TOTALLY GEEKED!

Fort Worth Mom · Mod/Penguin lover/Princess!

RE: Mother of 3 found Dead in Suv. Children in car with her body for 3 days.

NAOW · Vette's SS

What a b*tch. Seriously. To off yourself not only in front of your children, but to leave your children to die a slow, miserable death trapped in a car with their dead mother.

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

huskerbb wrote:
She killed herself.

How is that NOT a supremely selfish act? Not only leaving the kids without a mother, but putting them in a position where harm or worse could have happened.

I have no problem with the act itself, but the way she did it was unconscionable.

flan

msrock · Guru

flan327 wrote:
huskerbb wrote:
She killed herself.

How is that NOT a supremely selfish act? Not only leaving the kids without a mother, but putting them in a position where harm or worse could have happened.

I have no problem with the act itself, but the way she did it was unconscionable.
flan

Really? Now that is bizarre! I have a really, really big problem with it. Especially when you have children.

Fort Worth Mom · Mod/Penguin lover/Princess!

I read that she had been depressed.

I wish she would have tried getting treatment, before doing something so drastic. cry

Tinydancer · Guru

flan327 wrote:
huskerbb wrote:
She killed herself.

How is that NOT a supremely selfish act? Not only leaving the kids without a mother, but putting them in a position where harm or worse could have happened.

I have no problem with the act itself, but the way she did it was unconscionable.
flan

If she had killed them along with herself you would have had more sympathy for her. That's how you usually roll.

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

msrock wrote:
flan327 wrote:
huskerbb wrote:
She killed herself.

How is that NOT a supremely selfish act? Not only leaving the kids without a mother, but putting them in a position where harm or worse could have happened.

I have no problem with the act itself, but the way she did it was unconscionable.
flan
Really? Now that is bizarre! I have a really, really big problem with it. Especially when you have children.

Quite. Now those kids are all going to grow up without a mother, knowing she left them to die along with her. I hope the bitch is burning in hell.

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

msrock wrote:
flan327 wrote:
huskerbb wrote:
She killed herself.

How is that NOT a supremely selfish act? Not only leaving the kids without a mother, but putting them in a position where harm or worse could have happened.

I have no problem with the act itself, but the way she did it was unconscionable.
flan
Really? Now that is bizarre! I have a really, really big problem with it. Especially when you have children.

Sometimes even that isn't enough of a reason to live.

flan

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

flan327 wrote:
msrock wrote:
flan327 wrote:
huskerbb wrote:
She killed herself.

How is that NOT a supremely selfish act? Not only leaving the kids without a mother, but putting them in a position where harm or worse could have happened.

I have no problem with the act itself, but the way she did it was unconscionable.
flan
Really? Now that is bizarre! I have a really, really big problem with it. Especially when you have children.
Sometimes even that isn't enough of a reason to live.
flan

Then they probably are better off without that bitch for a mother.

msrock · Guru

flan327 wrote:
msrock wrote:
flan327 wrote:
huskerbb wrote:
She killed herself.

How is that NOT a supremely selfish act? Not only leaving the kids without a mother, but putting them in a position where harm or worse could have happened.

I have no problem with the act itself, but the way she did it was unconscionable.
flan
Really? Now that is bizarre! I have a really, really big problem with it. Especially when you have children.
Sometimes even that isn't enough of a reason to live.
flan

OMG Really?

chef · Guru

Just thinking of DS sitting there helpless and crying 'mommy' after I selfishly killed myself is enough to make me cry. I can't imagine what those kids went through.

Ohfour · Hooker

flan327 wrote:
msrock wrote:
flan327 wrote:
huskerbb wrote:
She killed herself.

How is that NOT a supremely selfish act? Not only leaving the kids without a mother, but putting them in a position where harm or worse could have happened.

I have no problem with the act itself, but the way she did it was unconscionable.
flan
Really? Now that is bizarre! I have a really, really big problem with it. Especially when you have children.
Sometimes even that isn't enough of a reason to live.
flan

This comment explains a LOT.

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

msrock wrote:
flan327 wrote:
msrock wrote:
flan327 wrote:
huskerbb wrote:
She killed herself.

How is that NOT a supremely selfish act? Not only leaving the kids without a mother, but putting them in a position where harm or worse could have happened.

I have no problem with the act itself, but the way she did it was unconscionable.
flan
Really? Now that is bizarre! I have a really, really big problem with it. Especially when you have children.
Sometimes even that isn't enough of a reason to live.
flan
OMG Really?

She's not the first parent to commit suicide. I've never been suicidal, so I can't tell you the pain she was in. Maybe she thought her kids would be better off without her. I don't know.

flan

Fort Worth Mom · Mod/Penguin lover/Princess!

She was depressed and overwhelmed, from what her friends said.

I think she snapped.

It's terrible that she didn't leave her children at home, or with friends/family, when she did this.

But, from all the reports I've seen, she was a wonderful Mom.

She lost her mind. And took her own life.

Her kids could have died in a hot car. (Thank God, they survived.)

I think it's awful. All the way around.

I don't think she was a bitch, at all. I think she was a good Mom, who went off the deep end.

I feel sorry for the whole family. cry

JMHO.

Lexxy · My dog name is Sasha, too!

Mellow Momma wrote:
Ohfour wrote:
The Super Target I frequent the most is in a strip mall with other stand alone businesses in the parking lot. There is a Kohls, a Ross, Kirklands, Electronic Express, Walgreens, OCharlies, Buffalo Wild Wings, Olive Garden, Chick fil a, and a 24 hour Kroger, just to name a few. There is no way to tell which cars are Target Cars.
There are only 4 Super Targets in all of Tennessee. So you must live in some vortex of awesomeness. Lol.
It is actually very very clear to the employees which parking lot is theirs. It is often branded. There are distinct boundaries that all employees know. You are required to check the cars in your area before leaving. It may not appear easy to the average person to tell which part of the lot belongs to which store. But the company is responsible for a portion of the lot. That is what they must check. One good indicator is the cart corrals. They are branded and typically denote the boundaries of the lot. If there is no Target cart corral there, it doesn't belong to Target.

I have two Super Targets within 5 miles of my house. One is an anchor store for a huge shopping center. The other is in a smaller strip mall. I guess their parking lots are large enough that people shopping in other stores or restaurants wouldn't park there.

The one that is in the mall near my office would share their parking lot with other stores, but maybe they are responsible for it's surveillance.

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

I don't care how she was feeling. A good mother makes sure her children are safe regardless of how she is feeling.

I might feel differently if she had even attempted to get help, but she did not. She was in a store parking lot, for heaven's sake - she could have left the kids in the store somewhere and gone and offed herself.

Nope. She was NOT a good mother.

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

Fort Worth Mom wrote:
She was depressed and overwhelmed, from what her friends said.
I think she snapped.
It's terrible that she didn't leave her children at home, or with friends/family, when she did this.
But, from all the reports I've seen, she was a wonderful Mom.
She lost her mind. And took her own life.
Her kids could have died in a hot car. (Thank God, they survived.)
I think it's awful. All the way around.
I don't think she was a bitch, at all. I think she was a good Mom, who went off the deep end.
I feel sorry for the whole family.
JMHO.

Very well said.

flan

Lexxy · My dog name is Sasha, too!

Fort Worth Mom wrote:
She was depressed and overwhelmed, from what her friends said.
I think she snapped.
It's terrible that she didn't leave her children at home, or with friends/family, when she did this.
But, from all the reports I've seen, she was a wonderful Mom.
She lost her mind. And took her own life.
Her kids could have died in a hot car. (Thank God, they survived.)
I think it's awful. All the way around.
I don't think she was a bitch, at all. I think she was a good Mom, who went off the deep end.
I feel sorry for the whole family.
JMHO.

I think this is it. I just wish she had not done it with her kids in the car with her. Hopefully they are all young enough that they aren't scarred for life.

Tangerine · Guru

Lexxy wrote:
Fort Worth Mom wrote:
She was depressed and overwhelmed, from what her friends said.
I think she snapped.
It's terrible that she didn't leave her children at home, or with friends/family, when she did this.
But, from all the reports I've seen, she was a wonderful Mom.
She lost her mind. And took her own life.
Her kids could have died in a hot car. (Thank God, they survived.)
I think it's awful. All the way around.
I don't think she was a bitch, at all. I think she was a good Mom, who went off the deep end.
I feel sorry for the whole family.
JMHO.

I think this is it. I just wish she had not done it with her kids in the car with her. Hopefully they are all young enough that they aren't scarred for life.

She was no t thinking clearly, obviously. This is a very sad situation for this family.

I doubt she meant to harm her children. She was ill and not thinking about the consequences of her actions. Very sad.

Lexxy · My dog name is Sasha, too!

Is it strange that the music teacher & others who knew her noticed she was depressed & overwhelmed but her husband didn't? Was he just too close to it to notice or was he part of the problem? I'm not accusing him of anything, just wondering if maybe he had been more supportive & involved she wouldn't have been so overwhelmed.

Tangerine · Guru

She may have been hiding it from her husband. Or maybe he didn't pay much attention to her. Or maybe he thought she would "just get over it", like many people think people with depression can overcome it through willpower alone.

Ohfour · Hooker

He didn't even report her missing for 3 days. I think HE was the root of the problem...

Lexxy · My dog name is Sasha, too!

Ohfour wrote:
He didn't even report her missing for 3 days. I think HE was the root of the problem...

He didn't report her & his children missing for 3 days??? I totally missed that part. I thought they were looking for them & it took 3 days to find them. Holy shyt! I'd say he was the root of the problem. Did he explain not reporting them?

Fort Worth Mom · Mod/Penguin lover/Princess!

Lexxy wrote:
Ohfour wrote:
He didn't even report her missing for 3 days. I think HE was the root of the problem...
He didn't report her & his children missing for 3 days??? I totally missed that part. I thought they were looking for them & it took 3 days to find them. Holy shyt! I'd say he was the root of the problem. Did he explain not reporting them?

No, she went missing on a Monday. The husband reported it on Tuesday.

He was under the mistaken impression that you had to wait 24 hours to report someone missing to the police.

Ohfour · Hooker

Fort Worth Mom wrote:
Lexxy wrote:
Ohfour wrote:
He didn't even report her missing for 3 days. I think HE was the root of the problem...
He didn't report her & his children missing for 3 days??? I totally missed that part. I thought they were looking for them & it took 3 days to find them. Holy shyt! I'd say he was the root of the problem. Did he explain not reporting them?
No, she went missing on a Monday. The husband reported it on Tuesday.
He was under the mistaken impression that you had to wait 24 hours to report someone missing to the police.

AH! My bad. I still don't buy it though...

lilyofcourse · My spirit animal is a pink flamingo.

I have no words.

Just anger towards that excuse of a mother.

Lexxy · My dog name is Sasha, too!

Fort Worth Mom wrote:
Lexxy wrote:
Ohfour wrote:
He didn't even report her missing for 3 days. I think HE was the root of the problem...
He didn't report her & his children missing for 3 days??? I totally missed that part. I thought they were looking for them & it took 3 days to find them. Holy shyt! I'd say he was the root of the problem. Did he explain not reporting them?
No, she went missing on a Monday. The husband reported it on Tuesday.
He was under the mistaken impression that you had to wait 24 hours to report someone missing to the police.

OK, thanks. I get why he thought 24 hours. That is what they say on every police show on TV.

Ohfour · Hooker

Lexxy wrote:
Fort Worth Mom wrote:
Lexxy wrote:
Ohfour wrote:
He didn't even report her missing for 3 days. I think HE was the root of the problem...
He didn't report her & his children missing for 3 days??? I totally missed that part. I thought they were looking for them & it took 3 days to find them. Holy shyt! I'd say he was the root of the problem. Did he explain not reporting them?
No, she went missing on a Monday. The husband reported it on Tuesday.
He was under the mistaken impression that you had to wait 24 hours to report someone missing to the police.
OK, thanks. I get why he thought 24 hours. That is what they say on every police show on TV.

But it wasn't just her. It was the kids too. If my kids didn't come home, I would have everybody and their brother out looking for them...

Lexxy · My dog name is Sasha, too!

Ohfour wrote:
Lexxy wrote:
Fort Worth Mom wrote:
Lexxy wrote:
Ohfour wrote:
He didn't even report her missing for 3 days. I think HE was the root of the problem...
He didn't report her & his children missing for 3 days??? I totally missed that part. I thought they were looking for them & it took 3 days to find them. Holy shyt! I'd say he was the root of the problem. Did he explain not reporting them?
No, she went missing on a Monday. The husband reported it on Tuesday.
He was under the mistaken impression that you had to wait 24 hours to report someone missing to the police.
OK, thanks. I get why he thought 24 hours. That is what they say on every police show on TV.
But it wasn't just her. It was the kids too. If my kids didn't come home, I would have everybody and their brother out looking for them...

I hear you. Most parents would I think.

lilyofcourse · My spirit animal is a pink flamingo.

Yeah, that's what I don't get.

People generally stay to known areas.

The fact that this was a busy parking lot, it should have been seen by someone.

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

I do not understand why they were not found sooner. It's not like the vehicle was hidden.

lilyofcourse · My spirit animal is a pink flamingo.

Me, too.

Fort Worth Mom · Mod/Penguin lover/Princess!

She parked near the back of the store, and put the sun shade in the windshield.

It could be, that not many people parked back there.

lilyofcourse · My spirit animal is a pink flamingo.

Either way, she tried to kill her kids in a most heinous way.

She tortured those babies.

I have zero sympathy for her.

I hope this becomes a blocked memory for those babies.

And I hope they have a way better life now.

Fort Worth Mom · Mod/Penguin lover/Princess!

lilyofcourse wrote:
Either way, she tried to kill her kids in a most heinous way.

She tortured those babies.

I have zero sympathy for her.

I hope this becomes a blocked memory for those babies.

And I hope they have a way better life now.

I don't think she meant any harm to her children, Lily.

It sounds like she had a mental break down, and killed herself.

From another article in the local news:

The investigation, completed by the Frisco Police Department’s Criminal Investigations Division (CID), determined that there was no deliberate plan by Woo to harm her three children.

chef · Guru

Fort Worth Mom wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
Either way, she tried to kill her kids in a most heinous way.

She tortured those babies.

I have zero sympathy for her.

I hope this becomes a blocked memory for those babies.

And I hope they have a way better life now.
I don't think she meant any harm to her children, Lily.
It sounds like she had a mental break down, and killed herself.
From another article in the local news:
The investigation, completed by the Frisco Police Department’s Criminal Investigations Division (CID), determined that there was no deliberate plan by Woo to harm her three children.

I disagree. Certainly she wasn't stupid enough to think that her kids would be unharmed by her actions. She deliberately killed herself knowing her kids were there. This: "She parked near the back of the store, and put the sun shade in the windshield." proves she deliberately parked and acted such that she would not be discovered anytime soon. The fact that she had her kids with her then killed herself demonstrates that she did deliberately plan to harm them. If she didn't, she would've made arrangements for her kids first.

Ohfour · Hooker

chef wrote:
Fort Worth Mom wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
Either way, she tried to kill her kids in a most heinous way.

She tortured those babies.

I have zero sympathy for her.

I hope this becomes a blocked memory for those babies.

And I hope they have a way better life now.
I don't think she meant any harm to her children, Lily.
It sounds like she had a mental break down, and killed herself.
From another article in the local news:
The investigation, completed by the Frisco Police Department’s Criminal Investigations Division (CID), determined that there was no deliberate plan by Woo to harm her three children.

I disagree. Certainly she wasn't stupid enough to think that her kids would be unharmed by her actions. She deliberately killed herself knowing her kids were there. This: "She parked near the back of the store, and put the sun shade in the windshield." proves she deliberately parked and acted such that she would not be discovered anytime soon. The fact that she had her kids with her then killed herself demonstrates that she did deliberately plan to harm them. If she didn't, she would've made arrangements for her kids first.

I agree 100%.

lilyofcourse · My spirit animal is a pink flamingo.

Ohfour wrote:
chef wrote:
Fort Worth Mom wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
Either way, she tried to kill her kids in a most heinous way.

She tortured those babies.

I have zero sympathy for her.

I hope this becomes a blocked memory for those babies.

And I hope they have a way better life now.
I don't think she meant any harm to her children, Lily.
It sounds like she had a mental break down, and killed herself.
From another article in the local news:
The investigation, completed by the Frisco Police Department’s Criminal Investigations Division (CID), determined that there was no deliberate plan by Woo to harm her three children.

I disagree. Certainly she wasn't stupid enough to think that her kids would be unharmed by her actions. She deliberately killed herself knowing her kids were there. This: "She parked near the back of the store, and put the sun shade in the windshield." proves she deliberately parked and acted such that she would not be discovered anytime soon. The fact that she had her kids with her then killed herself demonstrates that she did deliberately plan to harm them. If she didn't, she would've made arrangements for her kids first.
I agree 100%.

She planned to inflict as much pain as possible on someone, her husband most likely.

Sorry, I just can not imagine any real mother doing anything like this.

I think she planned it.

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

Fort Worth Mom wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
Either way, she tried to kill her kids in a most heinous way.

She tortured those babies.

I have zero sympathy for her.

I hope this becomes a blocked memory for those babies.

And I hope they have a way better life now.
I don't think she meant any harm to her children, Lily.
It sounds like she had a mental break down, and killed herself.
From another article in the local news:
The investigation, completed by the Frisco Police Department’s Criminal Investigations Division (CID), determined that there was no deliberate plan by Woo to harm her three children.

I love the "zero sympathy" for the mentally ill.

flan

Ohfour · Hooker

flan327 wrote:
Fort Worth Mom wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
Either way, she tried to kill her kids in a most heinous way.

She tortured those babies.

I have zero sympathy for her.

I hope this becomes a blocked memory for those babies.

And I hope they have a way better life now.
I don't think she meant any harm to her children, Lily.
It sounds like she had a mental break down, and killed herself.
From another article in the local news:
The investigation, completed by the Frisco Police Department’s Criminal Investigations Division (CID), determined that there was no deliberate plan by Woo to harm her three children.

I love the "zero sympathy" for the mentally ill.
flan

There you go. Defending murderers again. Have you no shame?

-- Edited by Ohfour on Friday 22nd of April 2016 05:29:18 PM

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

chef wrote:
Fort Worth Mom wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
Either way, she tried to kill her kids in a most heinous way.

She tortured those babies.

I have zero sympathy for her.

I hope this becomes a blocked memory for those babies.

And I hope they have a way better life now.
I don't think she meant any harm to her children, Lily.
It sounds like she had a mental break down, and killed herself.
From another article in the local news:
The investigation, completed by the Frisco Police Department’s Criminal Investigations Division (CID), determined that there was no deliberate plan by Woo to harm her three children.

I disagree. Certainly she wasn't stupid enough to think that her kids would be unharmed by her actions. She deliberately killed herself knowing her kids were there. This: "She parked near the back of the store, and put the sun shade in the windshield." proves she deliberately parked and acted such that she would not be discovered anytime soon. The fact that she had her kids with her then killed herself demonstrates that she did deliberately plan to harm them. If she didn't, she would've made arrangements for her kids first.

You are thinking logically. She wasn't.

flan

lilyofcourse · My spirit animal is a pink flamingo.

flan327 wrote:
Fort Worth Mom wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
Either way, she tried to kill her kids in a most heinous way.

She tortured those babies.

I have zero sympathy for her.

I hope this becomes a blocked memory for those babies.

And I hope they have a way better life now.
I don't think she meant any harm to her children, Lily.
It sounds like she had a mental break down, and killed herself.
From another article in the local news:
The investigation, completed by the Frisco Police Department’s Criminal Investigations Division (CID), determined that there was no deliberate plan by Woo to harm her three children.

I love the "zero sympathy" for the mentally ill.
flan

Oh give it a rest.

She tried to kill her own kids.

No. I have absolutely no sympathy for her.

The children, on the other hand, have all my sympathy and prayers.

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

lilyofcourse wrote:
flan327 wrote:
Fort Worth Mom wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
Either way, she tried to kill her kids in a most heinous way.

She tortured those babies.

I have zero sympathy for her.

I hope this becomes a blocked memory for those babies.

And I hope they have a way better life now.
I don't think she meant any harm to her children, Lily.
It sounds like she had a mental break down, and killed herself.
From another article in the local news:
The investigation, completed by the Frisco Police Department’s Criminal Investigations Division (CID), determined that there was no deliberate plan by Woo to harm her three children.

I love the "zero sympathy" for the mentally ill.
flan
Oh give it a rest.
She tried to kill her own kids.
No. I have absolutely no sympathy for her.
The children, on the other hand, have all my sympathy and prayers.

"Give it a rest."

Nope. Not your call.

flan

chef · Guru

flan327 wrote:
chef wrote:
Fort Worth Mom wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
Either way, she tried to kill her kids in a most heinous way.

She tortured those babies.

I have zero sympathy for her.

I hope this becomes a blocked memory for those babies.

And I hope they have a way better life now.
I don't think she meant any harm to her children, Lily.
It sounds like she had a mental break down, and killed herself.
From another article in the local news:
The investigation, completed by the Frisco Police Department’s Criminal Investigations Division (CID), determined that there was no deliberate plan by Woo to harm her three children.

I disagree. Certainly she wasn't stupid enough to think that her kids would be unharmed by her actions. She deliberately killed herself knowing her kids were there. This: "She parked near the back of the store, and put the sun shade in the windshield." proves she deliberately parked and acted such that she would not be discovered anytime soon. The fact that she had her kids with her then killed herself demonstrates that she did deliberately plan to harm them. If she didn't, she would've made arrangements for her kids first.
You are thinking logically. She wasn't.
flan

How do you know she wasn't?

Actions don't have to be logical to be deliberate. I don't buy for one red hot second that this way some spur of the moment thing. Putting up the shade indicates some level of thinking. Someone acting rashly would just park and get it over with. Not intentionally act such that they would avoid being noticed.

lilyofcourse · My spirit animal is a pink flamingo.

flan327 wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
flan327 wrote:
Fort Worth Mom wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
Either way, she tried to kill her kids in a most heinous way.

She tortured those babies.

I have zero sympathy for her.

I hope this becomes a blocked memory for those babies.

And I hope they have a way better life now.
I don't think she meant any harm to her children, Lily.
It sounds like she had a mental break down, and killed herself.
From another article in the local news:
The investigation, completed by the Frisco Police Department’s Criminal Investigations Division (CID), determined that there was no deliberate plan by Woo to harm her three children.

I love the "zero sympathy" for the mentally ill.
flan
Oh give it a rest.
She tried to kill her own kids.
No. I have absolutely no sympathy for her.
The children, on the other hand, have all my sympathy and prayers.
"Give it a rest."
Nope. Not your call.
flan

Not my call?

What isn't my call?

huskerbb · Guru

flan327 wrote:
huskerbb wrote:
She killed herself.

How is that NOT a supremely selfish act? Not only leaving the kids without a mother, but putting them in a position where harm or worse could have happened.

I have no problem with the act itself, but the way she did it was unconscionable.
flan

So it's all jolly good to leave three young children without a mother? Sick.

in that regard there is ZERO difference between her death and a mother of three killed by a murderer. She's the murderer in this case--and deserves that comparison.

-- Edited by huskerbb on Friday 22nd of April 2016 05:30:55 PM

Ohfour · Hooker

huskerbb wrote:
flan327 wrote:
huskerbb wrote:
She killed herself.

How is that NOT a supremely selfish act? Not only leaving the kids without a mother, but putting them in a position where harm or worse could have happened.

I have no problem with the act itself, but the way she did it was unconscionable.
flan
So it's all jolly good to leave three young children without a mother? Sick.

She's defending her, Husker. Exactly as you have said...

I know what to do_sometimes · Frozen Sucks!

Ohfour wrote:
Lexxy wrote:
Fort Worth Mom wrote:
Lexxy wrote:
Ohfour wrote:
He didn't even report her missing for 3 days. I think HE was the root of the problem...
He didn't report her & his children missing for 3 days??? I totally missed that part. I thought they were looking for them & it took 3 days to find them. Holy shyt! I'd say he was the root of the problem. Did he explain not reporting them?
No, she went missing on a Monday. The husband reported it on Tuesday.
He was under the mistaken impression that you had to wait 24 hours to report someone missing to the police.
OK, thanks. I get why he thought 24 hours. That is what they say on every police show on TV.
But it wasn't just her. It was the kids too. If my kids didn't come home, I would have everybody and their brother out looking for them...

I would have a search going within 2 hours. She is a bitch, she died while her kids watched and knowing they could have died too.

huskerbb · Guru

flan327 wrote:
msrock wrote:
flan327 wrote:
msrock wrote:
flan327 wrote:
huskerbb wrote:
She killed herself.

How is that NOT a supremely selfish act? Not only leaving the kids without a mother, but putting them in a position where harm or worse could have happened.

I have no problem with the act itself, but the way she did it was unconscionable.
flan
Really? Now that is bizarre! I have a really, really big problem with it. Especially when you have children.
Sometimes even that isn't enough of a reason to live.
flan
OMG Really?
She's not the first parent to commit suicide. I've never been suicidal, so I can't tell you the pain she was in. Maybe she thought her kids would be better off without her. I don't know.
flan

Who cares what she thought???? her actions could easily have killed them.

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

How anybody can think she meant no harm to her kids when she parked out of the way, covered the windshield, locked them in a vehicle with her, and then killed herself, leaving the kids to die, too, is beyond me.

I know people prefer to think the best and that a mother wouldn't really do that, but she DID. She knew what she was doing. It was EVIL.

There is no indication ANYWHERE that she ever sought out help for depression, and she was perfectly fine just a few months previously.

She did NOTHING to help herself or those kids, so, NO - she doesn't get sympathy.

This is the absolute example of a selfish suicide.