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apple · Guru

RE: Dear Abby: Bridesmaid has Hairy Armpits

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

It is tradition to ask the groom's sister to be a bridesmaid. I didn't have to b/c DH asked his sister to be the best man. He felt she always got shafted in a house full of brothers.

Ohfour · Hooker

apple wrote:
Ohfour wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
Some bridesmaids are chosen out of duty.
Thank you. She's the grooms sister. Maybe HE wanted her in the wedding...
I'm sure he did.
Do you think he knew about the pit hair?

Maybe, maybe not...

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

Lawyerlady wrote:
Being in someone's wedding is not a right. I would think if you were good enough friends to be a bridesmaid, you could suck it up and shave this once.

You don't know that they are friends, though. It's her future SIL.

flan

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

Just celebrate the fact that you are getting married to the man you love & let it go.

flan

lilyofcourse · My spirit animal is a pink flamingo.

Caitlyn read the OP.

Her words, "shave the pits or you're out".

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

lilyofcourse wrote:
Caitlyn read the OP.

Her words, "shave the pits or you're out".

Bully for her. She's your daughter, that's for sure.

flan

weltschmerz · Guru

lilyofcourse wrote:
Caitlyn read the OP.

Her words, "shave the pits or you're out".

Did your Creator make a mistake when he invented pit hair?

lilyofcourse · My spirit animal is a pink flamingo.

Yep. Raised a smart, strong, secure daughter who isn't afraid to speak her mind.

lilyofcourse · My spirit animal is a pink flamingo.

weltschmerz wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
Caitlyn read the OP.

Her words, "shave the pits or you're out".

Did your Creator make a mistake when he invented pit hair?

Nope.

Did He make a mistake when He created sweat?

I bet you bathe regularly.

Shaving is part of grooming.

Don't be nasty.

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

Hair is meant to keep you warm. We don't need it as much as we used to.

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

lilyofcourse wrote:
weltschmerz wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
Caitlyn read the OP.

Her words, "shave the pits or you're out".

Did your Creator make a mistake when he invented pit hair?
Nope.
Did He make a mistake when He created sweat?
I bet you bathe regularly.
Shaving is part of grooming.
Don't be nasty.

Should we start shaving our eyebrows? Our forearms?

It's a CULTURAL thing, that's all.

flan

weltschmerz · Guru

lilyofcourse wrote:
weltschmerz wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
Caitlyn read the OP.

Her words, "shave the pits or you're out".

Did your Creator make a mistake when he invented pit hair?
Nope.
Did He make a mistake when He created sweat?
I bet you bathe regularly.
Shaving is part of grooming.
Don't be nasty.

I don't believe in the creator, remember?

I just find it odd that you would consider the way we were formed to be "nasty" or "disgusting."

It's not like she's insisting to walk down the aisle, nude.

It's pit hair. So what?

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

So pit hair is apparently the nastiest nasty in the history of the universe.

Amen.

flan

Ohfour · Hooker

weltschmerz wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
weltschmerz wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
Caitlyn read the OP.

Her words, "shave the pits or you're out".

Did your Creator make a mistake when he invented pit hair?
Nope.
Did He make a mistake when He created sweat?
I bet you bathe regularly.
Shaving is part of grooming.
Don't be nasty.
I don't believe in the creator, remember?
I just find it odd that you would consider the way we were formed to be "nasty" or "disgusting."
It's not like she's insisting to walk down the aisle, nude.
It's pit hair. So what?

So, if I'm a bride, I have every right to tell her to shave. No one wants to see that.

lilyofcourse · My spirit animal is a pink flamingo.

flan327 wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
weltschmerz wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
Caitlyn read the OP.

Her words, "shave the pits or you're out".

Did your Creator make a mistake when he invented pit hair?
Nope.
Did He make a mistake when He created sweat?
I bet you bathe regularly.
Shaving is part of grooming.
Don't be nasty.
Should we start shaving our eyebrows? Our forearms?
It's a CULTURAL thing, that's all.
flan

I know women who shave their arms. They have corse black hair and it isn't something they like.

I know women who have lost their eyebrows. They draw them on.

Grooming. Find that dictionary, look it up.

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

Ohfour wrote:
weltschmerz wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
weltschmerz wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
Caitlyn read the OP.

Her words, "shave the pits or you're out".

Did your Creator make a mistake when he invented pit hair?
Nope.
Did He make a mistake when He created sweat?
I bet you bathe regularly.
Shaving is part of grooming.
Don't be nasty.
I don't believe in the creator, remember?
I just find it odd that you would consider the way we were formed to be "nasty" or "disgusting."
It's not like she's insisting to walk down the aisle, nude.
It's pit hair. So what?
So, if I'm a bride, I have every right to tell her to shave. No one wants to see that.

WHY would they see it?

What would happen if they did? Would they run away screaming?

And the woman has EVERY right to do what she wants.

flan

weltschmerz · Guru

Ohfour wrote:
weltschmerz wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
weltschmerz wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
Caitlyn read the OP.

Her words, "shave the pits or you're out".

Did your Creator make a mistake when he invented pit hair?
Nope.
Did He make a mistake when He created sweat?
I bet you bathe regularly.
Shaving is part of grooming.
Don't be nasty.
I don't believe in the creator, remember?
I just find it odd that you would consider the way we were formed to be "nasty" or "disgusting."
It's not like she's insisting to walk down the aisle, nude.
It's pit hair. So what?
So, if I'm a bride, I have every right to tell her to shave. No one wants to see that.

It wouldn't bother me to see it. Why does it bother you so much?

Southern_Belle · Nothing's Impossible

I shave my forearms. I'm VERY hairy there. Dark. Thick. Hair. It's just looks better gone.

Ohfour · Hooker

flan327 wrote:
Ohfour wrote:
weltschmerz wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
weltschmerz wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
Caitlyn read the OP.

Her words, "shave the pits or you're out".

Did your Creator make a mistake when he invented pit hair?
Nope.
Did He make a mistake when He created sweat?
I bet you bathe regularly.
Shaving is part of grooming.
Don't be nasty.
I don't believe in the creator, remember?
I just find it odd that you would consider the way we were formed to be "nasty" or "disgusting."
It's not like she's insisting to walk down the aisle, nude.
It's pit hair. So what?
So, if I'm a bride, I have every right to tell her to shave. No one wants to see that.
WHY would they see it?
What would happen if they did? Would they run away screaming?
And the woman has EVERY right to do what she wants.
flan

And I have a right not to have someone that gross in my wedding...

Ohfour · Hooker

weltschmerz wrote:
Ohfour wrote:
weltschmerz wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
weltschmerz wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
Caitlyn read the OP.

Her words, "shave the pits or you're out".

Did your Creator make a mistake when he invented pit hair?
Nope.
Did He make a mistake when He created sweat?
I bet you bathe regularly.
Shaving is part of grooming.
Don't be nasty.
I don't believe in the creator, remember?
I just find it odd that you would consider the way we were formed to be "nasty" or "disgusting."
It's not like she's insisting to walk down the aisle, nude.
It's pit hair. So what?
So, if I'm a bride, I have every right to tell her to shave. No one wants to see that.
It wouldn't bother me to see it. Why does it bother you so much?

It doesn't bother you to see two people having sex either. Most people think it's gross.

weltschmerz · Guru

Ohfour wrote:
flan327 wrote:
Ohfour wrote:
weltschmerz wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
weltschmerz wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
Caitlyn read the OP.

Her words, "shave the pits or you're out".

Did your Creator make a mistake when he invented pit hair?
Nope.
Did He make a mistake when He created sweat?
I bet you bathe regularly.
Shaving is part of grooming.
Don't be nasty.
I don't believe in the creator, remember?
I just find it odd that you would consider the way we were formed to be "nasty" or "disgusting."
It's not like she's insisting to walk down the aisle, nude.
It's pit hair. So what?
So, if I'm a bride, I have every right to tell her to shave. No one wants to see that.
WHY would they see it?
What would happen if they did? Would they run away screaming?
And the woman has EVERY right to do what she wants.
flan
And I have a right not to have someone that gross in my wedding...

So, the way we were created is gross?

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

Southern_Belle wrote:
I shave my forearms. I'm VERY hairy there. Dark. Thick. Hair. It's just looks better gone.

And that's YOUR choice. I'm glad it makes you feel better.

flan

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

weltschmerz wrote:
Ohfour wrote:
flan327 wrote:
Ohfour wrote:
weltschmerz wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
weltschmerz wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
Caitlyn read the OP.

Her words, "shave the pits or you're out".

Did your Creator make a mistake when he invented pit hair?
Nope.
Did He make a mistake when He created sweat?
I bet you bathe regularly.
Shaving is part of grooming.
Don't be nasty.
I don't believe in the creator, remember?
I just find it odd that you would consider the way we were formed to be "nasty" or "disgusting."
It's not like she's insisting to walk down the aisle, nude.
It's pit hair. So what?
So, if I'm a bride, I have every right to tell her to shave. No one wants to see that.
WHY would they see it?
What would happen if they did? Would they run away screaming?
And the woman has EVERY right to do what she wants.
flan
And I have a right not to have someone that gross in my wedding...
So, the way we were created is gross?

There's probably a laundry list of "gross" things.

flan

weltschmerz · Guru

Ohfour wrote:
weltschmerz wrote:
Ohfour wrote:
weltschmerz wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
weltschmerz wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
Caitlyn read the OP.

Her words, "shave the pits or you're out".

Did your Creator make a mistake when he invented pit hair?
Nope.
Did He make a mistake when He created sweat?
I bet you bathe regularly.
Shaving is part of grooming.
Don't be nasty.
I don't believe in the creator, remember?
I just find it odd that you would consider the way we were formed to be "nasty" or "disgusting."
It's not like she's insisting to walk down the aisle, nude.
It's pit hair. So what?
So, if I'm a bride, I have every right to tell her to shave. No one wants to see that.
It wouldn't bother me to see it. Why does it bother you so much?
It doesn't bother you to see two people having sex either. Most people think it's gross.

Nobody is having sex with her armpits!! Or....is that why you think it's gross? Perhaps it reminds you of genitals?

lilyofcourse · My spirit animal is a pink flamingo.

weltschmerz wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
weltschmerz wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
Caitlyn read the OP.

Her words, "shave the pits or you're out".

Did your Creator make a mistake when he invented pit hair?
Nope.
Did He make a mistake when He created sweat?
I bet you bathe regularly.
Shaving is part of grooming.
Don't be nasty.
I don't believe in the creator, remember?
I just find it odd that you would consider the way we were formed to be "nasty" or "disgusting."
It's not like she's insisting to walk down the aisle, nude.
It's pit hair. So what?

Then why do you bring it up?

Again, do you bathe regularly?

Why? Sweat/body odor is natural.

Ohfour · Hooker

weltschmerz wrote:
Ohfour wrote:
flan327 wrote:
Ohfour wrote:
weltschmerz wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
weltschmerz wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
Caitlyn read the OP.

Her words, "shave the pits or you're out".

Did your Creator make a mistake when he invented pit hair?
Nope.
Did He make a mistake when He created sweat?
I bet you bathe regularly.
Shaving is part of grooming.
Don't be nasty.
I don't believe in the creator, remember?
I just find it odd that you would consider the way we were formed to be "nasty" or "disgusting."
It's not like she's insisting to walk down the aisle, nude.
It's pit hair. So what?
So, if I'm a bride, I have every right to tell her to shave. No one wants to see that.
WHY would they see it?
What would happen if they did? Would they run away screaming?
And the woman has EVERY right to do what she wants.
flan
And I have a right not to have someone that gross in my wedding...
So, the way we were created is gross?

Some things, yes, they are gross. And they don't need to be flaunted in public. We were created to ****t too. That's not done in public either.

Ohfour · Hooker

weltschmerz wrote:
Ohfour wrote:
weltschmerz wrote:
Ohfour wrote:
weltschmerz wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
weltschmerz wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
Caitlyn read the OP.

Her words, "shave the pits or you're out".

Did your Creator make a mistake when he invented pit hair?
Nope.
Did He make a mistake when He created sweat?
I bet you bathe regularly.
Shaving is part of grooming.
Don't be nasty.
I don't believe in the creator, remember?
I just find it odd that you would consider the way we were formed to be "nasty" or "disgusting."
It's not like she's insisting to walk down the aisle, nude.
It's pit hair. So what?
So, if I'm a bride, I have every right to tell her to shave. No one wants to see that.
It wouldn't bother me to see it. Why does it bother you so much?
It doesn't bother you to see two people having sex either. Most people think it's gross.
Nobody is having sex with her armpits!! Or....is that why you think it's gross? Perhaps it reminds you of genitals?

Just pointing out that there are other things that don't bother you, but would definitely bother other people.

lilyofcourse · My spirit animal is a pink flamingo.

flan327 wrote:
Ohfour wrote:
weltschmerz wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
weltschmerz wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
Caitlyn read the OP.

Her words, "shave the pits or you're out".

Did your Creator make a mistake when he invented pit hair?
Nope.
Did He make a mistake when He created sweat?
I bet you bathe regularly.
Shaving is part of grooming.
Don't be nasty.
I don't believe in the creator, remember?
I just find it odd that you would consider the way we were formed to be "nasty" or "disgusting."
It's not like she's insisting to walk down the aisle, nude.
It's pit hair. So what?
So, if I'm a bride, I have every right to tell her to shave. No one wants to see that.
WHY would they see it?
What would happen if they did? Would they run away screaming?
And the woman has EVERY right to do what she wants.
flan

No. She doesnt.

weltschmerz · Guru

lilyofcourse wrote:
weltschmerz wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
weltschmerz wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
Caitlyn read the OP.

Her words, "shave the pits or you're out".

Did your Creator make a mistake when he invented pit hair?
Nope.
Did He make a mistake when He created sweat?
I bet you bathe regularly.
Shaving is part of grooming.
Don't be nasty.
I don't believe in the creator, remember?
I just find it odd that you would consider the way we were formed to be "nasty" or "disgusting."
It's not like she's insisting to walk down the aisle, nude.
It's pit hair. So what?
Then why do you bring it up?
Again, do you bathe regularly?
Why? Sweat/body odor is natural.

Because YOU believe in the Creator. And you think his design is gross.

lilyofcourse · My spirit animal is a pink flamingo.

weltschmerz wrote:
Ohfour wrote:
flan327 wrote:
Ohfour wrote:
weltschmerz wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
weltschmerz wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
Caitlyn read the OP.

Her words, "shave the pits or you're out".

Did your Creator make a mistake when he invented pit hair?
Nope.
Did He make a mistake when He created sweat?
I bet you bathe regularly.
Shaving is part of grooming.
Don't be nasty.
I don't believe in the creator, remember?
I just find it odd that you would consider the way we were formed to be "nasty" or "disgusting."
It's not like she's insisting to walk down the aisle, nude.
It's pit hair. So what?
So, if I'm a bride, I have every right to tell her to shave. No one wants to see that.
WHY would they see it?
What would happen if they did? Would they run away screaming?
And the woman has EVERY right to do what she wants.
flan
And I have a right not to have someone that gross in my wedding...
So, the way we were created is gross?

There's that word again.

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

lilyofcourse wrote:
flan327 wrote:
Ohfour wrote:
weltschmerz wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
weltschmerz wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
Caitlyn read the OP.

Her words, "shave the pits or you're out".

Did your Creator make a mistake when he invented pit hair?
Nope.
Did He make a mistake when He created sweat?
I bet you bathe regularly.
Shaving is part of grooming.
Don't be nasty.
I don't believe in the creator, remember?
I just find it odd that you would consider the way we were formed to be "nasty" or "disgusting."
It's not like she's insisting to walk down the aisle, nude.
It's pit hair. So what?
So, if I'm a bride, I have every right to tell her to shave. No one wants to see that.
WHY would they see it?
What would happen if they did? Would they run away screaming?
And the woman has EVERY right to do what she wants.
flan
No. She doesnt.

I must have missed that law.

flan

lilyofcourse · My spirit animal is a pink flamingo.

flan327 wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
flan327 wrote:
Ohfour wrote:
weltschmerz wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
weltschmerz wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
Caitlyn read the OP.

Her words, "shave the pits or you're out".

Did your Creator make a mistake when he invented pit hair?
Nope.
Did He make a mistake when He created sweat?
I bet you bathe regularly.
Shaving is part of grooming.
Don't be nasty.
I don't believe in the creator, remember?
I just find it odd that you would consider the way we were formed to be "nasty" or "disgusting."
It's not like she's insisting to walk down the aisle, nude.
It's pit hair. So what?
So, if I'm a bride, I have every right to tell her to shave. No one wants to see that.
WHY would they see it?
What would happen if they did? Would they run away screaming?
And the woman has EVERY right to do what she wants.
flan
No. She doesnt.

I must have missed that law.
flan

There is no RIGHT when it comes to the PRIVILEGE of being in a wedding.

Dictionary. You have one some where in that library.

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

lilyofcourse wrote:
flan327 wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
flan327 wrote:
Ohfour wrote:
weltschmerz wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
weltschmerz wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
Caitlyn read the OP.

Her words, "shave the pits or you're out".

Did your Creator make a mistake when he invented pit hair?
Nope.
Did He make a mistake when He created sweat?
I bet you bathe regularly.
Shaving is part of grooming.
Don't be nasty.
I don't believe in the creator, remember?
I just find it odd that you would consider the way we were formed to be "nasty" or "disgusting."
It's not like she's insisting to walk down the aisle, nude.
It's pit hair. So what?
So, if I'm a bride, I have every right to tell her to shave. No one wants to see that.
WHY would they see it?
What would happen if they did? Would they run away screaming?
And the woman has EVERY right to do what she wants.
flan
No. She doesnt.

I must have missed that law.
flan
There is no RIGHT when it comes to the PRIVILEGE of being in a wedding.
Dictionary. You have one some where in that library.

Why are you talking to me?

flan

lilyofcourse · My spirit animal is a pink flamingo.

flan327 wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
flan327 wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
flan327 wrote:
Ohfour wrote:
weltschmerz wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
weltschmerz wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
Caitlyn read the OP.

Her words, "shave the pits or you're out".

Did your Creator make a mistake when he invented pit hair?
Nope.
Did He make a mistake when He created sweat?
I bet you bathe regularly.
Shaving is part of grooming.
Don't be nasty.
I don't believe in the creator, remember?
I just find it odd that you would consider the way we were formed to be "nasty" or "disgusting."
It's not like she's insisting to walk down the aisle, nude.
It's pit hair. So what?
So, if I'm a bride, I have every right to tell her to shave. No one wants to see that.
WHY would they see it?
What would happen if they did? Would they run away screaming?
And the woman has EVERY right to do what she wants.
flan
No. She doesnt.

I must have missed that law.
flan
There is no RIGHT when it comes to the PRIVILEGE of being in a wedding.
Dictionary. You have one some where in that library.
Why are you talking to me?
flan

BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA...... tell me, did you stomp your foot and stick out your tongue before typing that? BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.......

Lady Gaga Snerd · Guru

flan327 wrote:
Ohfour wrote:
weltschmerz wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
weltschmerz wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
Caitlyn read the OP.

Her words, "shave the pits or you're out".

Did your Creator make a mistake when he invented pit hair?
Nope.
Did He make a mistake when He created sweat?
I bet you bathe regularly.
Shaving is part of grooming.
Don't be nasty.
I don't believe in the creator, remember?
I just find it odd that you would consider the way we were formed to be "nasty" or "disgusting."
It's not like she's insisting to walk down the aisle, nude.
It's pit hair. So what?
So, if I'm a bride, I have every right to tell her to shave. No one wants to see that.
WHY would they see it?
What would happen if they did? Would they run away screaming?
And the woman has EVERY right to do what she wants.
flan

No you don't have the right to run roughshod over the sensibilities of others.

weltschmerz · Guru

Sensibilities? Lol!
What kind of sensibilities do you have, that the sight of a little pit hair sends you to the swooning couch?

weltschmerz · Guru

I think she should back-comb her pit hair and use a whole can of hairspray...in keeping with the Southern Big Hair sensibilities.
Make her look like she's got a standard poodle under each arm.

Lady Gaga Snerd · Guru

I can't believe this has gone on for 5 pages! lol

Lady Gaga Snerd · Guru

weltschmerz wrote:
Sensibilities? Lol!
What kind of sensibilities do you have, that the sight of a little pit hair sends you to the swooning couch?

I said "others". Is there something unclear about that? If you want to look and dress like an Ahole, then have at it.

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

lilyofcourse wrote:
flan327 wrote:
Spoiler
lilyofcourse wrote:
flan327 wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
flan327 wrote:
Ohfour wrote:
weltschmerz wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
weltschmerz wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
Caitlyn read the OP.

Her words, "shave the pits or you're out".

Did your Creator make a mistake when he invented pit hair?
Nope.
Did He make a mistake when He created sweat?
I bet you bathe regularly.
Shaving is part of grooming.
Don't be nasty.
I don't believe in the creator, remember?
I just find it odd that you would consider the way we were formed to be "nasty" or "disgusting."
It's not like she's insisting to walk down the aisle, nude.
It's pit hair. So what?
So, if I'm a bride, I have every right to tell her to shave. No one wants to see that.
WHY would they see it?
What would happen if they did? Would they run away screaming?
And the woman has EVERY right to do what she wants.
flan
No. She doesnt.

I must have missed that law.
flan
There is no RIGHT when it comes to the PRIVILEGE of being in a wedding.
Dictionary. You have one some where in that library.

Why are you talking to me?
flan
BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA...... tell me, did you stomp your foot and stick out your tongue before typing that? BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.......

No, sweetheart, I just get a headache from trying to figure out your thought process.

flan

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

What if she has a mustache? (Some women do.) What about acne scars? Tattoos?

Those things are MUCH more visible than a little fuzz.

flan

Lady Gaga Snerd · Guru

flan327 wrote:
What if she has a mustache? (Some women do.) What about acne scars? Tattoos?

Those things are MUCH more visible than a little fuzz.

flan

Just tell all the Uggos to stay home!!

lilyofcourse · My spirit animal is a pink flamingo.

flan327 wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
flan327 wrote:
Spoiler
lilyofcourse wrote:
flan327 wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
flan327 wrote:
Ohfour wrote:
weltschmerz wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
weltschmerz wrote:
lilyofcourse wrote:
Caitlyn read the OP.

Her words, "shave the pits or you're out".

Did your Creator make a mistake when he invented pit hair?
Nope.
Did He make a mistake when He created sweat?
I bet you bathe regularly.
Shaving is part of grooming.
Don't be nasty.
I don't believe in the creator, remember?
I just find it odd that you would consider the way we were formed to be "nasty" or "disgusting."
It's not like she's insisting to walk down the aisle, nude.
It's pit hair. So what?
So, if I'm a bride, I have every right to tell her to shave. No one wants to see that.
WHY would they see it?
What would happen if they did? Would they run away screaming?
And the woman has EVERY right to do what she wants.
flan
No. She doesnt.

I must have missed that law.
flan
There is no RIGHT when it comes to the PRIVILEGE of being in a wedding.
Dictionary. You have one some where in that library.

Why are you talking to me?
flan
BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA...... tell me, did you stomp your foot and stick out your tongue before typing that? BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.......
No, sweetheart, I just get a headache from trying to figure out your thought process.
flan

Yeah. Ok.

LOL...

lilyofcourse · My spirit animal is a pink flamingo.

flan327 wrote:
What if she has a mustache? (Some women do.) What about acne scars? Tattoos?

Those things are MUCH more visible than a little fuzz.

flan

Mustache? Wax it.

Acne scars? Those can not be helped but they can be minimized.

Tattoos? Make up.

Lawyerlady · On the bright side...... Christmas is coming! (Mod)

It's gross. You can bitch and moan about her "rights" to grow it and fail to shave it all you want. But it's nasty.

flan327 · Itty bitty's Grammy

Lawyerlady wrote:
It's gross. You can bitch and moan about her "rights" to grow it and fail to shave it all you want. But it's nasty.

I have far more serious things to get upset about.

flan

lilyofcourse · My spirit animal is a pink flamingo.

flan327 wrote:
Lawyerlady wrote:
It's gross. You can bitch and moan about her "rights" to grow it and fail to shave it all you want. But it's nasty.
I have far more serious things to get upset about.
flan

Really? Like what?

chef · Guru

weltschmerz wrote:
IT'S JUST HAIR, not a nest of vipers!
You know....the "way God made us".
I don't see why everyone is getting so bent out of shape about.

I largely agree with this and have said as much to more than one guy when I was dating. "If God didn't want hair there, He wouldn't have put it there."

However, I also agree that women should shave their pit hair. Yes, it's a double standard. Yes, it's a cultural thing. Yes, it's just hair. No, I'm not going to faint if I see it. I inherited my mother's hairless gene so it's rare that I have to shave but when enough hair grows to need shaved, I shave.

Mary Zombie · Guru

While technically we don't have the right to tell someone what to do with their body the hairy pits are nasty.
I'm glad my wedding is outside in November. The bridesmaids dresses will have sleeves.
Though if my sister had wanted hers to be strapless even with her chest tat I would have been ok with it. But she chose sleeves lol.
My girls shave though. Thank Gawd😜