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Southern_Belle · Nothing's Impossible

RE: Instant turn offs

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

Southern_Belle wrote:
Divine Geek wrote:
Southern_Belle wrote:
Patriots fan! UGH!
That used to be one.....
unemployed
smokes
Yep. Dated guys that were between jobs. Sorry, don't even have gas money? Get a job before you try dating someone!

I agree. If you are an adult and unemployed - you shouldn't be starting to date a new person, all your energy should be going into finding a job.

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

FNW wrote:
Right, add that. Atheists. I'm not sure how Christians and atheists can remain married. My cousin does it. More power to her. It's just a turn off to me.

Ummm, they respect each other.

flan

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

Lexxy wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
I'll get flamed, but I won't date someone of another race.

Now understand why.

I tried. But I just don't want the drama that comes with it.

I am NOT knocking anyone who does.

It just isn't for me.

I don't think I could either Lily. I never have.

It's not something you plan. You fall in love with the person.

flan

weltschmerz · Guru

Lexxy wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
I'll get flamed, but I won't date someone of another race.

Now understand why.

I tried. But I just don't want the drama that comes with it.

I am NOT knocking anyone who does.

It just isn't for me.

I don't think I could either Lily. I never have.

I have. There was no drama.

huskerbb · Guru

Pursuing a relationship is always a CHOICE.

Sin City Girl · Member

I couldn't handle dating a foodie or someone who hates sports. You don't have to love them like me, but if you can't spend all day Sunday watching football or hang with me a little for four days in March we might not be a good fit.

Also a person who has an STD. Herpes, AIDS etc. I don't care how safe we are. I am not doing that.

Sin City Girl · Member

weltschmerz wrote:
Lexxy wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
I'll get flamed, but I won't date someone of another race.

Now understand why.

I tried. But I just don't want the drama that comes with it.

I am NOT knocking anyone who does.

It just isn't for me.

I don't think I could either Lily. I never have.
I have. There was no drama.

I have too, but it was way earlier. There is one group that I always stayed away from, but I am not comfortable sharing which. My SIL is the same ethnicity and I drunkingly told her one time and she agreed with me on my reasoning. Other than that group I wouldn't exclude any race.

I know what to do_sometimes · Frozen Sucks!

medium to heavy Facial hair

I know what to do_sometimes · Frozen Sucks!

Southern_Belle wrote:
Patriots fan! UGH!

evileye

Southern_Belle · Nothing's Impossible

I know what to do_sometimes wrote:
medium to heavy Facial hair

I love facial hair! A well trimmed full beard, yum!

I know what to do_sometimes · Frozen Sucks!

Southern_Belle wrote:
I know what to do_sometimes wrote:
medium to heavy Facial hair
I love facial hair! A well trimmed full beard, yum!

Unkept?

Southern_Belle · Nothing's Impossible

I know what to do_sometimes wrote:
Southern_Belle wrote:
I know what to do_sometimes wrote:
medium to heavy Facial hair
I love facial hair! A well trimmed full beard, yum!
Unkept?

Depends. Lol.

weltschmerz · Guru

A beard but no mustache.
Ick, ick, ick!

Southern_Belle · Nothing's Impossible

weltschmerz wrote:
A beard but no mustache.
Ick, ick, ick!

Ex dh sports a porn star mustache since he retired from the corps. It's hideous!

Tinydancer · Guru

A beard but no mustache? Well then the Amish must really turn you on...lol

Southern_Belle · Nothing's Impossible

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LOL!

-- Edited by Southern_Belle on Monday 11th of April 2016 06:38:20 PM

Southern_Belle · Nothing's Impossible

FNW · Guru

lilyofcourse wrote:
I'll get flamed, but I won't date someone of another race.

Now understand why.

I tried. But I just don't want the drama that comes with it.

I am NOT knocking anyone who does.

It just isn't for me.

I couldn't either. I have male friends of various races & colors. I love them dearly. But as a brother.

Tinydancer · Guru

At least a mustache would have disguised all that nose hair...lol

weltschmerz · Guru

Tinydancer wrote:
A beard but no mustache? Well then the Amish must really turn you on...lol

Evidently, you don't know what "ick" means.

Tinydancer · Guru

A well trimmed full beard includes a mustache. The way you said it sounded like you liked a beard with no mustache. That's what the Amish look like. Enjoy your weird beard obsession...lol

lilyofcourse · My spirit animal is a pink flamingo.

Body hair.

I don't mind a little patch on the chest, but if you look like a bear, forget it.

Acne. I don't mean a pimple now and then, I'm talking constant acne all the time.

Visible tattoos. Don't mind one on an upper arm but I don't want to date a comic book. And it can't be vulgar.

More than a single piercing in one ear. And no gages at all.

Bad manners.

Renegade Time Lord · Member

Drama Llamas, needy, “it’s all about me, me, me” types

Rabid arguers. Everything is an argument. They have to always be right

Conservatives and ultra-conservatives

Welfare Wombats, unemployed with children,

Crazy, bitter religious types, bible quoters, hypocrites who go to church every Sunday but treat other people like dirt by their behaviors, actions and words

Pro-lifers

Is mean, rude or nasty to those in the service industries

Smoking

Drinking

Cursing as a part of general conversation, excessive cursing in general

Does drugs

Overweight, fat, in bad health

Ill-dressed. Make some effort to look put together, people!

Poor hygiene, body odor

Bad teeth

Unmotivated and lazy

Mental Illness/not stable psychologically, is all over the map

Hates, dislikes, or will not tolerate any other lifestyles except straight

Chewing with mouth open or talking with food in mouth, loud breathers at rest, loud talkers

weltschmerz · Guru

Tinydancer wrote:
A well trimmed full beard includes a mustache. The way you said it sounded like you liked a beard with no mustache. That's what the Amish look like. Enjoy your weird beard obsession...lol

What part of "ick" seems to be eluding you??

Tinydancer · Guru

None but I thought ick was an endearment for you. You don't usually celebrate things that don't have it.

weltschmerz · Guru

Tinydancer wrote:
None but I thought ick was an endearment for you. You don't usually celebrate things that don't have it.

What? Please translate this into English.

Tinydancer · Guru

You know? Normal things. The weirder or ickier (is that a word?) the louder you shout about how right they are.

just Czech · Give Me Grand's!

The "smarmie look". Not sure how to describe that look. For me, that look can apply to both rich and poor. An "I don't give a damn what you think" kind of look, swagger, with a touch of creepiness.

weltschmerz · Guru

Tinydancer wrote:
You know? Normal things. The weirder or ickier (is that a word?) the louder you shout about how right they are.

If you say so.

I don't shout, however.

lilyofcourse · My spirit animal is a pink flamingo.

Oh. And they HAVE to tolerate my Supernatural obsession.

Tinydancer · Guru

Ok. Vocal. Is that better?

weltschmerz · Guru

Tinydancer wrote:
Ok. Vocal. Is that better?

You're an annoying little mosquito, aren't you?

I said I don't like beards without a mustache,

I have a right to voice my opinion without you b!tch, b!tch, b!tching at me.

-- Edited by weltschmerz on Monday 11th of April 2016 07:20:36 PM

Tinydancer · Guru

You don't have to answer now do you.

weltschmerz · Guru

Tinydancer wrote:
You don't have to answer now do you.

Piss off.

Tinydancer · Guru

weltschmerz wrote:
Tinydancer wrote:
Ok. Vocal. Is that better?
You're an annoying little mosquito, aren't you?
I said I don't like beards without a mustache,
I have a right to voice my opinion without you b!tch, b!tch, b!tching at me.

-- Edited by weltschmerz on Monday 11th of April 2016 07:20:36 PM

Should I run to the mods and tell them you called me a name...LOLOLOLOLOL

weltschmerz · Guru

Tinydancer wrote:
weltschmerz wrote:
Tinydancer wrote:
Ok. Vocal. Is that better?
You're an annoying little mosquito, aren't you?
I said I don't like beards without a mustache,
I have a right to voice my opinion without you b!tch, b!tch, b!tching at me.

-- Edited by weltschmerz on Monday 11th of April 2016 07:20:36 PM
Should I run to the mods and tell them you called me a name...LOLOLOLOLOL

Go ahead.

This was an interesting thread until you chimed in. And chimed in. And chimed in.

Tinydancer · Guru

Ahhhhh. Which you had no part in of course? Goodnight welts. You've been very entertaining.

weltschmerz · Guru

Neck tattoos.
Am I allowed, or will someone have a problem with it?

Ohfour · Hooker

just Czech wrote:
The "smarmie look". Not sure how to describe that look. For me, that look can apply to both rich and poor. An "I don't give a damn what you think" kind of look, swagger, with a touch of creepiness.

I call it the poor eyes. There's just some guys that have the look. ONWARD!!!

Ohfour · Hooker

weltschmerz wrote:
Neck tattoos.
Am I allowed, or will someone have a problem with it?

Well, stop the presses!!!!!! I agree with you Welts. ..

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

Ohfour wrote:
weltschmerz wrote:
Neck tattoos.
Am I allowed, or will someone have a problem with it?
Well, stop the presses!!!!!! I agree with you Welts. ..

Me, too.

Southern_Belle · Nothing's Impossible

I'm not big on piercings, tats are fine as long as it isn't extreme.

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

weltschmerz wrote:
A beard but no mustache.
Ick, ick, ick!

I agree with this, too.

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

Tinydancer wrote:
A well trimmed full beard includes a mustache. The way you said it sounded like you liked a beard with no mustache. That's what the Amish look like. Enjoy your weird beard obsession...lol

Not really. I knew what she meant.

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

Tinydancer - this fight's 100% on you. The other thread - her. This one - you.

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

Now, there are instant turn offs and then turn offs that occur after getting to know someone a bit.

I can't stand grown men who can't cook a real meal and still eat spaghettios, McDonald's and ramen noodles for dinner. It's like they never grew up and are looking for a new mommy.

People who whine constantly about their lives but never do anything to change it.

People who talk a big game but have no follow through.

People who constantly talk "poor me".

Hypocrites, cheaters, liars.

Southern_Belle · Nothing's Impossible

Lawyerlady wrote:
Now, there are instant turn offs and then turn offs that occur after getting to know someone a bit.

I can't stand grown men who can't cook a real meal and still eat spaghettios, McDonald's and ramen noodles for dinner. It's like they never grew up and are looking for a new mommy.

People who whine constantly about their lives but never do anything to change it.

People who talk a big game but have no follow through.

People who constantly talk "poor me".

Hypocrites, cheaters, liars.

So you've met my ex-husband?

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

Southern_Belle wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
Now, there are instant turn offs and then turn offs that occur after getting to know someone a bit.

I can't stand grown men who can't cook a real meal and still eat spaghettios, McDonald's and ramen noodles for dinner. It's like they never grew up and are looking for a new mommy.

People who whine constantly about their lives but never do anything to change it.

People who talk a big game but have no follow through.

People who constantly talk "poor me".

Hypocrites, cheaters, liars.

So you've met my ex-husband?

Quite possibly.

Empyreal · Senior Member

Biggest turn off for me in a guy is primping.

I don't like guys who get their hair colored and spend lots of time in the mirror. Decorated jeans and t-shirts. Jewelry. Yucky.

I like manly men. The kind who shower and then grab whatever is clean and throw it on. Other than that, I'm not hard to please. It's all about personality. Funny friendly guys who smell good. I'll dig ya!