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flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

RE: Dear Abby: Bridesmaid has Hairy Armpits

TrudyML · Guru

flan327 wrote:
huskerbb wrote:
Tangerine wrote:
huskerbb wrote:
Bonny22Pye wrote:
Its just her natural hair. I don't see the big deal. I find that women are held to ridiculous beauty standards to be absurd. Also, if the bride wants a certain look in her bridal party why did she ask this girl to be in it?
This isn't "ridiculous".

An otherwise attractive woman who doesn't shave can be ugly. A hideous troll who does can at least be looked at without wanting to lose your lunch.
It is ridiculous. How does not removing hair make someone ugly?

Haven't you ever seen unshavd pits? It's ugly.
In SOME cultures. Why are UNSHAVED pits on a MALE acceptable?
flan

Manscape! C'mon! Every man I know does it.

huskerbb · Guru

flan327 wrote:
huskerbb wrote:
Tangerine wrote:
huskerbb wrote:
Bonny22Pye wrote:
Its just her natural hair. I don't see the big deal. I find that women are held to ridiculous beauty standards to be absurd. Also, if the bride wants a certain look in her bridal party why did she ask this girl to be in it?
This isn't "ridiculous".

An otherwise attractive woman who doesn't shave can be ugly. A hideous troll who does can at least be looked at without wanting to lose your lunch.
It is ridiculous. How does not removing hair make someone ugly?

Haven't you ever seen unshavd pits? It's ugly.
In SOME cultures. Why are UNSHAVED pits on a MALE acceptable?
flan

They AREN'T acceptable to show at a wedding. If this was a groomsman who wanted to wear a wife-beater would that be ok?

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

huskerbb wrote:
flan327 wrote:
huskerbb wrote:
Tangerine wrote:
huskerbb wrote:
Bonny22Pye wrote:
Its just her natural hair. I don't see the big deal. I find that women are held to ridiculous beauty standards to be absurd. Also, if the bride wants a certain look in her bridal party why did she ask this girl to be in it?
This isn't "ridiculous".

An otherwise attractive woman who doesn't shave can be ugly. A hideous troll who does can at least be looked at without wanting to lose your lunch.
It is ridiculous. How does not removing hair make someone ugly?

Haven't you ever seen unshavd pits? It's ugly.
In SOME cultures. Why are UNSHAVED pits on a MALE acceptable?
flan
They AREN'T acceptable to show at a wedding. If this was a groomsman who wanted to wear a wife-beater would that be ok?

That's NOT the issue here, and you know it.

flan

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

TrudyML wrote:
flan327 wrote:
huskerbb wrote:
Tangerine wrote:
huskerbb wrote:
Bonny22Pye wrote:
Its just her natural hair. I don't see the big deal. I find that women are held to ridiculous beauty standards to be absurd. Also, if the bride wants a certain look in her bridal party why did she ask this girl to be in it?
This isn't "ridiculous".

An otherwise attractive woman who doesn't shave can be ugly. A hideous troll who does can at least be looked at without wanting to lose your lunch.
It is ridiculous. How does not removing hair make someone ugly?

Haven't you ever seen unshavd pits? It's ugly.
In SOME cultures. Why are UNSHAVED pits on a MALE acceptable?
flan
Manscape! C'mon! Every man I know does it.

Their PITS or farther south?

flan

huskerbb · Guru

flan327 wrote:
huskerbb wrote:
flan327 wrote:
huskerbb wrote:
Tangerine wrote:
huskerbb wrote:
Bonny22Pye wrote:
Its just her natural hair. I don't see the big deal. I find that women are held to ridiculous beauty standards to be absurd. Also, if the bride wants a certain look in her bridal party why did she ask this girl to be in it?
This isn't "ridiculous".

An otherwise attractive woman who doesn't shave can be ugly. A hideous troll who does can at least be looked at without wanting to lose your lunch.
It is ridiculous. How does not removing hair make someone ugly?

Haven't you ever seen unshavd pits? It's ugly.
In SOME cultures. Why are UNSHAVED pits on a MALE acceptable?
flan
They AREN'T acceptable to show at a wedding. If this was a groomsman who wanted to wear a wife-beater would that be ok?
That's NOT the issue here, and you know it.
flan

BullCrap. It's absolutely the issue.

You seem to think if the situation were reversed it would be acceptable. It's not acceptable for either gender to show hairy armpits at a formal occasion, or even a semi-formal one, or even many casual ones.

TrudyML · Guru

Pits, chest, back, shoulders....I don't know any man with gross arm pits. They trim it back.

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

TrudyML wrote:
Pits, chest, back, shoulders....I don't know any man with gross arm pits. They trim it back.

Well, neither of my sons or my DH does.

flan

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

huskerbb wrote:
flan327 wrote:
huskerbb wrote:
flan327 wrote:
huskerbb wrote:
Tangerine wrote:
huskerbb wrote:
Bonny22Pye wrote:
Its just her natural hair. I don't see the big deal. I find that women are held to ridiculous beauty standards to be absurd. Also, if the bride wants a certain look in her bridal party why did she ask this girl to be in it?
This isn't "ridiculous".

An otherwise attractive woman who doesn't shave can be ugly. A hideous troll who does can at least be looked at without wanting to lose your lunch.
It is ridiculous. How does not removing hair make someone ugly?

Haven't you ever seen unshavd pits? It's ugly.
In SOME cultures. Why are UNSHAVED pits on a MALE acceptable?
flan
They AREN'T acceptable to show at a wedding. If this was a groomsman who wanted to wear a wife-beater would that be ok?
That's NOT the issue here, and you know it.
flan
BullCrap. It's absolutely the issue.
You seem to think if the situation were reversed it would be acceptable. It's not acceptable for either gender to show hairy armpits at a formal occasion, or even a semi-formal one, or even many casual ones.

No, I never said that, husker.

flan

huskerbb · Guru

TrudyML wrote:
Pits, chest, back, shoulders....I don't know any man with gross arm pits. They trim it back.

I don't know many that do that--but they don't show them off, either, unless they are at the beach or BBQing in their back yard.

huskerbb · Guru

flan327 wrote:
huskerbb wrote:
flan327 wrote:
huskerbb wrote:
flan327 wrote:
huskerbb wrote:
Tangerine wrote:
huskerbb wrote:
Bonny22Pye wrote:
Its just her natural hair. I don't see the big deal. I find that women are held to ridiculous beauty standards to be absurd. Also, if the bride wants a certain look in her bridal party why did she ask this girl to be in it?
This isn't "ridiculous".

An otherwise attractive woman who doesn't shave can be ugly. A hideous troll who does can at least be looked at without wanting to lose your lunch.
It is ridiculous. How does not removing hair make someone ugly?

Haven't you ever seen unshavd pits? It's ugly.
In SOME cultures. Why are UNSHAVED pits on a MALE acceptable?
flan
They AREN'T acceptable to show at a wedding. If this was a groomsman who wanted to wear a wife-beater would that be ok?
That's NOT the issue here, and you know it.
flan
BullCrap. It's absolutely the issue.
You seem to think if the situation were reversed it would be acceptable. It's not acceptable for either gender to show hairy armpits at a formal occasion, or even a semi-formal one, or even many casual ones.
No, I never said that, husker.
flan

Then why would it be acceptable for one gender and not the other? That's BS.

TrudyML · Guru

huskerbb wrote:
TrudyML wrote:
Pits, chest, back, shoulders....I don't know any man with gross arm pits. They trim it back.
I don't know many that do that--but they don't show them off, either, unless they are at the beach or BBQing in their back yard.

A lot of my buddies work out, cycle, etc. It is the thing.

Did anyone ever watch Queer Eye for the Straight Guy? Manscaping. LOL

huskerbb · Guru

I usually wear a t-shirt to the pool or beach. No one needs to see this guy.

TrudyML · Guru

huskerbb wrote:
I usually wear a t-shirt to the pool or beach. No one needs to see this guy.

You covered devil! LOL! Manscape it! biggrin

lilyofcourse · My spirit animal is a pink flamingo.

flan327 wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
Why is it ALWAYS the one person's choices?

Why can't the choice of the BRIDE on this ONE DAY be the one respected?

-- Edited by lilyofcourse on Friday 29th of April 2016 02:51:12 PM
Who gets to decide what is "reasonable?"
flan

In this case, the one hosting the event.

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

huskerbb wrote:
flan327 wrote:
Spoiler
huskerbb wrote:
flan327 wrote:
huskerbb wrote:
flan327 wrote:
huskerbb wrote:
Tangerine wrote:
huskerbb wrote:
Bonny22Pye wrote:
Its just her natural hair. I don't see the big deal. I find that women are held to ridiculous beauty standards to be absurd. Also, if the bride wants a certain look in her bridal party why did she ask this girl to be in it?
This isn't "ridiculous".

An otherwise attractive woman who doesn't shave can be ugly. A hideous troll who does can at least be looked at without wanting to lose your lunch.
It is ridiculous. How does not removing hair make someone ugly?

Haven't you ever seen unshavd pits? It's ugly.
In SOME cultures. Why are UNSHAVED pits on a MALE acceptable?
flan
They AREN'T acceptable to show at a wedding. If this was a groomsman who wanted to wear a wife-beater would that be ok?
That's NOT the issue here, and you know it.
flan
BullCrap. It's absolutely the issue.
You seem to think if the situation were reversed it would be acceptable. It's not acceptable for either gender to show hairy armpits at a formal occasion, or even a semi-formal one, or even many casual ones.
No, I never said that, husker.
flan
Then why would it be acceptable for one gender and not the other? That's BS.

Acceptable to NOT SHAVE their arm pits. I did not say it was fine for men to show them at a wedding.

flan

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

lilyofcourse wrote:
flan327 wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
Why is it ALWAYS the one person's choices?

Why can't the choice of the BRIDE on this ONE DAY be the one respected?

-- Edited by lilyofcourse on Friday 29th of April 2016 02:51:12 PM
Who gets to decide what is "reasonable?"
flan
In this case, the one hosting the event.

Nope, we've all heard stories of Bridezillas. You want your BFF to lose 50 pounds before you get married? Good luck with that.

flan

huskerbb · Guru

flan327 wrote:
huskerbb wrote:
flan327 wrote:
Spoiler
huskerbb wrote:
flan327 wrote:
huskerbb wrote:
flan327 wrote:
huskerbb wrote:
Tangerine wrote:
huskerbb wrote:
Bonny22Pye wrote:
Its just her natural hair. I don't see the big deal. I find that women are held to ridiculous beauty standards to be absurd. Also, if the bride wants a certain look in her bridal party why did she ask this girl to be in it?
This isn't "ridiculous".

An otherwise attractive woman who doesn't shave can be ugly. A hideous troll who does can at least be looked at without wanting to lose your lunch.
It is ridiculous. How does not removing hair make someone ugly?

Haven't you ever seen unshavd pits? It's ugly.
In SOME cultures. Why are UNSHAVED pits on a MALE acceptable?
flan
They AREN'T acceptable to show at a wedding. If this was a groomsman who wanted to wear a wife-beater would that be ok?
That's NOT the issue here, and you know it.
flan
BullCrap. It's absolutely the issue.
You seem to think if the situation were reversed it would be acceptable. It's not acceptable for either gender to show hairy armpits at a formal occasion, or even a semi-formal one, or even many casual ones.
No, I never said that, husker.
flan
Then why would it be acceptable for one gender and not the other? That's BS.
Acceptable to NOT SHAVE their arm pits. I did not say it was fine for men to show them at a wedding.
flan

Then why is it acceptable for this woman to show her unshaven pits?

huskerbb · Guru

flan327 wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
flan327 wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
Why is it ALWAYS the one person's choices?

Why can't the choice of the BRIDE on this ONE DAY be the one respected?

-- Edited by lilyofcourse on Friday 29th of April 2016 02:51:12 PM
Who gets to decide what is "reasonable?"
flan
In this case, the one hosting the event.
Nope, we've all heard stories of Bridezillas. You want your BFF to lose 50 pounds before you get married? Good luck with that.
flan

But this would require almost ZERO effort.

chef · Guru

For a wedding, if I were a bridesmaid, I'd do what the bride wanted within reason. I would not get a tattoo, piercing, or anything else permanent. I would refrain from cutting my hair, if requested. I inherited my mother's hairless gene and my body hair is sparse enough that I rarely have to shave but I would shave, if requested.

I don't understand the reluctance to do as the bride asks. If she's being a jerk about it, sure, I can understand telling her to stuff it. But a polite request for the wedding day should be honored if the request is reasonable.

weltschmerz · Guru

huskerbb wrote:
I usually wear a t-shirt to the pool or beach. No one needs to see this guy.

Lol! Why?

lilyofcourse · My spirit animal is a pink flamingo.

flan327 wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
flan327 wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
Why is it ALWAYS the one person's choices?

Why can't the choice of the BRIDE on this ONE DAY be the one respected?

-- Edited by lilyofcourse on Friday 29th of April 2016 02:51:12 PM
Who gets to decide what is "reasonable?"
flan
In this case, the one hosting the event.
Nope, we've all heard stories of Bridezillas. You want your BFF to lose 50 pounds before you get married? Good luck with that.
flan

This isn't that.

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

lilyofcourse wrote:
flan327 wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
flan327 wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
Why is it ALWAYS the one person's choices?

Why can't the choice of the BRIDE on this ONE DAY be the one respected?

-- Edited by lilyofcourse on Friday 29th of April 2016 02:51:12 PM
Who gets to decide what is "reasonable?"
flan
In this case, the one hosting the event.
Nope, we've all heard stories of Bridezillas. You want your BFF to lose 50 pounds before you get married? Good luck with that.
flan
This isn't that.

You stated that the host gets to decide what is "reasonable." There were no parameters attached to your statement.

flan

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

huskerbb wrote:
flan327 wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
flan327 wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
Why is it ALWAYS the one person's choices?

Why can't the choice of the BRIDE on this ONE DAY be the one respected?

-- Edited by lilyofcourse on Friday 29th of April 2016 02:51:12 PM
Who gets to decide what is "reasonable?"
flan
In this case, the one hosting the event.
Nope, we've all heard stories of Bridezillas. You want your BFF to lose 50 pounds before you get married? Good luck with that.
flan
But this would require almost ZERO effort.

Are you TRYING to make every woman here HATE you?

flan

huskerbb · Guru

flan327 wrote:
huskerbb wrote:
flan327 wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
flan327 wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
Why is it ALWAYS the one person's choices?

Why can't the choice of the BRIDE on this ONE DAY be the one respected?

-- Edited by lilyofcourse on Friday 29th of April 2016 02:51:12 PM
Who gets to decide what is "reasonable?"
flan
In this case, the one hosting the event.
Nope, we've all heard stories of Bridezillas. You want your BFF to lose 50 pounds before you get married? Good luck with that.
flan
But this would require almost ZERO effort.
Are you TRYING to make every woman here HATE you?
flan

WTF are you babbling about? Quite a few agree with me on this issue.

lilyofcourse · My spirit animal is a pink flamingo.

flan327 wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
flan327 wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
flan327 wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
Why is it ALWAYS the one person's choices?

Why can't the choice of the BRIDE on this ONE DAY be the one respected?

-- Edited by lilyofcourse on Friday 29th of April 2016 02:51:12 PM
Who gets to decide what is "reasonable?"
flan
In this case, the one hosting the event.
Nope, we've all heard stories of Bridezillas. You want your BFF to lose 50 pounds before you get married? Good luck with that.
flan
This isn't that.

You stated that the host gets to decide what is "reasonable." There were no parameters attached to your statement.
flan

Question stands.

lilyofcourse · My spirit animal is a pink flamingo.

flan327 wrote:
huskerbb wrote:
flan327 wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
flan327 wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
Why is it ALWAYS the one person's choices?

Why can't the choice of the BRIDE on this ONE DAY be the one respected?

-- Edited by lilyofcourse on Friday 29th of April 2016 02:51:12 PM
Who gets to decide what is "reasonable?"
flan
In this case, the one hosting the event.
Nope, we've all heard stories of Bridezillas. You want your BFF to lose 50 pounds before you get married? Good luck with that.
flan
But this would require almost ZERO effort.
Are you TRYING to make every woman here HATE you?
flan

Why on earth would anyone hate Husker for his opinion on this?

Shave the pits.

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

lilyofcourse wrote:
flan327 wrote:
huskerbb wrote:
flan327 wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
flan327 wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
Why is it ALWAYS the one person's choices?

Why can't the choice of the BRIDE on this ONE DAY be the one respected?

-- Edited by lilyofcourse on Friday 29th of April 2016 02:51:12 PM
Who gets to decide what is "reasonable?"
flan
In this case, the one hosting the event.
Nope, we've all heard stories of Bridezillas. You want your BFF to lose 50 pounds before you get married? Good luck with that.
flan
But this would require almost ZERO effort.
Are you TRYING to make every woman here HATE you?
flan
Why on earth would anyone hate Husker for his opinion on this?
Shave the pits.

Gawd, it's been a LONG day...I thought he meant losing 50 pounds would require ZERO effort...because it was a response to my comment about weight.

flan

-- Edited by flan327 on Friday 29th of April 2016 05:43:13 PM

Whenitrains · Member

Since I don't think the sister will shave her pits or if the bride wants to the bridesmaids to wear a jacket as a compromise, I think the bride has the right to ask her not to be in the wedding party.

FNW · Guru

I've noticed that back here, men wear shirts at the pool...those rash guards. Weird. Growing up in So Cal, men went shirtless. No manscaping either. I remember when I was in my 20's I dated someone a little notorious...the son if a public figure. He was a triathlete. Shaved his legs. I thought it was very odd. Then in my 30's I dated a competitive body builder. Shaved his chest. WTF? A little feminine for my tastes.

Lindley · Guru

I dated a guy in high school who was on the swim team. They shaved their legs because they believed they moved faster. Armpit hair grows fast so she can go back to hairy armpits after the wedding.

lilyofcourse · My spirit animal is a pink flamingo.

FNW wrote:
I've noticed that back here, men wear shirts at the pool...those rash guards. Weird. Growing up in So Cal, men went shirtless. No manscaping either. I remember when I was in my 20's I dated someone a little notorious...the son if a public figure. He was a triathlete. Shaved his legs. I thought it was very odd. Then in my 30's I dated a competitive body builder. Shaved his chest. WTF? A little feminine for my tastes.

I dated a wrestler, he shaved everything below the eyebrows during season.

The weightlifters I trained with, did too.

lilyofcourse · My spirit animal is a pink flamingo.

We wear shirts when swimming a lot of the time.

We burn.

Jesse got the hair gene. Bless his heart.

Lady Gaga Snerd · Guru

weltschmerz wrote:
huskerbb wrote:
I usually wear a t-shirt to the pool or beach. No one needs to see this guy.

Lol! Why?

Because American men don't have the need to prance about in speedos with all their junk hanging out, that's why.

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:
weltschmerz wrote:
huskerbb wrote:
I usually wear a t-shirt to the pool or beach. No one needs to see this guy.

Lol! Why?
Because American men don't have the need to prance about in speedos with all their junk hanging out, that's why.

Except if they're posing for a magazine, then apparently it's fine & dandy.

flan

Lady Gaga Snerd · Guru

flan327 wrote:
Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:
weltschmerz wrote:
huskerbb wrote:
I usually wear a t-shirt to the pool or beach. No one needs to see this guy.

Lol! Why?
Because American men don't have the need to prance about in speedos with all their junk hanging out, that's why.
Except if they're posing for a magazine, then apparently it's fine & dandy.
flan

Huh?

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:
flan327 wrote:
Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:
weltschmerz wrote:
huskerbb wrote:
I usually wear a t-shirt to the pool or beach. No one needs to see this guy.

Lol! Why?
Because American men don't have the need to prance about in speedos with all their junk hanging out, that's why.
Except if they're posing for a magazine, then apparently it's fine & dandy.
flan
Huh?

The "eye candy" thread.

flan

Lady Gaga Snerd · Guru

Perfect specimens of masculinity can wear them. The rest of the planet, not so much, lol.

lilyofcourse · My spirit animal is a pink flamingo.

flan327 wrote:
Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:
flan327 wrote:
Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:
weltschmerz wrote:
huskerbb wrote:
I usually wear a t-shirt to the pool or beach. No one needs to see this guy.

Lol! Why?
Because American men don't have the need to prance about in speedos with all their junk hanging out, that's why.
Except if they're posing for a magazine, then apparently it's fine & dandy.
flan
Huh?
The "eye candy" thread.
flan

Flan is trying to get on a moral high horse over a catalog picture.

NAOW · Vette's SS

We had a situation similar to this. Dh was asked to be in a wedding, then a week before said wedding the bride hinted that she would like him to shave his mustache. He had the mustache when asked to be in the wedding with no mention of wanting him to be clean shaven.

I actually posted about it on MM and the consensus was no, he should not have to shave.

weltschmerz · Guru

Lady Gaga Snerd wrote:
Perfect specimens of masculinity can wear them. The rest of the planet, not so much, lol.

Perfect specimens of femininity should wear a bathing suit at the beach or pool. All others should wear a muu muu.

Lady Gaga Snerd · Guru

I agree.

lilyofcourse · My spirit animal is a pink flamingo.

Discrimination!

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

I really don't get the problem with telling the girl to shave her pits. If I was the bride, I'd have told her when I asked her to be in the wedding - if you say yes, you are going to have to shave, and if I was the girl's mom, I'd be telling her to shave her pits because that **** is NASTY and no one wants to see it.

However, everyone is assuming this girl won't come to her senses on her own.

Lady Gaga Snerd · Guru

If she had any sense, she would'nt be growing it out in first place!

Tangerine · Guru

huskerbb wrote:
Tangerine wrote:
huskerbb wrote:
Bonny22Pye wrote:
Its just her natural hair. I don't see the big deal. I find that women are held to ridiculous beauty standards to be absurd. Also, if the bride wants a certain look in her bridal party why did she ask this girl to be in it?
This isn't "ridiculous".

An otherwise attractive woman who doesn't shave can be ugly. A hideous troll who does can at least be looked at without wanting to lose your lunch.
It is ridiculous. How does not removing hair make someone ugly?

Haven't you ever seen unshavd pits? It's ugly.

Yep, I have seen unshaved armpits. Mostly on dudes, admittedly.

i have never seen a mans shaved armpit, come to think of it.

And dudes go around topless all the time, showing everyone their hairy gross armpits.

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

We all know it's acceptable for men and gross for women. It just is. Trying to pretend this is some kind of equal rights thing is disingenuous.

huskerbb · Guru

Tangerine wrote:
huskerbb wrote:
Tangerine wrote:
huskerbb wrote:
Bonny22Pye wrote:
Its just her natural hair. I don't see the big deal. I find that women are held to ridiculous beauty standards to be absurd. Also, if the bride wants a certain look in her bridal party why did she ask this girl to be in it?
This isn't "ridiculous".

An otherwise attractive woman who doesn't shave can be ugly. A hideous troll who does can at least be looked at without wanting to lose your lunch.
It is ridiculous. How does not removing hair make someone ugly?

Haven't you ever seen unshavd pits? It's ugly.
Yep, I have seen unshaved armpits. Mostly on dudes, admittedly.
i have never seen a mans shaved armpit, come to think of it.
And dudes go around topless all the time, showing everyone their hairy gross armpits.

Not at weddings.

WYSIWYG · Guru

My 2 cents worth: It's the Bride's day, follow the Bride's wishes.

Personally, I don't have an opinion, one way or the other, about pit hair on women. But I do think it should be appropriate to the situation one finds one's self in. If you are at a hippie commune and all the other ladies have pit hair and everyone is letting it be shown, then that's acceptable and great, stay furry. If you are at a wedding and will be the only one with visible pit hair that day, shave it, it will grow back if you absolutely must have it.

Conform to the acceptable standards of the society you are present in.

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

WYSIWYG wrote:
My 2 cents worth: It's the Bride's day, follow the Bride's wishes.

Personally, I don't have an opinion, one way or the other, about pit hair on women. But I do think it should be appropriate to the situation one finds one's self in. If you are at a hippie commune and all the other ladies have pit hair and everyone is letting it be shown, then that's acceptable and great, stay furry. If you are at a wedding and will be the only one with visible pit hair that day, shave it, it will grow back if you absolutely must have it.

Conform to the acceptable standards of the society you are present in.

But what fun would THAT be???

flan