TOTALLY GEEKED!

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 You are unreal.  

And yes funny how that works

 

BTW. I agree with Lily. Why worry over a guy she never sees and obviously she is not on his mind either.

Good gravy

 

Let me get this straight. LL won't be MY friend because I won't be friends with HER friend ohfour who doesn't want to be MY friend. Yep, makes perfect sense.

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Tinydancer wrote:

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Poor NJN. It sucks when someone says they're your friend and then they really aren't. I know all about that...lol

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 Oh boo hoo.  I'm not whining.  Of course to you and your little gang I'm sure you will all call it whining.  Ohfour said I've changed.  I told her why.

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 Oh boo hoo, yourself.  No one did anything to you.  You woke up one day and decided people didn't PM you enough or text you enough or fawn over you enough, or agree with everything you said and you just weren't going to put up with that.  You decided to start showing your unhappiness by snipping and sniping and everything else. 

I hope that's working out for you, because, I, for one, don't deal in fickle friendships.  Enjoy your tantrum.  

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 This isn't about a tantrum although you'd love to make it all about me.  You love to gas light.  Look it up.  Your picture is there.  And keep lying to yourself.  If it makes you feel better to not accept the truth than go ahead.  This wasn't about people not sending me ENOUGH texts or ENOUGH pm's or ENOUGH whatever.  I didn't ask people to FAWN all over me.  Friendship is a two way street last I heard.  When someone NEVER returns your calls or messages that's a pretty clear sign they don't want to talk to you for whatever reason.  This wasn't a case of they only gave me a LITTLE attention.  When a person, in general, NEVER and by NEVER I mean not at all contacts you that's a very clear sign for me that they don't want to be friends.  I am NOT going to continue to bug them forever hoping they will change their mind.  So make it sound like something it's not.  Go ahead.  I'm VERY CLEAR on the events that happened.

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 Wow.  Just WOW.  That is all so untrue it's ridiculous.  And hell, I don't even have your phone number and never have - and I have never received a phone call from you.  

Nobody needs to gaslight you - you've lost your mind all on your own. 

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 No you don't.  But others do.  And I have pm'ed you.  LOL Last three went unresponded.  Sorry.  Didn't bother again after that.

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 Three?  I don't think so.  The last one?  Yep.  I was already over it.

 

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You also going to lie about taking me off FB?  Interested in hearing this.

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 Nope.  But that was after, and in direct response to you deciding we were no longer friends and after you unfriended ohfour.  You made the choice, not me.  I just followed through.

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 I have tried to contact ohfour multiple times.  She removed my number from her phone.  Every time I contact her she "will get back to me".  Then doesn't.  Shall I beg her for her friendship?

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You realize there is a reason most of us post on the internet, right?  Not everyone wants to chat on the phone or have multiple private conversations.  I don't call her unless I have a real reason, like planning a geek meet.  That's what this board is for. 

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You know LL the same things I respect you for are the same things I respect flan for. You're both really loyal to your families, love your husbands, and are devoted to your kids. When you both feel strongly about something you don't back down. You two are so much alike. You're both outspoken and brash. And as much as you like to think of flan as saying really bitchy and mean things to people you do the same thing. It's kind of funny to watch.

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 Well, I admit that I refuse to kiss anyone's azz.

I do, in addition, have no problem supporting an unpopular view...here or IRL.

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 You two are more alike than you realize.

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flan327 wrote:

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You can't lose respect for someone if you never had any in the first place.

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 You are unreal.  

And yes funny how that works

 

BTW. I agree with Lily. Why worry over a guy she never sees and obviously she is not on his mind either.

Good gravy

 

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 I have no clue what you are trying to say.

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 I really get tired of all the lies.  And I especially get tired of hearing what a bitch I am because I won't attack flan.

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 Nobody wants you to attack flan. We just would prefer you stop acting like her.

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 "We?"

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 But she doesn't have a "group".

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 Unlike you two teenagers I don't need a group to know NJN is turning into flan. I just read what the others have said right here. Obviously it's right over your head.

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 Yes, you figured it out. I am actually Svengali!

NJN was my test subject...Who will I control next??

flan

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You realize there is a reason most of us post on the internet, right?  Not everyone wants to chat on the phone or have multiple private conversations.  I don't call her unless I have a real reason, like planning a geek meet.  That's what this board is for. 

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 OMFG Then WTF is this about.  If you don't talk to her then why is me not talking to her an issue?  You keep talking in circles.  I keep being told that I ended contact with people and THAT is why you do not like me or are not my friends anymore.  Whatever it is we're arguing.  So I'm supposed to talk to you off the board or not?  Don't tell me the reason you are not my friend is that I stopped talking to you off the board and then turn around and say that no one talks off the board.  WTF?

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Please show me where I said any of that.  Everything you said and did was on the board, NJN.  You started attacking the people who were supposed to be your friends and you got very ugly about it and you ganged up with flan to do it.  It was enough.  The fact that you could EVER be friends with a person who treats others who are supposed to be your friends so horridly is enough.  And maybe you can overlook all the horrid things she has said and done and lied about regarding YOU, but that doesn't mean anyone else has to.  You made your choice.  I hope it works out well for you.    

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You realize there is a reason most of us post on the internet, right?  Not everyone wants to chat on the phone or have multiple private conversations.  I don't call her unless I have a real reason, like planning a geek meet.  That's what this board is for. 

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 OMFG Then WTF is this about.  If you don't talk to her then why is me not talking to her an issue?  You keep talking in circles.  I keep being told that I ended contact with people and THAT is why you do not like me or are not my friends anymore.  Whatever it is we're arguing.  So I'm supposed to talk to you off the board or not?  Don't tell me the reason you are not my friend is that I stopped talking to you off the board and then turn around and say that no one talks off the board.  WTF?

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Please show me where I said any of that.  Everything you said and did was on the board, NJN.  You started attacking the people who were supposed to be your friends and you got very ugly about it and you ganged up with flan to do it.  It was enough.  The fact that you could EVER be friends with a person who treats others who are supposed to be your friends so horridly is enough.  And maybe you can overlook all the horrid things she has said and done and lied about regarding YOU, but that doesn't mean anyone else has to.  You made your choice.  I hope it works out well for you.    

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 Yes, I have attacked my  so called friends.  I have never once been mean on this board to you or ohfour.  EVER.  And if disagreeing with you is being mean then yes, I guess so.

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You realize there is a reason most of us post on the internet, right?  Not everyone wants to chat on the phone or have multiple private conversations.  I don't call her unless I have a real reason, like planning a geek meet.  That's what this board is for. 

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 OMFG Then WTF is this about.  If you don't talk to her then why is me not talking to her an issue?  You keep talking in circles.  I keep being told that I ended contact with people and THAT is why you do not like me or are not my friends anymore.  Whatever it is we're arguing.  So I'm supposed to talk to you off the board or not?  Don't tell me the reason you are not my friend is that I stopped talking to you off the board and then turn around and say that no one talks off the board.  WTF?

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Please show me where I said any of that.  Everything you said and did was on the board, NJN.  You started attacking the people who were supposed to be your friends and you got very ugly about it and you ganged up with flan to do it.  It was enough.  The fact that you could EVER be friends with a person who treats others who are supposed to be your friends so horridly is enough.  And maybe you can overlook all the horrid things she has said and done and lied about regarding YOU, but that doesn't mean anyone else has to.  You made your choice.  I hope it works out well for you.    

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 Yes, I have attacked my  so called friends.  I have never once been mean on this board to you or ohfour.  EVER.  And if disagreeing with you is being mean then yes, I guess so.

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 Are you serious?  The very first time I knew that you had a problem with me was on my birthday thread, talking about how peaceful it was that I wasn't here.  Until that very moment, I didn't know there was an issue between us.  And not long after that, is when I realized that you had blocked me on Faecbook.  I didn't go looking, I just saw a post that you husband had tagged you in and your name was crossed out.  That's how I even knew...

LOL It WAS peaceful when you were gone. That wasn't an attack. I know that you think it's cute and nice to call people who have unexpected pregnancies slvts and whores but it's not. I had an unexpected pregnancy and I am neither a whore or a slvt. You say hateful things to people. And I didn't block you from FB. That is an outright lie. I did get a new computer and a bunch of things got messed up but I added you back when you said something. If I didn't want you on I wouldn't have added you back. However, now that you have made it clear you want nothing to do with me I took you off. Not sure why I'm supposed to keep you on my page. Oh wait, yes. I have to add you and be friends with you under your terms in order for LL to like me and add me.

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You realize there is a reason most of us post on the internet, right?  Not everyone wants to chat on the phone or have multiple private conversations.  I don't call her unless I have a real reason, like planning a geek meet.  That's what this board is for. 

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 OMFG Then WTF is this about.  If you don't talk to her then why is me not talking to her an issue?  You keep talking in circles.  I keep being told that I ended contact with people and THAT is why you do not like me or are not my friends anymore.  Whatever it is we're arguing.  So I'm supposed to talk to you off the board or not?  Don't tell me the reason you are not my friend is that I stopped talking to you off the board and then turn around and say that no one talks off the board.  WTF?

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Please show me where I said any of that.  Everything you said and did was on the board, NJN.  You started attacking the people who were supposed to be your friends and you got very ugly about it and you ganged up with flan to do it.  It was enough.  The fact that you could EVER be friends with a person who treats others who are supposed to be your friends so horridly is enough.  And maybe you can overlook all the horrid things she has said and done and lied about regarding YOU, but that doesn't mean anyone else has to.  You made your choice.  I hope it works out well for you.    

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 Yes, I have attacked my  so called friends.  I have never once been mean on this board to you or ohfour.  EVER.  And if disagreeing with you is being mean then yes, I guess so.

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 Are you serious?  The very first time I knew that you had a problem with me was on my birthday thread, talking about how peaceful it was that I wasn't here.  Until that very moment, I didn't know there was an issue between us.  And not long after that, is when I realized that you had blocked me on Faecbook.  I didn't go looking, I just saw a post that you husband had tagged you in and your name was crossed out.  That's how I even knew...

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I bet if the girl had invited the boy to have a coke when this first started, they could now be married and expecting their third child and if the thread keeps going, soon they will be divorced and she will be writing to another "Dear Abby" to ask if she should approach the new guy at church, despite how it worked out the last time she approached a *boy* at church, and her XDH will be writing to "Dear Abby" asking how to make it clear to a lady he knows through work that HE is not interested, because look what happened last time!

Just sayin'

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 Are you trying to stay on topic when there's so much drama going on? I admire your tenacity. 

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 well my elf ate all my snacks and drank all my juice, so what else was I to do

I guess I could run to the liquor store...wanna come along!

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You realize there is a reason most of us post on the internet, right?  Not everyone wants to chat on the phone or have multiple private conversations.  I don't call her unless I have a real reason, like planning a geek meet.  That's what this board is for. 

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 OMFG Then WTF is this about.  If you don't talk to her then why is me not talking to her an issue?  You keep talking in circles.  I keep being told that I ended contact with people and THAT is why you do not like me or are not my friends anymore.  Whatever it is we're arguing.  So I'm supposed to talk to you off the board or not?  Don't tell me the reason you are not my friend is that I stopped talking to you off the board and then turn around and say that no one talks off the board.  WTF?

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Please show me where I said any of that.  Everything you said and did was on the board, NJN.  You started attacking the people who were supposed to be your friends and you got very ugly about it and you ganged up with flan to do it.  It was enough.  The fact that you could EVER be friends with a person who treats others who are supposed to be your friends so horridly is enough.  And maybe you can overlook all the horrid things she has said and done and lied about regarding YOU, but that doesn't mean anyone else has to.  You made your choice.  I hope it works out well for you.    

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 Yes, I have attacked my  so called friends.  I have never once been mean on this board to you or ohfour.  EVER.  And if disagreeing with you is being mean then yes, I guess so.

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 Now look who's lying.  

 

I'm over it, NJN.  You want a flat out answer?  I remember the nastiness and lies that flan was a part of against you and me both.  It was unforgettable and unforgivable.   The day you decided to be friends with flan is the day we were done.  It's that simple.     

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 This whole thread has been so enlightening.

95% of what I'd like to say would get me banned, but I will NOT give you that satisfaction...though anyone can see your true feelings on the Peyton thread. How very mature of you.

flan

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I bet if the girl had invited the boy to have a coke when this first started, they could now be married and expecting their third child and if the thread keeps going, soon they will be divorced and she will be writing to another "Dear Abby" to ask if she should approach the new guy at church, despite how it worked out the last time she approached a *boy* at church, and her XDH will be writing to "Dear Abby" asking how to make it clear to a lady he knows through work that HE is not interested, because look what happened last time!

Just sayin'

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I like your version of the story line, so let's stick to that for awhile....or try.  

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  I like that version  too!  Making the first move is scary.

Forgiveness doesn't mean you have to be friends. I have forgiven my abusive ExH. Doesn't mean that I want anything to do with him...

and what Flan did, that's totally unforgivable to me. If she had apologized or even made an ATTEMPT to right things, that MIGHT be different. But she just keeps tightening that screw. It seems to be a source of perverse pleasure for her at this point...

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LOL It WAS peaceful when you were gone. That wasn't an attack. I know that you think it's cute and nice to call people who have unexpected pregnancies slvts and whores but it's not. I had an unexpected pregnancy and I am neither a whore or a slvt. You say hateful things to people. And I didn't block you from FB. That is an outright lie. I did get a new computer and a bunch of things got messed up but I added you back when you said something. If I didn't want you on I wouldn't have added you back. However, now that you have made it clear you want nothing to do with me I took you off. Not sure why I'm supposed to keep you on my page. Oh wait, yes. I have to add you and be friends with you under your terms in order for LL to like me and add me.

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Forgiveness doesn't mean you have to be friends. I have forgiven my abusive ExH. Doesn't mean that I want anything to do with him...

and what Flan did, that's totally unforgivable to me. If she had apologized or even made an ATTEMPT to right things, that MIGHT be different. But she just keeps tightening that screw. It seems to be a source of perverse pleasure for her at this point...

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 OMG She DID ask my forgiveness and do what she could to right things.  She's continued to do things to fix the situation.  No, I am NOT going into detail.

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Forgiveness doesn't mean you have to be friends. I have forgiven my abusive ExH. Doesn't mean that I want anything to do with him...

and what Flan did, that's totally unforgivable to me. If she had apologized or even made an ATTEMPT to right things, that MIGHT be different. But she just keeps tightening that screw. It seems to be a source of perverse pleasure for her at this point...

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 To Tig? That crap again?

It's none of your business.

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I bet if the girl had invited the boy to have a coke when this first started, they could now be married and expecting their third child and if the thread keeps going, soon they will be divorced and she will be writing to another "Dear Abby" to ask if she should approach the new guy at church, despite how it worked out the last time she approached a *boy* at church, and her XDH will be writing to "Dear Abby" asking how to make it clear to a lady he knows through work that HE is not interested, because look what happened last time!

Just sayin'

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  I like that version  too!  Making the first move is scary.

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 but the never knowing about what could have happened would be worse for me!

he says yes....or no.....but one way or the other life goes on.  sometimes we have to step out of our box! and spread our wings

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I bet if the girl had invited the boy to have a coke when this first started, they could now be married and expecting their third child and if the thread keeps going, soon they will be divorced and she will be writing to another "Dear Abby" to ask if she should approach the new guy at church, despite how it worked out the last time she approached a *boy* at church, and her XDH will be writing to "Dear Abby" asking how to make it clear to a lady he knows through work that HE is not interested, because look what happened last time!

Just sayin'

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I like your version of the story line, so let's stick to that for awhile....or try.  

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  I like that version  too!  Making the first move is scary.

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To late. They are grandparents already. 

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 Czech  Czech Czech...gramma are sexy too!  like wine we only get finer with age~

 

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There was no lecture there. I believe in forgiveness. That is what I have learned. This has nothing to do with you so please stop making it all about you. I get tired of you making it about you. I go to church and we study forgiveness. I'm trying to practice more of it in my life. It hasn't always been easy. Again, this is not about you. It's about what I've learned from the Bible. And if I have to hate someone to be your friend and get your approval it's not worth it.

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 You don't have to hate anyone.  But, you are the one that chooses to be like her, gang up on people with her, and be nasty to others right along with her.  YOU started the nastiness on this thread.  

And it's never about me or anyone else, NJN.  It's always about you.  

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 The great and powerful TD says it's about ME.

But wait...has anyone ever seen NJN and me in the same room together?

Didn't think so!

flan

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 OMFG Then WTF is this about.  If you don't talk to her then why is me not talking to her an issue?  You keep talking in circles.  I keep being told that I ended contact with people and THAT is why you do not like me or are not my friends anymore.  Whatever it is we're arguing.  So I'm supposed to talk to you off the board or not?  Don't tell me the reason you are not my friend is that I stopped talking to you off the board and then turn around and say that no one talks off the board.  WTF?

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Please show me where I said any of that.  Everything you said and did was on the board, NJN.  You started attacking the people who were supposed to be your friends and you got very ugly about it and you ganged up with flan to do it.  It was enough.  The fact that you could EVER be friends with a person who treats others who are supposed to be your friends so horridly is enough.  And maybe you can overlook all the horrid things she has said and done and lied about regarding YOU, but that doesn't mean anyone else has to.  You made your choice.  I hope it works out well for you.    

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 Yes, I have attacked my  so called friends.  I have never once been mean on this board to you or ohfour.  EVER.  And if disagreeing with you is being mean then yes, I guess so.

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 Are you serious?  The very first time I knew that you had a problem with me was on my birthday thread, talking about how peaceful it was that I wasn't here.  Until that very moment, I didn't know there was an issue between us.  And not long after that, is when I realized that you had blocked me on Faecbook.  I didn't go looking, I just saw a post that you husband had tagged you in and your name was crossed out.  That's how I even knew...

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 When I first joined this board flan pretty much made it clear I wasn't welcome. NJN befriended me and we were actually friends for a while. Obviously everyone knows how I feel about flan and NJN was more than aware. She decided I was TOO MEAN to flan and we were no longer friends. Of course that wasn't enough. She decided to join flan any time flan commented on or to me. Just some background for those who also think I'm TOO MEAN to flan.

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 The truth is out there...

Just not right here, right now.

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 Good answer from someone who throws around that board bully...consider the source...start your own board queen of P/A...lol

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I bet if the girl had invited the boy to have a coke when this first started, they could now be married and expecting their third child and if the thread keeps going, soon they will be divorced and she will be writing to another "Dear Abby" to ask if she should approach the new guy at church, despite how it worked out the last time she approached a *boy* at church, and her XDH will be writing to "Dear Abby" asking how to make it clear to a lady he knows through work that HE is not interested, because look what happened last time!

Just sayin'

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Sigh, yes we do get finer with age. I'm not going to say I'm sexy though...well, not to the general public, DH is happy and that's all that counts.

Honey needs to show up with chocolate to go with our fine wine.  

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There was no lecture there. I believe in forgiveness. That is what I have learned. This has nothing to do with you so please stop making it all about you. I get tired of you making it about you. I go to church and we study forgiveness. I'm trying to practice more of it in my life. It hasn't always been easy. Again, this is not about you. It's about what I've learned from the Bible. And if I have to hate someone to be your friend and get your approval it's not worth it.

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 You don't have to hate anyone.  But, you are the one that chooses to be like her, gang up on people with her, and be nasty to others right along with her.  YOU started the nastiness on this thread.  

And it's never about me or anyone else, NJN.  It's always about you.  

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 The great and powerful TD says it's about ME.

But wait...has anyone ever seen NJN and me in the same room together?

Didn't think so!

flan

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