TOTALLY GEEKED!

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

RE: Dear Abby: Bridesmaid has Hairy Armpits

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

WYSIWYG wrote:
But what fun would THAT be???
- flan327

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Societal acceptance isn't about "fun". It's about everyone getting along as well as possible. If you don't like an aspect of society, work to change it. But don't go against the customs of society in a disrespectful manner.

"Disrespect" is in the eye of the beholder.

flan

Lady Gaga Snerd · Guru

Don't be Contrary!!

Lady Gaga Snerd · Guru

flan327 wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
flan327 wrote:
So let's judge by appearances!

flan
THAT appearance shows a serious lack of judgment and a whole lot of bad taste.Sorr
I think she looks like someone who is open-minded and fun.
flan

The real world judges you on appearance. Sorry you dont' like that but that is reality. Her picture screams, I am unemployed and still living off of my parents so i can dress and act like a flaky weirdo and am entitled and have no intention of ever fending for myself as a responsible adult!

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

And WHO gets a tattoo of a bathtub? That's moronic.

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

Lawyerlady wrote:
And WHO gets a tattoo of a bathtub? That's moronic.

I don't know. Do you want me to ask her?

flan

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

flan327 wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
And WHO gets a tattoo of a bathtub? That's moronic.
I don't know. Do you want me to ask her?
flan

Yes, please.

lilyofcourse · My spirit animal is a pink flamingo.

I don't have a problem with her hair. What's on her head that is.

And that in her pits doesn't even look like hair. It looks like maker.

The tat could be a tub. I can't tell.

Other than her pits, she looks clean and cute.

Of course I have a daughter who sports purple hair more often than not, sooo...

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

lilyofcourse wrote:
I don't have a problem with her hair. What's on her head that is.

And that in her pits doesn't even look like hair. It looks like maker.

The tat could be a tub. I can't tell.

Other than her pits, she looks clean and cute.

Of course I have a daughter who sports purple hair more often than not, sooo...

I agree...also about the marker comment.

flan

Southern_Belle · Nothing's Impossible

I want to get laser hair removal. Figured I'd include my underarms.

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

Southern_Belle wrote:
I want to get laser hair removal. Figured I'd include my underarms.

Now you're talking!

flan

Mellow Momma · Sniff...sniff, sniff. Yay! A Bum!

I don't grow hair under my arms. Neither do my girls. Don't have to shave except maybe once every six months or so. I will get one hair.

huskerbb · Guru

flan327 wrote:
WYSIWYG wrote:
But what fun would THAT be???
- flan327

____________________________

Societal acceptance isn't about "fun". It's about everyone getting along as well as possible. If you don't like an aspect of society, work to change it. But don't go against the customs of society in a disrespectful manner.
"Disrespect" is in the eye of the beholder.
flan

Yeah--and the people be holding this, including the bride, would consider it that way.

Southern_Belle · Nothing's Impossible

My underarm hair starts to grow in one day. A coworker told me she's done laser basically from the face down. Whole body. Wonder what the whole thing would cost.

TrudyML · Guru

Southern_Belle wrote:
My underarm hair starts to grow in one day. A coworker told me she's done laser basically from the face down. Whole body. Wonder what the whole thing would cost.

Not cheap. And you have to maintain it. It is a lot to go through.

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

Is the bridesmaid going to be waving her hands above her head during the entire ceremony?

flan

apple · Guru

flan327 wrote:
Is the bridesmaid going to be waving her hands above her head during the entire ceremony?

flan

Yes, she is most likely going to be showing of that hair. lol

Ohfour · Hooker

People like that are attention seekers. Of course she going to do it to make herself stand out...

apple · Guru

Or... maybe she just doesn't feel like shaving.

:)

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

Or maybe, as an adult, she chooses not to.

flan

Ohfour · Hooker

flan327 wrote:
Or maybe, as an adult, she chooses not to.

flan

She can be nasty all she wants...except for my wedding day...

Ohfour · Hooker

Oh, and how do we know that shes an adult? She may be 26 for all we know...

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

Ohfour wrote:
Oh, and how do we know that shes an adult? She may be 26 for all we know...

Are you trying NOT to make any sense?

flan

Ohfour · Hooker

Lol! I meant 16. She could be 16....

apple · Guru

26 is and adult here in Canada.... lol

apple · Guru

Ohfour wrote:
Lol! I meant 16. She could be 16....

Do you force your young shave? just wondering....

Ohfour · Hooker

apple wrote:
26 is and adult here in Canada.... lol

Not here. Here, you can be on mommy's insurance until you are 27. An adult takes care of themselves and doesn't rely on mommy....

Ohfour · Hooker

apple wrote:
Ohfour wrote:
Lol! I meant 16. She could be 16....
Do you force your young shave? just wondering....

If she was going to be in a wedding...absolutely. hell, her cheerleading coach made them trim their pubes...

huskerbb · Guru

flan327 wrote:
Is the bridesmaid going to be waving her hands above her head during the entire ceremony?

flan

Irrelevant. If no one was ever likely to see it--this wouldn't be an issue. It obviously is.

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

Ohfour wrote:
apple wrote:
Ohfour wrote:
Lol! I meant 16. She could be 16....
Do you force your young shave? just wondering....

If she was going to be in a wedding...absolutely. hell, her cheerleading coach made them trim their pubes...

And a bridesmaid walks down an aisle with her arms down, at her sides.

flan

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

Okay, one of us needs to get invited to this wedding...

flan

apple · Guru

She could compromise and shave one pit.

:)

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

apple wrote:
She could compromise and shave one pit.

:)

Sounds fair to me!!!

flan

p.s. But then, would she be able to walk in a straight line?

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

flan327 wrote:
Okay, one of us needs to get invited to this wedding...

flan

Who needs an invite??? Crash, crash, crash!!!

apple · Guru

Lawyerlady wrote:
flan327 wrote:
Okay, one of us needs to get invited to this wedding...

flan
Who needs an invite??? Crash, crash, crash!!!

I am in! I've always wanted to crash a wedding.... biggrin

Cheerios4606 · Guru

Oh shave your arm pits for goodness sake! This is not your wedding but someone elses! Surely you can live with using a razor ONE time in your life! This is not a religous hill to die on after all! eesh!

weltschmerz · Guru

IT'S JUST HAIR, not a nest of vipers!
You know....the "way God made us".
I don't see why everyone is getting so bent out of shape about.

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

If it's "just hair", it'll grow back. Shave it! Shave it! Shave it!

apple · Guru

weltschmerz wrote:
IT'S JUST HAIR, not a nest of vipers!
You know....the "way God made us".
I don't see why everyone is getting so bent out of shape about.

Personally, I would not care.

It might even be sort of funny....

Of course the wedding photos will not show any underarms.

Tossing the bouquet will be fun!

weltschmerz · Guru

apple wrote:
weltschmerz wrote:
IT'S JUST HAIR, not a nest of vipers!
You know....the "way God made us".
I don't see why everyone is getting so bent out of shape about.
Personally, I would not care.
It might even be sort of funny....

Of course the wedding photos will not show any underarms.
Tossing the bouquet will be fun!

I wouldn't care, either.

Some people make a big deal out of nothing.

The bottom line is that I'd be happy that I'd be married to the man I love.

The fact that my bridesmaid had underarm hair for the party wouldn't even be on my radar. So what?

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

Ugg. Gross.

Ohfour · Hooker

Lawyerlady wrote:
Ugg. Gross.

Exactly. I wouldn't want to force my guests to see that...

Tinydancer · Guru

There's a reason most of us shave them. I'm sure my dh appreciates it...lol

weltschmerz · Guru

Tinydancer wrote:
There's a reason most of us shave them. I'm sure my dh appreciates it...lol

Well, that's fine. I shave mine. too.

However, I have no right to demand that others shave theirs.

Much ado over nothing.

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

Being in someone's wedding is not a right. I would think if you were good enough friends to be a bridesmaid, you could suck it up and shave this once.

Ohfour · Hooker

Lawyerlady wrote:
Being in someone's wedding is not a right. I would think if you were good enough friends to be a bridesmaid, you could suck it up and shave this once.

I think that's what I'm getting. Maybe the bride didn't pick her...

apple · Guru

I accept people, friends for who they are.
Asking someone to be in your bridal party means they are a good friend and you would know that they don't shave or whatever the supposed issue is.

While I do shave my armpits from time to time, I would never force someone to do so.

Ohfour · Hooker

apple wrote:
I accept people, friends for who they are.
Asking someone to be in your bridal party means they are a good friend and you would know that they don't shave or whatever the supposed issue is.

While I do shave my armpits from time to time, I would never force someone to do so.

Simply NOT true...the bride may not even like this girl...

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

Some bridesmaids are chosen out of duty.

Ohfour · Hooker

Lawyerlady wrote:
Some bridesmaids are chosen out of duty.

Thank you. She's the grooms sister. Maybe HE wanted her in the wedding...