I think maybe a refresher of the rules is necessary since some people seem so willing to spread what's in pm's on the board.
Really? What was spread exactly? Tinydancer was reminded not to share information from others she received in PMs about flan. She then stated she only ever got PMs about flan from one person, and didn't name that person, and didn't share what was in the PM. She didn't bring PM's up and didn't share their content.
No rules were broken.
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LawyerLady
I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you.
I notice you don't want me to say what I know about itty bitty...lol
Not if the info came from PM's among your clique. lol. Because I remember you saying how you were pm'd by multiple people warning you about other posters when the board moved over here. Now that's sad.
I don't have a clique and there was only one person feeding me info about flan and guess who it was. I wasn't on any other board so I don't know where you got idea from...
I meant that you were here before the rest of us "officially" moved here. And if that person feeding you info about flan came through a pm, I don't think you can share it. I'm not really sure what the attack is here on Lily's daughter. So what if she had sex? So did I. lol! Lily is perfectly capable of speaking for herself. I'm not sure where she's run off to. Trust me. She doesn't approve of my lifestyle and has told me so.
Yes I was here before the rest of you officially moved over. Back then NJN and I were friends and flan did her best to try and run me off the board because I was "another Christian conservative and she didn't like my views. Now NJN and fln are bff's so they both like to act like bullys and pretend it's just the rest of us doing it. Oh and most of the things I could say came right off these threads so I wouldn't be sharing anything from a pm. Try reading what flan and NJN wrote and then get back to me about cliques. The only clique I know of is the one that comes in here to defend flan even when she's wrong so what's that make you?
I notice you don't want me to say what I know about itty bitty...lol
Not if the info came from PM's among your clique. lol. Because I remember you saying how you were pm'd by multiple people warning you about other posters when the board moved over here. Now that's sad.
I don't have a clique and there was only one person feeding me info about flan and guess who it was. I wasn't on any other board so I don't know where you got idea from...
I meant that you were here before the rest of us "officially" moved here. And if that person feeding you info about flan came through a pm, I don't think you can share it. I'm not really sure what the attack is here on Lily's daughter. So what if she had sex? So did I. lol! Lily is perfectly capable of speaking for herself. I'm not sure where she's run off to. Trust me. She doesn't approve of my lifestyle and has told me so.
Yes I was here before the rest of you officially moved over. Back then NJN and I were friends and flan did her best to try and run me off the board because I was "another Christian conservative and she didn't like my views. Now NJN and fln are bff's so they both like to act like bullys and pretend it's just the rest of us doing it. Oh and most of the things I could say came right off these threads so I wouldn't be sharing anything from a pm. Try reading what flan and NJN wrote and then get back to me about cliques. The only clique I know of is the one that comes in here to defend flan even when she's wrong so what's that make you?
Another person who can speak for herself.
flan
You just can't help yourself can you? You just HAVE to respond for others. Obviously they CAN'T speak for themselves or you wouldn't have to speak for them...
Do you see how ridiculous this comment is? And you just keep doing it....It's like you have no filter...
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NJN - you were completely and utterly out of line bringing Lily's daughter's sex life into the thread. There was NO reason for it. No matter how you try to spin it and no matter how much flan sticks up for you.
This thread wasn't even about sex. It's about an immature 18 year old with a crush.
She is lecturing that this "girl" has no business asking this "boy" out. Why not? What is the worst that could happen? She is saying the "girl" is way too immature. It's a double standard. The only reason you are saying it isn't is because you dislike me. And it makes me laugh because we had a similar conversation like this on the board a long time ago when you DID like me and you told me that if Lily brought her daughter up it was fair game. My how the times have changed.
I don't recall such a conversation on the board. Would you like to find it and bump it? And I have never disliked you. Until now.
Oh please. You have disliked me for awhile now. Don't pretend otherwise. Neither of us are that stupid. I would love to find that thread and bump it but it was awhile ago and I have no idea where to even begin looking for it. I remember husker was posting a lot on it. We talked about purity rings. I think it MAY, not 100% sure, have been the thread about the "girl" who wrote in to the advice column that her parents were unhappy about her living with someone and they wouldn't attend her housewarming party. You said you wouldn't go. husker kept saying you can't lose your adult kids over a housewarming party. I THINK this was the thread. No idea what the title was.
Ah well, then everyone else would have seen it, too. I have no issues with what I have posted in the past, your twisted interpretation be damned.
It was a bazillion page thread and everyone read it.
Not sure what point you are trying to make. (Although I'm sure you'll give me another paragraph of explanation). But Lily did not bring her daughter into THIS thread - you did that.
She most certainly DID mention her daughter before anyone else did.
flan
NO, she didn't. She said what advice she gives to her kids, and then ED brought up her daughter, and she asked him not to talk about her daughter TWICE. And then NJN brought her up again.
I can read. You'd think a librarian would be able to, too.
And her advice bore no resemblance to "don't date".
-- Edited by Lawyerlady on Tuesday 8th of March 2016 02:42:41 PM
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LawyerLady
I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you.
Yes I was here before the rest of you officially moved over. Back then NJN and I were friends and flan did her best to try and run me off the board because I was "another Christian conservative and she didn't like my views. Now NJN and fln are bff's so they both like to act like bullys and pretend it's just the rest of us doing it. Oh and most of the things I could say came right off these threads so I wouldn't be sharing anything from a pm. Try reading what flan and NJN wrote and then get back to me about cliques. The only clique I know of is the one that comes in here to defend flan even when she's wrong so what's that make you?
Yeah, I'm going to address this finally because I'm so sick and damn tired of hearing it. flan and I are NOT "bff's". Yes, I did despise her for awhile. Yes, she did some really bad things to me. Well, she apologized. A long time ago. Over a year at least. I accepted her apology and put it behind me. Yes, I know what a horrid person that makes me. See, the Bible I read says to forgive people. So I have. Again, I realize that flan is a totally detestable person and that by forgiving her I am now a horrid person. That being said people are now calling me her clone and her lackey. I can assure you that I have a mind of my own and use it. I can also assure you that I don't always agree with flan. And I am not afraid to tell her that. We don't have a "clique". And I NEVER defend flan. In fact, I go out of my way to NOT defend her because everything I type is somehow scrutinized as being like her, defending her, and being her BFF. If you all want to hate her that's fine. I have no problem with that. This is so high school. No so junior high. And you're not going to intimidate me just because I don't take part in your flan bashing. Have at it. If this is your idea of fun have at it.
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Because in your mind unless I help attack flan I am her cohort and bff. A delusional line of thinking.
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The thing is you haven't changed at all flan and you probably need to the most...lol
Oh would you PLEASE give me your advice on how to live my life? PLEASE?
It obviously includes veiled threats against family members who aren't here...
flan
Better than overt comments and digs at family members who aren't here.
It wasn't a veiled threat. I have never brought someones family members up on a thread as a weapon against some one else. You obviously thrive on that flan. LL has it right. You overtly make comments and digs about family members but none of your "friends" call you out on it. I wonder why that is?
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No it's because you are acting more and more like her and then pretending you're doing nothing wrong...Just like she does.
TD is right. You have really changed, you are not the person I knew...
Ditto.
flan
Well, I think that you (and maybe NJN), would be the ONLY people that think that. So, I'm pretty sure it's not me...
You know, I keep hearing about how much I've changed and about how much I don't appreciate my so called friends. But after I pm them and call them and text them I figure it's pretty damn clear they're not interested in having a friendship with me anymore.
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“You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still, like air, I'll rise!” ― Maya Angelou
LOL You are incredible. Can you be this dense? Seriously. Long ago my so called friends dumped me. Long before I supposedly became flan's friend. Yet I'm somehow supposed to remain loyal and true to a group of people that wanted nothing to do with me? Oh, and if my being friends with someone requires me to be hateful to someone else it's not worth it.
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“You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still, like air, I'll rise!” ― Maya Angelou
I guess I'm supposed to leave thousands of pm's, text's, and phone messages for them begging them to be my friends. Right? Um, I think that's called stalking. After awhile I move on.
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“You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still, like air, I'll rise!” ― Maya Angelou
Poor NJN. It sucks when someone says they're your friend and then they really aren't. I know all about that...lol
Oh boo hoo. I'm not whining. Of course to you and your little gang I'm sure you will all call it whining. Ohfour said I've changed. I told her why.
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“You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still, like air, I'll rise!” ― Maya Angelou
I guess the immaturity theme on this thread is continuing.
I guess so. Isn't that why you posted? To let us all know?
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“You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still, like air, I'll rise!” ― Maya Angelou
Poor NJN. It sucks when someone says they're your friend and then they really aren't. I know all about that...lol
Oh boo hoo. I'm not whining. Of course to you and your little gang I'm sure you will all call it whining. Ohfour said I've changed. I told her why.
Oh boo hoo, yourself. No one did anything to you. You woke up one day and decided people didn't PM you enough or text you enough or fawn over you enough, or agree with everything you said and you just weren't going to put up with that. You decided to start showing your unhappiness by snipping and sniping and everything else.
I hope that's working out for you, because, I, for one, don't deal in fickle friendships. Enjoy your tantrum.
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LawyerLady
I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you.
Poor NJN. It sucks when someone says they're your friend and then they really aren't. I know all about that...lol
Oh boo hoo. I'm not whining. Of course to you and your little gang I'm sure you will all call it whining. Ohfour said I've changed. I told her why.
Oh boo hoo, yourself. No one did anything to you. You woke up one day and decided people didn't PM you enough or text you enough or fawn over you enough, or agree with everything you said and you just weren't going to put up with that. You decided to start showing your unhappiness by snipping and sniping and everything else.
I hope that's working out for you, because, I, for one, don't deal in fickle friendships. Enjoy your tantrum.
This isn't about a tantrum although you'd love to make it all about me. You love to gas light. Look it up. Your picture is there. And keep lying to yourself. If it makes you feel better to not accept the truth than go ahead. This wasn't about people not sending me ENOUGH texts or ENOUGH pm's or ENOUGH whatever. I didn't ask people to FAWN all over me. Friendship is a two way street last I heard. When someone NEVER returns your calls or messages that's a pretty clear sign they don't want to talk to you for whatever reason. This wasn't a case of they only gave me a LITTLE attention. When a person, in general, NEVER and by NEVER I mean not at all contacts you that's a very clear sign for me that they don't want to be friends. I am NOT going to continue to bug them forever hoping they will change their mind. So make it sound like something it's not. Go ahead. I'm VERY CLEAR on the events that happened.
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“You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still, like air, I'll rise!” ― Maya Angelou
Poor NJN. It sucks when someone says they're your friend and then they really aren't. I know all about that...lol
Oh boo hoo. I'm not whining. Of course to you and your little gang I'm sure you will all call it whining. Ohfour said I've changed. I told her why.
Oh boo hoo, yourself. No one did anything to you. You woke up one day and decided people didn't PM you enough or text you enough or fawn over you enough, or agree with everything you said and you just weren't going to put up with that. You decided to start showing your unhappiness by snipping and sniping and everything else.
I hope that's working out for you, because, I, for one, don't deal in fickle friendships. Enjoy your tantrum.
This isn't about a tantrum although you'd love to make it all about me. You love to gas light. Look it up. Your picture is there. And keep lying to yourself. If it makes you feel better to not accept the truth than go ahead. This wasn't about people not sending me ENOUGH texts or ENOUGH pm's or ENOUGH whatever. I didn't ask people to FAWN all over me. Friendship is a two way street last I heard. When someone NEVER returns your calls or messages that's a pretty clear sign they don't want to talk to you for whatever reason. This wasn't a case of they only gave me a LITTLE attention. When a person, in general, NEVER and by NEVER I mean not at all contacts you that's a very clear sign for me that they don't want to be friends. I am NOT going to continue to bug them forever hoping they will change their mind. So make it sound like something it's not. Go ahead. I'm VERY CLEAR on the events that happened.
Wow. Just WOW. That is all so untrue it's ridiculous. And hell, I don't even have your phone number and never have - and I have never received a phone call from you.
Nobody needs to gaslight you - you've lost your mind all on your own.
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LawyerLady
I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you.
Poor NJN. It sucks when someone says they're your friend and then they really aren't. I know all about that...lol
Oh boo hoo. I'm not whining. Of course to you and your little gang I'm sure you will all call it whining. Ohfour said I've changed. I told her why.
Oh boo hoo, yourself. No one did anything to you. You woke up one day and decided people didn't PM you enough or text you enough or fawn over you enough, or agree with everything you said and you just weren't going to put up with that. You decided to start showing your unhappiness by snipping and sniping and everything else.
I hope that's working out for you, because, I, for one, don't deal in fickle friendships. Enjoy your tantrum.
This isn't about a tantrum although you'd love to make it all about me. You love to gas light. Look it up. Your picture is there. And keep lying to yourself. If it makes you feel better to not accept the truth than go ahead. This wasn't about people not sending me ENOUGH texts or ENOUGH pm's or ENOUGH whatever. I didn't ask people to FAWN all over me. Friendship is a two way street last I heard. When someone NEVER returns your calls or messages that's a pretty clear sign they don't want to talk to you for whatever reason. This wasn't a case of they only gave me a LITTLE attention. When a person, in general, NEVER and by NEVER I mean not at all contacts you that's a very clear sign for me that they don't want to be friends. I am NOT going to continue to bug them forever hoping they will change their mind. So make it sound like something it's not. Go ahead. I'm VERY CLEAR on the events that happened.
Wow. Just WOW. That is all so untrue it's ridiculous. And hell, I don't even have your phone number and never have - and I have never received a phone call from you.
Nobody needs to gaslight you - you've lost your mind all on your own.
No you don't. But others do. And I have pm'ed you. LOL Last three went unresponded. Sorry. Didn't bother again after that.
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“You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still, like air, I'll rise!” ― Maya Angelou
I'm sure you'll deny that too. I don't really give a damn. I know the truth. And you can call me crazy all you want. Doesn't make it true. Spin your own tale.
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“You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still, like air, I'll rise!” ― Maya Angelou
Poor NJN. It sucks when someone says they're your friend and then they really aren't. I know all about that...lol
Oh boo hoo. I'm not whining. Of course to you and your little gang I'm sure you will all call it whining. Ohfour said I've changed. I told her why.
Oh boo hoo, yourself. No one did anything to you. You woke up one day and decided people didn't PM you enough or text you enough or fawn over you enough, or agree with everything you said and you just weren't going to put up with that. You decided to start showing your unhappiness by snipping and sniping and everything else.
I hope that's working out for you, because, I, for one, don't deal in fickle friendships. Enjoy your tantrum.
This isn't about a tantrum although you'd love to make it all about me. You love to gas light. Look it up. Your picture is there. And keep lying to yourself. If it makes you feel better to not accept the truth than go ahead. This wasn't about people not sending me ENOUGH texts or ENOUGH pm's or ENOUGH whatever. I didn't ask people to FAWN all over me. Friendship is a two way street last I heard. When someone NEVER returns your calls or messages that's a pretty clear sign they don't want to talk to you for whatever reason. This wasn't a case of they only gave me a LITTLE attention. When a person, in general, NEVER and by NEVER I mean not at all contacts you that's a very clear sign for me that they don't want to be friends. I am NOT going to continue to bug them forever hoping they will change their mind. So make it sound like something it's not. Go ahead. I'm VERY CLEAR on the events that happened.
Isn't that what you did to me? We were friends and then we were not. You and flan couldn't stand each other but now you're so far up her butt you don't even see what's going on around you. flan and I argued. You called me out repeatedly on that thread yet pm'd her to tell her to knock it off (or so you say)? Yeah. That's a true and loyal friend...lol
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Poor NJN. It sucks when someone says they're your friend and then they really aren't. I know all about that...lol
Oh boo hoo. I'm not whining. Of course to you and your little gang I'm sure you will all call it whining. Ohfour said I've changed. I told her why.
Oh boo hoo, yourself. No one did anything to you. You woke up one day and decided people didn't PM you enough or text you enough or fawn over you enough, or agree with everything you said and you just weren't going to put up with that. You decided to start showing your unhappiness by snipping and sniping and everything else.
I hope that's working out for you, because, I, for one, don't deal in fickle friendships. Enjoy your tantrum.
This isn't about a tantrum although you'd love to make it all about me. You love to gas light. Look it up. Your picture is there. And keep lying to yourself. If it makes you feel better to not accept the truth than go ahead. This wasn't about people not sending me ENOUGH texts or ENOUGH pm's or ENOUGH whatever. I didn't ask people to FAWN all over me. Friendship is a two way street last I heard. When someone NEVER returns your calls or messages that's a pretty clear sign they don't want to talk to you for whatever reason. This wasn't a case of they only gave me a LITTLE attention. When a person, in general, NEVER and by NEVER I mean not at all contacts you that's a very clear sign for me that they don't want to be friends. I am NOT going to continue to bug them forever hoping they will change their mind. So make it sound like something it's not. Go ahead. I'm VERY CLEAR on the events that happened.
Wow. Just WOW. That is all so untrue it's ridiculous. And hell, I don't even have your phone number and never have - and I have never received a phone call from you.
Nobody needs to gaslight you - you've lost your mind all on your own.
No you don't. But others do. And I have pm'ed you. LOL Last three went unresponded. Sorry. Didn't bother again after that.
Three? I don't think so. The last one? Yep. I was already over it.
And since NONE of that up there is true about me, and you are accusing me of gas-lighting you - Holy flippin' hell, I got nothing else. Nada. We've crossed over into twilight zone territory.
-- Edited by Lawyerlady on Tuesday 8th of March 2016 04:26:43 PM
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LawyerLady
I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you.
Poor NJN. It sucks when someone says they're your friend and then they really aren't. I know all about that...lol
Oh boo hoo. I'm not whining. Of course to you and your little gang I'm sure you will all call it whining. Ohfour said I've changed. I told her why.
Oh boo hoo, yourself. No one did anything to you. You woke up one day and decided people didn't PM you enough or text you enough or fawn over you enough, or agree with everything you said and you just weren't going to put up with that. You decided to start showing your unhappiness by snipping and sniping and everything else.
I hope that's working out for you, because, I, for one, don't deal in fickle friendships. Enjoy your tantrum.
This isn't about a tantrum although you'd love to make it all about me. You love to gas light. Look it up. Your picture is there. And keep lying to yourself. If it makes you feel better to not accept the truth than go ahead. This wasn't about people not sending me ENOUGH texts or ENOUGH pm's or ENOUGH whatever. I didn't ask people to FAWN all over me. Friendship is a two way street last I heard. When someone NEVER returns your calls or messages that's a pretty clear sign they don't want to talk to you for whatever reason. This wasn't a case of they only gave me a LITTLE attention. When a person, in general, NEVER and by NEVER I mean not at all contacts you that's a very clear sign for me that they don't want to be friends. I am NOT going to continue to bug them forever hoping they will change their mind. So make it sound like something it's not. Go ahead. I'm VERY CLEAR on the events that happened.
Wow. Just WOW. That is all so untrue it's ridiculous. And hell, I don't even have your phone number and never have - and I have never received a phone call from you.
Nobody needs to gaslight you - you've lost your mind all on your own.
No you don't. But others do. And I have pm'ed you. LOL Last three went unresponded. Sorry. Didn't bother again after that.
Three? I don't think so. The last one? Yep. I was already over it.
You also going to lie about taking me off FB? Interested in hearing this.
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“You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still, like air, I'll rise!” ― Maya Angelou
You know LL the same things I respect you for are the same things I respect flan for. You're both really loyal to your families, love your husbands, and are devoted to your kids. When you both feel strongly about something you don't back down. You two are so much alike. You're both outspoken and brash. And as much as you like to think of flan as saying really bitchy and mean things to people you do the same thing. It's kind of funny to watch.
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“You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still, like air, I'll rise!” ― Maya Angelou
I really get tired of all the lies. And I especially get tired of hearing what a bitch I am because I won't attack flan.
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“You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still, like air, I'll rise!” ― Maya Angelou
Poor NJN. It sucks when someone says they're your friend and then they really aren't. I know all about that...lol
Oh boo hoo. I'm not whining. Of course to you and your little gang I'm sure you will all call it whining. Ohfour said I've changed. I told her why.
Oh boo hoo, yourself. No one did anything to you. You woke up one day and decided people didn't PM you enough or text you enough or fawn over you enough, or agree with everything you said and you just weren't going to put up with that. You decided to start showing your unhappiness by snipping and sniping and everything else.
I hope that's working out for you, because, I, for one, don't deal in fickle friendships. Enjoy your tantrum.
This isn't about a tantrum although you'd love to make it all about me. You love to gas light. Look it up. Your picture is there. And keep lying to yourself. If it makes you feel better to not accept the truth than go ahead. This wasn't about people not sending me ENOUGH texts or ENOUGH pm's or ENOUGH whatever. I didn't ask people to FAWN all over me. Friendship is a two way street last I heard. When someone NEVER returns your calls or messages that's a pretty clear sign they don't want to talk to you for whatever reason. This wasn't a case of they only gave me a LITTLE attention. When a person, in general, NEVER and by NEVER I mean not at all contacts you that's a very clear sign for me that they don't want to be friends. I am NOT going to continue to bug them forever hoping they will change their mind. So make it sound like something it's not. Go ahead. I'm VERY CLEAR on the events that happened.
Wow. Just WOW. That is all so untrue it's ridiculous. And hell, I don't even have your phone number and never have - and I have never received a phone call from you.
Nobody needs to gaslight you - you've lost your mind all on your own.
No you don't. But others do. And I have pm'ed you. LOL Last three went unresponded. Sorry. Didn't bother again after that.
Three? I don't think so. The last one? Yep. I was already over it.
You also going to lie about taking me off FB? Interested in hearing this.
Nope. But that was after, and in direct response to you deciding we were no longer friends and after you unfriended ohfour. You made the choice, not me. I just followed through.
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LawyerLady
I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you.