourself and your life. 

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 Jesus, Lighten up! Never seen SNL?

 

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 Ligthen up about what?  Killing babies?  Feel free to toss in a few Holocaust jokes too.  Hysterical.  

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 Get help.

Seriously. You're wound VERY tight.

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weltschmerz wrote:

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Not my fault! Someone led me astray!
Could it be....


SATAN??

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 "Not my fault". (BTW, that's how you quote). 

Typical liberal response.  Nothing is your fault.  You can't control primal urges, not your fault. Can't keep your legs together,  not your fault. Can't support yourself with a bum arm, not your fault. 

Grow up. Take some responsibility for yourself and your life. 

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 It.Was.A.Joke.

She CHOOSES to enjoy sex.

She DOES support herself.

flan

 

weltschmerz wrote:

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Ohfour wrote:

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weltschmerz wrote:

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Not my fault! Someone led me astray!
Could it be....


SATAN??

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 "Not my fault". (BTW, that's how you quote). 

Typical liberal response.  Nothing is your fault.  You can't control primal urges, not your fault. Can't keep your legs together,  not your fault. Can't support yourself with a bum arm, not your fault. 

Grow up. Take some responsibility for yourself and your life. 

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What the hell are you babbling about NOW??

I'm supporting myself just fine. Where did you get such a supid idea? Ah, let me guess. LGS has been spresding lies about me in PMs and you believed her.

Figures.

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 Nah, you just haven't figured out who I am yet...

weltschmerz wrote:

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Ohfour wrote:

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weltschmerz wrote:

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Not my fault! Someone led me astray!
Could it be....


SATAN??

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 "Not my fault". (BTW, that's how you quote). 

Typical liberal response.  Nothing is your fault.  You can't control primal urges, not your fault. Can't keep your legs together,  not your fault. Can't support yourself with a bum arm, not your fault. 

Grow up. Take some responsibility for yourself and your life. 

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What the hell are you babbling about NOW??

I'm supporting myself just fine. Where did you get such a supid idea? Ah, let me guess. LGS has been spresding lies about me in PMs and you believed her.

Figures.

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  WTF?  Get over yourself.  You aren't that interesting that i would want to bother to talk about you in a PM.  Sorry you are a Narcissist but i simply don't care that much about you to waste my time.   Thanks so much!

I don't get the fascination with Welts and her life.

flan327 wrote:

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Ohfour wrote:

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weltschmerz wrote:

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Not my fault! Someone led me astray!
Could it be....


SATAN??

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 "Not my fault". (BTW, that's how you quote). 

Typical liberal response.  Nothing is your fault.  You can't control primal urges, not your fault. Can't keep your legs together,  not your fault. Can't support yourself with a bum arm, not your fault. 

Grow up. Take some responsibility for yourself and your life. 

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 It.Was.A.Joke.

She CHOOSES to enjoy sex.

She DOES support herself.

flan

 

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 Again - you have an issue with what a joke is.

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flan327 wrote:

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 Don't worry...

Many of us actually can think for ourselves. It worked for 04. That doesn't mean it will work for everyone woman everywhere...

flan

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 It absolutely would work for anyone. I did nothing special. I dont even have a HS degree...

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 I disagree. Not everyone is that strong.

flan

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 I would need to reread the OP.  Just last night on the mom page I post on there was a lady who was a newly single mom.  She was struggling, afraid, scared, and down in the dumps.  She was asking other single mom's how they did it.  We all shared our experiences with her and after we did she said she just sat down and had a good cry and then felt better.  She thanked us all for giving her some encouragement.  Sometimes people just can't see the forest for the trees.

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  It is hard enough being a mom when you are married but much harder when you are raising the kids alone.  Glad she found a support group/outlet that understands what she is going through and give her encouragement she needs.

Lawyerlady wrote:

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flan327 wrote:

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Ohfour wrote:

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weltschmerz wrote:

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Not my fault! Someone led me astray!
Could it be....


SATAN??

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 "Not my fault". (BTW, that's how you quote). 

Typical liberal response.  Nothing is your fault.  You can't control primal urges, not your fault. Can't keep your legs together,  not your fault. Can't support yourself with a bum arm, not your fault. 

Grow up. Take some responsibility for yourself and your life. 

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 It.Was.A.Joke.

She CHOOSES to enjoy sex.

She DOES support herself.

flan

 

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 Again - you have an issue with what a joke is.

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 No issue at all.

flan

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 A long time ago I worked in a crisis pregnancy center.  I learned one thing.  That first moment when you find out when you are NOT ready to become a parent is overwhelming.  It's pure panic.  I know a lot of people disagree with me but if you make women take time to think about it a large percentage of the time they move from pure panic to I can handle this.  But having experienced an unplanned pregnancy I DO understand the feeling of sheer terror that comes with it.

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Lindley wrote:

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 A long time ago I worked in a crisis pregnancy center.  I learned one thing.  That first moment when you find out when you are NOT ready to become a parent is overwhelming.  It's pure panic.  I know a lot of people disagree with me but if you make women take time to think about it a large percentage of the time they move from pure panic to I can handle this.  But having experienced an unplanned pregnancy I DO understand the feeling of sheer terror that comes with it.

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   It is good they had a center like the crisis pregnancy center to call.  You can't think when your mind is in shock.

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 Well, I can share my story but it's only mine.  Not everyone else's.  I had been married for six years and already had two kids.  A boy and a girl.  I didn't need anymore and didn't want anymore.  My marriage was falling apart.  Merely hanging on by a mere thread.  Literally.  We  had been on again off again for the last two years.  I absolutely DID NOT need to bring a baby into the mix.  I was under stress and had just had a boulder fall on my ankle.  I lost three days of my life to pain pills and muscle relaxers.  I had x-rays.  When they asked me I told them there was NO WAY I could be pregnant.    My BFF at the time said I should do a test because something just looked like I was pregnant.  So I went up to work and did a test.  I'm not even sure the urine hit the test before it became positive.  I figured the test was defective so I did another one.  Nope, I was pregnant.  Five and a half months.  I cried and cried and cried.  This was NOT a situation to bring a child into.  But abortion wasn't the answer for me.  I had a really hard time finding a doctor.  Most of them wanted me to abort.  It was tough.  And my ex ended up leaving me for good when he was ten days old so it didn't have some happy ending.  I don't regret my decision one bit but it's hard for me to sit in judgment and call other people names.  I just can't do it.  I remember being so afraid and in shock.  And knowing, in my heart of hearts, I WAS truly alone in the sense that I was having a baby without a partner.