I saw the signs on FB. Personally, I thought they were making it all up to stir up controversy. Wouldn't it be better of these vets accepted therapy to handle day to day living?
Again, I'm not trying to sound cold. But PTSD is nothing new. A friend of mine is married to a Vietnam Vet who was a sniper. Life was difficult for everyone in his family when he returned. He still has moments. But he doesn't blame others around him for living their lives.
They don't blame other people. And many of them are in counseling. At least the ones our system doesn't "lose". Counseling doesn't happen overnight though.
Again, it's a give and take. Everyone should be respectful. I knew people would shoot them off. When the first ones went off I sedated the dogs.
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I saw the signs on FB. Personally, I thought they were making it all up to stir up controversy. Wouldn't it be better of these vets accepted therapy to handle day to day living?
Again, I'm not trying to sound cold. But PTSD is nothing new. A friend of mine is married to a Vietnam Vet who was a sniper. Life was difficult for everyone in his family when he returned. He still has moments. But he doesn't blame others around him for living their lives.
Thank you.
I'm not so sure I believe it either. I know many vets, and none of them would DREAM of subverting a holiday because of them.
Nope, not buying it...
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I saw the signs on FB. Personally, I thought they were making it all up to stir up controversy. Wouldn't it be better of these vets accepted therapy to handle day to day living?
Again, I'm not trying to sound cold. But PTSD is nothing new. A friend of mine is married to a Vietnam Vet who was a sniper. Life was difficult for everyone in his family when he returned. He still has moments. But he doesn't blame others around him for living their lives.
They don't blame other people. And many of them are in counseling. At least the ones our system doesn't "lose". Counseling doesn't happen overnight though.
Again, it's a give and take. Everyone should be respectful. I knew people would shoot them off. When the first ones went off I sedated the dogs.
I always had to sedate Hooch about a half hour or so before I expected them to go off. I needed him to be totally out before it started or the meds wouldn't help. My mom had two sets of neighbors setting off fire works & even with her meds Lulu was a quivering shaking mess. She had planned to go sit out & watch the display but was afraid to leave her alone.
Wow. Veteran's can get help during the 4th of July to avoid having an anxiety attack. I personally know a Vietnam vet with PTSD, a combat veteran, he deals with it. My dad had it too and dealt with it.
Ear plugs, white noise and other aids help. They (the vet) know they have it, it's not the neighbors responsibility to control the vets symptoms.
Same with the dogs. That is another story though.
This afternoon is my first alone afternoon in over 2 weeks. I don't know what to do with myself. Oh....wait....yup, I know...paper work and phone calls. First of a line of meetings bright and early in the morning.
Oh, we had a wonderful weekend! Sigh.
Need more though. :)
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You don't think those Vets standing there with their signs is blaming others? Daring them to set off fireworks? Guilting them into refraining?
I have to wonder about their use of social media. Are they just trying to get their 15 minutes? Or bring out awareness? I suppose maybe a little of both, IMO.
Personally, I never gave it a thought to shoot off fireworks, the louder the better. I have a cousin who used to cover her ears and watch from the kitchen window. The noise bothered her, big time. We did it anyway, and she enjoyed watching from a distance.
Every where that I have lived, you'd have to live in a bunker to escape the noise on certain holidays, and even then I'm not sure you wouldn't hear something.
I just think it's silly to expect others to bow to your problem. Good grief, quiet advertising that your a victim! Shock commercials and facebook drama are stupid, IMHO.
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I quilt so I don't kill you.
Do you see a theme?
Faith isn't something that keeps bad things from happening. Faith is what helps us get through bad things when they do happen.
Should have stopped at chick-fil-a. Trying to be good. I think I will make some scrambled eggs. I am hungry enough that I can choke them down.
Oatmeal is soft.
I feel for you.
My niece has been dealing with spacers, braces and oral surgery since she was about 5.
I learned had to learn how to feed her.
Bananas are good when you want to actually eat something instead of just swallow.
And potatoes.
A baked potato always seemed to hit the spot.
Roast chicken is easy to eat. (In a day or two)
Soft fruits, pastas, fish.
In a day or two of course.
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The problem lily is I am also watching what I eat due to a health problem. No starches, nothing white. It's really helping my numbers but it's a huge pain.
The problem lily is I am also watching what I eat due to a health problem. No starches, nothing white. It's really helping my numbers but it's a huge pain.
I feel you. I hated those days. There was nothing that made me comfortable the first couple of days...
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Yeah, our neighborhood fireworks are no louder than the hunters or target shooters in the back of my land. Sometimes the sound you "feel" is worse, and that is what the dogs feel.
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Mine didn't until this past NYE, I guess the older they get and their eyesight gets worse, the "boom" feeling scares them. At least that is the theory.
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The problem lily is I am also watching what I eat due to a health problem. No starches, nothing white. It's really helping my numbers but it's a huge pain.
Ok. I get that.
No potatoes.
But the rest is still good.
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The problem lily is I am also watching what I eat due to a health problem. No starches, nothing white. It's really helping my numbers but it's a huge pain.
Ok. I get that.
No potatoes.
But the rest is still good.
Potatoes aren't bad as long as you don't load them up with sour cream and bacon!
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My neighborhood has been setting off fireworks since Memorial Day. This weekend, there were more than usual. They will go most weekends until they run out which will probably be September.
The problem lily is I am also watching what I eat due to a health problem. No starches, nothing white. It's really helping my numbers but it's a huge pain.
Ok. I get that.
No potatoes.
But the rest is still good.
Potatoes aren't bad as long as you don't load them up with sour cream and bacon!
That's like drinking near beer.
What's the point?
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Well, I would place the needs of a veteran who fought for my country over my neighbors shooting off fireworks in an illegal place. We have so many fireworks shows here. All legal. People can attend them. My BIL suffers from PTSD. It's a very real thing.
The problem lily is I am also watching what I eat due to a health problem. No starches, nothing white. It's really helping my numbers but it's a huge pain.
Are sweet potatoes better than white potatoes? DH has high sugar & he can eat those. Hope you had something to eat!
The power went out at the store. I am counting down the hours until I have to head in and start checking temps and pitching merchandise. Sigh. Going to be a long night.
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The power went out at the store. I am counting down the hours until I have to head in and start checking temps and pitching merchandise. Sigh. Going to be a long night.
The problem lily is I am also watching what I eat due to a health problem. No starches, nothing white. It's really helping my numbers but it's a huge pain.
Are sweet potatoes better than white potatoes? DH has high sugar & he can eat those. Hope you had something to eat!
flan
Yes they are better for you.
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“You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still, like air, I'll rise!” ― Maya Angelou
The power went out at the store. I am counting down the hours until I have to head in and start checking temps and pitching merchandise. Sigh. Going to be a long night.
Hang in there, MM.
flan
Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhh I feel for you MM.
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“You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still, like air, I'll rise!” ― Maya Angelou
Power is back on!! We didn't lose anything! What a relief.
EXCELLENT!
flan
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