TOTALLY GEEKED!

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

RE: Girl Grows Restless Waiting for Right Time to Approach Busy Boy

Ohfour · Hooker

Flan,
Because of you, there is talk about not doing SS this year, maybe not for a while, if ever. Because of YOU. Proud of that are you? You want everyone to be as miserable as you are.

Nobody Just Nobody · Rib-it! Rrrib-it!

Lawyerlady wrote:
Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Ohfour wrote:
Forgiveness doesn't mean you have to be friends. I have forgiven my abusive ExH. Doesn't mean that I want anything to do with him...

and what Flan did, that's totally unforgivable to me. If she had apologized or even made an ATTEMPT to right things, that MIGHT be different. But she just keeps tightening that screw. It seems to be a source of perverse pleasure for her at this point...
OMG She DID ask my forgiveness and do what she could to right things. She's continued to do things to fix the situation. No, I am NOT going into detail.
Well, as long as she made things right with you, who cares what she has done to or said about your friends and other members of the board, right?

Like I said, you made your choice. I hope it works out well for you and that she doesn't turn on you again.

Okay, let me get this straight...

1. I have to beg ohfour to be my friend.

2. Ohfour has to be my friend in order for me to be your friend.

3. In order for any of this to happen I have to treat flan like crap.

4. I also have to force flan to apologize for every wrong thing she's done to everyone on this board since the dawn of time and also force her to be nice to the same people who constantly take pot shots at her.

Have I missed anything?

Lindley · Guru

just Czech wrote:
Riding wrote:
just Czech wrote:
Lindley wrote:
just Czech wrote:
Riding wrote:
I bet if the girl had invited the boy to have a coke when this first started, they could now be married and expecting their third child and if the thread keeps going, soon they will be divorced and she will be writing to another "Dear Abby" to ask if she should approach the new guy at church, despite how it worked out the last time she approached a *boy* at church, and her XDH will be writing to "Dear Abby" asking how to make it clear to a lady he knows through work that HE is not interested, because look what happened last time!

Just sayin'
I like your version of the story line, so let's stick to that for awhile....or try.
I like that version too! Making the first move is scary.
To late. They are grandparents already.
Czech Czech Czech...gramma are sexy too! like wine we only get finer with age~

Sigh, yes we do get finer with age. I'm not going to say I'm sexy though...well, not to the general public, DH is happy and that's all that counts.
Honey needs to show up with chocolate to go with our fine wine.

How about chocolate covered strawberries 🍓

Tinydancer · Guru

Hey look. I'm pretty sure all of that other board are here on flan's behalf.

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Ohfour wrote:
Forgiveness doesn't mean you have to be friends. I have forgiven my abusive ExH. Doesn't mean that I want anything to do with him...

and what Flan did, that's totally unforgivable to me. If she had apologized or even made an ATTEMPT to right things, that MIGHT be different. But she just keeps tightening that screw. It seems to be a source of perverse pleasure for her at this point...
OMG She DID ask my forgiveness and do what she could to right things. She's continued to do things to fix the situation. No, I am NOT going into detail.
Well, as long as she made things right with you, who cares what she has done to or said about your friends and other members of the board, right?

Like I said, you made your choice. I hope it works out well for you and that she doesn't turn on you again.
Okay, let me get this straight...
1. I have to beg ohfour to be my friend.
2. Ohfour has to be my friend in order for me to be your friend.
3. In order for any of this to happen I have to treat flan like crap.
4. I also have to force flan to apologize for every wrong thing she's done to everyone on this board since the dawn of time and also force her to be nice to the same people who constantly take pot shots at her.
Have I missed anything?

1. I don't care.

2. I don't care.

3. I don't care.

4. I don't care.

eta - And you don't have to do anything. It's too late.

-- Edited by Lawyerlady on Tuesday 8th of March 2016 05:25:54 PM

just Czech · Give Me Grand's!

Lindley wrote:
just Czech wrote:
Riding wrote:
just Czech wrote:
Lindley wrote:
just Czech wrote:
Riding wrote:
I bet if the girl had invited the boy to have a coke when this first started, they could now be married and expecting their third child and if the thread keeps going, soon they will be divorced and she will be writing to another "Dear Abby" to ask if she should approach the new guy at church, despite how it worked out the last time she approached a *boy* at church, and her XDH will be writing to "Dear Abby" asking how to make it clear to a lady he knows through work that HE is not interested, because look what happened last time!

Just sayin'
I like your version of the story line, so let's stick to that for awhile....or try.
I like that version too! Making the first move is scary.
To late. They are grandparents already.
Czech Czech Czech...gramma are sexy too! like wine we only get finer with age~

Sigh, yes we do get finer with age. I'm not going to say I'm sexy though...well, not to the general public, DH is happy and that's all that counts.
Honey needs to show up with chocolate to go with our fine wine.
How about chocolate covered strawberries 🍓

Oooo strawberries!! (pants like a puppy hehahehahe)

Ohfour · Hooker

Yeah, you have missed something.

She did something PURPOSELY to hurt one of the sweetest and caring people on this board. And she continues to relish in it, no matter how many times, no matter how many people have called her out on it. Not someone I would want to call a friend.

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

Ohfour wrote:
Yeah, you have missed something.

She did something PURPOSELY to hurt one of the sweetest and caring people on this board. And she continues to relish in it, no matter how many times, no matter how many people have called her out on it. Not someone I would want to call a friend.

Not to mention all the things she did before that.

Nobody Just Nobody · Rib-it! Rrrib-it!

Lawyerlady wrote:
Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Ohfour wrote:
Forgiveness doesn't mean you have to be friends. I have forgiven my abusive ExH. Doesn't mean that I want anything to do with him...

and what Flan did, that's totally unforgivable to me. If she had apologized or even made an ATTEMPT to right things, that MIGHT be different. But she just keeps tightening that screw. It seems to be a source of perverse pleasure for her at this point...
OMG She DID ask my forgiveness and do what she could to right things. She's continued to do things to fix the situation. No, I am NOT going into detail.
Well, as long as she made things right with you, who cares what she has done to or said about your friends and other members of the board, right?

Like I said, you made your choice. I hope it works out well for you and that she doesn't turn on you again.
Okay, let me get this straight...
1. I have to beg ohfour to be my friend.
2. Ohfour has to be my friend in order for me to be your friend.
3. In order for any of this to happen I have to treat flan like crap.
4. I also have to force flan to apologize for every wrong thing she's done to everyone on this board since the dawn of time and also force her to be nice to the same people who constantly take pot shots at her.
Have I missed anything?

1. I don't care.
2. I don't care.
3. I don't care.
4. I don't care.

eta - And you don't have to do anything. It's too late.

-- Edited by Lawyerlady on Tuesday 8th of March 2016 05:25:54 PM

YEAH!!

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

just Czech wrote:
Lindley wrote:
just Czech wrote:
Riding wrote:
just Czech wrote:
Lindley wrote:
just Czech wrote:
Riding wrote:
I bet if the girl had invited the boy to have a coke when this first started, they could now be married and expecting their third child and if the thread keeps going, soon they will be divorced and she will be writing to another "Dear Abby" to ask if she should approach the new guy at church, despite how it worked out the last time she approached a *boy* at church, and her XDH will be writing to "Dear Abby" asking how to make it clear to a lady he knows through work that HE is not interested, because look what happened last time!

Just sayin'
I like your version of the story line, so let's stick to that for awhile....or try.
I like that version too! Making the first move is scary.
To late. They are grandparents already.
Czech Czech Czech...gramma are sexy too! like wine we only get finer with age~

Sigh, yes we do get finer with age. I'm not going to say I'm sexy though...well, not to the general public, DH is happy and that's all that counts.
Honey needs to show up with chocolate to go with our fine wine.
How about chocolate covered strawberries 🍓
Oooo strawberries!! (pants like a puppy hehahehahe)

I had chocolate covered strawberries last night for desert.

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Ohfour wrote:
Forgiveness doesn't mean you have to be friends. I have forgiven my abusive ExH. Doesn't mean that I want anything to do with him...

and what Flan did, that's totally unforgivable to me. If she had apologized or even made an ATTEMPT to right things, that MIGHT be different. But she just keeps tightening that screw. It seems to be a source of perverse pleasure for her at this point...
OMG She DID ask my forgiveness and do what she could to right things. She's continued to do things to fix the situation. No, I am NOT going into detail.
Well, as long as she made things right with you, who cares what she has done to or said about your friends and other members of the board, right?

Like I said, you made your choice. I hope it works out well for you and that she doesn't turn on you again.
Okay, let me get this straight...
1. I have to beg ohfour to be my friend.
2. Ohfour has to be my friend in order for me to be your friend.
3. In order for any of this to happen I have to treat flan like crap.
4. I also have to force flan to apologize for every wrong thing she's done to everyone on this board since the dawn of time and also force her to be nice to the same people who constantly take pot shots at her.
Have I missed anything?

1. I don't care.
2. I don't care.
3. I don't care.
4. I don't care.

eta - And you don't have to do anything. It's too late.

-- Edited by Lawyerlady on Tuesday 8th of March 2016 05:25:54 PM
YEAH!!

Nice. I was actually sad when I figured out you'd chosen flan over me even after all the nasty things she has said and done to us both and others. Good to know you cheer the death of friendship. It can't possibly be a surprise I don't care anymore.

Nobody Just Nobody · Rib-it! Rrrib-it!

Lawyerlady wrote:
Ohfour wrote:
Yeah, you have missed something.

She did something PURPOSELY to hurt one of the sweetest and caring people on this board. And she continues to relish in it, no matter how many times, no matter how many people have called her out on it. Not someone I would want to call a friend.
Not to mention all the things she did before that.

She is evil. Pure evil.

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
Ohfour wrote:
Yeah, you have missed something.

She did something PURPOSELY to hurt one of the sweetest and caring people on this board. And she continues to relish in it, no matter how many times, no matter how many people have called her out on it. Not someone I would want to call a friend.
Not to mention all the things she did before that.
She is evil. Pure evil.

Now see, that crosses a line. That's a personal attack. I've spoken only of her behavior - you are making it personal.

just Czech · Give Me Grand's!

Lawyerlady wrote:
just Czech wrote:
Lindley wrote:
just Czech wrote:
Riding wrote:
just Czech wrote:
Lindley wrote:
just Czech wrote:
Riding wrote:
I bet if the girl had invited the boy to have a coke when this first started, they could now be married and expecting their third child and if the thread keeps going, soon they will be divorced and she will be writing to another "Dear Abby" to ask if she should approach the new guy at church, despite how it worked out the last time she approached a *boy* at church, and her XDH will be writing to "Dear Abby" asking how to make it clear to a lady he knows through work that HE is not interested, because look what happened last time!

Just sayin'
I like your version of the story line, so let's stick to that for awhile....or try.
I like that version too! Making the first move is scary.
To late. They are grandparents already.
Czech Czech Czech...gramma are sexy too! like wine we only get finer with age~

Sigh, yes we do get finer with age. I'm not going to say I'm sexy though...well, not to the general public, DH is happy and that's all that counts.
Honey needs to show up with chocolate to go with our fine wine.
How about chocolate covered strawberries 🍓
Oooo strawberries!! (pants like a puppy hehahehahe)
I had chocolate covered strawberries last night for desert.

Rub it in will you. I can't eat strawberries until I'm over this darn diverticulitis cRap..

Please, eat a few for me though! I like them with wine too. biggrin

Nobody Just Nobody · Rib-it! Rrrib-it!

Lawyerlady wrote:
YEAH!!
Nice. I was actually sad when I figured out you'd chosen flan over me even after all the nasty things she has said and done to us both and others. Good to know you cheer the death of friendship. It can't possibly be a surprise I don't care anymore.

One, I was being sarcastic. Two, you didn't care to begin with. And the fact that you think I "chose" her over you shows a lot about you.

Nobody Just Nobody · Rib-it! Rrrib-it!

Lawyerlady wrote:
Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
Ohfour wrote:
Yeah, you have missed something.

She did something PURPOSELY to hurt one of the sweetest and caring people on this board. And she continues to relish in it, no matter how many times, no matter how many people have called her out on it. Not someone I would want to call a friend.
Not to mention all the things she did before that.
She is evil. Pure evil.
Now see, that crosses a line. That's a personal attack. I've spoken only of her behavior - you are making it personal.

More sarcasm. I'll use my little emoji next time.

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
YEAH!!
Nice. I was actually sad when I figured out you'd chosen flan over me even after all the nasty things she has said and done to us both and others. Good to know you cheer the death of friendship. It can't possibly be a surprise I don't care anymore.
One, I was being sarcastic. Two, you didn't care to begin with. And the fact that you think I "chose" her over you shows a lot about you.

What does it show? That I demand loyalty of my friends? That I don't expect them to buddy up with people who tell lies about me and are mean to everyone? So be it.

And you forgot your emoticon.

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
Ohfour wrote:
Yeah, you have missed something.

She did something PURPOSELY to hurt one of the sweetest and caring people on this board. And she continues to relish in it, no matter how many times, no matter how many people have called her out on it. Not someone I would want to call a friend.
Not to mention all the things she did before that.
She is evil. Pure evil.
Now see, that crosses a line. That's a personal attack. I've spoken only of her behavior - you are making it personal.
More sarcasm. I'll use my little emoji next time.

Word of the day = facetious.

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
Ohfour wrote:
Yeah, you have missed something.

She did something PURPOSELY to hurt one of the sweetest and caring people on this board. And she continues to relish in it, no matter how many times, no matter how many people have called her out on it. Not someone I would want to call a friend.
Not to mention all the things she did before that.
She is evil. Pure evil.
Now see, that crosses a line. That's a personal attack. I've spoken only of her behavior - you are making it personal.
More sarcasm. I'll use my little emoji next time.

Pretty damn obvious it was sarcasm.

flan

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

Lawyerlady wrote:
Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
Nobody Just Nobody wrote:
Ohfour wrote:
Forgiveness doesn't mean you have to be friends. I have forgiven my abusive ExH. Doesn't mean that I want anything to do with him...

and what Flan did, that's totally unforgivable to me. If she had apologized or even made an ATTEMPT to right things, that MIGHT be different. But she just keeps tightening that screw. It seems to be a source of perverse pleasure for her at this point...
OMG She DID ask my forgiveness and do what she could to right things. She's continued to do things to fix the situation. No, I am NOT going into detail.
Well, as long as she made things right with you, who cares what she has done to or said about your friends and other members of the board, right?

Like I said, you made your choice. I hope it works out well for you and that she doesn't turn on you again.
Okay, let me get this straight...
1. I have to beg ohfour to be my friend.
2. Ohfour has to be my friend in order for me to be your friend.
3. In order for any of this to happen I have to treat flan like crap.
4. I also have to force flan to apologize for every wrong thing she's done to everyone on this board since the dawn of time and also force her to be nice to the same people who constantly take pot shots at her.
Have I missed anything?

1. I don't care.
2. I don't care.
3. I don't care.
4. I don't care.

eta - And you don't have to do anything. It's too late.

-- Edited by Lawyerlady on Tuesday 8th of March 2016 05:25:54 PM
YEAH!!
Nice. I was actually sad when I figured out you'd chosen flan over me even after all the nasty things she has said and done to us both and others. Good to know you cheer the death of friendship. It can't possibly be a surprise I don't care anymore.

But do you think she cares? I'm so confused.

flan

Bonny22Pye · Guru

Maybe everyone should just have a virtual hug it out session and a do over..... Although I'm still confused on why all the fighting is going on for the most part.

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

Ohfour wrote:
Flan,
Because of you, there is talk about not doing SS this year, maybe not for a while, if ever. Because of YOU. Proud of that are you? You want everyone to be as miserable as you are.

I have no words. Can you not keep things in perspective like reasonable adults?

"...if ever..."

Sounds like y'all are cutting off your noses to spite your faces.

flan

-- Edited by flan327 on Tuesday 8th of March 2016 05:43:56 PM

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

Bonny22Pye wrote:
Maybe everyone should just have a virtual hug it out session and a do over..... Although I'm still confused on why all the fighting is going on for the most part.

Someone said something and someone said something else...oh, and then there was that other thing...

flan

p.s. And I'm not stupid enough to hug someone who would take great pleasure in stabbing me in the back.

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

Ohfour wrote:
Yeah, you have missed something.

She did something PURPOSELY to hurt one of the sweetest and caring people on this board. And she continues to relish in it, no matter how many times, no matter how many people have called her out on it. Not someone I would want to call a friend.

Another lie.

Tig and I are fine, but you can't admit the truth.

I don't understand your obsession.

flan

Dona Worry Be Happy · Vette's SS!!

I am so, so confused.

Southern_Belle · Nothing's Impossible

I thought this was a thread on dating?

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

Southern_Belle wrote:
I thought this was a thread on dating?

Is there ever "just a thread" here?

flan

Dona Worry Be Happy · Vette's SS!!

Southern_Belle wrote:
I thought this was a thread on dating?

I have no idea what happened. I have been in town all day.

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

Dona Worry Be Happy wrote:
I am so, so confused.

It's not worth your time, Dona!

Seriously not.

flan

Ohfour · Hooker

flan327 wrote:
Ohfour wrote:
Flan,
Because of you, there is talk about not doing SS this year, maybe not for a while, if ever. Because of YOU. Proud of that are you? You want everyone to be as miserable as you are.
I have no words. Can you not keep things in perspective like reasonable adults?
"...if ever..."
Sounds like y'all are cutting off your noses to spite your faces.
flan

-- Edited by flan327 on Tuesday 8th of March 2016 05:43:56 PM

No one wants to take the chance of someone getting hurt like you hurt her...who knows, maybe there's another one of you that seems to thrive on others pain...

we sure didn't see it coming from you...

Bonny22Pye · Guru

Dona Worry Be Happy wrote:
Southern_Belle wrote:
I thought this was a thread on dating?
I have no idea what happened. I have been in town all day.

I think that a couple of geeks dislike each other and its taken on a storm of epic proportions. Totally lost on the SS ruining thing. Kind of get where the rest is coming from, even if I don't understand the magnitude of the disdain for each other.

Ohfour · Hooker

flan327 wrote:
Ohfour wrote:
Yeah, you have missed something.

She did something PURPOSELY to hurt one of the sweetest and caring people on this board. And she continues to relish in it, no matter how many times, no matter how many people have called her out on it. Not someone I would want to call a friend.
Another lie.
Tig and I are fine, but you can't admit the truth.
I don't understand your obsession.
flan

You didn't hurt Tig? That's a flat out lie. And we ALL know that.

It's not an obsession, it's wanting to right a wrong. Something you seem to have NO concept of.

Just keep lying to yourself. It's a clear sign...

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

Y'all know what you CHOOSE to believe. It's easier than facing your faults.

flan

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

flan327 wrote:
Ohfour wrote:
Yeah, you have missed something.

She did something PURPOSELY to hurt one of the sweetest and caring people on this board. And she continues to relish in it, no matter how many times, no matter how many people have called her out on it. Not someone I would want to call a friend.
Another lie.
Tig and I are fine, but you can't admit the truth.
I don't understand your obsession.
flan

Really flan? She's hardly posted at all since Christmas.

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

Bonny22Pye wrote:
Dona Worry Be Happy wrote:
Southern_Belle wrote:
I thought this was a thread on dating?
I have no idea what happened. I have been in town all day.
I think that a couple of geeks dislike each other and its taken on a storm of epic proportions. Totally lost on the SS ruining thing. Kind of get where the rest is coming from, even if I don't understand the magnitude of the disdain for each other.

Tig, who loves, adores and waits all year for Secret Santa had flan this past Christmas. flan didn't open her gift when she got it, wanted to wait, and then still refuses to acknowledge said gift on the reveal thread like everybody else does or provide a public thank you like everyone else does. It's "between her and Tig".

Honeys_Mom · Mod & Permanent Board Sweetheart

Edited to add: Not directed toward any particular Geek(s).

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

Honeys_Mom wrote:

Edited to add: Not directed toward any particular Geek(s).

Rather directed at all of us? LOL. Thanks, Mom.

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

Lawyerlady wrote:
flan327 wrote:
Ohfour wrote:
Yeah, you have missed something.

She did something PURPOSELY to hurt one of the sweetest and caring people on this board. And she continues to relish in it, no matter how many times, no matter how many people have called her out on it. Not someone I would want to call a friend.
Another lie.
Tig and I are fine, but you can't admit the truth.
I don't understand your obsession.
flan
Really flan? She's hardly posted at all since Christmas.

And I told you why because I WAS CONCERNED as well. I got accused of making it all about me.

flan

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

Lawyerlady wrote:
Bonny22Pye wrote:
Dona Worry Be Happy wrote:
Southern_Belle wrote:
I thought this was a thread on dating?
I have no idea what happened. I have been in town all day.
I think that a couple of geeks dislike each other and its taken on a storm of epic proportions. Totally lost on the SS ruining thing. Kind of get where the rest is coming from, even if I don't understand the magnitude of the disdain for each other.
Tig, who loves, adores and waits all year for Secret Santa had flan this past Christmas. flan didn't open her gift when she got it, wanted to wait, and then still refuses to acknowledge said gift on the reveal thread like everybody else does or provide a public thank you like everyone else does. It's "between her and Tig".

Do you have any idea how petty this is?

And, yes, it IS between the gift giver and the recipient. Most adults understand that, even if they're scared to say it to your face.

flan

Ohfour · Hooker

Believe your own lies Flan. Pretend in your fantasy world that you had nothing to do with it. No one believes you for a second...

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

Keep telling yourself that......

Ohfour · Hooker

flan327 wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
Bonny22Pye wrote:
Dona Worry Be Happy wrote:
Southern_Belle wrote:
I thought this was a thread on dating?
I have no idea what happened. I have been in town all day.
I think that a couple of geeks dislike each other and its taken on a storm of epic proportions. Totally lost on the SS ruining thing. Kind of get where the rest is coming from, even if I don't understand the magnitude of the disdain for each other.
Tig, who loves, adores and waits all year for Secret Santa had flan this past Christmas. flan didn't open her gift when she got it, wanted to wait, and then still refuses to acknowledge said gift on the reveal thread like everybody else does or provide a public thank you like everyone else does. It's "between her and Tig".
Do you have any idea how petty this is?
And, yes, it IS between the gift giver and the recipient. Most adults understand that, even if they're scared to say it to your face.
flan

Again, with the deflection. "Its not ME, its Tig!" . Makes me want to vomit...

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

Why, yes, I will keep telling myself the truth because I cannot reveal the contents of a PM.

flan

Ohfour · Hooker

flan327 wrote:
Why, yes, I will keep telling myself the truth because I cannot reveal the contents of a PM.

flan

What a convenient way to protect yourself. Bullschit....

-- Edited by Ohfour on Tuesday 8th of March 2016 07:11:25 PM

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

Ohfour wrote:
flan327 wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
Bonny22Pye wrote:
Dona Worry Be Happy wrote:
Southern_Belle wrote:
I thought this was a thread on dating?
I have no idea what happened. I have been in town all day.
I think that a couple of geeks dislike each other and its taken on a storm of epic proportions. Totally lost on the SS ruining thing. Kind of get where the rest is coming from, even if I don't understand the magnitude of the disdain for each other.
Tig, who loves, adores and waits all year for Secret Santa had flan this past Christmas. flan didn't open her gift when she got it, wanted to wait, and then still refuses to acknowledge said gift on the reveal thread like everybody else does or provide a public thank you like everyone else does. It's "between her and Tig".
Do you have any idea how petty this is?
And, yes, it IS between the gift giver and the recipient. Most adults understand that, even if they're scared to say it to your face.
flan
Again, with the deflection. "Its not ME, its Tig!" . Makes me want to vomit...

WHERE DID I SAY THAT?

And please, puke...then maybe you won't be posting.

flan

chef · Guru

I'm curious. Flan, since you know how hurtful it was that you didn't post on the reveal thread, why not make a post thanking Tig? Do you have a reason for not wanting to do a public thank you to Tig?

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

Ohfour wrote:
flan327 wrote:
Why, yes, I will keep telling myself the truth because I cannot reveal the contents of a PM.

flan
What a convenient way to protect yourself. Bullschit....

-- Edited by Ohfour on Tuesday 8th of March 2016 07:11:25 PM

You are so filled with hatred you wouldn't recognize the truth if Tig herself spoke up.

flan

Ohfour · Hooker

Who is "scared" to say it to my face? Am I that intimidating? Lol! Im a poster on the internet. What are you afraid of?

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

chef wrote:
I'm curious. Flan, since you know how hurtful it was that you didn't post on the reveal thread, why not make a post thanking Tig? Do you have a reason for not wanting to do a public thank you to Tig?

Hurtful to whom?

The only one I care about, in this case, is Tig.

flan