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flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

RE: Girl Grows Restless Waiting for Right Time to Approach Busy Boy

Nobody Just Nobody · Rib-it! Rrrib-it!

Lawyerlady wrote:
Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Lily put it on the board herself.
And you've put a lot of crap on the board, should we throw it all in your face? How about your friends' faces?

Tinydancer is right.
You already throw crap in my face LL. You dislike me and we both know it and we both know why. I'm not going anywhere and you can throw as much stuff as you want.
What, exactly, other than your own petty comments to other? I have never attacked your children. Should we start?

I'm sure you have plenty to say.

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
flan327 wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Lily put it on the board herself.
And you've put a lot of crap on the board, should we throw it all in your face? How about your friends' faces?

Tinydancer is right.
How would anyone even KNOW about Lily's daughter unless she POSTED IT HERE?
flan
Well, seeing as how I don't pm with Lily it would have to be here. And it WAS before 18 because she posted it. I am well aware of the pm rule and wouldn't do something so stupid.

How many times have we been told: If you don't want it used against you, don't post it.

I believe the all-powerful TD gave me that heart-warming advice.

flan

-- Edited by flan327 on Tuesday 8th of March 2016 01:43:45 PM

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

flan327 wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
flan327 wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Lily put it on the board herself.
And you've put a lot of crap on the board, should we throw it all in your face? How about your friends' faces?

Tinydancer is right.
How would anyone even KNOW about Lily's daughter unless she POSTED IT HERE?
flan
See above. Lily NEVER, EVER, EVER has said she condones her daughter having sex. EVER.
See above.
She did say that her daughter had premarital sex. THAT was what I referenced.
flan

And your children have always done exactly what you wanted them to do?

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Lily put it on the board herself.
And you've put a lot of crap on the board, should we throw it all in your face? How about your friends' faces?

Tinydancer is right.
You already throw crap in my face LL. You dislike me and we both know it and we both know why. I'm not going anywhere and you can throw as much stuff as you want.
What, exactly, other than your own petty comments to other? I have never attacked your children. Should we start?
I'm sure you have plenty to say.

Well, since your daughter is shacking up, you better never have another opinion about living together before marriage.

And hey - flan better never have another opinion on people paying bills responsibly.

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

Lawyerlady wrote:
Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Lily put it on the board herself.
And you've put a lot of crap on the board, should we throw it all in your face? How about your friends' faces?

Tinydancer is right.
You already throw crap in my face LL. You dislike me and we both know it and we both know why. I'm not going anywhere and you can throw as much stuff as you want.
What, exactly, other than your own petty comments to other? I have never attacked your children. Should we start?
I'm sure you have plenty to say.
Well, since your daughter is shacking up, you better never have another opinion about living together before marriage.
And hey - flan better never have another opinion on people paying bills responsibly.

Oh, sweetie, I'll have whatever opinion I want.

flan

Tinydancer · Guru

Let's talk about itty bitty and NJN's autistic son. I'm pretty sure they wouldn't appreciate that.

Lady Gaga Snerd · Guru

OMG people! Don't attack each other's kids! Not cool!

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

Tinydancer wrote:
Let's talk about itty bitty and NJN's autistic son. I'm pretty sure they wouldn't appreciate that.

Wonder why I don't blog any more?

Go look in the mirror.

NJN is a big girl. What do you want to say about her son?

flan

Nobody Just Nobody · Rib-it! Rrrib-it!

Lawyerlady wrote:

Well, since your daughter is shacking up, you better never have another opinion about living together before marriage.
And hey - flan better never have another opinion on people paying bills responsibly.

DN is almost thirty. She is an adult. She is not 16. And she didn't lose her virginity then either. She was 20. I know. We've had this talk. There are many things in her life she's done I don't approve of. But I tell her how I feel about them and move on. Especially now that she's an adult. I'm smart enough to know I can't control a 30 year old. You want to judge her by your morals. That's fine.

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

You can't lose respect for someone if you never had any in the first place.

flan

Nobody Just Nobody · Rib-it! Rrrib-it!

Tinydancer wrote:
Let's talk about itty bitty and NJN's autistic son. I'm pretty sure they wouldn't appreciate that.

You want to talk about my autistic son? Okay. Let's talk.

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:

Well, since your daughter is shacking up, you better never have another opinion about living together before marriage.
And hey - flan better never have another opinion on people paying bills responsibly.
DN is almost thirty. She is an adult. She is not 16. And she didn't lose her virginity then either. She was 20. I know. We've had this talk. There are many things in her life she's done I don't approve of. But I tell her how I feel about them and move on. Especially now that she's an adult. I'm smart enough to know I can't control a 30 year old. You want to judge her by your morals. That's fine.

Yep. But obviously you did something wrong and therefore can't have an opinion on anything to the contrary of her behavior. That's what you said about Lily. Now own your own damn words.

Tinydancer · Guru

I don't make it personal NJN and flan but there are many things I could say about each one of those. You two need to grow the hell up.

Nobody Just Nobody · Rib-it! Rrrib-it!

Lawyerlady wrote:
Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:

Well, since your daughter is shacking up, you better never have another opinion about living together before marriage.
And hey - flan better never have another opinion on people paying bills responsibly.
DN is almost thirty. She is an adult. She is not 16. And she didn't lose her virginity then either. She was 20. I know. We've had this talk. There are many things in her life she's done I don't approve of. But I tell her how I feel about them and move on. Especially now that she's an adult. I'm smart enough to know I can't control a 30 year old. You want to judge her by your morals. That's fine.
Yep. But obviously you did something wrong and therefore can't have an opinion on anything to the contrary of her behavior. That's what you said about Lily. Now own your own damn words.

She wasn't sleeping around in high school. Of which I'm glad. What did I do wrong? Raise an independent child with a mind of her own? She can form her own thoughts and values. I am not raising my kids to be carbon copies of me. I thought we were talking about teenagers here. I guess not. She never even had sex as a teenager. Now she is living with the guy she's going to marry. Yep, I messed up. If we're going there ohfour's daughter was pregnant and had a baby and was living with her babies father before they got married. But you know what? SHE was an adult too. So so what? There is a huge difference between a 16 year old and a 30 year old. Oh, and good luck controlling your kids when they turn 30.

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

I hope you find peace somewhere, sometime.

flan

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:

Well, since your daughter is shacking up, you better never have another opinion about living together before marriage.
And hey - flan better never have another opinion on people paying bills responsibly.
DN is almost thirty. She is an adult. She is not 16. And she didn't lose her virginity then either. She was 20. I know. We've had this talk. There are many things in her life she's done I don't approve of. But I tell her how I feel about them and move on. Especially now that she's an adult. I'm smart enough to know I can't control a 30 year old. You want to judge her by your morals. That's fine.
Yep. But obviously you did something wrong and therefore can't have an opinion on anything to the contrary of her behavior. That's what you said about Lily. Now own your own damn words.
She wasn't sleeping around in high school. Of which I'm glad. What did I do wrong? Raise an independent child with a mind of her own? She can form her own thoughts and values. I am not raising my kids to be carbon copies of me. I thought we were talking about teenagers here. I guess not. She never even had sex as a teenager. Now she is living with the guy she's going to marry. Yep, I messed up. If we're going there ohfour's daughter was pregnant and had a baby and was living with her babies father before they got married. But you know what? SHE was an adult too. So so what? There is a huge difference between a 16 year old and a 30 year old. Oh, and good luck controlling your kids when they turn 30.

I think people who don't have teenagers should write lots & lots of books.

flan

Nobody Just Nobody · Rib-it! Rrrib-it!

Tinydancer wrote:
I don't make it personal NJN and flan but there are many things I could say about each one of those. You two need to grow the hell up.

There's not really all that much you can say about my autistic son. He has problems due to his autism. Sometimes are worse than others. Mostly he's a good kid. He will never be a normal kid.

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:

Well, since your daughter is shacking up, you better never have another opinion about living together before marriage.
And hey - flan better never have another opinion on people paying bills responsibly.
DN is almost thirty. She is an adult. She is not 16. And she didn't lose her virginity then either. She was 20. I know. We've had this talk. There are many things in her life she's done I don't approve of. But I tell her how I feel about them and move on. Especially now that she's an adult. I'm smart enough to know I can't control a 30 year old. You want to judge her by your morals. That's fine.
Yep. But obviously you did something wrong and therefore can't have an opinion on anything to the contrary of her behavior. That's what you said about Lily. Now own your own damn words.
She wasn't sleeping around in high school. Of which I'm glad. What did I do wrong? Raise an independent child with a mind of her own? She can form her own thoughts and values. I am not raising my kids to be carbon copies of me. I thought we were talking about teenagers here. I guess not. She never even had sex as a teenager. Now she is living with the guy she's going to marry. Yep, I messed up. If we're going there ohfour's daughter was pregnant and had a baby and was living with her babies father before they got married. But you know what? SHE was an adult too. So so what? There is a huge difference between a 16 year old and a 30 year old. Oh, and good luck controlling your kids when they turn 30.

According to you, the fact that she ever did anything wrong means you don't get to have an opinion on those subjects.

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Tinydancer wrote:
I don't make it personal NJN and flan but there are many things I could say about each one of those. You two need to grow the hell up.
There's not really all that much you can say about my autistic son. He has problems due to his autism. Sometimes are worse than others. Mostly he's a good kid. He will never be a normal kid.

I know, right?

Hey, NJN, your son is autistic! Take that!

flan

Tinydancer · Guru

I notice you don't want me to say what I know about itty bitty...lol

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

NJN - you were completely and utterly out of line bringing Lily's daughter's sex life into the thread. There was NO reason for it. No matter how you try to spin it and no matter how much flan sticks up for you.

This thread wasn't even about sex. It's about an immature 18 year old with a crush.

Nobody Just Nobody · Rib-it! Rrrib-it!

Lawyerlady wrote:
Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:

Well, since your daughter is shacking up, you better never have another opinion about living together before marriage.
And hey - flan better never have another opinion on people paying bills responsibly.
DN is almost thirty. She is an adult. She is not 16. And she didn't lose her virginity then either. She was 20. I know. We've had this talk. There are many things in her life she's done I don't approve of. But I tell her how I feel about them and move on. Especially now that she's an adult. I'm smart enough to know I can't control a 30 year old. You want to judge her by your morals. That's fine.
Yep. But obviously you did something wrong and therefore can't have an opinion on anything to the contrary of her behavior. That's what you said about Lily. Now own your own damn words.
She wasn't sleeping around in high school. Of which I'm glad. What did I do wrong? Raise an independent child with a mind of her own? She can form her own thoughts and values. I am not raising my kids to be carbon copies of me. I thought we were talking about teenagers here. I guess not. She never even had sex as a teenager. Now she is living with the guy she's going to marry. Yep, I messed up. If we're going there ohfour's daughter was pregnant and had a baby and was living with her babies father before they got married. But you know what? SHE was an adult too. So so what? There is a huge difference between a 16 year old and a 30 year old. Oh, and good luck controlling your kids when they turn 30.
According to you, the fact that she ever did anything wrong means you don't get to have an opinion on those subjects.

This makes no sense. But I can clearly tell you I'm not going to be telling other people how wrong it is that their kids are living together. I guess that concept escaped you. See, I try my best not to lecture other parents because I'm not perfect. See, I would never lecture ohfour on her daughter living in sin before she got married. That would be what you clearly call a double standard.

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:

Well, since your daughter is shacking up, you better never have another opinion about living together before marriage.
And hey - flan better never have another opinion on people paying bills responsibly.
DN is almost thirty. She is an adult. She is not 16. And she didn't lose her virginity then either. She was 20. I know. We've had this talk. There are many things in her life she's done I don't approve of. But I tell her how I feel about them and move on. Especially now that she's an adult. I'm smart enough to know I can't control a 30 year old. You want to judge her by your morals. That's fine.
Yep. But obviously you did something wrong and therefore can't have an opinion on anything to the contrary of her behavior. That's what you said about Lily. Now own your own damn words.
She wasn't sleeping around in high school. Of which I'm glad. What did I do wrong? Raise an independent child with a mind of her own? She can form her own thoughts and values. I am not raising my kids to be carbon copies of me. I thought we were talking about teenagers here. I guess not. She never even had sex as a teenager. Now she is living with the guy she's going to marry. Yep, I messed up. If we're going there ohfour's daughter was pregnant and had a baby and was living with her babies father before they got married. But you know what? SHE was an adult too. So so what? There is a huge difference between a 16 year old and a 30 year old. Oh, and good luck controlling your kids when they turn 30.
According to you, the fact that she ever did anything wrong means you don't get to have an opinion on those subjects.
This makes no sense. But I can clearly tell you I'm not going to be telling other people how wrong it is that their kids are living together. I guess that concept escaped you. See, I try my best not to lecture other parents because I'm not perfect. See, I would never lecture ohfour on her daughter living in sin before she got married. That would be what you clearly call a double standard.

See above. This thread wasn't about sex.

You were out of line. Completely. Taking lessons from flan, I see.

msrock · Guru

Tinydancer wrote:
I notice you don't want me to say what I know about itty bitty...lol

Not if the info came from PM's among your clique. lol. Because I remember you saying how you were pm'd by multiple people warning you about other posters when the board moved over here. Now that's sad.

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

Tinydancer wrote:
I notice you don't want me to say what I know about itty bitty...lol

Obviously, you can say anything she has ever posted on the board at any time. Relevance be damned. evileye

Nobody Just Nobody · Rib-it! Rrrib-it!

Lawyerlady wrote:
NJN - you were completely and utterly out of line bringing Lily's daughter's sex life into the thread. There was NO reason for it. No matter how you try to spin it and no matter how much flan sticks up for you.

This thread wasn't even about sex. It's about an immature 18 year old with a crush.

She is lecturing that this "girl" has no business asking this "boy" out. Why not? What is the worst that could happen? She is saying the "girl" is way too immature. It's a double standard. The only reason you are saying it isn't is because you dislike me. And it makes me laugh because we had a similar conversation like this on the board a long time ago when you DID like me and you told me that if Lily brought her daughter up it was fair game. My how the times have changed.

Nobody Just Nobody · Rib-it! Rrrib-it!

Lawyerlady wrote:

See above. This thread wasn't about sex.

You were out of line. Completely. Taking lessons from flan, I see.

Yes. Because you think flan and I are BFF's so now you take every chance you get to take a jab.

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
NJN - you were completely and utterly out of line bringing Lily's daughter's sex life into the thread. There was NO reason for it. No matter how you try to spin it and no matter how much flan sticks up for you.

This thread wasn't even about sex. It's about an immature 18 year old with a crush.
She is lecturing that this "girl" has no business asking this "boy" out. Why not? What is the worst that could happen? She is saying the "girl" is way too immature. It's a double standard. The only reason you are saying it isn't is because you dislike me. And it makes me laugh because we had a similar conversation like this on the board a long time ago when you DID like me and you told me that if Lily brought her daughter up it was fair game. My how the times have changed.

I don't recall such a conversation on the board. Would you like to find it and bump it? And I have never disliked you. Until now.

just Czech · Give Me Grand's!

just Czech · Give Me Grand's!

That is in reference to this whole page, not one person.

Tinydancer · Guru

msrock wrote:
Tinydancer wrote:
I notice you don't want me to say what I know about itty bitty...lol
Not if the info came from PM's among your clique. lol. Because I remember you saying how you were pm'd by multiple people warning you about other posters when the board moved over here. Now that's sad.

I don't have a clique and there was only one person feeding me info about flan and guess who it was. I wasn't on any other board so I don't know where you got idea from...

Tinydancer · Guru

Lawyerlady wrote:
Tinydancer wrote:
I notice you don't want me to say what I know about itty bitty...lol
Obviously, you can say anything she has ever posted on the board at any time. Relevance be damned.

I don't play that way. It's wrong to bring peoples families into the discussion but I wanted them to know I COULD.

Nobody Just Nobody · Rib-it! Rrrib-it!

Lawyerlady wrote:
Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
NJN - you were completely and utterly out of line bringing Lily's daughter's sex life into the thread. There was NO reason for it. No matter how you try to spin it and no matter how much flan sticks up for you.

This thread wasn't even about sex. It's about an immature 18 year old with a crush.
She is lecturing that this "girl" has no business asking this "boy" out. Why not? What is the worst that could happen? She is saying the "girl" is way too immature. It's a double standard. The only reason you are saying it isn't is because you dislike me. And it makes me laugh because we had a similar conversation like this on the board a long time ago when you DID like me and you told me that if Lily brought her daughter up it was fair game. My how the times have changed.
I don't recall such a conversation on the board. Would you like to find it and bump it? And I have never disliked you. Until now.

Oh please. You have disliked me for awhile now. Don't pretend otherwise. Neither of us are that stupid. I would love to find that thread and bump it but it was awhile ago and I have no idea where to even begin looking for it. I remember husker was posting a lot on it. We talked about purity rings. I think it MAY, not 100% sure, have been the thread about the "girl" who wrote in to the advice column that her parents were unhappy about her living with someone and they wouldn't attend her housewarming party. You said you wouldn't go. husker kept saying you can't lose your adult kids over a housewarming party. I THINK this was the thread. No idea what the title was.

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

Tinydancer wrote:
msrock wrote:
Tinydancer wrote:
I notice you don't want me to say what I know about itty bitty...lol
Not if the info came from PM's among your clique. lol. Because I remember you saying how you were pm'd by multiple people warning you about other posters when the board moved over here. Now that's sad.
I don't have a clique and there was only one person feeding me info about flan and guess who it was. I wasn't on any other board so I don't know where you got idea from...

You don't need PMs to know all you need to know about flan.

Nobody Just Nobody · Rib-it! Rrrib-it!

Tinydancer wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
Tinydancer wrote:
I notice you don't want me to say what I know about itty bitty...lol
Obviously, you can say anything she has ever posted on the board at any time. Relevance be damned.
I don't play that way. It's wrong to bring peoples families into the discussion but I wanted them to know I COULD.

So you just wanted to throw the threat out. Got you.

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
NJN - you were completely and utterly out of line bringing Lily's daughter's sex life into the thread. There was NO reason for it. No matter how you try to spin it and no matter how much flan sticks up for you.

This thread wasn't even about sex. It's about an immature 18 year old with a crush.
She is lecturing that this "girl" has no business asking this "boy" out. Why not? What is the worst that could happen? She is saying the "girl" is way too immature. It's a double standard. The only reason you are saying it isn't is because you dislike me. And it makes me laugh because we had a similar conversation like this on the board a long time ago when you DID like me and you told me that if Lily brought her daughter up it was fair game. My how the times have changed.
I don't recall such a conversation on the board. Would you like to find it and bump it? And I have never disliked you. Until now.
Oh please. You have disliked me for awhile now. Don't pretend otherwise. Neither of us are that stupid. I would love to find that thread and bump it but it was awhile ago and I have no idea where to even begin looking for it. I remember husker was posting a lot on it. We talked about purity rings. I think it MAY, not 100% sure, have been the thread about the "girl" who wrote in to the advice column that her parents were unhappy about her living with someone and they wouldn't attend her housewarming party. You said you wouldn't go. husker kept saying you can't lose your adult kids over a housewarming party. I THINK this was the thread. No idea what the title was.

Ah well, then everyone else would have seen it, too. I have no issues with what I have posted in the past, your twisted interpretation be damned.

Nobody Just Nobody · Rib-it! Rrrib-it!

Lawyerlady wrote:
Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
NJN - you were completely and utterly out of line bringing Lily's daughter's sex life into the thread. There was NO reason for it. No matter how you try to spin it and no matter how much flan sticks up for you.

This thread wasn't even about sex. It's about an immature 18 year old with a crush.
She is lecturing that this "girl" has no business asking this "boy" out. Why not? What is the worst that could happen? She is saying the "girl" is way too immature. It's a double standard. The only reason you are saying it isn't is because you dislike me. And it makes me laugh because we had a similar conversation like this on the board a long time ago when you DID like me and you told me that if Lily brought her daughter up it was fair game. My how the times have changed.
I don't recall such a conversation on the board. Would you like to find it and bump it? And I have never disliked you. Until now.
Oh please. You have disliked me for awhile now. Don't pretend otherwise. Neither of us are that stupid. I would love to find that thread and bump it but it was awhile ago and I have no idea where to even begin looking for it. I remember husker was posting a lot on it. We talked about purity rings. I think it MAY, not 100% sure, have been the thread about the "girl" who wrote in to the advice column that her parents were unhappy about her living with someone and they wouldn't attend her housewarming party. You said you wouldn't go. husker kept saying you can't lose your adult kids over a housewarming party. I THINK this was the thread. No idea what the title was.
Ah well, then everyone else would have seen it, too. I have no issues with what I have posted in the past, your twisted interpretation be damned.

It was a bazillion page thread and everyone read it.

msrock · Guru

Tinydancer wrote:
msrock wrote:
Tinydancer wrote:
I notice you don't want me to say what I know about itty bitty...lol
Not if the info came from PM's among your clique. lol. Because I remember you saying how you were pm'd by multiple people warning you about other posters when the board moved over here. Now that's sad.
I don't have a clique and there was only one person feeding me info about flan and guess who it was. I wasn't on any other board so I don't know where you got idea from...

I meant that you were here before the rest of us "officially" moved here. And if that person feeding you info about flan came through a pm, I don't think you can share it. I'm not really sure what the attack is here on Lily's daughter. So what if she had sex? So did I. lol! Lily is perfectly capable of speaking for herself. I'm not sure where she's run off to. Trust me. She doesn't approve of my lifestyle and has told me so.

Tinydancer · Guru

Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Tinydancer wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
Tinydancer wrote:
I notice you don't want me to say what I know about itty bitty...lol
Obviously, you can say anything she has ever posted on the board at any time. Relevance be damned.
I don't play that way. It's wrong to bring peoples families into the discussion but I wanted them to know I COULD.
So you just wanted to throw the threat out. Got you.

Yup. If it will get you to stop acting like flans little clone then it would be worth it.

Nobody Just Nobody · Rib-it! Rrrib-it!

msrock wrote:
Tinydancer wrote:
msrock wrote:
Tinydancer wrote:
I notice you don't want me to say what I know about itty bitty...lol
Not if the info came from PM's among your clique. lol. Because I remember you saying how you were pm'd by multiple people warning you about other posters when the board moved over here. Now that's sad.
I don't have a clique and there was only one person feeding me info about flan and guess who it was. I wasn't on any other board so I don't know where you got idea from...
I meant that you were here before the rest of us "officially" moved here. And if that person feeding you info about flan came through a pm, I don't think you can share it. I'm not really sure what the attack is here on Lily's daughter. So what if she had sex? So did I. lol! Lily is perfectly capable of speaking for herself. I'm not sure where she's run off to. Trust me. She doesn't approve of my lifestyle and has told me so.

Well, my DN is living in sin too and I really don't give a damn. She's almost 30. I am not going to lose my relationship with her because she is living with the man she is going to marry.

Lexxy · My dog name is Sasha, too!

Going from an 18 yo LW with a crush to attacking each other's children?!? Keep it classy ladies.

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
NJN - you were completely and utterly out of line bringing Lily's daughter's sex life into the thread. There was NO reason for it. No matter how you try to spin it and no matter how much flan sticks up for you.

This thread wasn't even about sex. It's about an immature 18 year old with a crush.
She is lecturing that this "girl" has no business asking this "boy" out. Why not? What is the worst that could happen? She is saying the "girl" is way too immature. It's a double standard. The only reason you are saying it isn't is because you dislike me. And it makes me laugh because we had a similar conversation like this on the board a long time ago when you DID like me and you told me that if Lily brought her daughter up it was fair game. My how the times have changed.
I don't recall such a conversation on the board. Would you like to find it and bump it? And I have never disliked you. Until now.
Oh please. You have disliked me for awhile now. Don't pretend otherwise. Neither of us are that stupid. I would love to find that thread and bump it but it was awhile ago and I have no idea where to even begin looking for it. I remember husker was posting a lot on it. We talked about purity rings. I think it MAY, not 100% sure, have been the thread about the "girl" who wrote in to the advice column that her parents were unhappy about her living with someone and they wouldn't attend her housewarming party. You said you wouldn't go. husker kept saying you can't lose your adult kids over a housewarming party. I THINK this was the thread. No idea what the title was.
Ah well, then everyone else would have seen it, too. I have no issues with what I have posted in the past, your twisted interpretation be damned.
It was a bazillion page thread and everyone read it.

Not sure what point you are trying to make. (Although I'm sure you'll give me another paragraph of explanation). But Lily did not bring her daughter into THIS thread - you did that.

Nobody Just Nobody · Rib-it! Rrrib-it!

No. Go reread this thread. She brought her kids into it and then someone else specifically brought her daughter into it. Dona even pointed it out. And this isn't quite a whole paragraph, but I could make it into one since that seems to annoy you so much, but Lily has repeatedly said the LW should not go after this guy because she's too immature. I want to know what is wrong with an immature 18 year old dating. Her children did. And at a younger age. Why the double standard? And why can't anyone answer that question? It's okay for Lily's kids but not this girl?

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

msrock wrote:
Tinydancer wrote:
I notice you don't want me to say what I know about itty bitty...lol
Not if the info came from PM's among your clique. lol. Because I remember you saying how you were pm'd by multiple people warning you about other posters when the board moved over here. Now that's sad.

Yeah, she was trying to infer that she had friends here...before she even got here.

flan

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

Lawyerlady wrote:
Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
NJN - you were completely and utterly out of line bringing Lily's daughter's sex life into the thread. There was NO reason for it. No matter how you try to spin it and no matter how much flan sticks up for you.

This thread wasn't even about sex. It's about an immature 18 year old with a crush.
She is lecturing that this "girl" has no business asking this "boy" out. Why not? What is the worst that could happen? She is saying the "girl" is way too immature. It's a double standard. The only reason you are saying it isn't is because you dislike me. And it makes me laugh because we had a similar conversation like this on the board a long time ago when you DID like me and you told me that if Lily brought her daughter up it was fair game. My how the times have changed.
I don't recall such a conversation on the board. Would you like to find it and bump it? And I have never disliked you. Until now.
Oh please. You have disliked me for awhile now. Don't pretend otherwise. Neither of us are that stupid. I would love to find that thread and bump it but it was awhile ago and I have no idea where to even begin looking for it. I remember husker was posting a lot on it. We talked about purity rings. I think it MAY, not 100% sure, have been the thread about the "girl" who wrote in to the advice column that her parents were unhappy about her living with someone and they wouldn't attend her housewarming party. You said you wouldn't go. husker kept saying you can't lose your adult kids over a housewarming party. I THINK this was the thread. No idea what the title was.
Ah well, then everyone else would have seen it, too. I have no issues with what I have posted in the past, your twisted interpretation be damned.
It was a bazillion page thread and everyone read it.
Not sure what point you are trying to make. (Although I'm sure you'll give me another paragraph of explanation). But Lily did not bring her daughter into THIS thread - you did that.

She most certainly DID mention her daughter before anyone else did.

flan

Nobody Just Nobody · Rib-it! Rrrib-it!

I think maybe a refresher of the rules is necessary since some people seem so willing to spread what's in pm's on the board.

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

Tinydancer wrote:
Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Tinydancer wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
Tinydancer wrote:
I notice you don't want me to say what I know about itty bitty...lol
Obviously, you can say anything she has ever posted on the board at any time. Relevance be damned.
I don't play that way. It's wrong to bring peoples families into the discussion but I wanted them to know I COULD.
So you just wanted to throw the threat out. Got you.
Yup. If it will get you to stop acting like flans little clone then it would be worth it.

NJN is nobody's clone. She's strong & honest. It took me a while to see that.

flan

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
I think maybe a refresher of the rules is necessary since some people seem so willing to spread what's in pm's on the board.

Well now, that depends on who you are & who you are trashing.

flan

Tinydancer · Guru

msrock wrote:
Tinydancer wrote:
msrock wrote:
Tinydancer wrote:
I notice you don't want me to say what I know about itty bitty...lol
Not if the info came from PM's among your clique. lol. Because I remember you saying how you were pm'd by multiple people warning you about other posters when the board moved over here. Now that's sad.
I don't have a clique and there was only one person feeding me info about flan and guess who it was. I wasn't on any other board so I don't know where you got idea from...
I meant that you were here before the rest of us "officially" moved here. And if that person feeding you info about flan came through a pm, I don't think you can share it. I'm not really sure what the attack is here on Lily's daughter. So what if she had sex? So did I. lol! Lily is perfectly capable of speaking for herself. I'm not sure where she's run off to. Trust me. She doesn't approve of my lifestyle and has told me so.

Yes I was here before the rest of you officially moved over. Back then NJN and I were friends and flan did her best to try and run me off the board because I was "another Christian conservative and she didn't like my views. Now NJN and fln are bff's so they both like to act like bullys and pretend it's just the rest of us doing it. Oh and most of the things I could say came right off these threads so I wouldn't be sharing anything from a pm. Try reading what flan and NJN wrote and then get back to me about cliques. The only clique I know of is the one that comes in here to defend flan even when she's wrong so what's that make you?